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should i stay with him even though we dont see each other?
heyy 14/f
Well, my bf is in a grade younger than me. Arizona♥ lol well, we can't really talk or anything? He doesn't have internet access at his dads, and his phones taking away because he threw it out the window when he was mad haha. We pass each other in the hallway but we don't have time to talk, so the only thing we can do is write notes, and my friend gives them to him in her study hall. He doesn't really write back sometimes. So, i asked him if he wanted to break up because we cant talk, he said "NOOO! unless i want to". So, i dont know?! I wrote him a note telling him that we need to talk more or something or we cant stay dating? :/ i didnt want to sat that because we dated before and he was the only guy who treated me right out of everyone else. He never gave up getting me back. I broke up with him a couple times, same with him and me. I don't want to hurt him at all, i care about him a lot.what do you people think?
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my boyfriend is a grade older than me, but at my school we have mixed age form rooms, so i see him wuite a lot. i still see him a lot less than id like to, and i never really see him on his own enough but we've made it work.
I think if you and your bf are truly a good couple then it would be working better for you. It sounds to me like you have a very good guy-mate in hi and you shouldnt waste that. Try telling him you'd rather keep things at a friends level and then maybe when you find more time to hang out with him you'll be able to date him again.
If you really love him enough, stay with him, but honestly i wouldnt risk the friendship you have witht he guy. I love my bf so much id do anything to be in his arms atm and i know its right.
good luck xx
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I think you two are too young to really understand what a relationship means.
I think he sounds like more of a closer male friend then anything else really..!!!
Your aren't really boyfriend and girlfriend at this stage. If you hardly see or speak to each other you aren't able to express feelings and kiss and cuddle like 'normal boyfriend and girlfriends' do.
Passing notes through a mutual friend does not 'classify' as having a relationship. You are hardly able to communicate. Communitcation is the key with a real relationship and you both are doing exactly the opposite.
I suggest you two remain friends or close friends until you are able to make 'grown up' decisions about a real relationship together.
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