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Okay i dont know why but i have this bump down there...i haven't had sex or nothing and been in any sexual activities or nothing...they kinda come on go and it kinda hurts when you touch it...i dont kno wut it is and kinda scared. i had one appears on my left side near my butt but not excatly there it's down a little from my vagina and it appear twice and now i have one on my right side. what do u think it is? i need help and i'm scared to go see a doctor because i dont want them to have show them and everything and i dont kno wut to tell my mom...PLEASE HELP!
You need to tell your mom and go see a doctor,its nothing to be shy about,its nothing a doctor hasnt seen before, doctors see and deal with alot of these type of things all the time and thats why they are there to help with that sorta stuff.Its nothing trust me.So i hope ive helped and if you need anything let me know :-)Good luck!Im sure you will be fine
can you answer these: 1. whats cyber sex and what do you say during it? do? 2. whats oral sex? is it just talking? what do u say?
Well...Cyber Sex is where you have sex over the computer which i think is pretty stupid.Ive never done it before because i think its worthless..why would you want to have sex over the computer..go out and find someone real to have sex with ;-).And Oral sex hun is when you use your mouth Like bj's and Getting Eaten out down there yah.Need anything else..let me know :-)
i dont know what to do anymore. my ex boyfriend mike and i were perfect for eachother. we were from different towns but i went to his house and hung out or we went some where else. anywayz we went out for 9 mounth but like every once in a while we broke up and got back together agian. then he dumped me and went out with someone else and they went to second base in 2 days! and i went to 1st with him and we went out 9 mouths. and then he dumped her after 2 mounths because he said he still loved me. so i went out with him for about a mounth and then he broke up with me for this other girl in his school and i was like crying for ever. and then after a week he asked me back out and he was still going out with that other girl (but i didnt know) and we went out for like 4 days and he cut me because "his parents said he had to" which was a lie.. i tried to OD and i was in the hostipal for over 2 weeks for it, and everyone knew about it and as soon as i got out he called me and said he loved me.. i just broke down crying because i still loved him. and he asked me back out and i was soo week i said yes and we went out for like 2 weeks untill i found out he was cheating on me agian so i broke up with him and i havent been out with him since. then like last week he called me and was like talking to me and i told him to never call me agian because i was over him and then after i hung up i cried because i still love him but i cant call him cuz im not allowed to.. his parents would freak. (they think im crazy) and i dont know what to do. i love him but i hate him too. hes my first love. and i miss him. theres just so much pain inside of me im like crying. i miss him. i think im gonna kill myself. because i cant live without him. please help me over come this.
Hun..I have been in your situation before.My first love did the same exact thing that yours is doing to you.always an on off thing always getting cheated on and lied to.Its not fun.And no guy is worth hurting or trying to kill yourself.I felt the same way you did i wanted to just die.But i eventually got over it.And so can you!Try going out with your friends that helps.Start meeting new guys trust me there are alot more out there and you will find someone thats going to treat you better.Today i am now with this new guy for almost 2 years now and we are expecting a lil girl in Oct.Come on show this guy that your strong and dont need his ass!And whats funny is when your finally over him and finding new he will regret everything he ever did to you and want you back and it wont happen that time.So keep your head up girl and get out there and move on you can do it!So i hope ive helped.If you need anything else let me know!I def. know how your feeling right now!:-)
this question is for my friend:
my boyfriend is so sweet. he'd never cheat on me and he never acts Interested in another girls or stuff like that. do you think he could be gay? because he doesn't seem to be interested when girls are wearing skimpy clothes on tv or pictures and id ont think he looks at it on his own. but he gets horny around me. i don't think he is but soemtimes i wonder.
I dont think hes gay.Some guys are like that.He wants to show you that Your the only girl hes interested in.My guy that ive been with 2 years now also is like that so i wouldnt worry about it.Hope i helped and from the sound of it looks like you got yourself a good guy so enjoy it and i hope it lasts a long time.:-)
i sorta REALLY flirted with this guy n made out n blah blah with him.. but one of my best friends all of the sudden likes him.. what should i do :\
Well I would go talk to your friend because you 2 shouldnt keep anything from eachother.If you really like this guy then you should tell your friend how you feel about him and that you liked him first she should understand if you didnt know she liked him.Best friends never let a guy come between them so dont let it happen with you and your friend.Its happened to me before and trust me i regreted it.So hope i helped.:-)
well my bf started thinking all this bad stuff about our relationship just because his friend told him. like im sure he sorta felt it but his friend really brought it out. im really scared that once school starts and hes w/ his friend(s) more they will Really affect him up til the point that something bad happens. i think he really likes me or loves me but i donno i mean could he Love me if he lets his friends affect him?? i donno im scared. help
Sounds to me like your bf's friends dont like it when their buddy as a girlfriend and tries to mess it up.Ive been there before with the guy im with now for almost 2 years.what you need to do is talk to him and tell him how your feeling about what his friends are doing and that they are wrong.If he ends up going along with his friends in the long run then hes not worth it.Because if he loves you enough he will not listen to what his friends are telling him.Hope i helped and good luck with your guy.If you need anything else let me know~:-)
~*Nicole*~
This Subject probably doesn't match but any wayz, I've heard that eating a lot of carrots makes your boobs grow bigger and my friend had like none and then like a few months later like 6 months or something maybe a little less, she has huge! Is it true? She said carrots helped since she ate some like every day! Thx I'll rate yall 5!
