Hello, i'm Liz Udale! People call me Lu or Lulu because that's my initials (L.U)! I would love to think that i can help you with any worry you have! Don't be afraid to ask me! I won't be embarassed to answer, and i will try to be truthful, but nice at the same time! I'm only really here for advice, not like how does my ipod work or something, because i wouldn't have a clue how to fix it or anything lol :D Also my specialist subjects are just what i'm best at, but i will try to solve any questions! :D
I'm very experienced with sex questions and will always be interested!
Love, Liz xx
E-mail: lovelyliz_askme@hotmail.com
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heyy 14/f
Well, my bf is in a grade younger than me. Arizona♥ lol well, we can't really talk or anything? He doesn't have internet access at his dads, and his phones taking away because he threw it out the window when he was mad haha. We pass each other in the hallway but we don't have time to talk, so the only thing we can do is write notes, and my friend gives them to him in her study hall. He doesn't really write back sometimes. So, i asked him if he wanted to break up because we cant talk, he said "NOOO! unless i want to". So, i dont know?! I wrote him a note telling him that we need to talk more or something or we cant stay dating? :/ i didnt want to sat that because we dated before and he was the only guy who treated me right out of everyone else. He never gave up getting me back. I broke up with him a couple times, same with him and me. I don't want to hurt him at all, i care about him a lot.what do you people think? (link)
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my boyfriend is a grade older than me, but at my school we have mixed age form rooms, so i see him wuite a lot. i still see him a lot less than id like to, and i never really see him on his own enough but we've made it work.
I think if you and your bf are truly a good couple then it would be working better for you. It sounds to me like you have a very good guy-mate in hi and you shouldnt waste that. Try telling him you'd rather keep things at a friends level and then maybe when you find more time to hang out with him you'll be able to date him again.
If you really love him enough, stay with him, but honestly i wouldnt risk the friendship you have witht he guy. I love my bf so much id do anything to be in his arms atm and i know its right.
good luck xx
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okay, please hear me out i need help. my cousin's friend is really good-looking and cool. he likes me a lot. he says such nice things and we get along well. the thing is... we only talk on AIM. we want to hang out though. im 16 years old and im not stupid about this kind of stuff... im not getting into anything cause i know he might me ifferent in person. he doesnt go to my school but i will be able to drive in the beginning of this year. he wants to talk on the phone. should i even bother ? (link)
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your totally reasonable to be a bit worried - i would be too. if he wants to talk on the phone dont give him your number - ask for his instead. Maybe if you met up with him with your cousin and went to the movies or watever to get to know him. atleast if your with your cousin its not like anything wierd could happen.
good luck with your choice :P xx
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Why do I,&&alot of other people, look different in pictures then in the mirror?
What do we truly look like,
Tha mirrors image or the cameras?
I would think
the mirrors image is what we truly look
like because, when you see sum1 in person
and then look at that same person in a mirror,
they look the same.. right?
but,
I was reading stuff on google && alot of people
think the cameras more truthful because what
we see in the mirror is reversed..
Soo whats your opinion???
Srry just a curious young female tryin
to geta answer..haha ;] (link)
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Well, a mirror reverses the image, so making your spot on the wrong side of your face or watever, and a camera is the actual way other people see you.
The reason why people usually look more normal in a mirror, is because in a picture, they aren't moving so your eyes pick up on the details you wouldn't have noticed before (like a spot).
Mirrors move with you so they look more realistic.
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I am an amatuer photographer. i have a 9megapixel digital camera, but im wondering if i need a better one. also, any tips or techniques would be greatly appreciated. and is it possible to take an online photography class? thanks in advance ;) (link)
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9mp is great - the higher the better quality picture you will get.
The 'mp' number does not necessarily mean that the camera will be good though. If it is a proffesional camera (usually black and chunky) then it will probably be good.
The cost is important too. If you got it for under $100 then it will be okay for holiday snaps but not ideal for the more scenic/proffesional route.
