I just want to help people and make sure that they don't make the same mistakes I did.
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If you're still stuck on an ex who has a new g/f, are you as pathetic as you feel? (which is very pathetic) (link)
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No ur not patheic but u have got to get over him. It wont be easy but you can do it if you set ur mind to it. trust me I know how u feel.
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I'm a 16 year old girl. Lately I have been really distant and detached from everything, and I don't know what makes this attractive or if the moons are aligned or what, but all of the sudden I'm getting all of this attention from guys at school. Any other time I'd be thrilled to death, but right now I'm just kinda like, "Eh." The guys that have professed their feelings, indirectly or through my friends, are great as friends, but I'm just not interested in them in a romantic way. A month ago I'd even be happy to go out on a date with whomever, but now I want to be boyfriend-less and have a good time hanging with my friends and concentrating on school.
The one guy I do have a little bit of interest in is currently into someone else.
How do I turn these guys down without hurting their feelings or making an awkward situation? I still want to hang around with them with my friends, just not in one-on-one sessions.
Ugh. (link)
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You in a phase I went through it to. But dont detach urself from everyone because once u get out of that phase they would have ditched u and wouldn't be ur friends anymore. But as for the guy thing just tell them plain and simple that ur not intrested and that maybe in the future u may be. Tell them u still want to be friends.
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Ok, I don't wanna sound brutal or anything, but my BFF (let's call her Emma) is so freakin' boring. I'm getting into going to parties, dances, and other fun stuff. Emma is the total opposite. She'll sit at home, watching TV, or sitting on her computer for 5 hours. I really feel like she's holding me back. What should I do? (link)
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Try and talk to her. Get her to come to some of the parties and movies and things u are going to. If you've been friends for a long time dont let her go just because ur moving on. Friends are forever remember that.
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I want to make my best friend a care package to cheer her up because that's just the sort of thing we do for each other. I guess I should put candy in it and maybe some fun little toys but I want unique little fun things, not stupid redundant little things that aren't really that fun. Anything you can think of that's surprisingly entertaining yet fits in a lunch bag? (link)
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Try and put some jokes in there or put in little things that ur friend likes. but you could also with the added little things ur friend likes put in her fav candy and a teen magazine and/or u can give a pic of a whole bunch of hot guys.
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I wish I could. . but we have to sit w/ our classes. . ugh so bad I know .. we r in 6th grade and we cant sit where we want!!!! It sucks (link)
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Maybe it will change in the future. When i was in 6th grade they assigned us seats but it changed during the middle of the year. Maybe it will happen or give the teacher/teachers a suggestion about where we should sit where u want to sit.
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I'm studying up on telepathy and telekinesis. I know this is highly doubtful, but does anybody know anything about these subjects? I know what they are and they ARENT psyhic situations. They are simply part pf physical reality, although you don't touch while performing telekinesis. I just want to know...has anybody ever witnessed these phenomenons or do any of you know of...or experienced anything such as this. I want to learn how to do this myself...somebody please help if you can. Even if you don't have advice for me, please just let me know whether you believe this stuff can happen or not...I want more opinions. Thank You. (link)
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Yes, I belive in this stuff. I think anything is possible if you belive in it and in yourslef. Ive tried it and well here's what u can try: Relax and concrate on the object u want to move but start with something easy and light down do anything big becuase it would strain ur mind. Don't give up if it doesn't wokr keep on tryin and beliveing.
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Ok, so ill make this as short as possible, theres this guy at school that i see in the halls everyday and when i walk by him he stares at me a lot and i stare at him a lot, (im a guy). i think he might be gay too but im scared to find out cus he hangs out with all these majoryly homophobic ppl and i dont know if he might be str8 or not. what should i do? (link)
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I say go for it. So what if he has friends are like that it just means that they are not openminded about stuff like this. Talk to him in private and if you can't get the words out then kiss him. If he likes u then thats awesome for u but if he doesn't then ask him not to tell anyone about what happened and try to just be his friend but hey at least u got a kiss out of it.
