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I am 17 a girl and want sex and mite be doing it(sex) tomorrow night and at church with my feauce. Is it ok to have sex at this age? and at church? And be for getting married? (link)
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You shouldnt just want to have sex for pleasure. Sex is to be shared with the person that you fall in love with, and sex shouldn't be done before marriage although not everyone gets married before having sex and not everyone gets married to the person(s) that they've had sex with. Yes you are still awfully young, considering let's say that you get pregnant or something. You're not ready to take care of a child, you're life has barely started and you've got a whole life ahead of you. Wait until your older and have really matured.
-Save your Virginity.
-Dont have sex just for pleasure
-Save your precious gift until your in love and married. To a guy who commits himself to you and a guy that you will be committed to you.
-You're still pure, you're a virgin so don't just give it up because you want it now
& Word of advice
-Beware and be safe from any kind of STD and HIV. You never who has it and doesn't say so.
And No, It will never be OK at all to have sex at a Church. That is the house of God, and you may or may not be religious but do not have sex in or on church grounds.
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I m 19 years old female, my problem is tha at my breast is small I wish to have a normal size breast. I want a good suggestion from u to increase my breast size in natural way or by exercise. My bra size is 32 from the day I started using it i,e from past 3 years, I want it to be 36 in size. (link)
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Hey, about 6 months ago I was also searching for answers on how to make my breasts grow. I am 18 years of age and my breasts have been the same size for forever. I'm like a 32A. I Felt like I needed to be a B cup to feel comfortable as a woman in my own skin. So I searched for ideas and input from other woman, and this is what I learned...
- Breast do their own thing meaning they grown in different shapes and sizes, and every ones body is different. When girls go through puberty, puberty is the base of how your changes. Obviously, some girls go through puberty a little faster than others or way before other girls. Rarely, there are girls that are at the age of 12, 13 or 14 who grow big breast, while young ladies at the age of 16 or 17 have a tinier chest. I've seen.11 year olds who have big breast, like the highest B cup or maybe even a C cup and wondered why.
Breat sizes may run through the family.
-When I was 15, 16, and 17 I would always ask my mom why my chest wasn't growing. She told me that when she was my age she had no chest either, but eventually they grew at a C cup. My mom was a healthy eater and ate no junk foods or such foods.
-Ive heard that milk is good for the growth of breasts as well as for bones. The thing is, I've drank milk just bout all my life but MY chest hasn't grown.
-At the age of 18 or whenever it is that puberty stops for ladies is the age that your done growing. Anything that happens to your body later like big hips or a big butt can be from the fats from the foods that you eat. That's why women say "I hope the fat goes to the right places."
But I'm going to get down to the point, I wished to increase the size of my breast as well in a natural way but honestly, your breast choose wether they keep growing or not. We can't control that really. That Is natural. We aren't the only girls with small breast or flat breast even, you just have to live with it. You are nineteen years old now and that may be it, your body and breasts are probably done growing. But you can TRY things.
-You can try to massage your breast every day for about 15 minutes with creme/lotion
You can check out 'pills' and such boob enhanser products on line. (I don't recommend because I wouldn't try it and in all actuality a lot of products are not in fact effective)
Drink milk and healthy foods
Work out your chest (it's like when guys work out/excersice and their pecs get bigger)
And ultimately, (the non-natural way) is breast surgery. (Scary & expensive)
This is what I got
But look fairly, none or some of these may not work because like I said no one gets to choose their breast size and every woman's body is different.
I've accepted my small chest about 99% to 100% now
It is what it is.
What I do though is buy bras that have a LOT of cotton nd they make my chest LOOK bigger
That's cool with Me.
Just accept your body and be thankful and blessed to be in your own skin. For real! Having a small chest is not even close to being one of the worst things in the world.
But if you want to make them appear bigger just find cute clothes and bras that are bigger than your cup size that have a lot of cotton in them and it will make your chest look bigger in your shirt or tank top or whatever.
It will be your little secret.
