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Q: So theres this guy i REALLY like. My best friend likes him 2. So he asked me out i said yes. My best friend started acting weird. I know shes mad but I told her id rather be her friend then this guys girlfriend. She told me she didnt want me to break up with him so i didnt. I feel really guilty though and she called me a backstabbing friend. What do i do????
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Well.. the thing is.. she probably feels that you "stole" this guy from her. I'm not saying you did, but that's just probably how she feels. try to imagine it, from her point of view.
It probably would have been a better idea to ask her if it was okay with her if you went out with him, before you actually said yes to him. You could tell her that you should have done that, or something, and it may help a bit.
If she still seems mad, you should just talk to her again (i know you said you did before but just try it again) , and just be like honestly I can tell your mad about this whole thing, and if it's really going to be a problem i'll break up with him, because my friendship with you is way more important, or something like that. ya know?
good luck with everything!
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Q: Im De im 17 i have a 3 yr old son.i got pregnant at 13 and had him when i was 14.me the guy was together for 9 months and when i be pergnant are parents made us break up and everything. he wasnt in my sons life for the longest now he is tryin to be daddy and everything is good and im still in love with him dnt say im to young to be in love cuz i kno what what love is but my question is why am i still in love with him after he treated me so wrong and everything?
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Well.. no one can really tell you why you still love him, because love is incredibly weird. Just because someone is awful to you, doesn't mean you will stop loving them. For example, I remember hearing about some woman (the woman with the first ever face transplant or something like that). Her husband shot her in the face, and she said she still loved him. So it's not strange that you still love him. I mean if you have a child with him you will probably always have a connection with him, whether you like it or not.
I mean it's understandable (but not excusable) why he would be missing for a while in your sons life, I mean I'm guessing he is also around the same age as you. See for a guy it's different because guys are not as muter as girls. So he may have not wanted anything to do with your son, but then he got older and realized that he had responsibilities and sort of grew up about the whole thing. So don't judge him on how he acted in the past when he was probably scared, and i get you where scared too, but he just took a bit longer to grow up then you did.
Hope this helps you out! And good luck with everything, I hope it all works out for you! :)
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Q: My daughter is a freshman at an out of state college. what type of grants are out there for her
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A lot of times schools will have grant offers or scholarship offers. They may consist of writing an essay or doing some other sort of thing to get it. I'm in my third year of college and I always see different things posted around my school about scholarship opportunities.
Also if that is not what you mean, because that's more scholarships, not grants... the website grants.gov is a great website, where you can search for specific criteria that your daughter would meet.
you go to grants.gov, then on the left side towards the top it says "for applicants" under that click on "find grant opportunities" and you can search by category, such as arts, business, health, law and tons of other categories. or you can also browse by agency (that provides the grants) for example department of state, department of education.
So you should definitely check out that website which will help you more and you can find specific grants that your daughter could be eligible for.
hope this helps you out!
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Q: Ok so I am 15/f and never kissed anyone before. So in my dreams if its about like being with a guy i never get to the kiss part. But last night i did. FIrst time thats happened (that i know of) any way so my dream was confusing. So i used to have a thing we this guy and we stopped talking and i missed him alot but i eventually go over it or so i thought i dont know i guess i have a softspot for him. Anyways last night there were two guys in my dream. The guy i used to have a thing with and another one who i dont know but i felt like a i knew him in my dream. So me and my friends were in a classsroom and we were all just talking. So one of my friends and me texted the guy i used to have a thing with and we talked for awhile. Then he comes into the class room and bring me roses and talks,hugs me and then leaves. Then after that the guy i don't know comes into the room and says hi and starts talking and then hes gotta to leave so he kisses me like a couple of times. Then says "we will get to the rest later" and leaves . After he leaves all my friends start freaking out and then my eyes get all watery because I was happy or something (idontknow ahaha) soo i was wondering what this means. I usually never get to the kissing part of my dream and the thing with the guy that i used to have a thing with really shocked me because I thought i was over him and like after the kiss from the random guy my ex.flind guy was all i could think about. HELPpppp
THankyou
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Well, I'm not very good with dream interpretation, I know my dreams never make any sense. But I will give you my opinion on what your dream means. I think that maybe your dream is telling you that you still have a thing for your ex, even though you may not even realize it. I think that it's kind of telling yourself that when you get over your ex, you will meet a new guy, and he will give you your first kiss, and everything will be fine, and you don't actually need to hang on to your ex, and wish for a kiss from him... again I'm just guessing here. and this may not be it, and I think it's basically saying that you shouldn't hold onto the past, or look forward to the future, but live in the present moment.
