Hi,
I'm male and 34 years old. I have only limited sexual encounters so i can remember when was my last. After that, i notice a discharge after a week but didn't mind because i sometimes experience wet dreams before. for the past year i experience mild symptoms like pain in the testicle(it qickly go away), itching on the tip of my penis(sometimes), sometimes pain while urinating(but its tolerable), and constipation including blood in my stool but i blame it on my hemmorhoids. but recently i experience pain in my upper left abdomen everytime i ejaculated. i went to see a urologist, upon a series of test i found out that i have chlamydia. he gave me 1 week of antiobiotics. It went fine, but when i started to masturbate again it came back this time the pain was so unbearable. i heard that this std will surely make me sterile. My question is, am i already sterile? what are my chances considering that i had it for 2 years already? i need your advice.. thanks
Most likely in the past 2 years without treatment or any antibiotics, it has become worse but internally. Damage can seriously be happening to your organs and tissue. My best advice to go straight to your doctor, don't worry about the embarrassment about it, your health and your life are priceless. No one can make you go to the doctor, but I can tell, you'd be smart to.
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hi im 13 and i have had a stedy b/f for about 5 years... we have been fooling around since i was 11 and now i just started my period and i wanna kno...... should i stop... or just started beindg a little bit mor proctected??
No body can help their sex drives when they're both in the moment, so please, for your sake and his, be more protective. Find out all the information you can, your still young, maybe try calming down with it a bit. My sister got pregnant at 12 and her baby at 13, its not easy at all. You've just turned into a teenager, you still need to experience life and have fun with it, not be worrying if your pregnant or not...please lil chica, be smarter than that.
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If a boy friend wants to know about your past sexuall eperiances would you tell him the truth, if he is not your first, or just say you do not wish to discuss the subject.I only had 2 guys in the past but fell he will not belive me. i am 17 years old and did not have sex with my new boy frind yet.
Its best to be honest with him and say yeah, I have had past experiences. If he asks for details and you don't feel comfortable, then you don't have to go into them. But, it is best for you and him, health wise and trust wise, to be open about it and truthful.
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Ok I was planning to go to school about an hour away from my girlfriend, but in a last minute effort I decided to stay at home and go to school with her. I was transferring to play ball and this is my second year sitting out. I feel like I'm missing something. I can go without thinking about playing, but sometimes I think about what it would be like to be on my team and what would it be like to play college basketball. My question is simple, Should I get in contact with my coach and try to go away? I really don't want to leave her, but I miss ball so much. We just got back together after we broke up for about 3 weeks. I don't want to jeopardize anything right now. I really don't know what to do...
In the long run, you and your girlfriend have to sit together and talk about this. You miss playing ball so much and I am 100% sure, if you don't take this chance now, you'll regret it. Your girlfriend on the other hand needs to be supportive and understanding. I know you feel as if your having to choose between your "career/future" or the girl you care about so dearly. It is possible to have both, although it will be hard, but in the end, it'll strengthen your guys relationship. If you and her are ment to be, you and her, will stick through it. No you may not want to jeopardize anything, but like I said, you can always have both. It may be difficult in the beginning but you'll get use to the fact that if what you and her have is real, it'll last through anything.
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Ok last night was my cousin's 14th birthday party.I had no idea ta ll that my cousin invited my ex boyfriend. It was weird at first, but then we started hanging out and he started hitting on me. Then after awhile this kid Brandon started hitting on me too! Well I have a boyfriend, and what happens when you think you like your ex again and you know he may like yoy, and all your friends want you to hook up and even your cousin!(Doesn't happen very often for me)
Will rate high for good answers
The whole situation relies on how much you want your ex-boyfriend and how much do you care about your current boyfriend. Even though he's your ex and you still have feelings, you have to remember the reasons as to why you guys broke up in the first place. Most guys don't like this, but try to see which one your most compatible with. Most likely, your going to say your ex because he's more familiar to you and so on and so forth, however, look at every option you have before you make a decision.
Furthermore, don't follow through with it if your being pressured by those around you. Figure out how strong your ex's feelings are for you and then see where to go from there. But remember, if you decide to stay with your current boyfriend or go back to your ex, either way, you may regret it or someone is going to get hurt. Like I say "Following your heart can lead to a broken heart, so while following your heart, also use your head." Best of luck chica! *MuaHz*
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Ok.. im sorry if this gets long and confusing, but i really need help & ive got a lot on my mind.. so this will get long!!