Hope this helps : )
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When I started high school I've been with this very large group of 9 people. But then the group slip into two because of some fight. I hung out with one of these sub-groups for a while but then, I became close friends with someone from the other group and well- eventually I started hanging out with her group a lot more.
Then, when I noticed that I had dumped my friends. I can back but when I did- I was already a stranger. I had no idea what and who they were talking about and no longer know anything about them.
My presence became so small among them. No one hears me when I talk and they all forget about me.
I try really hard to fit back in but today was the breaking point. I can't believe I have to talk really loud for my voice to be heard.
There's a new girl- she fit into them so easily when I've been trying for over a year. They take pictures with each other but not me. They even had a group photo and I wasn't sure if I should join in.
They invited me to go out with them and I see it as an opportunity to bond with them but- they're all inviting their boyfriends. I hardly know those boys and I don't have one of my own! Not to mention- I'm already left out among them so I don't think I will feel comfortable going. But not going might make the situation worse.
I try hanging out with my close friend's group but they're not the type I want to hang out with. One person has a very bad personality and we've already fought once. And I'm still out of place with the others. They won't invite me to place because I'm seen as a member of the other group.
Can you guys help me?
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It's kind of a tough place to be in but it doesn't have to be. You don't need to have a lot of friends, having just one true friend is Fine. If you really want to be friends with the people that you bonded with better at first then maybe you can go out with them and if it doesn't work out or you don't feel comfortable in any type of way then maybe it's best to just be associated with them but you'll know for yourself if you want to keep trying to be friends with them or not. Not everyone bonds with everyone. You can make other friends I bet.. But it's always nice to be friends with somebody who you feel comfortable talking to or hanging out with. Dont try to be someones friend and don't try to make friendships. Word of advice, it's better to have a true friend than to have lots of deceiving and fake friends. I'm not saying that they are fake at all. The point is just choose your friends wisely. If you like them as a person then go for it, if not dont waste your time
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How to commit suicide the fastest, and the least painful way. (link)
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You may not want to hear this but NEED to hear this
Suicide is a SIN. Don't commit suicide or do anything outrageous, no matter WHAT you're going through. From one person to another. This isn't just advice, this is the truth. Don't commit suicide.
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I wanna get rid of my bad smell in vigina and my mouth also stinks a lot so I wanna get rid of these two things. (link)
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Foods can actually affect the odour of the vagina. Like meats, lots of junk food, etc. You can change your diet. Make sure to wash down there really well but don't use scented soaps because scented soaps may cause infections. Make sure when you get out the shower, you wipe down there with a towel or whatever you use and make sure that the item doesn't have a smell to it. Don't do things like adding scented lotions and such down there because it can also cause an infection.
As for bad breath, buy a toothbrush that isn't soft nor too rough and brush your teeth a Lot. You can even brush two to three times a day if you get the chance. Floss a Loy because people are actually supposed to floss almost regularly. Make sure to brush your teeth in the back and try to reach every bit and piece. You can rinse and repeat brushing a couple times and after you finish using your tooth brush rinse the brush with Hot water for a couple of seconds. Brush your tongue and scrape (not hard) but brush all of your tongue and make sure your tongue turns red, instead of white. Try and reach the back of the tongue and brush for a while even if you feel like you have to gag a little. After wards you can use mouth wash and gargle for 30 seconds to 45 seconds or so as many times as you want. Foods can also affect a persons breath.
If the odor still doesn't go away you can contact a doctor or dental hygienist.