Again, I apologize if this isn't really any help, but I figured I'd take a crack at your question, and tell you what I thought your dream meant. Hope this helps you at least a little bit. (:
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Q: 20female.
So this might be the dumbest thing ever but I can't stop thinking about it! So this kid Brad that I had sex with in the summer and I was talking to for awhile..he got a new profile picture on facebook. A lot of people commented on it and him and his guy friends were joking back and forth about some inside joke. So I go look at it today and on one of the comments Brad said back ..it said "bipps" I don't know what this means, I know its some inside joke between the boys..but it said I liked that! I almost died when I seen that. I was like okay when did I like this ..did I accidentally click it and not notice like yesterday or something?? I quickly unliked it, I know he seen it though. I felt so stupid because he is probably like why is she liking this when she doesn't know what we're talking about! I don't even talk to him anymore which is even worse! Do I just let it go? Do you think he forgot about it already. I don't know what it's bugging me so much but I feel more embarrassed more than anything!!! Should I do anything about it or just let it go?
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well I would say just let it go. (don't let my username fool you, i'm actually 20, it's just an old username) I mean and if you really want to say something just comment on it, and be like wooops didn't mean to like that comment before haha. or something like that and then just leave it at that. I'm sure he won't even think it's such a big deal. But I can imagine how awful that would be, I've almost liked things on FB before accidentally and then thought about how awful it would be if i actually had. but just try and forget about it.
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Q: 15/f
i was talking to my boyfriend and we started talking about sex (we were sending dirty messages etc. no pix). a little while later we started talking about our future and he said that he wanted to have sex for real and asked how i felt about it. i told him i wanted to stay a virgin and he told me that hurt his feelings and he got mad. then i got mad at him for thinking i would actually just hop in bed with him and we got into a fight. he said he was sorry but im still mad. what do i do?
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if a guy tries to pressure you into having sex with him, and keeps trying to do so excessively, knowing you don't want to do it, then he is not the right guy for you. You are absolutely right to be angry with him.
you should tell him that you will have sex with him when you are ready, and not before then and that if he has a problem with that then he should just break up with you right now, because a guy who isn't willing to wait for you to be ready isn't worth your time.
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Q: hi i know your probly 28 or older now but im 12 and my bf asnd i have been to gether for a while now and well we really love each other and he proposedd to me and well i dont know if i shoudl telll my parents cus i told him yes cus he\'s all i want abd everything and is it to young and well ive only told this to you and another person and i dnt know wat to do were engaged and all but how would i tell my parents and his parents were both engaged and i love him so much my heart skips a beat plz help me and im a female
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seriously.. I'm 20, I think back to when I was 12... and I get what you are thinking. You think that you love this boy so much, and all this and everyone who says you are too young just doesn't understand what you have with this boy.
Honestly though, you are too young. I mean just keep dating and then maybe in 5 years then it'll be time to get engaged, if you are still together. I mean it's not like you can legally get married at 12 anyways.
The boy I had a thing for when I was 12.. well he seemed great then.. but he dropped out of school... and is into drugs now... and currently is working at stop and shop for his life career. Just goes to show, that things can change so much.
I mean your not even in high school yet, people change when they go to high school. trust me when I say this, you are not old enough. I'm sorry if this is not what you want to hear, but when your older you'll understand.
