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I need some four or five letter words to write on my binder for school. Please no fowl words. Thanks in advance I rate 5's no matter wat! (link)
(3-4-5 letters)
*cute
*love
*dream
*wish
*sweet
*hott
*angel
*hope
*fun
*boys
*heart
*stars
*smile
*power
*kiss
*crazy
*crush
*dance

(more than 5 letters; i know sorry!!)
*sparkle
*breathe
*passion
*perfect
*obsession
*thoughts
*intuition
*understanding
*memories
*simple
*discover
*beautiful
*heart beat
*pleasure


School's about to start, and I don't really want to carry a backpack around all the time this year. I was wondering if anyone knows where to get those cute shoulder bags that are rectangle-squarish? They have really cute Coach ones, but I'm on a low-budget. (link)
well i know target for sure has some really cute ones.. they range from about 9$-20$ and they hold alot of stuff...


Hey, I was wondering does anyone know any cute hairstyles? I have straight, long black hair. I was thinking about long sideswept bangs and layers, but that seems sort of blase. I'll rate high! (link)
i say get it layered, a little bit of layers and ask them for bangs that outline your face... that brings out your features more than anything esp your eyes.. and also get it cut about 3 inches below your shoulders.. lol sorry im not of much help, thats just what i think would be cute!! good luck!!


ok well theres this guy and hes super fine and i really want to date him and everything and he told me to go to hishouse and all but i dontno if i should or not bc i have a problem.... i was born with more testaturone in my body then estogine and well im very flat chested and i have some well.....chest hair and no matter how much i wax and save it always comes back like right away.... i also have alot of hair on my down stairs dont worry i have a vagina and everything its just sort of scary i dont wanthim to feel me up and get a hand full of hair instead of breasts. i dont no what to do should i wear a sweatshirt or something or just not go i dont no im so confused! (link)
well if he tries doing stuff to you, just let him know you dont feel comterable with it. he should respect you... and most likely will. i say dress how you usually do (like what you wear to school/ or in public) and if you guys end up dating, make sure you trust him before you do anything, guys are quick to tell little secrets you dont want others to find out. but by the sounds of this guy he may not have much of a problem with it! i say just do what your comfterable doing, and show what youre comfterable showing... i hope i helped, and if you have anyother questions feel free to ask...


ok well i change my mood so fast. it doesnt happen every day but it happens in like every couple of weeks. what happens is i can b all happy and normal but then i can juss become annoyed buy everyone i can start cryin im so mad but there is no reason. is there something wrong with me? please help ill rate high (link)
of course theres nothing wrong with you!! youre growing up! and im going through the same exact stage! theres nothing you can do about it... but if youve started your period, id recommend taking pamprin.. it just helps your mood stay at a mellow level so youre not chewin anybody up, or bein overly happy... and if you havnt then maybe your getting ready to start.. or youre just stressed... working out works really well to help reduce stress.. but thats all i can really think of that might help your mood...


Hi does anyone have any good tips or know any websites on how to style wavey/curley hair without using a curling iron or a diffuser.

Thanks will rate high for good answers. (link)
well im not one to say this, since my hair is naturally striaght... but i would completly die to have curly hair!! my best friend though, she uses gel.. i dont rememebr what its called (somethin sport in it) but you can get it at walmart for like 2$ and it works so well.. it takes like 5 mins to use (if that) and it just keeps your curls looking nice... not to mention drop dead gorgeous... sorry im not of much help...


sometimes my face would get like really oily, and I'm starting highschool in september, and I really want to get rid of the oil. what can I use or do to get rid of excess oil for a long period of time, or atleast long enough to get me through 7-8 hours of school (link)
depending on how old you are... you could use powder... it makes it look like your face isnt very oily at all... but before you go to school and after you get home i recommend Dove face wash or phisoderm... my skin is naturally really oily and i use dove in the morning phisoderm at night and it seems to make my face look natural w/o the oily look on top of it... but during the day powder (i use covergirl) covers up the other oil you may get... hope i helped!


i need help on what to wear i got 3 tops and i cant choice.. i am goin to the mall to see a close friend that i havent seen but i need help with a top..
1)http://photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/?action=view¤t=2f5f8131.jpg