About $700 will get you a good professional one, although they can be worth 1000's.
Good Luck with it x
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I downloaded this screen saver, and I don't know
how to make it work, you how you right click, go
properties, screen savers... Well, yeah. I can't
get it there...
How do I make it work properly? (link)
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I have a Vista computer, so i'm not too sure if this will work for other computers.
Right click on your desktop and go to 'Personalize' or 'Properties' like you have done.
Then click on 'Screensaver'.
To set your screensaver to something you have downloaded/saved to your computer click on a little scroll bar (where you select the screensaver) and select something like 'Windows Live Photo Gallery'. This will access your saved files.
Then click 'Settings'. It should come up with a screen giving you options to select ALL pictures, or a certain file.
Click on the certain file option and then 'Browse' to select the file.
Then click 'Save' and then 'OK'. This should work. IKf not i'm sorry i can't help you.
Hope it works for you x
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uhmmm this sounds really nasty and embarrassing but I constantly get razor burn/pimples on my armpits from shaving and I have no idea how to prevent it. I do everything I'm supposed to, I don't shave too often (probably every 2 days or so or even once a week at the most), I don't shave too close to the skin and I don't go over an area more than once. How do I prevent these nasty bumps? I've been putting some acne creams and body cleansers on it but they don't really seem to be working all that great. So if anyone could give me some tips about this that'd be amazing.
thanks,
MichelleMonster (link)
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Hi Michelle,
It's really important when shaving to use shaving cream (women's is more sensitive) or soap atleast. NEVER shave with dry skin, it's best to do just after showering.
It may not be to do with the shaving - your skin could be clogged or you might not rinse the soap off properly when you wash.
If you shave you legs then see if any of the same simptoms come up when you shave exactly the same on them as you do under your arms.
If you think its serious then go see your doctor or GP about it.
Good Luck Michelle x
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i have a Samsung Katalyst from T-Mobile. i've had the phone for less than a month and tonight it accidently fell in the toilet =/. i took it apart and wiped it with a napkin and then just let it dry out, and everything still works fine except for the 1, 2, 4, & 7 keys. is there any way to get it fixed so i dont have to buy a new one b/c i really can't afford a new one right now. i dont have insurance on it, and i doubt t-mobile will just let me trade it bc they're an ass of a company. i'm desperate. help? (link)
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Well, if you still have the garantee/waranty then you will be able to claim off of that. If not/if it has run out then try claiming off of your house insurance.
If all else fails then yu can buy a cheap phone until you save up for a new one, and even put the sim card in it so that you have the same number.
I have a similar problem with my phone; it just won't work!
I have decided to wait and save up for a new LG phone on Orange, but only have £20 at the moment. £80 left to go so i'm using my old (from like 2006) phone for now.
Hope everything goes well for you :D
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kaayso,
my dad doesn't let me go to the movies with guys and girls like if there are 2 girls and 3 guys i wanna see a movie with he says no. i rlly wanna go cause alot of my friends are guys.
HELPP .
thanks so much for all you who reply (link)
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Have you tried talking to your Dad? Maybe if you explained to him that alot of your friends are guys and that you were just going as a group of friends he might change his mind.
If this doesn't work, then ask him what the problem with it is. Don't be pushy, or annoyed when you ask him, just sit down and stay in an adult manner (hopefully showing your maturity). If for example he says that the reason why is because your still young or something like that then try and compromise with him. Say you'll be home by 10, or let him pick you up or something like that.
Hope it goes well (enjoy the movies lol :D)
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iF you step on a scale and it says yu gained weight, but u run everyday.
how do you know its muscle gain
and how would you kno its fat gain.
and approxiamatly how much weight would you gain if it was a weight gain of muscle?
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Well, if you are generally really healthy, it's not a problem. You could be growing, or you could just be gaining weight. If your diet is unhealthy you may gain weight even if you run everyday. It is most likely muscle weight, if you are very active, and it shouldn't be a massive weight gain.