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You need to answer this really quick because Its almost time to go to school!! Alright well I am thinking of asking this kid out, but Im not sure if he likes me. . and well I just want to get over w/ it so I wont be obsessing over somone who doesnt even like me so I wanna find out and I rlly like him so much I need to do thi I am afraid of gettin my heart broken, but if he doesnt like me o well. . Do oyu think Im making the right decision? I mean I want to, but I've known him for like 4 mounths anyways, but I dont know alot alot about him. . I know hes a nice person, very funny, and hes a total hottie. . Well hurry and answer! PLEASE PLEASE PLEAsE!!
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Dear Trixie,
If you heart feels strongly about this then go for it what do u have to lose. If he doesn't accept what ur asking then go and find another guy. Always remember that there are plently of guys out there.
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I haven't had a boy friend yet but I feel like I could just pick any boy and have sex with them but i'm afriad to ask to hook up with the guy.
I just REALLY REALLY REALLY!!!!!!!! need sex do you think i'm desperate HELP ME (link)
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Why don't you just masterbate since u can't seem to be able to find a guy. But picking up any guy and you don't know him could be disatrious like u could get aids or something else. When u want a guy like that chose carefully and try to get to know him before u try anything like that.
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Why can't he see all the signs I try to make whenever he looks at me I try to look back and make eye contact but he always turns away too quickly. . i really love him! I cantt ake my eyes off of him. . and soemtimes I think he gets annoyed because I stare at him so much. . I just melt wheneerI try to go talk to him I cant do it. . im too nervous I dont have anything to say I men we could talka bout his football. . ugh and well I dont think hed like me. . and Im so negative. . Are his looks of anger? or for love? I dont understand if he likes me or not. . I rlly like him and I wish I could have a chance with him. . we never get to talk anyways except 4 lunch but he is with all his friends. . and so I just want to atleast be his friend! My life is so horrible MAKE IT STOP! HELP ME! Iw ant to ask him out. . should I I mean I have known him 4 4 or 5 months already. . but I only know that hes funny, sweet & really cute. .HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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You should try and send him a note and ask him to meet u somewhere so you can talk in private maybe then it would be better to talk without anyone around. And about the lunch thing ask if you can sit with him and his friends and just try to talk. You never know till you try hon.
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What do you do when you've been dissed by the one guy you really really like? You tell him something and your happy and he wants you to stop being happy because he's annoyed. Is that being dissed or is he just stating his mind?
Need to know,
Rose Masaki (link)
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Id say u have been dissed. tell me who this guy is so I can beat him up for u ~_^ just playn rose.
Raven
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ok so this is the problem a month ago tommorow i started dating this guy. he treats me like a saint. he says he loves me and his brother and father tell me how good i am for him.in fact that after his life went downhill, im the only thing to make him happy, but im unhappy. im not physically attracted to him. and i kno thats shallow, but he likes to be very physical. today this guy i really like asked me out, i said yes w/o thinking. i really dont want ot hurt the guy im with now. and i refuse to cheat. im so confused and hurting inside like u would not believe. he did nothing to deserve this, its just i felt like i was smothering. maybe im wrong. i kno i am, that i should be able to make myself love him the way he does me, but i cant... i just cant. god please help me, and tell me what to do. im soo confused (link)
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Tell him U need some space once ina while try and tell him how ur feeling. In a relationship trust is one of the most important things. U can't make urself love someone when ur heart is telling you not to. Heres my main advice listen to your heart and not ur head.
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My ex boyfriend dumped me over about 2 months ago and im still hung up on him. Even though he's moved on. I really want to get back together with him and I can't stop thinking of him, and he doesn't even notice me anymore. What do I do?
SL (link)
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Dear SL,
If he's moved on try to get over him. It's obivouis he's not worth ur time if he doesn't even know ur there. Just remember there are plaently of people out there who would want you. It may take time and life is short just try ur best.
Hope this helps.
Silver Lilly
P.s. do u know u have the same intainals as me?
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I have a boyfriend, David. His ex-girlfriend is my best friend. I made the mistake of allowing him to come over while she was over. I know that he has no feelings for her what-so-ever, but she likes him. She was hanging all over him. I couldn't get her to stop.Now she is saying how she wants him back, she won't get him, but how do I get her to leave us alone without being mean? (link)
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Try showing to ur friend how well u and ur boyfreind are together. Or try telling her that there is another guy out there waiting for her and she shouldn't be hung up on someone who doesn't like her back.
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