So theres this boy, and i like him so much! the thing is.. we went out before.. and he was so great! then we broke up about 2 months later because his feelings werent as strong for me as he thought. but i still like him. we talked about going out but he didnt think it was a very good idea, but he did like me. ( we go to different schools, by the way. ) we see each other every monday, wednesday, and friday. and i think thats good enough? ever since we broke up we've been best friends.. and that makes me like him even more. about 4 months after we broke up, he asked me out again. he said for sure his feelings were strong. so i said yes, because i was madly in love with him!! he had a dance at his school, he asked me to go but i couldnt because of cheerleading practice. so i came home and checked my messages on my cell fone and one of my good friends that goes to his school called me. i called her back right away. she told me so much stuff! like the boy danced with another girl.. that didnt really bother me. but then she said they made out and he went to her house afterwards. i was crying so much!! i called his cell fone and the GIRL answered. [ to make it all worse, it was the girl i hate because she did the same exact thing with my old boyfriend. ] so me and the boy talked and he denied everything. i could not believe him. this was about 2 weeks ago. but i still love him so much!! see, thats the thing. after all he did and after all the pain i went through.. i keep on loving him. i keep on begging for him! it sucks =( i cry so much about it but theres nothing i can do.
so my question is :
what should i do!? follow my heart and still crush on him.. or give up on him?!
I LOVE HIM SOOOOO MUCH
I've been through this exact situation. Your still young and trust me baby girl, even though you may argue against it, its not "love" its more along the lines of infatuation. When you and this boy (I'll call him Mike), when you and mike were to together I'm sure it was new and very beautiful to you. In fact, I bet you were completely confused as to why or how you thought it was so great between you two but he thought in his own way, it was lame. However, maybe he wasn't sure of the type of person you were and in those 4 months of friendship, he got to real recognize you for you.
It seems as if he wants a chica he can come back to, but because he goes to a different school, he seems to think he can do as he pretty much pleases. You let him know chica, "Nuh-uh, I'm too good for this, either your with me because you truly care about me and don't want noone else, or you say its over right now." You have to have the strength to let him know, you won't put up with the hurt any longer. If you stay with him, the hurt he continues to inflict on you, you will only deserve. But see chica, you don't deserve to be hurt and crushed at such a young age, you need to experience things. Love at this age shouldn't be one of them unless this boy deserves your love. I know it hurts like hell, but if he can't respect you, then theres truly no sense in having him. You don't want to be continuously hurt and have your self-esteem dragged down. Save yourself sweetie, because when I didn't, my heart was ruined and it was so hard to trust any guy afterwards. If you stay, it'll only screw you up. Best of luck, sweetz! *MuaHz*
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I am 13 Male
When my best friend (a girl a have a crush on) asks me a question about if she should go out with a certain boy whose side should i be on...
should i be on her side and say " Oh ya definitaly go out w/ him.
Or should i be on my side and be like "uh No you should stop looking at a ever other F ing boy but me.
Im sorry if this ? Seems dumb but i need advice hense me coming to this website
I rate Fives
PLEASE i am desparate
Well lil chico, this is where you need to stand up and give her a hint that "yeah, I like you". If your not sure on how to do this or want to put this off until you know for sure she's ready for it and doesn't have feelings for any other boy, your best bet is to mention any flaws you see in the boys she likes. However, if she's a real sweetheart, she'll say "she'll accept them for who they are." This is the moment when you have to say something.
You say she's your bestfriend, and to us females, friendships are practically the most imporant things to us. She may see you as only a bestfriend, and you have to, no matter what, accept this.
Your not asking how to talk to her, your asking or trying to figure out a way to get her to quit looking at other guys, however, she's looking at other guys and not you because your very special to her. Your one of her bestfriends, she most likely doesn't look at you like that.
Try what I said, and get back at me when your ready or think its finally time to amount to letting her know how you feel.
Most likely, you expressing yourself will scare her or shock her, be careful.