Hope this helped :P
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okay so i've had my period for a little over a year now and my mom makes me use pads because she says tampons arent healthy.
im a cheerleader and i hate the feeling of the blood leaking like how can i tell my mom that i perfer wearing tampons? (link)
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In my opinion, i would tell my mom i wanted to try tampons as they might prove to be better for your cheerleading than pads. Tell her that you want to try, and it doesn't mean your 100% always using tampons. Perhaps make a deal with her like 'I only want to wear tampons when i'm cheering' if that works, you could perhaps go for more oftne etc..
If this doesn't work, then perhaps get some information for her;
Some helpful Tampon webstes:
http://www.beinggirl.co.uk/yourbody/tampons-tampax.php
http://www.girlshealth.gov/teenguide/reproductive/period.cfm - Thered is a bit at the top that is quite useful
http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/tampon.html
Hoipe i helped, and that you do get to use tampons :P:P
Liz
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ive been trying to lose weight and its been the hardest thing ever.
i have to lose 15 pounds in 4 weeks, and trust me, losing that much will make me normal, not anorexic, so its okay.
ive been telling myself ill diet tomorrow, etc etc, but its so hard! like i keep eating and i have no self control. i used to look at pictures which would keep me determined but it doesnt work anymore.
what should i d0? what can keep me determined? (link)
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Why don't you do something like everytime you put on/don't loose any wheight put some money in a jar - EG. $5 or something - and every time you loose some wheight (be it 1 pound or 5 - whatever) you take $5 out and buy yourself something nice - not food though, cos that will get you no where!
Hope I helped, and it goes well :P
Liz
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OK WELL HERE'S THE PROBLEM. EVERYTIME I CLOSE MY EYES AND TRY TO GO TO SLEEP. YOU KNOW? WHEN YOU'RE TRYING TO MAKE YOURSELF GO TO SLEEP. WELL WHEN I DO THAT. MY BODY JUST FEELS LIKE IT SHUTS DOWN ON ME. IT MAKES IT FEEL LIKE I CAN'T MOVE OR EVEN BREATHE. THEN IT'S COMPLETELY DARK. [EVEN WHEN I KNOW thee LIGHTS ARE ON IN MY ROOM] && WHEN I FinaLLY ABLE TO OPEN My EYES. I'M SWEATING.
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WHAT COULD BE WRONG? (link)
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Ask yourself these questions:
1. Am i / have i got any reason to be worried about anything?
a)If so can i solve that any way?
2. Am i stressed out with anything?
a)It could be little like 'i need to buy milk' or 'i need to hand that slip in'
b)Or it could be a big thing like 'i've got loads of exams' or 'i'm getting divorced'
I'm not suggesting that these problems are yours. They're just examples
3. Is my diet and daily behaviour normal to my routine?
a)Sudden change in diet/behaviour can affect your sleeping habbits too.
4. Should i see a doctor?
a)The answer to this is probably 'Yes'. I'm not suggesting anything's wrong with you, but he/she will be able to help you much more than i will.
Hope your sleeping and you get(s) better soon =D
Tell me how things go (My email is on my collumn)
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year.
for our 1 year aniversary i want to get him a really sexy gift. like a box of anything for like foreplay or like teasing him and sex and stuff like that....I have a few ideas...but more would be good...any ideas? (link)
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well you could buy some sexy langerie(SP?)(Fancie Pants) and pose for him - perhaps take some pictures and get them proffesionally printed to tease - give him the langerie and tell him you havent washed it - probably best you dont (wash it). Or perhaps you could dress up in a sexy revealing dress (with wite long gloves - not sure why but they usually like that) or something specially for him. Like somebody else said, Coupons or Vouchers (Eg. Chocolate mouse - 1 tub on you(or him) and you'll wear either his pants - or none - for a day etc....) Hope you fun =P
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can your eyes turn from blue to green, but not be hazel? (link)
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my eyes change with my mood - a bit like what teardrop7 was saying! If i'm happy, mine will be nice blue, but if i'm sad or depressed they will be grey. They also change from blue to green, but i don't think they can change from blue to hazel. Lighting also effects it.