Think about this if you don't believe me... does he want kids? do you want kids? what does he want to do with his life path? where does he want to go to college? where do you want to go to college? do either of you even want to go to college? will you go to the same college? What about sex? I mean.. your 12, I bet you haven't thought about so much of that stuff that's important in real relationships.
So, I say you talk to him and maybe say that.. you want to keep dating but being engaged right now isn't right. And just because you like him doesn't mean you have to get engaged. Just tell him that you want to keep dating and then maybe when you two are older and maybe he has a job so he can buy you a nice ring, which i'm guessing he didn't get, then maybe you'll consider it.
I mean if you don't want to listen to my advice, that's fine, and I apologize if I sound rude, because I'm not trying to at all. I get how it feels when your 12 and you think your in love with a boy. Talk to him about what I've said before you go to your parents.. If you still insist on this whole engaged thing, then talk to them about it. I'm sure they'll say the right thing.
sorry that was so long, but just remember I'm not trying to be rude or patronizing or anything. Just.. realize that in this case people who are older and have been through this do know more about this kinda thing than you do. and even if you think your parents don't understand what your going through at all, they were your age once, they've been through it, they know what there talking about.
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Q: I took a pregnancy test like 2 months ago and it was positive. So, I'm pretty sure I'm pregnant here, especially since I've been having all the signs, too. Today I woke up and I had blood in my panties and I really don't feel good. I know I read some place something about women having their periods in the beginning of pregnancy sometimes. Is this blood what they mean or is something wrong?
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It could be that nothing is wrong, often times women experience spotting during their pregnancy. Which is usually not a lot of blood, just small amounts.
But if it is a lot of blood and you experience cramping or discomfort there may be something wrong and you should probably go to the doctors, if anything just to be on the safe side.
I mean even if there is nothing wrong, it is best to tell your doctor about it just to be extra careful.
hope everything is okay.
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Q: how many classes you can at a time at tulsa community college?
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usually the number of classes people take at community colleges are 4 or 5 depending on what your comfortable with. I go to a community college, I've taken 5 classes, and I've also take 4. It depends on the classes you want to take, and all that. as for the limit I'm not sure if there is a technical "limit" for classes you can take, but you don't want to overload yourself.
not sure about tulsa specifically, but most community colleges are the same.
hope this helps. :)
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Q: whats your favriote TV show?
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One Life to Live, House & Being Erica.
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Q: does anyone have experience with a torn glenoid labrum? (shoulder) i have gone to the doctor and he said mine is probably torn, but i am still playing volleyball with it...is this possible? i was just really wondering how functional my shoulder can be if my labrum is torn. is surgery necessary? my shoulder hurts & down into my bicep & tricep.
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I haven't had experience with a torn "glenoid labrum" but I would imagine that if it is torn you should probably not continue playing volleyball. This could make it much worse, it could do some permanent damage, or injure your other parts of your body if you are straining them in an odd way to try and avoid using your shoulder too much. I've gotten plenty of injuries before, and one thing I know is that you should probably rest it, so it can heal. and about surgery it depends on how bad it is. in some cases if it doesn't heal on it's own after a while, you would probably need surgery. here is something i found about treatment for a torn glenoid labrum.
"Until the final diagnosis is made, your physician may prescribe anti-inflammatory medication and rest to relieve symptoms. Rehabilitation exercises to strengthen the rotator cuff muscles also may be recommended. If these conservative measures are insufficient, your physician may recommend arthroscopic surgery. An arthroscope is a miniature television camera on the end of a flexible tube that can be inserted directly into the joint through a tiny incision. The surgeon uses the broadcast images to guide his movement of miniature instruments, also inserted through tiny incisions. Because this type of surgery doesn't require a large incision, recovery time is much shorter.
During the surgery, the doctor will examine the rim and the biceps tendon. If the injury is confined to the rim itself, without involving the tendon, the shoulder is still stable. The surgeon will remove the torn flap and correct any other associated problems. If the tear extends into the biceps tendon or if the tendon is detached, the result is an unstable joint. The surgeon will need to repair and reattach the tendon using absorbable tacks, wires or sutures."
hope this helps!
