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My brother is getting married next month. He lives in Washington and we have to fly there for the wedding. I am scared to death to fly and I really don't even want to go if I have to. Should I say something to my parents? Should I just go and hope it doesn't crash? HELP! (link)
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i used to be extremely EXTREMELY scared of flying. i just kind of got over it after flying a bunch of times, i think its something you have to jsut get over. its your borhters wedding, and you should be there. plus i live up here in washington and its beatiful here so you dont want to miss it!
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I've had an eating disorder for a couple years now. I start to get over it during the summer, then it all comes back like nothing ever happened during school. It's so bad that my clothes actually fit alot looser on me at the end of the day, that's how much weight i'm losing. But i dont' realy care. My question is, i need something to keep me going. I don't care what, but it's gonna have to be something that is like a normal drug (not a bad drug..but you know what i mean) that just..gives you a high or something. I just need ideas because i've almost fainted before and my friends know what's going on. I just need a way to stay awake and feeling really good so they won't realize. Any suggestions other than start eating again?!?!?! I'll rate high and sorry cuz it's so long. (link)
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k, thats not good. i used to be anorexic and almost died. you need to eat even if its just the tiniest bit (i know you really dont want this advice) but just eat a tiny bit. but to answer your question, something to keep you going is ice-water or rice cakes (they have very few calories). or you can eat something like grapefruit, which is food but you burn more calories when you eat it then its actaully worth.
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i didnt know what to put this question under. but if you shave like "down there" are you supposed to put lotion on..or is there a certain way to shave. cause i get little red dot and i dont know if its normal
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shave in the direction of the hair growth, and use a lot of shaving cream.
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hey...well within the last year i have become christian. but lately i have been having my doubts. i have depression, and have had it for about 2 years now. i pray so much but i dont seem to be making any progress to becoming happier. i dont understand why my prayers arent getting answered. (link)
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your prayers wont always be answered in obviouse ways. i have delt with depression and my walk with christ as well, and i know its very very hard. but dont give up, keep praying, and find some good christian friends that you can talk to! im always here too if you need me, just leave me a message in my inbox and ill give you my screenname or email.
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Does anybody know of any spiritual books that will change my life drastically for the better? I am specifically looking for something that will boost my self-esteem and turn me into an optomist. (link)
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Becoming the woman i want to be devotions book is really good. also i know its just a bible but i really like the student life application bible. its amazing!
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I'm tired of my super straight hair and since it's nasty outside it doesn't come out straight anyways so I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions on what kind of scrunching gel or whatever works best and keeps the "wet" look even when you're hairs dry? And eliminates frizzyness too? I've heard of Pantene has one but i'm not sure. Thanks for all your help. I rate high. (link)
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i really really like curl.life defining system by matrix (its green) contouring cream (works as scrunching gel) and i use the curl.life defining ystem by matrix (also green) every-weather hairspray to go over that to keep it in all day. they work really good without frizz and the hairspray keeps your curls in and its not sticky, its meant for hair that was curled and so your curls bounce and stuff. they are both about $13.95 and you can find them at hair salons.
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how is someone sexually abused? i mean i dont understand.how do people abuse someone sexually? what do they do? my friend told me about someone that was and i was just wondering!
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sexual abuse can be a wide range of things. pretty much just abusing someone or touching hurting, etc in a sexual way that they dont want someone to. i know thats confusing, but i hope i helped.
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okay i have HORRIBLE mensrtual cramps and i got my period just last night and i ended up going to the emergancy room because of the pain, i threw up and everything. i got home and i felt better and i took a nap but i woke up in pain again ive already takin every medicine that i can...please help :( how do i get rid of the EXCRUSIATING cramps?!?!? (link)
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it sounds like you have it really bad. you might want to get a medicine from your doctor. a little thing that might help is drink cranberry juice around the time of your period, it helps me a ton! good luck!
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can you give me any normal dancing moves? i don't actually know how to dance in like school dances and how they move to the beat can any of you tell me stuff i can do? i also think the move ciara does in her 1,2 step video is kool how do you do that? (link)
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i have been taking hip hop dance classes for a long time so i know a lot a bout dancing. at a school dance then just have a group of people and move your body to the beat, its really simple, just dont try to hard otherwise it looks ridiculouse (lol sorry, i dont know how to spell). if there is a dance studio around you then im sure they have a hip hop class, or they might offer one at a near by gym. as for hte 1,2 step thing i dont know exactly what your talking about, sorry! hope i helped a little!
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I have been sexually active for almost 6 months abd I want to be put on the pill. My parents dont know im having sex. I hate using condoms.. so we just make sure he pulls out. I have a few Questions.
A. How much does it cost?
B. How much do they give you at one time?
C. How can I get it without my parents knowing im gettin it? Like a place you can go without parental permission.
Thanks sooo much! (link)
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im not sure how much they cost but i know you can go to Planned parenthood where they have free birth control and everythign is completely confidential and you ont have to tell your parents, hope i helped! xoxo
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I have plenty of clothes but I never can find something to wear. I'm overweight and its hard to look decent without looking weird. It takes me sometimes 2 hours to find something! Does anyone have any ideas? (link)
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just make sure you buy clothes that fit you right, or if you get really uncomfertable, maybe something a little bigger then your normal size. i know tight clothes are kinda in style right now, but not for everyone. wear black because its slimming and dont wear baggy clothes (sweatshirts, etc) becuase those actaully make you look bigger. and just be comfident in yourself, that will always make you look and feel better.
