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ok... i like this guy but i cant say his name, so ill call him MR. BIGGLESWORTH.....and he is dating one of my friends...and the other day my best frined told him i liked him alot and that i was practically in love with him(and i am but that wasnt the way id hoped he'd find out)and he didnt say anything but that copuld have been because his gf was right there idk.....but i really want to go out with and i want him to go out with me to...........on wednsday of last week we were in lunch and he sits about 3 tables over from mine.......and he kept callin my name and when i would look over to him he'd cover his eyes like he was playing peek-a-boo with me and he kept doing it.....then i went to his table to arm wrestle him and he kept letting me win and then finally he plaid for real and he said that if he won that we had to do stuff but he was joking........then i went to go back to my table and he wouldnt let me leave without giving him a hug...........and when he gave me a hug he touched my butt...i know that sounds bad but he only did that when he liked me.......i just want to ask that from what i just wrote....do you think he still likes me or not?i rate good if your answer is good

i think he likes you!!!! If he does THAT much flirting, hes totally into you!

hope i helped,
SAM

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I have a question how do u put music on a advice colum..?

thanks

go to www.starlightmks.com
they have music you can download onto your column

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my friend called and asked me for a blank Cd and I told her I can't get her one b/c they are my brothers.She kept saying 'oh just ask him' so I said 'i can't, because i had my other friend over and we were watching a movie`I am constantly giving her stuff.i'm not even kidding. I give her clothes,i bought her lunch today(didnt even ask her to pay me back!)when i told her i couldnt she's like 'ok, whatever bye'i thought that was really rude.when people say the word 'whatever' to me i find it offensive and she hung up on me.what should i do? i did nothing wrong and just stuck up for myself...

shes stunk up it sounds like.
it sounds like she thinks she can get whatever she wants...
i would tell her stop asking you for stuff and to go get it herself

Hope i helped,
SAM

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ok so i really like this guy and we went out once for 3 days but i have been trying for him for 2 years.He dumped me because he liked this other girl and they went out. He knows i like him and still does and yetserday his gf broke up with him. He seems happy and all and he has really been talking to me. does he like me, what should i do. please help me. And he told my friend that he was bi so i really don't know what to do now but i REALLY LIKE HIM!!!

i think you should ask if you guys can start all over. And bi- he still likes girls...hes not completly gay, so u still have a great chance!

good luck,
SAM

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ok like all the guys and some of the girls at my school are really mean they tell me all the time that im ugly and that i have no friends or life and that no one will ever love me and this other group of kids at lunch came up to me and told me that they thought i was ugly and then laughed right in my face . i wanted to cry so bad .and all my friends tell me to just ignore them but thats easy for them to say because they are popular .and ihave already told the principal and he said that there was nothing he could do and i just want another opinon on this.

1.) no ones ugly
2.) dont let them say that to you! next time someone does that roll your eyes, or say "i dont care what you think." or, make a come back (just not a bad one) Once people figure out that you dont care or dont want to be messed w/..people will leave you alone and find someone else to torture...

hope i helped,
SaMmY

p.s. if you need any more help, ask me ;)

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ok i think im kind of bi but im not really sure and to afraid to say anything to anyone, my boyfriend of 2 years told me that gay people are gross and if i was ever gay that he wouldnt like it because he wouldnt want me to leave him for a girl but i told him i wouldnt if i was gay but he said it would still be gross....and on top of that almost all people i hang around with are gay,but i cant even tell them or anything because they consider me there "straight" friend...and they would all think its probably weird also if i said anything...what should i do???

i think if your bf thinks gay people are gross then u shouldnt be around him. if i was in your shoes i would dump him
Ang your gay friends would understand because they probably hade to go through the same thing

Hope i helped,
Sam

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Does anyone have any tips for swallowing pills? I have some pills from my doctor for a bronchidal infection, and they were huge, I had to cut them up into fourths, yet they still are tough to get down. Tips or tricks?

what i do is take a BIG gulp of water w/ the pill and make it like float in my mouth so i cant feel it then swallow, so its like taking a drink of water instead of a pill
OH, and taking a drink of water w/o a pill b4 taking it helps!

hope i helped,
SAM

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I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 months. I've kissed him before but I've never made out with him. I want to soooooo bad but everytime I get the chance I get scared and wuss out. I've never made out with anyone before and I'm really not sure on how to do it. Any advice?

i read this in a magizine...
one girl ask the guy for make out lessons...he kisses you and it all goes down hill from there.....

hope i helped,
SAM

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My friends birthday is tomarrow and i have no idea what to get her! shes not into makeup or anything like that...shes more of a tomboy....i have no idea what to get for her...shes 15....we dont really hang out alot so i wouldnt know stuff that she likes!! could somebody please help me? thanks

what bout like a pair of skates or skateboard

hope i helped a little,
SAM

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Well I'm an A-cup and it's really hard for my to find good, ok-priced bras..Victoria's Secret is cool but it's too expensive! But anyway, where can I buy a bra that I can wear with tank tops...don't say strapless because they'll fall right off of me! Also, don't say walmart or target..:-\ Just tell me what kind of bra I should wear! Thanks

GAP has really good bras, and they'll fit you and find the best bra for you! and they're very inexpensive!!!