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Q: is there anything you can eat or drink or anything that can make you smell better when you get wet. i mean its not like i stink like nasty like fish or anything, but i just dont like the smell, is there a way to make is smell better. like if my boyfriend were to eat me out or something im scared it will be disgusting just because i dont like the smell. and is there a certain way you can wash down there or shave to make it really smooth and stay smelling and looking nice. cause i get self cautious of myself down there even though i already do wash it and shave it. but if anyone else has any more advice please please please let me know as soon as possible. please and thankyou and by the way im an 18 year old female
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i've never tried it, but i've heard strawberries can help, and in that sense other fruit would probably help too. not sure if this helps much, but figured i'd give you at least one answer :)
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Q: OK like the real world was to bring people together from all diff cultures and backgrounds and see what would happen if they were put into a house together. A social experiement if you will that would usually lead to people growing and developing. They would even help them to pursue their careers and sometimes they had to do a project together to learn team work...what is the point of Jersey Shore? I've seen 2 episodes and I still don't get it. Thanks for the clear replies. And please avoid saying there is no point...unless of course there is really and truly absolutley no point. Thanks.
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The point of the show the jersey shore is to provide entertainment to people who have nothing better to do than watch tv, in my opinion. It's basically another show like "laguna beach" or "the hills" that really has no point to it, besides showing tons of drama that they claim is "reality". I don't watch it, I've seen it at my friends house, and i think I'm actually a bit dumber now from watching it, but basically it's just pretty pointless, unless you want to watch idiots drinking and hooking up, and all that kinda drama.
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Q: on the OC, summer had a pet rabbit names Pancakes.
can anyone tell me exactly what time of a rabbit that is?
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i'm not sure exactly, even though that is what you asked but it is a lop bunny. there are a few types of lops. if i had to guess i would say that summer's bunny was an english lop.
there are also holland lops which are smaller.
and french lops, which are very similar to english lops.
i have a bunny that is a holland lop.
here is a picture of the bunny i have.
http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a244/xxXkLaOoo/Pancakes/IMG_0131.jpg
http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a244/xxXkLaOoo/Pancakes/IMG_0140.jpg
http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a244/xxXkLaOoo/Pancakes/IMG_1004.jpg
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Q: im 14 and i really want to go to Yale when it's time to go to college.
I'm not in high school yet but i'm starting to prepare now so that i have a better chance.
what are some good tips for getting into a very prestigious school?
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i will try to make this simple and all.
so take honors/ap courses.
keep grades of a's. and at the least b (but probably not a b)
do community service, a lot of schools look at that, and you need it to be in national honor society.
study for the SATS and try and do good on them, take them a few times.
do a lot extra ciricular things (not sure about the spelling of ciricular)
like maybe some student council type things, if they have anything like best buddies (a program which pairs you up with a special needs person, they have it at my school)
try some sports or something maybe if you have time.
other things is if your school has like academic competition clubs you could join those and try and do well in those.
take "smart" classes. like don't take slacker classes, unless they are required. i'm not sure if you know what i mean, but yeah.
uhh, maybe try being on student council, like try running for president, vice president, treasurer, or something like that.
and if you don't win you could always still get involved in student government or something that helps the elected officers decide things like about prom.
so yeah it will all look good on a college application.
hope this helps you!!
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Q: hey,
thanks for telling me about it, i'm really sorry. why did it become so awkward suddenly? i've been hinting that i feel the same way about him, he just doesn't get it, or he thinks my actions are out of kindness of a good friend, so now i know i must initiate it.i'm afraid of this more than anything, i'm not used to revealing my feelings, it's bad enough for me, how did you gather the guts to ask him?
btw,even though it didn't work out, at least you've got the experience, i mean look at me, i'm a wreck!
