My names Jessica.
I like to give advice and help people, its apart of who I am. So if you have a problem or need advice, you can ask me. I won't judge you or over re-act. I'll just help the best I can.
Ive gone though alot and im sure alot of the things you need help on, ive been there.
So if you need help with anything i'm here.
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Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Age: 16
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Member Since: June 1, 2007
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carolinebella
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I have been with a woman for two weeks when two of my best friends came over to spend the weekend with us. After dinner, we started to have a drink and I noticed that she was being flattered by the two guys. She practically chose to ignore me and I left to sleep.
Later I found she had performed oral sex on the two guys after consuming fair amount of alcohol, although she wasn't totally drunk. She was free of her shyness but was aware of what was happening.
When confronted the next day, she tried to deny it but finally admitted when strong evidence was presented.
Now she says she loves me and wants to be with me and has no attraction to the other two, although she has their contact numbers, and may well contact at least one of them.
I believe the root cause was alcohol.
My question is can I trust this woman?
Thank You.
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I cant tell you if you should trust her or not because thats your decision.
but i think you should give her another chance because all girls make mistakes,especially if they have been drinking, trust me. and if she tells you she loves you and she wont do it again, then she probably means it because most girls dont say they love some one unless they really mean it because to us its a strong word.
but try talking to her and make sure shell never to something like that again.
but if you cant trust her then the relationship might not work
because trust is everything. ya know.
well i hope my advice could help
tell me how it goes.
-jess
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what if you made out with a guy in party and when you were drunk is that slutty or what? this is your second or third time
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no
I dont consider it slutty, cause i do it and im not a slut. but if you were to have sex with him then that would be kinda slutty.
but sometimes when your drunk you cant really help it cause being drunk can make you horny as hell, ya know.
so no its not slutty.
its life and your expierementing haha
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Okay me and my bf have been goin out for a year and bout six months. He has fingered me and went down on me before, but the problem is i havent done anything to him yet...besides just feel down his pants. We are goin to hang out tonight and i want to give him a hand job but i have this little scared streak in me to not do it. i know he wants me too but i'm just a little scared of what he will think. i dont know what to do. any advice helps! (link)
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first of all dont do anything your not comforatble with doing.
and since you have that scared feeling, you should do anything untill your ready, and you feel positive about it.
if he really likes you he will respect your answer.
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what are the symptoms for mono? cause i made out with a guy for the first time last weekend and like my throat has been aching since like tuesday (link)
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I had mono a couple years ago.
and to make sure you have anything you should go to the doctors and have them run some test cause you might just have strep, or just a sore throat.
but mono takes about a month for the symptoms to show
and some of the symptoms are
your throat hurts
your really tired
and your body feels like it just cant move.
and sometimes you might have a fever.
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I'm a 16 year old female and I have some hair on the back of my neck. To the point where when I put my hair up I become uncomfortable. I shaved this area, but the stubble is so unattractive and there's no possible way to get rid of it. What is a solution that isn't drastic because I let it grow out after shaving it and the amount of hair was much worse than what I had to work with before...? (link)
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Yeah I know what you mean
I have some hair on my lower back because I shaved it along time ago and it grew back black.
but what i would probably recomend is dying it blonde or a light color so its not as noticable.
hope i could help
-jess
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im 14 and im a freshman. so 4 years ago in fifth grade there was this guy. he was really cool although we never really talked. we've been in all the same classes since then and ive liked him ever sice. but he just kinda ignores me like im part of the background. maybe cause weve known eachother so long. what can i do to make him notice me??!
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try talking to him, since youve known him that long just go up to him and be like hey whats up what did you do this weekend? or something to start a conversation. or you could become friends with one of his best friends. so you can become friends with him. or maybe look for signs that might hint that he likes you, cause maybe he feels the same way you do. ya know.
hope i could help.
let me know how things go
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