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asking your guy friend out
hey,
thanks for telling me about it, i'm really sorry. why did it become so awkward suddenly? i've been hinting that i feel the same way about him, he just doesn't get it, or he thinks my actions are out of kindness of a good friend, so now i know i must initiate it.i'm afraid of this more than anything, i'm not used to revealing my feelings, it's bad enough for me, how did you gather the guts to ask him?
btw,even though it didn't work out, at least you've got the experience, i mean look at me, i'm a wreck!
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yeah. well the whole awkward thing, like i think it was the fact that i saw him the day after the whole thing, and like it was just weird because on one hand i felt kinda dumb, because he did not feel the same way, and then he probably was kinda weirded out by it. I mean we where friends after it, but it just seemed like it was never the same, and it sucked, or sucks, but yeah. uhm, i just did the whole thing on impulse, then kind of regretted it. haha. If you want to tell him how you feel or ask him out, you kinda can't really think to much about doing it before you do, because then you won't but if you just do it, its easier i think. yeah. and btw, the boy he turned out to be gay. like right now he has a boyfriend. haha.
Oh yeah, and actually now that i remember something else that happened, which is kinda the same thing too, when i was a freshman i liked this boy who was in 7th grade (but he got kept back so it wasn't like he was actually like 12) and i found out he liked me, and i liked him too, and we would like text message each other a lot. and then i asked him out in a note, and yeah. he thought it was a joke, so nothing ever happened, except i felt really dumb. just thought i would share that with you too. so if you do ask him out, make sure he doesn't think its a joke. ha.
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