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yeah. well the whole awkward thing, like i think it was the fact that i saw him the day after the whole thing, and like it was just weird because on one hand i felt kinda dumb, because he did not feel the same way, and then he probably was kinda weirded out by it. I mean we where friends after it, but it just seemed like it was never the same, and it sucked, or sucks, but yeah. uhm, i just did the whole thing on impulse, then kind of regretted it. haha. If you want to tell him how you feel or ask him out, you kinda can't really think to much about doing it before you do, because then you won't but if you just do it, its easier i think. yeah. and btw, the boy he turned out to be gay. like right now he has a boyfriend. haha.
Oh yeah, and actually now that i remember something else that happened, which is kinda the same thing too, when i was a freshman i liked this boy who was in 7th grade (but he got kept back so it wasn't like he was actually like 12) and i found out he liked me, and i liked him too, and we would like text message each other a lot. and then i asked him out in a note, and yeah. he thought it was a joke, so nothing ever happened, except i felt really dumb. just thought i would share that with you too. so if you do ask him out, make sure he doesn't think its a joke. ha.
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Q: hey, i just want to know if there's anyone who's asked their good guy friend out,or if you've had feelings for them and just straight out told them. i dunno anyone who's done that and what the best/worst is that can happen,as in how often the friendship still remains after that is said. so if you can tell me what happened after you told your best guy friend please let me know! thank you!
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hey, well lets see, let me start off by saying i am a senior in high school. and freshman year me and this boy where really close friends, like he was my best guy friend. And toward the end of freshman year i started to like him. And the august 7th i told him that i liked him. Then i saw him the next day, and it was very akward, he didn't even talk to me. Then we got into a fight that night online, and he was like nothing has changed, but yeah. Since then our friendship has gotten worse and worse, so much to the point that now we barely even talk. that is just what happened with me, but yeah. it made everything just bad. if you want to know more about it, send me a question to my inbox, i was kinda brief, just cause i'm not sure if you would want to hear all about it.
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Q: anyone know any songs from the show ?
can you give me names and artists please :)
& it doesnt matter what seasons its in
i just want a playlist of the shows songs.
thanx
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try this, http://www.tv.com/kyle-xy/the-homecoming/episode/1091212/summary.html
it lists some if you scroll down to where it says "trivia" and thats just one episode, so just look through them and find the musicc!
hope this was helpful!
=)
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Q: 17/f. A little over a month ago I was hospitalized for suicidal thoughts. I was there for a week and then did out-patient therapy for a week. I was after school late and I finally had enough of feeling like that. So I went and talked to a teacher. I have talked to him before about my panic attacks and mood swings. So, I've been out of therapy. But I'm still feeling really depressed and I have been getting panic attacks again(I'm on meds). I almost just cut myself, but I just scratched my arm til it went red. I also snap my wrist with a hairtie til it goes red and numb. I can't go back into therapy. I just need to talk to someone. It's just, I could talk to my teacher but if I tell him about my arm, and something else that may happen, can he keep it confidential, as long as I am not suicidal? I feel like I just need to talk and I really can't go back inpatient or outpatient. Can he not tell someone as long as I'm not suicidal? To what extent can he keep something confidential? He is someone I can talk to; I don't open up to people very often, especially if they aren't people I know. So...yeah.
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well this may be different in your school or whatever but the rule is usually.
a teacher has to tell if they know
if someone is planning on hurting themself (or has)
if someone is planning on hurting someone else
or if someone else is hurting someone else.
not so sure about the last one but im 100% about the first two.
so technically he is supposed to tell someone, but he may not, but he is supposed to and probably would.
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Q: okay so i was on my myspace account and i clicked on 'new home skin' and now i really want it back to the original thing and i dont no how! please help i hate it!
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well press the "home" link.
and you will see in the top right corner where it says "page themes"
click on it.
a box thing will pop up. and at the top of it it says "page themes" and next to that is a link that says "back to classic view" and click on it.
and there you go!
=)
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Made this thing FOREVER ago. answering questions for the people.
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Gender: Female Member Since: May 22, 2005 Answers: 176 Last Update: June 17, 2013 Visitors: 18580
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