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My name is Amanda. I am 17. I love helping people out since i can't help myself and i dont think anyone else can either. If i seem like a bitch its because i say how i feel and i really dont care what you think about it. I dont change myself for NO ONE. If you dont like me, then tough shit cuz i dont care!

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i am 5 feet tall exactly. i weigh 135 pounds. is this overweight?

yea just a little bit .. the average for your height is like 100 - 115 .. sorry hunn ! -Amanda

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Hey I've got this faker stealing my pictures and pretending to be me, and its really getting on my nerves. How do I go about telling her about it without lashing out too much?

well you should tell her to stop and that your sick of her using your pictures as her and she should use her own pictures not somebody elses .. but if it gts out of hand it is claled identity theft and that is a crime. but it is a different story if you let her do it .. hope i helped - Amanda

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I cut myself. I've been cutting for about half a year. I've never had a problem hiding it or anything. Just recently I've been trying to stop. I know its bad. My problem is that I have P.E. starting 2nd semester (in January) and I don't know how to hide the scars (I'm going to have it 2nd period if it helps). My parents don't know, and I don't want them to know either. We have to wear uniforms so I don't know how I'm gonna pull this off. Also, bracelets and jewelry aren't allowed. Any ideas? Thank you.

try to use cover up or something thats really all you can do if you cant wear bracelets.. or buy some scar remover stuff .. hope i helped - Amanda

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Aight... There is this girl that i am extremely attracted to... We have similar intrests, we go to the same school....But i dont think she is interested as i am.. I mean i know she is cool with me and im cool with her i just want to Up it... What the hell shall i do?

hang out with her more .. maybe she will come around and like you.. or just tell her how you feel and see what she says .. hope i helped - Amanda

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I've just discovered Good Charlotte when i heard "Predictalbe". It's like my favorited song EVER! But i'm wondering if the ther songs on the cd are as good, or better. If anyone has the cd, tell me if it was good. Thanks!

that is one of their best cdsz .. i listen to it every day i love it ! all the songsz are GREAT !

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Ok .. i SUCK at cooking.. i try SO hard to bake cookies, cakes, and brownies but i cant they taste soo bad!! idk wat to do.. PLEASE HELP!

i used to be like that but not really anymore .. i am taking a class everyother week in school .. its what i do and ive learnt so much and you should see if your town has any classes like that or something .. or just keep trying im sure you will get better at it =P hope i helped - Amanda

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do like blonds .. do like they really have more fun ?! please tell me !! i need to noe for my homeworkkkkkkkkkk =p

uhh i dont really think soo .. i dont think your haircolor matters wheather you havve fun or not ?

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well this kid and i have been on and off for 3 years. its kinda hard to admit, but ive always been the one to hurt him. wenever we liked e.o somehow or another i end up going out with another guy, and kinda just leaving him hanging. he has always been good about it, and never leaves me. well this time we have had something for about 2 months, but we arnt dating. this time i really like him a lot, but i wanted to take it slow and not date him until im ready and sure that my feelings wont change, cuz i dont wanna hurt him again. so we were fine, then theres this girl who used to be my best friend, and we havnt talked in months, cuz of something stupid, but now we hate e.o. he was cuddling with her, and now just told me he was breaking things off with me to see wat its like to be with her. he said he still cares for me a lot, and that we have somehting special and that wont ever change, and that he just needs some time to see what else is out there, since he has been liking only me for 3 years. i want to let him go so badly, cuz ive done it to him so many times, but it hurts so bad, expecially cuz its with someone i hate the most and he knos it. i jst wish he wouldnt leave me, even tho i kno he will be back, i kinda feel like a backup, but i keep thinking about how much ive hurt him. i dont know what to do, ive been crying for 3 days, since he told me he needed to do this. ugh please help me if you have ne idea wat i should do.

i thynk you should follow your heart do whut you feel is ryte .. i realy dont kno whut to say ive never been in that positionn ... but hope i helped email me if you need any more helpp ..
xOox MAndah