No thats not true,So dont believe everything you hear.Your friend Just probably hit puberty or something.And like yourself the way you are.You dont want big boobs trust me i have big boobs and i hate them most of the time.:-)
My friend just told me today.. that she ALWAYS throws up after she eats. As much as I'd love to help her, I just dunno what to say. Cuz she might get mad. I don't want anything bad to happen to her. The past couple days shes been telling me that shes been haveing bad stomach pains and she feels sick ALL THE TIME. I wanna help her, I don't wanna make her mad and say the wrong thing though. Should I just forget about it, and let her live her life the way she wants it? What would you do? Please I need help.. =(
*amYy.. my AIM sn is NaInErZzZ
No you def.Dont want to forget about this.Your friend is hurting herself to the point where it can kill her.You need to talk to her and tell someone so she can get help whether she gets mad at you or not.Because if you dont do something your going to lose your friend by what shes doing to herself.This is a really serious problem and your friend needs some help.So dont even think twice about going to tell someone and quick before its too late for your friend.I hope ive helped because that is the right thing to do trust me.And if you need anything else let me know.Good luck with your friend.:-/
This girl that I used to be friends with is spreading rumors about me. She is telling everyone I had sex with this guy I liked. The guy and I hooked up not long after the rumors started. He's three years older than me, so we didn't tell many people. We didn't wanna hafta deal with all their shit.
He and I didn't have sex until almost 2 months after these rumors were started. My best friend heard the rumors, and she was mad cause I didnt tell her I had sex for the first time. I didn't want her to know I did, so I told her they weren't true.
I want these rumors to stop cause its no one else's business if I had sex with him or not. I don't want to talk to this girl in person cause i already wanna beat her ass, and if i saw her, i know i would loose control and hit her.
Is there any other way to stop these rumors without talkin to her about it? And don't tell me to ignore them cause that never works. I have ignored them for almost 3 months, and im sick of it.
Please Help me!!
Well I def.know how you are feeling right now.The same thing happened to me a few years ago and it went on for like almost the whole school year.What i would do if i were you is whenever someone asks you about these rumors say its not true and this girl is just trying to stir up trouble.And she must not have anything better to do with her time then spread rumors about ppl:-).I know its really hard but you should act like it doesnt bother you what ppl think because it will just make this girl think that she is getting to you and if she sees that it is not getting to you then maybe she will stop.Because that worked for me.So i hope what i said helps.Good luck and i hope the rumors stop.:-)
OK, well for the past like 2 1/2 months there has been yellow stuff in my underwear and i dont really know what it is. i have an idea but dont think its right. and can sumone tell me what it has to do with?
*{Thanx}*
It is discharge and its perfectly normal.As long as it doesnt have an odor to it and you dont feel all irritated down there your fine.I had the same problem and i went to see my doctor about it and he said it was ok.It will probably make you feel alot better though if you go and see someone and get it checked out.Thats the best thing to do.Hope i helped.If you need anything else let me know!:-)
My BESTfriend.. Let's call her *Liza. She is anorexic, i didn't know this before.. i just thought she was super skinny. But she left her diary over my house, and i just read some of it. She's been anorexic for almost two years, it's crazy. She doesn't know that i know yet.. so i'm scared to try and help her! Do you have any ideas on how i can tell her that i know and try to get her to stop. Cause i'm soo scared that something bad is gonna happen to her, Please, pretty please.. someone help me. Thank you so much, sorry it's so long.
Signed,
Very Scared!
You def need to say something to her or tell someone even if she gets mad about it.Because this will soon hurt her seriously and you will be helping her out in the long run and it will be worth it.I Hope everything works out with your friend.Good luck and if you need anything else let me know!
Can someone get pregnant from pre-cum?
Yes it is possible.So be careful.Use Protection:-)
I am a 13 year old white girl (almost 14). I am intrested in this black kid. some of my friends are ok with it but one of my best friends think i shouldnt like him because he is black. he is one of the nicest and sweetest people i know. i just dont understand why she cant see him for an amazing person and not just him being black. What can i do to get through to her?
Well i think you should go for it if its really what you want.Your friend is wrong about the whole not being with him because hes black.Because color shouldnt matter!If your friend is a true friend than she should understand,Listen to what you have to say about this guy and support you on whatever decisions you make.So good luck and if you need anything else let me know!
:-) ~*Nicole*~
ok my best friend and i are friends with benefits and for a while it's been working out but now i'm hugely late on my period and i don't know if it's stress or not. if i am pregnant i can't get am abortion because my best friend will never talk to me again, but i'm not sure that i'm ready to be a mother. what should i do??
Ok friends with benefits isnt cool.And if you are going to do stuff like that use some type of protection like a condom or some type of birth control!So go get checked out to see if you are pregnant or not.And if you are then its your choice what you want to do its your life not theirs!And if its a false alarm start being alot more careful trust me im 8 months pregnant right now with my boyfriend of 2 years and im only going to be 18.I dont regret this lil one but its not easy to go through it at such an early age.So good luck with whatever happens.And i hope i helped out.
~*Nicole*~