2) http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/ccda716e.jpg

3) http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/ccda716e.jpg

i am planin to wear blue jeans and pink and black shoes. my hair will be striaght but i dont know if i will wear a hat that has the inatails of my first and last name on it and it is black and red... should wear a hat or not?? and whcih top should i wear??? (link)
i say wear the seconnd one (the pinkish colored one) its really cute and would look great with pink/black shoes.. id say probably dont wear a hat, but wear you hair down... thatlll be really cute!! hope this helps!! btw if that pictures of you in #1 youre really pretty! =)


i have this problem where i cant stay in a realashion ship for a long time or else i get sick of the guy how do i change that (link)
im the same way!! im like obsessed with this guy for like two days, he asks me out, 10 mins later i dump him!! well my best friend told me to make a list of everything i want in a guy.. i did that and she told me to look no lower than guys with those qualitys... it takes a while to find guys with everything you want... it took me like 2 or 3 months... which i seem to find extremly long!! but once you find that guy, he usually ends up being someone youve hated before (in my case), or one of your close friends... youll end up stayin w/em longer bc its what you wanted.. this si what has worked for me.. im not sure if itll be the same iwth you! but try it.. write down EVERY good/bad quality you like/dont like in a guy... if a guy ahs any of the bad qualitys ditch him... a good guyll come along and you wont beable to leave him.. promise.. me and this guy have been together 3 months! which is so far a record for me!! (the longest relationship i had before was a week and a half!!) but im sorry if this isnt much help.. but i hop everything works out for you!!


i was wondering if anyone knew how to cut pants into skirts. because i have like 3 pairs of pants that fit in the waist but dont fit in the legs. so if anyone could help i rate high! (link)
yea! its not too hard... but it takes a long time.. find out how short you warnt it and mark it.. then cut it... once you cut it (they should look somewhat like shorts) turn them inside out and use a seam ripper to rip the seam from the crotch part an leg part of your pants then sew togther the pieces from the leg and cut off the extras from the bottom.. heres a link with some pictures.. hope i helped...

for long skirts--

http://sewing.about.com/library/sewnews/qa/aaqa1202a.htm

for shorter skirts--

http://www.savvyseams.com/clothing/jeanskirt2.php


Hey, you know the neospharen (spelling) stuff people use to prevent scars? Well my acne is actually finally clearing up and i have some scaring (i think) on my cheeks, can I use it after i wash my face and put my medicine on, or will it just make it worse?

Thanks will rate high=D (link)
neosporin works well, but theres a risk itll make your acne come back... i use mederma and it works well... its quite pricy tho... can range from 13- 30 $$ but it works really well... shea butter also works... but its pretty greasy, so if you put it in the fridge before you put it on, it shouldnt be as apt to give you more acne... sorry im not of much help...


I recently recieved a goldfish from a friend. It's orange mostly, with clear fints, some black patches, and a blue stripe next to the fin. I THINK it's girl but i'm not sure lol. What should i name it? And is there anything imparticular i should know to help me keep a goldfish content and healthy?

Thanks,
Panda (link)
ive always wanted a fish!! haha but im not responsible enough to handle one... all i know is feed it a few of those fish food things a day... but only once a day.. bc if you feed em too much theyll die! oops! but for names...

here are some ideas:

tiger ( i love it!! =D)
fish (haha so out there!!)
swimmy
swisher
shark
Guppi
fangs
fuzzy
goldie
grumpy
happy
hamlet (haha romeo and juliet!!)
icy
jaws
stripe
kitten
macey
marcie
ginger
mattie
memo
nemo
dory
miko
zipper
pete(y)
piggy
dog (thats what my mom named her fish)

umm thats all i can find right now.. but i hope you find a good one!! anythinwould be cute for a fish!! hope i helped!!



I went to a friend's house a couple of days ago, and I got bit by some kind of bug, and now I have a bunch of bites around my ankles and lower legs that seems to be turning into a rash. It itches SO bad. What can I put on this rashlike thing to make it stop itching, because Im lacking sleep at night froom this! (link)
Benadryl.. it takes away the itch.. and also solarcane.. its usually used for sunburns, but it takes away the itch and sometimes the redness.. if the symtoms of a rash persist you need to see a doctor tho... if its a bug bite, keep an eye on it for about a week and a half and if it doesnt start going away get it checked out... it may not ahve been a bug, but some sort of poision ivy/oak or somethin... but from the way it sounds... it sounds like ant bites (if you live in the south) or mosqitos... just make sure you wear bug spray next time!! lol


i am redoing my room. the walls are white, and the rug is light-blue, which i cant change. does anyone have any ideas on what colors/theme i should use. i'm 14 if it helps. (link)
well do your curtains and sheets... my mom made all my stuff.. first use your facorite colors (mine were periwinkle blue and lime green) so my sheets are white with blue trim.. and then my comferter is green... and were thinking about geting a mix of blue and green curtains... i sugest doing a sham instead of comferter bc comferters are too hard to find (not to mention WAY expensive!!)! and then i have random pictures of guys.. like i went to abercrombie and hollister and asked for some bags, cut out their pictures and put them on my walls... that brings out more of the 'teenager' in you!! and thats what im like obsessed w/! but it depends on your mom... my mom has a hard time walkin in and seein a guys six pack on my wall.. lol.. but get permission first!! back to the room tho... dont revolve around the carpet tho... it will all come together at the end!! so just use your favorite colors.. get some cute sheets/shams/pillow cases, etc... and thats all i have to say pretty much.. sorry im not of much help!!


