whats a good song that describes like, friends splitting apart? or losing friends? or growing up and things changing? or anything along those liness.
try move along by all american rejects
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when people write 3 what does that mean?
basically its shownin love
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i am a cutter, i think. i recentley started getting a paper clip to my arm, and...cutting it i guess. for some reason i don't really feel the pain, only afterward when i move my arm around. i dont no how to hide it, this is so not me. i am always this happy go lucky girl. im popular and have tons of friends, so i just don't no what to do. i always wear spaggetti straps and stuff, but now i can't. i just don't no what to do, i don't no how to stop. i want to tell my friend, but how do i no she's not going to tell anyone? and i dont even no how to tell her. so, how do i tell my friend, and what do i do? please help me...
being a cutter is not good thing and its not healthy for your body.It os anothere form of suicide.And it can make you very sick soo id advise you to do something even better like for example...find a hobbie you like to do life do your hair or find a new style with your makeup or even go on myspace
add me if you have one i was having the same problem about 1 month ago
www.myspace.com/gothhottie4life
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14/F. okay so i dont no what is wrond with me. i used to be so happy, then i started cutting myself, idk why, and then on everything has just been going downhill from there. nothing ever makes me happy, and my recent mood change has made all me friends mad at me, and i can't tell them what's wrong because i dont even no what's wrong. im always tired and i never want to do anything. i dont laugh anymore and im never happy. depression and bi-polar run in my family, so im beggining to think i have one of those...i dontg no what to do and all i can think about is getting home and cutting and thinking of ways to kill myself. idk what to do...if anyone can help in anyway, that'd be great. so i'd like to no mainly if i have depression or what. thanks.
ohk the first thing im gonna tell you is cutting is not the answer that is a slow form or suicide and its really not healthy.And at your age your body changes and reacts to certain things diffrently.It could also being your hormons getting used to your body.But mostly a week before you get your period yuor body gets ready and doesnt want you to move
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i have a problem, either im always sad or always mad. its like im never satisfied. and then when something makes me mad i think about everything that makes me mad and i become more mad. i feel like i have something to prove to everyone. i feel like i cant open myself up to anyone. because im going to get hurt. i always try and put people down just to make myself feel better. im insicure, and i feel like i need a hundred things i dont have the money for. i dont know what to do. please help.
have you ever thought about asking your parents about your dignosis and ur problem with your moods goin all over the place is a sign of Bipolar
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I wanna know some cute ways of flirting with your boyfriend , So guys ... What makes it more " fun " to flirt with your girlfriend .
Thnks
there are many things you can do mostly act urself when he brings up a certain topic then giggle and agree
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so i always hear my mom have sex...shes really loud. it really grosses me out
the sounds she makes are really annoying, and when i have sex, i really dont want to sound like her bc id be embarrased of the noises coming out
is that normal to sound weird? or is it just her?
and what do guys think when a girl is really loud
ohk she is obviously old soo her sounds arent gonna be anything like yours but when guys hear that kinda stuff turns them on
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I've never really have made out with a guy before. This weekend me and my boyfriend are going to hang out. He was waiting for me to make a move which I overheard him telling his friend. And I want to make a move and make out with him. Any tips or anything that will help me out?
Thanks!(:
I will rate(:
well thats the basics of french kissing
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my very, very best friend just told me she cuts herself and that her mom is abusive. her parents divorced this summer and thats when she started. she lied to me about a big mark on her arm and i knew she was upset so later i asked her if it was her mom again. she and her mom have had tons of fights but i never knew how badly her mom treated her. and i had never guessed about the cutting. i have cut myself but only a few times and i stopped and i still somewhat struggle with self-injuring (i pinch myself occasionally) but im fine now. but her mom through her out of the house for like 45 min she was out in the cold rain. and her mom has hit her with shoes and pulled her hair and yells at her and tells her shes a horrible person. her mom never makes time for her and is always working or with her new boyfriend. my friend hates her moms new bf because he takes all her moms time away. she tries to talk to her mom but she never understands and just yells at her. she goes to church with me and is trying so hard to be a good Christian and her mom knows that so she was telling her she doesnt have God and isnt a Christian and that shes a terrible person and hits her and stuff. she lives with her dad a lot but still her mom just as often but i told her she lives in an abusive place (with her mom) and shes probably going to just stay with her dad.