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Hey im 13 years old and im a size 34B and i like to wear sports bra because they are most comfortable on me. The problem is that when I put them on my nipples show through the shirts even when Im wearing a bra. I dont know what to do and I dont want people to assume that im a slut or anything because i think this is gross too. What should I do as far as this issue? (link)
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you should prolly go buy a normal bra. sports bras are mainly for people who do sports to go over your normal bra. once you get used to not wearing a sports bra it wont be uncomfertable. or you could just wear dark shirts, loose fitting shirts, or try finding a padded sports bra.
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I crack my back.. not a lot.. but at least a few times a day... i know its bad... but now it's a habbit... how can i stop this and what can i do if i get the urge to crack my back? (link)
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i have been told it is bad too, but then i was in a car accident and i hurt my back really bad, so i had to go to therapy, i asked my therapist about it and she said its not that good, but its not horrible to do, just dont do it too much. you might want to go to a doctor or physical therapy or something because your back shouldnt crack that much.
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okay, ive been going to the gym like everyday, or every other day for the past 2 weeks or so. and ill work out really hard, like ill run for 25 mins on the tred mill and ill do like 175 crunches, and ill build up alot of sweat.. ill work out really good, but then the next day im never sore at all. shouldnt i get atleast alittle sore after all that work out?
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since you work out on a regular basis then your body gets use to it and it doesnt get sore, if you want to get that feeling you will have to prolly run on the tredmill like 40-60 minutes and do about 300 crunches, and then adventuallly that wont be sore and you'll have to raise it up again, its just cus your body gets used to it.
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I am a 17/m and i have problems talking to girls. There i admited it. Now i need help. Please give me some advice.
P.S. I will rate good for HELPFUL advice (link)
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girls love it when guys talk to them, even if they dont like them more then a friend, as long as your not like someone who just constantly follows someone around and wont leave them alone. just compliment a girl on her outfit or something and then just start talking to her, adventually you will start to feel comfertable. hope i helped
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I loathe myself, every tiny detail about myself. I hate my appearance...My
hair, my face, my teeth, my hands, my eyebrows, chest, stomach, back, arms, etc...I
hate every characteristic of my personality, every last one. I think of my self
as stupid, incompetent and worthless. Everything that goes wrong is my fault. I
suck at every thing I do. Seeking professional help is not an option for me, and
neither is getting help from a trusted adult. Even if either were an option, I’m
much, much, much to timid to ask for help...I don't think I even deserve to have
people waste there time on me to help me anyway. (link)
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you shouldnt hate yourself, a lot of people feel down on themselves, i feel the same way you feel about yourself sometimes, but then i think about my friends and what they would say to me, and all the nice things people say. try to think of the good things, not the bad things.
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i am so shy around guyz i dont know. I dont try to be but i can deffinately tell i am. I dont see how this is when i am always making friends with the other girls. How do i be less shy? (link)
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just be yourself around them and think of them just like your other friends. if you still feel shy around them maybe have your friends hang out you when you are with guys. sorry thats all i have, i hope i helped!
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I just moved to a new school and I'm finding it really hard to make some friends (i'm in 9th). and it just gets really lonley on the weekends because I don't like do anything. And my friends from my old school, I don't talk to them anymore. I don't know if there is any advice you can give me (besides that whole join a sport because I am doing a sport in the spring) and join a club because I am already in some and they arent very helpful with meeting people. Any advice?? (link)
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on friday nights there is usually some type of event going on at schools... football games, dances, basketball games, there is a ton of stuff.go to as many social things as you can and just get out there and talk to people! always have a smile on your face and people will notice that, and want to talk to you! hope i helped! if you ever need any advice you can drop something in my inbox! rate me!
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my hair is straight...and up to my waist...all my friends have wavy hair nd always scrunch their hair..its reallie cute..but when i try doing mine it doesnt turn out right...like i'll put my hair in braids over night, take it owt nd use my aussie sprunch spray, but it just doesnt stay in..any advice?! (link)
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if you want to continue braiding, make sure your hair is damp, but not soaking wet when you braid it and spray it with a little hairspray and when you take it out in the morning spray it some more. what i do when i scrunch my hair though is i take a shower in the morning then towel dry it a little then i take strong holding mousse and just scrunch my hair with that, then spray it a little and it lasts all day for me! hope i helped! if you ever need advice you can always drop a note in my inbox! rate me!
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Hey um im having some super makeup problems .. ive got wicked long eye lashes .. super green eyes .. and kinda small eye brows .. theyre skinny hah .. but yeah anyway .. i need some ideas for new eye makeup .. im so getting bored with the black eyeliner in the top of my eyelid and the bottom .. gets boring .. i wanna go to school and wow people .. i rate high!! thanks (link)
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try this... curl your lashes for 10 seconds each and put 2 coats of masacra on. put eyeliner on the top and bottom but only on the corners of your eyes (dont line your entire eye), it makes your eyes look bigger and brighter. put on a pretty eyeshadow that brings our the green in your eyes, and then a pretty lip gloss. hope i helped! if you ever need advice you can always drop a note in my inbox! rate me!
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