How do u have phone sex? how exactly do u do it over the phone? i'll give 5's for detailed answers (link)
this is exactly what i told the other person who asked...

Here's what I found out:

*During phone sex, girls don't orgasm until you
*During phone sex, you shouldn't answer call-waiting. I had to tell mum I was working out.
*It's a good idea to have a phone line in your bed room. Or at least to wait until your roommates/family have gone to bed before getting involved in a heavy session on the couch.
*Phone sex is mainly about vivid descriptions of what you'd like to be doing.
*Miming the actions doesn't work very well.

Here are some things that you could say:
*"What are you wearing... or not wearing?"
*"Your voice makes me __________."
*"I love when you put your __________ on/in my __________. "
*"The next time I see you, I'm going to __________."
*"Is that a cell phone in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me?"

haha... but yea... just have fun!! make sure its someone you trust, etc... all the mommy rules! lol... but go for it!! =P


can anybody suggest a really good men's cologne for me. I'm 15/m and i'm looking for something masculine, sexy and powerful, and it has to last. My price limit is $100. (link)
okay,
*Curve (by far my FAVORITE!! smells soooo good!!! and its powerful AND lasts for a longggg time!!)
*Axe (pheonix smells really good.. and the blue one... im not sure what its called..)
* Fierce (abercrombie)
* Drift (hollister)

those are the ones im personally really fond of... and they all smelll really good!


well im asking about phone sex...what would classify as phone sex? just talking dirty and getting both people really excited or something else? thanks in advanced! (link)
Here's what I found out:

*During phone sex, girls don't orgasm until you
*During phone sex, you shouldn't answer call-waiting. I had to tell mum I was working out.
*It's a good idea to have a phone line in your bed room. Or at least to wait until your roommates/family have gone to bed before getting involved in a heavy session on the couch.
*Phone sex is mainly about vivid descriptions of what you'd like to be doing.
*Miming the actions doesn't work very well.

Here are some things that you could say:
*"What are you wearing... or not wearing?"
*"Your voice makes me __________."
*"I love when you put your __________ on/in my __________. "
*"The next time I see you, I'm going to __________."
*"Is that a cell phone in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me?"

haha... but yea... just have fun!! make sure its someone you trust, etc... all the mommy rules! lol... but go for it!! =P


is it safe to get a bath during a lighting storm?
i need to know now (link)
people say it is and people say it isnt.. i suggest no though... bc most likely your water pipes are underground, and come out of the ground at one point... if lighting were to hit one of those pipes... it would (w/o a doubt) electricute you... and ishhh... youd probably die!! and it also depends how far away the lighting is.. have you ever done the light to bang thory?? its (ithink) where you count the amount of seconds between the thunder and lighting (or vise versa... you might have to look it up) but you count the amount of seconds between it.. and i belive each second stands for every mile away it is... so wait until it gets from about 25-30 miles away before you think about playin in your bathtub...so i just suggest stayin outa the tub til its over... just a precaution...


ok so i have a problem in april i moved out of my moms to move with my dad cause my stepdad is a total jerk. well my dad was drivin me to school everyday because he lives in a different district. but this year he said if i stay hear i will have to switch schools but i dont want to do that cause i have switched schools so many times! so i said i would just move back in with my mom but everytime im at my moms im always fighting with her or my stepdad or his kids. i dont know want to do i want to stay with my dad but i want to stay at the same school!!! so anyone has advice plz help me will rate high! (link)
okay thats a really hard situation. if you dont feel comfterable being with you mom and stepdad... dont go there, its your decision, right?...on the school thing tho.. maybe if you asked your dad nicely (whihc im asuming you did)... but if he says no--how old are you?? would you be able to drive to school? and are you friends with any of his neighbors? would they be willing to drive you? and what about friends? Do you have any friends that live nearby that go to your school that could take you? and also theres the bus.. i know it sounds stupid, but in this situation it may be all you have... and depending on the distance from school.. maybe you could walk (which im doubting bc it sounds a ways away!) or what about having your mom come pick you up and take you (if youre willing to get into the car with your mom) theres not too many choices in this situation, but hopefully some of those might work.. (im sorry for not being much of a help)


I just got proactive, and i was wondering how long it takes for it to real noticably start working, and if it works as well as the infomercials say. Also, could only people that have actually used this answer to this or know someone who used and you saw a difference (link)
okay well it took about a week and a half to two weeks... read the instructions though.. do it twice a day (like it says) and you should be great... your skin will look awesome in no time!! promise! =D




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