i know her mom needs help but who should she tell because we're only 14 and i know her mom is abusive and everything but idk what to do about it. i think she should tell her dad tho right? and she sees a physciatrist and told her mom about the cutting but her mom acts like she doesnt care. her mom like has took everything of hers away and one time took all her clothes except a tshirt and shorts and said thats all she got for like a month and stuff like that. can people just please tell me the process of what she needs to do to get away from her mom and get her mom help? and im helping my bff and she said she will call me whenever she wants to cut and shes upset and she only cuts when her mom is screaming at her and they have fought and stuff. please help me this is so important and i love my bff so, so, so much. thank you more than you can imagine
btw i d k if i said this but her parents are divorced and she likes being with her dad and she has a younger brother whos ten but he never gets yelled at really or hit or anything. also she has thought of suicide and once got pills and really wanted too but then thought of her dad and friends and brother so she didnt. Thank God. please help me im scared for my friend. thank you!!
personally with the abusive issue is that maybe you hould tell an adult about her issues
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My parents are so strict! i want to be able to talk to them about things and them not freak out or at least have someone to talk with. I can not trust my parents. They dont seem to trust me either how can i gain their trust? how can i get them to let me do things like hang out at a mall without a parent there or go on a date or even hang out with a guy. Maybe even not have them on my tail all of the time!
there are many things you can do like follow below on ur age limits
15-18(tell your parents that you wanna have a mature conversation and that you wanna tlk to them about your trust issues and soo on and see why they wouldnt trust you or anything.
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What are some things I could do to my boyfriend while we're making out? I don't want to do anything past first base at the moment, but is there anything I could do to turn him on while/instead of just kissing him?
well theres many things you can do you can you can nibble on his lower lip or put pressure on his lips with urs
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kay this is kind of a wierd question> but i have heard that if you cuz your private area hair or like shave it that it will grow back faster,
is this actually true?
yes it does lol
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F/13.
im depressed. the guy i like doesn't like me the same way. my step-dad has hit and bruised me about 5 or 6 times in the past 4 months. my mom is dying of a disease. everyone i care about is starting to hate me, because they're getting to know the real me. and it sucks, because right now i need people the most.
i cry myself to sleep, and today [[march 30]] i started cutting again. after not cutting for 2 1/2 months. my mom doesn't know i started cutting again. my therapist might put me on anti-depressants. i'm prolly bi-polar and have ADHD. the only people i have left are the people that can't help me through it. [[except a few people]] and i don't know what to do. i can't help this depression, and i want it to stop. but i can't. my best friend [[that's a girl]] is prolly the girl that everyone thinks im going out with. and my best guy friend is the guy i love, and wanna go out with. im going through the normal shit. times 5 billion. i barely get any sleep. and when i do i have nightmares. about what im gonna turn into. and it sucks because im turning into the person that i hate. i hate my step-dad's part of the family with a passion, but i have to deal with them. i need to talk to my real dad. but i can't. im scared of what he's gonna think. i don't care what people think of me, but im terrifyed of what they think, i think im ugly, i hate the way i am, and how i look. the only reason i haven't commited suicide is because of one person. but i think i'm loosing them. please. help me get over my depression, help me. talk to me, keep me alive. keep me going, please. i wanna hang on. but it's hard when nobody cares. please.
aim:randomconfusionx
i just need someone to talk to, someone to keep me going.
please.
i wanna hold on.
ok for one if your father or anyone is abusin you then you shouldnt have to deal with it.Maybe it might save you somet trouble if you told someone about it even if it is risking your life because NO ONE should ever have to deal wiht that
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Is there a difference between anxiety attacks and panic attacks? also, is it possible to wake up in the middle of the night for no reason having one? Thanks!
Anxiety-hyperness
panic-shacky
and yes it is possible
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My sister has really strange eating habits, but it doesn't sound like an eating disorder that I have heard of. She eats less than 100 calories for breakfast. At school she eats grapes for lunch and throws away her sandwich. She tries not to let anyone see her do it, but I have seen her do it all week. At supper, she eats normally because my parents saw that she wasn't eating as much and she doesn't want them to know.
One day at lunch I saw her eating half of her sandwich. But when we got home, I heard her trying to make herself throw up in the bathroom. She didn't succeed, but maybe that's because she is afraid of throwing up.
Maybe I am making too much of things, but what does this sound like to you? Any help is appreciated. :)
well i think if she isnt eating over 200 calories for breakfeast then theres a problem you should possibly and probubly have a nice conversation with both ur sister and ur mother/father.
