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My mom won't let my peirce my belly, and i have wanted it for two years now. I have tryed to convince her that i want it done but she still says no! Any ideas? Please help asap!!!!!

i had this same situation. when i was 13 the belly piercings got in style. My mom wouldnt let me get one i mean all ALL all my friends had their belly pierced i was always like uhh my mom doesnt let me.. so as the years whent on i stop showin interest in it. and when i really didnt care ne more then she let me do it. But you should talk to her let her know that you want it for you because its something you like and if she says no then you tell her u respect that and just drop the subject this isnt the best advice i could give you but hey if you CANT beat them JOIN them.

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ive been with my b/f for 2 months. its both of our first relationships. he doenst know too much about girls and i feel were growing apart. his friend likes me and is tryin to get me to dump me my emphasizing what he doesnt do for me. i kinda like him but i wouldnt dump my guy for him cuz he is being greedy. its hard for my bf and i to communicate..were both kinda shy. we really need to have a heart to heart convo but im not sure how to bring up what i need in the relationship. am i taking this too seriously? were both 14. thanks in advanced!~

well when i was 14 i was in a relationship for 1yr nd 4 mon. nd we were little kids for ex. we would break up for anything and have our problems. but u know something when you think you're growing apart talk about it remember when you're in a relationship it becomes a TEAM. You BOTH need to put effort. also, the relationship has its months sometimes during the month you're all lovy-dovy other times you just want them from a distance but in the end you still like them and you want them to be your other half and as for his friend you need to tell him to back off and show respect you should tell your boyfriend about him because those arent true friends and you have to look out for your boyfriend. but if its too much hasle then you know what mama then be single and ready to mingle ;)good luck

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Well, I have this HUGE problem. I started to be friends with 4 girls, named; Jess, Rachael, Chelsey, & Mary. Well, ever since I started hanging out with them, everyone's changed, and started to hate Mary, (supposebly they've hated her for a while, but they just never told her) Mary always cuts people down for no reason, at all! It really makes me mad, she'll pick on homosexuals and people who aren't PERFECT. But she isn't either. She'll say that all these popular guys like her, when she's not popular at all, and they wouldn't pay attention to her. Well, we got into a fight the other day because I was "ignoring" her all day. I seriously don't know what to do! When I'm around her it's always like I'm not paying enough attention to her. I'm her only friend, and it makes me mad, because I feel like I'm losing my 3 best friends, and I don't want that to happen. I don't want to be Mary's friend, but I just don't know how to break it off with her. Help? Please.

You may be Mary's friend but i dont think she considers you the same way for example the way im with my best friend is totally different i dont have to pretend to her or make her think all these popular guys like me.. nd Mary seems to be a little fake with you and if she makes fun of peoples who arent perfect then homegirl hasnt really stepped into the reall world cus i mean no one's perfect. So mama all i can tell you is that you shouldnt stop being her friend but back off a little because who you hang out with is how others are going to consider you. So talk to her and if she doesnt change then keep a distance. i mean u do got what 3 other best friends who people actually like.

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SRY THIS IS LONG ILL RATE A 5 TO ANY1 WHO ANSWERS IT!!!

okay..im really confused and have no idea what to do...im stuck between 2 guys...the one guy i went out with for about 8 months and we recently broke up about a month and a half ago...well all of a sudden after a month of not talking to me he calls me and says he misses me and wants to get back together with me...the other guy i went out with about a year and a half ago...we have been good friends ever since we broke up...and he recently had a gf but broke up with her bc he liked me and wants to go out with me...i dont know what to do bc i like both of them sooo much and it's so hard...i thought it was going to b easy bc the one guy i thought we werent going to talk to again...SOMEONE HELP PLEASE!!

well i've been in those situations plenty of times and the most i can tell you is to first take a deep breath now the 2nd thing is that remain single as long as you're not "attached" to any of them then you are free to date whom ever you want. Go on a couple of dates with one and then the other write down what you liked about each after the date and who ever has more than fairly and obviously you like ;) good luck let me know how it goes..

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Hi all I need help My wife and I have been married for 28 years have a good relationship but we have a few problems. one is when I play softball in the summer she does not like it when all the guys get together and drink beer or go back to the bar for a beer, I have to tell you that I am not that fond of beer but it is fun to get together after, I find myself just leaving after the game just to avoid a fight with her is it a major thing that I would like to stay for a quick beer and just hang around I personally do not see anything wrong but she hates it.. what should I do thanks...

Hey.. Well im not married or close to being but i can tell you that your wife is a little insecure at times .. so why dont you invite her to your games n let her give you a little support and take her out with your guys .. once she sees that you just want to hang out then she'll let loose ;) good luck !

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