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Theres this guy at my school,im totally crushing on,and we've talked alot.But i cant seem to get him to like me.How do i get him to notice me more,and come up to me and start talking instead of me going up to him?

maybe.... a wink or smile.
smiles always work
Then, he'll get the hint that u like him, and he might want to talk to u more
HOPE i helped,
SAM
p.s. HEY JENNY

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Im 14/Female and i havnt had my period yet. But i discharge...its heavy (been heavy) since maybe october. Not all the time though. Is it normal for it to be yellowish white? Because i will be in school sometimes and i will discharge and i will always look down to see if i had my period and i dont but its scary. When i do get my period and if im in school will it just come out when it wants to (like people could see it) that would be embarresing! Please Help Ladies! i rate high and give feedback!!!! Thank U

totally normal
u will probably discharge for 6 months ruffly. Then, come ur period. And it doesnt take one drop for people to notice

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ok hi lets be straight up here:

my friend treats her bf like poo and he treats her like a queen. behind her back, hes real flirty wit me. for some reason. and its been like a month ago since this started, but i love him. and i can barely hide it. i dance with him when shes not there, i dream about him, i daydream about him....its like i seriously need him. i dont know what to do either. hes a better friend to me than his gf is, if that helps...

try to make this guy realize he needs to brake up w/ his gf, w/o really telling him to do so.Then, you can tell him u love him...and then you guys could probably go out! =D
Hope i helped,
SAM

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16/f
I'm extremely shy, and I've never had a boyfriend, or a kiss. I want a boyfriend.. should I continue to be shy, do guys think it's cute? Or should I push myself to be more outgoing.. but idk how? I try to be myself, but I get so insecure, I always think people are judging me. I've had a few boys ask me out and everything.. but they were all losers, not to be mean or anything. So it's not like i've never had a chance of having a boyfriend. How do I get a decent guy to notice me?

you should act more outgoing, if you want to...who cares what other people think, if they say something let them say it because 9 out of 10, its not true! If you like how you act shy or like ur outgoing self, so be it! do what YOU want to do, not other people
guys like that
Hope i helped,
Sam

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is it normal for females to discharge everday?

yep

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hi, i just recently turned 13 and im in the 6th grade. my mom doesnt know thati sahve my legs. i've een using her razor for about 2 months. i had to just do it because everyone else was doing it! i was the only one! all the girls stared at me and it was really embarassing. me and my family are going on a cruise very soon and my legs will be showing most of the time. if she notices i dont know what to do. if she says something about it what should i say! i dont wanna say like,"well, i've been using ur razor because everyone else at shools been doing it!" shed hav this grudge. i know this is long but i'll rate. pleeeaaase help me out! i need really goos advice! i dont think i could just talk to her..i have a pretty bad relationship with her. help help!

dont tell her until the cruise and just say "u like? i did for the crise cuz i didnt want to look weird." or something like that!
hope i helped,
SAM

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Me and my boyfriend did it on the 11th (i remember because i went to my friends party afterward). The first time we did it we used protection then we took a break and did it again but didn't use protection bc we didn't have any and I know that was stupid of me. The second time we only did it for about 5-10mins. A week or so passed and I took a test to see if I was pregnant, I wasn't. On the 25th I was suppose to have my period which didn't happen. Should I be worried or whats going on plez help I can't ask my parents bc they'll never look at me again.

dont worry! when your young, your period can skip months! i know because mine did that for like 3 months! And i've never done anything!
Hope i helped,
~*~*~*SAM*~*~*~

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I am planning on highlighting my hair using box stuff.... any pointers?

if your using one of those comb in highlight thingys...dont rub the hightlight stuff IN ur hair, just let it be! my mom rubbed it in my hair and now i have a HUGE neon blonde dot in the front of my head!!!!

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im in student gov and we have to plan the spring dance. does anyone have any ideas for a theme? plz no under the sea or hawiian. thnx!

like dress in the wacky-est thing you own...if that makes sense...

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My best friends are the 2 hottest girls in school. Every guy likes them...this is the order and why guys check them out

Alex-because shes gorgeous, crazy, and outgoing
Paige-because shes pretty, down to earth, and not prude
Me-because of my personality and bc im not prude


It bothers me so much that I'm not pretty. I know having a good personality is better than everything, but Id rather look good.

So my question is:
Should I change myself *not like i havent tryed* just to be pretty? or just deal with it that im not pretty??

some day, theres going to be a guy that loves you 4 YOU not your looks...and thats the best guy out there.

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