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my friend jessica is going out with some guy that is 27 and shes only 12(shes been sleeping with him too)!!! my friends and i keep telling her that its considered rape and that he probably wants her just cuz of her body and just wants her for pleasure, cuz what would a guy that old want with her? we tried to explain it to her a lot, but she wont listen...what should we do?
Oh god that guy must be a pedifile. You should really explain that's wrong. And if her mom beat her then that needs to go to court too. That's rape and child abuse. YOu really need to talk to a police officer or something.
OK my boyfriend just dumped me yesterday and eh used the line, "I love you, but i don't want a girlfriend right now." Has anyone gotten that one before? If any boys see this what does it actually mean? is it just a nice way to dump me becuase how can you *love* someone but not wanan go out with them?
He may feel something's wrong is all I can think of. Some guys do that. Or it may be as he said. It's rare but it's possible he just doesn't want to date you at the moment.
i have this friend and she wants to kill her self bc she thinks she doesnt deserve to be in this world and she is like always tellin me and her other friends that she is gonna kill herself and everytime she goes in a room she looks for sharp stuff to kill her self with and i get freaked out.. so if you have any advise plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz tell me i need help! me and her other friends are tryin to make her eat, not kill her self, think positive but nothing is workin plz help
Well, no offense but your friend might have some kind of mental illness. It's not really normal to want to kill yourself to that extent. I would tell her parents about it. Sure she'll get pissed at you but what else can you do? If normal convincing isn't working then just do that. She'll be alright if you do that.
I have these two friends one doesnt like the other and the other wants to be the other ones friend what should I tell both of them?
Well, there is a right way and a wrong way. The right way is to try to get them aqainted somehow. Maybe talk about things they both like or something. That usually works.
hey.. i'm getting all depressed because i have to move and transfer to a PRIVATE school and wear a really retarded uniform, but i have to ride the public kids school bus and i know right now theyr gunna make fun of me. i don't want to tell my parents how much it's bothering me because, first of all it isn't going to change anything, and it's like their "dream house" and everything. it's not just the bus part that bothers me though, i'm scared of moving because ive never moved before and i really don't want to leave my friends. please help xxox -jeanine
I've gone through this before. 3 times in fact. Trust me you'll get over it. I got upset to leave my friends but I ended up meeting better one's where I live now. And as for the bus, you could ask your parents to drive you there or something. If not you can just tell you parents how you feel about it. They'll usually try to help you feel better.
Everytime i make out with my boyfriend i feel like he is attcking me with his tongue is this normal or does he have issues??? Can i have some advice to work around this!!
Oh my lord that is so funny. I'm sorry but dang. Attacking with his tongue? That just sounds weird. Well, anyway maybe he craves the tastes of the unknown. I don't know but I don't really think that's normal.
if you have oral sex, or your boyfriend/girlfriend has done anything sexual to you besides sex, is it a sin?
All I saw about that in the bible was that not to have it before sex. I don't think it said, "Thought shall not put thy penis in another woman's mouth before marriage" I didn't think he meant that in particular but I think it's still a sin. And I believe god forgive's you for anything but you're not suppose to take advantage of that.
i am a 13 year old girl, and i tried my boyfriend's ciggarette the other day, cuz i just wanted to try. he didnt force me into it, i just wanted to try ; like i just said. so then the next day i craved for one soo badly and i bit my nails which i never did before. and i just want some kinda smoke in mah lungs now ! am i addicted already ? what should i do ?
It's possible you're addicted already. Not really normal for trying one but maybe so all the same. I'd say try to get something for it. Why don't you try some of that stuff they put on tv or something? They can usually get you to quit. Either that or ask your parents or somebody about it.
I have a really hot boyfiend thats cute,funny,nice and caring but I have the biggest feeling that he's cheating on me and I don't wanna be hurt what should I do?
Ok that's easy, just ask him about it. Girls can easily tell if a guy's lieing. (I know by experience.) And if he's acting perverted to other girls than that's usually normal but if he does it to the point where he does it to them more than you then you should look into it. Hope I helped.
umm i really like this guy but he doesn't like me ...wut should i do to make him like me?
Hmm... Well, it depends. If the guy likes another girl then he won't pay much attention to other girls. Well, I'd say talk to him online and maybe call after a while. Then slowly let him know how you feel. And be flirtacious! If you act like that he'll usually go for you after a while.
does yoga help you lose weight?
Well, yoga is really suppose to help your breathing and be more relaxed. I don't think it burns fat but it may help reduce food cravings.
Alright.. well see I like this guy right? And well I want to go out with him but there are some things in relationships I want to do but I don't think he wants to do. I like to make out and cuddle and sometimes sexual things like getting fingered.. I can live without that stuff tho.. should i go out with him?
I'm sure if he loves you you'll easily convince him to do things like that. You see some guys don't want to fly into restricted areas unless they feel safe to. If you give a guy like this clearence or in the real case permission to then he'll surely do it. Just ask him about it. And if you want to go out with him then go ahead. Like I said just ask him about all of that. Every guy has a perverted side believe me.
How Do I ask I girl I like out in a way that I don't make fun of my self?
Oh that's easy. Just don't put yourself down when asking her out by saying things like,"I don't diserve you but..." Or "I know I'm an idiot but..." Things like that. Oh, and if she says no then just accept the facts and try to get her but don't try to make her feel sorry for you if she says no. That never works trust me. Good Luck!
i was datin this guy for almost 3 months but i wasnt really happy so i broke up with him! i thout i didnt like him anymore and that when i broke up with him i wouldnt think about it anymore...well i was wrong...WAY wrong! he is all i can think about! day and nite! i thout i didnt like him but now that i dont have him i want him sooooooo bad!!! i want to tell him but i dunno how...i dont want him to get freaked out or not feel the same way or for him to have some other gurl! i havent talked to him in about a week because he has been at his moms house but he comes home friday n i jus wanna talk to him! we have been broken up since monday november 1 and monday november 8 would have been our 3 month anniversary! what do i do??
we all make mistakes with that sort of thing. if u still love him then just ask him out again. usually it actually helps your relationship if you've gotten past old problems
ok heres the situation: I have a major crush on this guy n i told my friend bout it and now it seems like she likes him 2 she flirts w. him non stop n when i talk 2 her she denies doin ne of the things and idk wut 2 do because i really like this kid n she likes 2 put me down in front of him and i just dont know wut 2 do..ne ideas i NEED UR GUYZ HELP!
this is kinda similar to animal life. they may be best friends but then they both want something and they become enemies sadly. but she might want him as much as u do. u should talk to her about it. if she's a true friend then u can trust her to talk about it
Okay so a few things happened and someway or another I ended up not spending enough time with my old friends and more time with my boyfriend and a new group of friends. It's come to a climax and now I have to choose. My best friends or my boyfriend. I love my boyfriend more than anything on this planet and he makes me the happiest alive. No amount of: friend's come first will change that. I don't know what to do.
well i think you're acting like you have to drop one or the other. u don't have to do that. u can just spend some time with one and some with the other. you're in conrol of how u spend your time
How do you fall OUT of love with someone you do not want to be in love with??? And how do you do that when you have to be around that person alot?
well i'd say to think all the negative things about them that u can. but that's only if u really don't like them. if u do love them then u can't really help it. it's not always something that can be helped sadly. trust me people sometimes hate being in crushes and they feel upset that they can't be with who they love so they just want out. but that's only one problem. if u love them then u can't really hate them now can u? hoped i helped