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lately i've been getting angry. and i don't mean a little angry like itll pass. but i mean angry as in i get so angry that i hit things, throw my phone, and i have the urge to kill my mother with a knife or kill myself. i'm usually a calm person but now it seems like im mad about everything. im on a pill medication for my acne called doxycycle or something could that be the reason? please help i dont like feeling like an animal
it might help to tlk to your phyciatrist because then he/she will be able to put you on meds but when you get mad like that it might help to think of postive coping skills....like scream in your pillow or even step outside and yell as loud as you can...it helps
let me know how it goes
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Yeah, i dont know about life in general.
i dont know about my christianlyness.
i dont know about my friends.
i dont know about the boys.
i dont know about my future.
i dont know about tomorrow.
i dont know about today.
i dont know about my face.
i dont know about my body image.
i dont know about my personality.
i dont know about what i want.
i dont know about the things in life.
i dont know about what i want.
i dont know about myself.
it seems i am at a point in my life that i just dont know what i want. i dont even know my true personality. im afraid im becoming something im not. my faith has gotten weaker and weaker. i dont know if im a true christian anymore. i dont know if i even try to be one any more. i dont know whats true and whats a lie. to me, my life is too boring to keep it as it is, so i tell others what they want to hear. i dont know how to fix this. i think im forming into my friends, and not me. i want to be me. but i cant seem to be me when im just copying what others say. how am i going to get through life? i cant fake my way all the way through. i have always wanted to be the 'original one' i just want to be ME!!!! i can tell @ church that nobody wants to even be around me. but i try so hard. maybe i need to change? maybe i just need a break from church. i can tell people just walk the other way when i walk into the room. at school i dont even have that many friends, and i need MORe. i have a small group of them, but i want some more. Im so caught up in social levels that i dont even try to be friends with the "nerds" i would say im a nice level of popularity. but i dont know. i want more. but i cant have everything. i just want to be me really. becacuse me is all i can be. and i ccant please everyone. so i just want to please myself, thught that sounds really selfish. but i just want to be lme. i just want to satisfy myself. i dont want to have the thought proccess of "others will look at me like im so popular and they want to be me" because thats what i have been doing for the last... i dont know 1 years?!?!?!
i just want to please everyone, but i dont have time for myself. but since im getting older, im finding more of myself within me. and i want to be that person that people actually want to be around.
i can try.
i can talk the talk.
i can walk the walk.
i can trick the whole world into thinking im comfortable with myself.
but i cant fool myself.
am i the only one with this problemmm?
i understand that lifes hard and that you forget things about yourself.Maybee it would help if you made a list of things you know that you can do and it might even help if you also write down the people that love you the most and after think to urself about how good your life is. Because thats what matters the most
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How do you deal with stress??
Well there's mamny things you can do like take a nice hot bubble bath with candles all around you and listen to ur favorite music.Its actually quiet relaxing and jus think of good memorys
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ok so i really like this guy, but he doesnt like me so how would i get him to like me???
my other wuestion is that this guy likes me alot and asked me out but i said no and now i want to say yes but i wont know wat to do once im his girlfriend any advice on wat to do when u have a boyfriend???
plzz i need an anser quick cuz he wants to know by 2morrow
thankxxx
i think that you should think of all the posittives with guy you like and the one that asked you out.Rate on a scale of 1-10 think to your self who would be more healthy and wont hurt you in any way...and that should hepl you decide.
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ok well im 14/f and live in small town USA I have been SI'ing for like 4-5 years now and i really wanna stop i am really wating to get closer to God ad this is just holdig me back from living the life i want to. See i started becuse it felt good it feel something other than emotions? idk how to word it but my father was abusive i was never touched but i saw what he did to my sisters and my brother and well i dont know if that has anything to contribute to it. Now that Im away from him and have been for a while i relized i want to change. I dont know how so I guess thats what im asking. HOW CAN I CHANGE AND STOP SELF INJURING???? That includes cutting and stuff like that anything that causes me pain.
Before you ask I never wanted attention and well am asking on here so i dont get the wrong type.
Allie
self injuring is a form of help but hey dont always help.I have learned in my past experiances in hospitals that if you make a list of 10 things that you would/could do that you like and try as hard as possible to do it now there are many things you can do besides SI you can watch tv,run,pace anything other than that.You dont wanna upset ur sisters and parents if you truely love them because they dont/wouldnt liek to see you as depressed as you are.
Xox
Ellie
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