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I think I have seen this question on here before. I'm not sure, but I really want to get a job. I only want to work weekends though. I am 15 too. this makes it super hard for me to get a job because I don't want to work in the week and I am a little young. I live in Illinois. Does anyone know of any places that will hire me?
Well, I can't take I'm from Illinois, however, all states have certain programs as to where they can help get you a job. Jobcore, Community Centers, etc. Try looking places up and round them up together. Make sure you have your working papers, school and parent approval, and majority of the time, a physical. After this all done, which I will presume it is, get applications for those places you had looked up. You have to find information in all directions on ever aspect of the job and how to get the job.
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I just started birth control to help regulate my period. Well I'm on my 22nd day of my first pack, and I've forgotten to take my pill twice since I've started. I skipped those and just went to the next one. So my question is, since I skipped those pills, what does it mean? I know it doesn't make the pill as effective, but I don't need to worry about that because I am not sexually active. Also, how long does it take for it become just as effective again?
Chica, this doesn't screw up anything if you continue to take them afterwards. If you skip a pill, take two the next time you do remember to take them so this way, its more effective. However some don't agree with this and will say to just take the pill the next time you remember to and keep going from there. The cycle doesn't stop so if you skip a pill one day but take a pill the next day and the next, your cycle is perfectly fine. The pill is more along the lines a 24-hour pill, don't worry, everything's fine.
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uch i hate this i have brownish goldish eyes umm sorta tan skin (deffenintly not pale) and i have brown hair and light brown/dark blonde streaks like a lot of thtem, but the problem is that i have really dark eyebrows so it doesn't look natural up against my hair, n i deffenintly don't want to dye my hair but any ideas what i can do for my eyebrows, ne makeup that i can but on so they look lighter?? ill rate...
Hey chica, my advice to you, try thinning them out. Depending on thickness of the eyebrow can make them seem dark than they really are. If your eyebrows are thin, and you don't want to dye your hair instead of dying it, try things out first, get the temporary 3-day hair dye thats most likely sold at the nearest retail/drug store near you. They're not that expensive, around $3-5. You may not want to dye your hair, but try highlights. You may just need to dye your eyebrows, however try this LAST.
As for makeup and foundation, don't try anything brown since afterall, you have much of it already. To much brown can make you look plain or even pale in its own way, try colors that'll brighten up your face, perferably eyeshadow, or just focus around the eyes. I'm not saying buy hot pink or blood red eye shadow, however, try something that'll brighten things up a bit. Best of luck!!! *MuaHz*
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okay i have a friend who liked me since he met me which was elementary and i liked him to but i never knew he liked me so i never told him so years later i found out he liked me and he still likes me so i was so happy it was like a dream come true but then he had a girl friend and he just blew me off after telling me he was in love with me this whole time so i moved on and met this other guy and fell in love with him and so my friend dumped his girl friend and started calling me and told me he sees him getting married with me when he gets older and that he will never for get me and boom he asked me out sayin he loves me but i said no i mean i like him but i already moved on and now i told him lets just be friends but some part of me really wants him but hes the type of guy where he will like you and then he will like someone else so yea well he calls me and tells me that still but then he tells me he like is in love with 3 or more other girls i mean what is with that i told him hes a player and he said no but now he just calls me talking about another girl and i still like him i need some help badly....
Well, this boy is obviously confused and has no idea what he's doing. At any chance he may think he has, he'll take. For some girls, yes, this is a good thing, however for other girls, example: your case, this isn't so good. Ask yourself truly, what is he doing? Are his actions speaking louder than words? Or are his words falling down flat as his actions say otherwise? My best advice to you, I know you like this boy, but understand in the long run, would it truly work out between him and you? He seem's like the type to get bored easily, if you ended up falling head over heels in love with him, would he push you to the side? No one can help who their attracted to, if it were that easy, "true love" would practically be extinct or be too over-rated. Chica, its gonna be hard, but you have to cut him off.
Take it step by step, when he calls, say your busy or about to go somewhere. When you see him, just say you don't have time to talk. Eventually take it to the next step to where you don't ever answer his calls and you can walk passed him without looking even once. He'll get the clue. Just please don't sacrifice your relationship and your feelings for someone who has no idea what in God's name those things even are. Good Luck, Chica! *MuaHz*
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