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So I feel that I am losing my bestfriend to her boyfriend. She spends most of her time with him & we are only 14. Is this wrong? Like everytime I try to hangout with her, she's always with him or has plans or the next busy with him. I feel that she is way too involved with him at this age. Like 14 years old you should be having fun with your friends, not making your boyfriend your life & priority. At this age is it wrong to be hanging out with your boyfriend more then your friends? (link)
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At the age of 14 it is pretty young to have a boyfriend. And you are right. At the end of the day people do what they want to sometimes though instead of listening to the advice that people give them. For instance, if you were to try and convince your friend that she shouldn't be so stuck on her boyfriend and that she should spend time with her friends as well, she may not listen. But in time she will learn. At this age, in my opinion and in most of others opinion it is only right for a kid to act their age instead of engaging into getting into relationships. She might learn that the hard way if she does end up clung to just her boyfriend. No one ever wants to hear this but truthfully relationships don't usually ever last specially at such a young age. The feelings aren't really all there and they don't really know what they want. She's got a whole life ahead of her and when she has grown and become a lot wiser then she can make better choices. She should enjoy spending time with her friend(s). Friendship can be more certain and last longer than a relationship around your age and around any age really. Around your age it's good to not get involved or to get caught up.
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My boyfriend and i have been together for over 5 yrs now. He buys epensive designer clothes to himself, but he doesnt buy me any birthday or anniversory gifts. He goes out every weekend with his friends and spend hundreds of dollars on champagne bottles in the clubs, but he does not do anything for me. He keep telling me that he loves me but he doesnt show it. Help me please. (link)
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I don't much about your boyfriend except from what you've noted but in my opinion, how is that your boyfriend has spoiled himself and spent a grand amount of money throughout the years for himself but not for his lady of 5 years? That says a lot but it's up to you to find out for yourself what that means exactly. To be in a relationship and to keep the other person happy doesn't mean to spend money on them But when a person in a relationship has the money and doesn't even bother to buy his own girlfriend an anniversary gift or better yet a Birthday gift.. then something Is up. It Seems like he is thinking about himself in This scenario.
It's up to you to address this to your boyfriend though because even after a 5 year relationship, you'd never know what you're goina... Communicate this to him if it bothers you.
And you show someone that you love them by giving them affection, sacraficing for them and other ways. Not by the money you spend on the person. Butt would be nice to get a present here or there especially on a day like your birthday Specially if he has the money for it...
Communicate your feelings to him.
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I'm 15 years old, 5"4' and 106 pounds. I lost my virginity a week ago to my boyfriend who I've been with for a year and a half. It was both our first time. We used protection, and found it difficult. He couldn't insert it at first, and was only halfway in when he did get it in because I was in too much pain. He went fast at first so that I could loosen and then went slowly. He pulled out a couple of times and that was about it. The condom was all wet when he pulled out but id imagine it would be since he was in me. I remember my legs felt tingly and the day after I had a little bit of blood ( very little, it came out pink). I noticed it the whole day everytime I wiped myself after urinating. It's been a week since and I'm very worried. I've been needing to use the bathroom a lot, I feel depressed, I get my appetite randomly and lose it easily, i felt a little bit of tenderness in my breasts last night and they almost look like they got a little fuller (but then again i think that a lot, its just a pigment of myimagination because I've been a 32a forever so I'm always hoping they'll get bigger), I find it a little bit harder to tuck in my stomach (even though I've always had a belly I feel like I need to put a little bit more effort into it), and I just feel a lot of bubblyness and movement in my belly. My boyfriend says that I'm just over thinking it and that it's just me feeling symptoms because I think I'm pregnant when I'm not. I've felt this way before whenever we've messed around prior to us losing our virginty. Could I possibly be pregnant? I have no way of telling with my period because it is irregular. (link)
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Hey, look don't worry too much about it. First off, yeah it was probably Your semen that was on the outside of the condom. If the condom was placed the right way on your boy friends private & it didn't pop then you don't have anything to worry about. I think I thought just about everything that you have been thinking lately the first time when I had sex. I was a virgin but the only thing about my my experience was that my "cherry" didn't pop because I never bled. Actually, the first couple of times when I began to have intercourse with my boyfriend it was painful for me (and he wasn't a virgin). It's painful for all girls their first couple of times. Anyway, these "symptoms" you're talking about, don't worry about it too much, at all. It's Probably paranoia. For example, the bubbles you felt in your belly... I felt that too. I can't explain to you Why That happens but That still happens to me when I have sex with my boyfriend and we've been together for 8 months and w do it often. And I use to be paranoid a lot just because I thought I might be pregnant. I'm also an A cup and I always think my chest has gotten bigger since I've had sex. When I first started thinking that it was because I would get paranoid about getting pregnant. And I don't anything about your lifesryle but you might feel or think you feel depressed because you're paranoid. Bottom line, don't stress yourself. When your period comes you will be relieved. If you're still scared then don't have sex again at least until the next time your period comes. Like I said, there's a chance that youre not pregnant. The bubbles in your stomach may not mean anything harmful. I still get those. Your appetite n etc. may just be your paranoia right now. Don't stress yourself! Just don't have sex for a while. By the way, it must have been really painful forp you the first time you did it Because he went fast & that's rough. The first couple of times I did it my boyfriend went slow and didn't shove it and force it. The blood you've dropped could be from your cherry being popped. Every ones body Is different and there can be different reaction. Hope this helped to ease your mind. Always be safe!