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is michael jackson gay? Bi? or what? can anyone tell me the situation about him being a molester? and what molest means?
does he have a family?
was he really addicted to drugs?
What happened to him being white?
and lastly, where is he now?
anyone knows when his music life will come out again? (link)
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molest is raping kids, which whatever rumours say he didn't do. in fact he took them in off the street and gave them shelter and warnth - he had a bad chidhood (in a different way though) and he doesn't want that for others. He was black like the rest of his family (Mum, Dad and 4 siblings) but he had his skin coloured changed because of racial abuse. i think he was addicted to drugs, but i'm not too sure. I don't think he's gay and the only family i know him to have is his Mum, Dad (mean) and his 4 siblings. His Dad forced his kids to form a very sucessful band - The Jackson Five. He only did this for money. I dont think he's making any more music, but the stuff that he did make made him very rich, and type his name into youtube(.com) and see if you like what he's done? =P =D
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okay. yesterday, my bf and i kissed for the first time and today i have scrapes on my hands. do i have stigmata? can you get stigmata from kissing other people? also, does this mean i could be pregnant?
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i dont think you have stigmata (im not sure on that one though), but i do know that you r definetley NOT pregnant, you need to have sex with him for that :D
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i had sex about exactly 2 months ago in february.. i was supposed to get my period around march 1st but i ended up getting it a week late.. and that sometimes happens with me .. but so far i havent gotten my period and i was supposed to get it around the 6th of this month because thats when i got it last month.. i still havent gotten my period and im about 2 weeks late. so is there a possibility that im pregnant even though i had my period in between the last time i had sex and now? (link)
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no your not pregnant, but take a test to be sure of it :D If the test says your not (which it most likely will) maybe go and see a doctor about the irregular periods. you can ask for a female doctor if you prefer, but every doctor for that sort of thing deals with it all the time, so you will be fine with whoever you choose to have! If you had your period last month then chances are you most likely not pregnant. also if you bled a little a couple weeks ago, then that may have been all for this month (some times you have them really heavy, other times normall, and others like non atall!)
Hope you solve you problem :D
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i'm not looking for songs about love...just sex..they can be about sex or just have a good beat i don't really care but i don't like r&b very much...rock and alternative rock and punk and stuff are good...i like things with a fast pace and dirty lyrics
k thanks (link)
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Sex Bomb is quite good (by Tom Jones)
Modern (lol)?:
some kinda rush (by booty Luv)
in fact most things by booty luv are what your looking for
Hope you find something you like :D
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alright so i fingered a girl a while back and it was my first time ever doing it haven't done it since and when i was down there i like couldn't get in her? it felt like i was going abou half an inch in and then i hit like a bone or something and i tried going a bit lower but same thing, it was dark and i couldn't see anything so any ideas? (link)
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You have to be sure your not hurting her, because down there is quite sensitive, you may have been going the wrong way in or that could just be how her body is (everyone's different). talk to the girl, and if you try it again, ask her what she thinks (you'll just have to be blunt about it i'm afraid :D)
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im 5'5 and weigh around 120, i think my stomache is a bit over the limit. the rest of my body is normal tho. except right below my butt, its not thaat fit. does anyone know of any home work out type things?? like certain crucnhes or leg workouts of any sort that can help put me in shape and make my stomahce flat? like a 5 step kind of thing, or whatever, u know. anything would help:] thanks (link)
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well i don't know about good work out routines, but i do yoga and i'm in good shape for my height :D If you go on youtube they have some great yoga workout routines :D start with one for beginners and work your way to experienced :D you sort of need to watch it to get the idea, i wouldn't be able to just tell you :D liz
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