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I am a black female, so keep this in mind haha. I want to grow my hair out, but I don't know where to start. I am cuban also but my hair texture is that of any normal black person. I don't know where to start any suggestions that pertain to my hair is welcome. Thank You! (link)
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Some peoples hair don't grow even nearly half as fast as others, but to keep your growing, no matter how fast or slow the key is to keep it healthy. One big hair applianc that prevents from hair growing fast is straightening it every day or very often. Adding heat to hair often or regularly is damaging to the hair and a lot of heat cause split ends and hair to break. No matter what type of texture your hair is, this happens to be true. One way to make your hair grow faster is by trimming the ends not often but maybe every few months or when they need a trim. You can buy semi expensive products that help protect the hair. Eat healthy also. This can be a slow process though. It's growing but you may not really see the growth of the hair as fast as you may want it. Extensions can do the trick. Whether you like braids or not, you can also braid your hair any way that you want, whether corn rolls or whatever. They have to be tight. That helps hair grow long.
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So me and my boyfriend of a year and a half who I was madly in love with broke up last week. He broke up with me. I thought i would be devastated but i was more relieved. I knew we would be friends but It would take time. we play games with eachother on our ipads and i decided i needed a break before I was ready to talk to him again. I just wanted to figure things out. So over the week he kept nudging me on the game to play since it was my turn. I just ignored it. so today he texted me asking if i was ready to talk. which is so sweet because it shows me he really misses me as i do him but im not ready. I still want my space. I kind of like this space. I told him no and he said he hopes the day im ready to talk to him again comes soon. I feel so guilty.. I feel like he's really sad and i dont want him to be sad. I love him but i want more space. I was planning on texting him in about a week and a half from today but now i feel pressured that I should do it sooner and I'm worried he'll forget/move on and not care about me if i wait another week and a half.
what do you guys think? Any opinions are greatly appreciated! thanks so much!
p.s im 21 and he's 29 if that helps! (link)
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Do what is best for you. You like the space between the two of you right, so take that space as long as you truly want and need. Do not put much consideration into giving up the space that you want just to make him happy. It is nice to put others feelings into consideration in most situations but in others, like in this case you should put your own feelings and wants before his. This space allows you think and do whatever you need to do to feel ease possibly, and it can be a healing process. If you want to stay friends, make that clear to him. If he moves on or acts unpleasantly different because of this space, it's a typical reaction. He most definitely misses you, but he may feel an anxiety or eagerness to talk to you that he may not show due to you calling out this space. When you're ready to talk if he doesn't feel the same way about keeping you as a friend, he probably feels upset and has decided to move past the situation and cut ties even though a. That'll you did was ask for space. But if he's an adult about the situation, he will come around. That's what matters. He should try to respect your decision whether he agrees with it or not. You should communicate that with him, if you haven't already. He may not know exactly how you feel about the space you're asking for but he should try to understand that you're trying to deal with your feelings. If space is what you really want, go for it. He may not like it but do it for yourself if that's what you really want. Be honest with him and with yourself about it and don't make the mistake of taking this space too far though, like for a month. Because then he may think or get the idea that you don't really want him in your life anymore. At the end of the day, communication is key.
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