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well i was going out with my boyfriend for six months and on the first date he went up my shirt so we have always gone fast. on the fourth date he came to my house and we were kissing the way down to the basement and so when we got down there i hadda go up to close the door and when i got back doown he was naked and he started kidding me while taking off my cloths and stuff. and he fingered me, ate my funny i have him a handy and a blow job. and then we had sex. i love it (HIS DICK IS HUGE!) but then two months later after having sex 17 more times he dumpoed me and i started going out with this other guy even though i like the first guy but i had sex and stuff with the second guy and then my first guy started liking me so i started cheeting on my bf with him and i dont know what to do. help please!!!!!

well lets see .. you need to make up your mind first .. then you need to see who is worth it cuz it sound like to me that the first guy only used you fr sex cuz then he dumped you .. you shouldnt cheat on anybody no matter whut it just shouws your unfaithful .. but anyways you shouldreally make up your mind about which guy you wnt to be with .. like make a list to see who is better or sumthing. hope i helped !xOox MAndah

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i hate my life .. i dont think ill ever beh good enough for this guy i like .. i just wish he new how much i liked him .. then mayb he would give meh a a chance .. i kno im onlii 14 nd gunnah b 15 inna month buh i rly rly like him .. i just wish i was good enough .. and he just ended a relationship with his girl .. and now that hes available .. i wanna go out with him nd he flirts with meh nd everii thin .. buh its not goin ne where .. i just need some advise on what to do so .. What should i do ??

well tell him that you like him .. dont tell him you love him if you didnt already .. when he flirts flirt back and shit .. start hangin out with him more show him that you like him alot and want to go out and let him get to kno you more to see if he likes you .. just be yourself when your around him dont act all fake and shit .. act natural .. let it happen naturally ..just be more open around him hint it to him that your interested andim sure your good enuff for him if he was really worth it he would go for whats on the inside not the outside.. hope i helped tiff

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i cant find any eyeliner that will stay on after 3rd period!! can anyone tell me any brands or how to make what ive got stay on?

the eyeliner i use is avon it works wicked good and isnt that expensive =] hope i helped xOx ` ManDaHh «3

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Okay.. well im 16 yrs. old and im in the 11th grade. My problem is that I have been with 42 guys sexually.. I can't seem to say no! I do it to please them cause I know thats what they want! I even do it when I don't even want to or when I just want a guy to like me back.. but they just take advantage of me! Do you think im a hoe or slut? What should I do?

No .. i do not thynk you are a hoe or a slut .. if guy only likes you for sex then he is using you and you shouldnt let a guy use you lyke that .. but if you want to have sex then have it but your only 16 and being with 42 guys sexually is a lil too much .. hope i helped !you can IM me if you need anythyng elsee KanDii LiipSz xO
x0ox MAndah

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okay..im so like..head over heals in love with my boyfriend jeremy..but the thing is..hes black and im white..which is NO big deal to me and all because i think that it dont matter as long as your inlove! well..my parents would like..kick me out of the house if they new i was dating a black guy..and now i really dont know what to do because i dont want to do this to my parents..but i love jeremy to death..weve been going out for over 5 months and i dont want to end it at all..but like one of my best friends is saying how like she wont be around me because she dosent like the way he has treated me..but he has changed! so i really dont know what to do..and like i cant talk to my mom about it because she would FLIP!..if yo where me what would you do?

well if you really love him then stay with him .. your parents cant stop you from seeing somebody .. they may object at first but im sure once they get to know him they might like him .. as for your friend .. have him prove to her that he has changed .. make like a date when you all can hang out and she can get to kno him better .. well IM m3h on AIM if you need anything else alryte sO kiiSsaBle xO ..

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Okay well me and this one guy have been seeing each other for awhile and im sure hes going to ask me out soon just because he said he had to ask me something really important this week but i dont know what i want to say because hes 3 1/2 years older than me... im saying hes a real sweetie and stuff its just i dont want him to pressure me into doing stuff i dont want to do.. i was just wondering what u would do if u were in my place...

well if i was in your place i would go out with the guy if you really like him .. and see how it goess .. and if he pressures you into doin stuff then simpkly tell him no i dont want to and if he forces you to then you obviously do sumthin about it lol .. well just dont do anything you dont want to doo =] hope i helped xOox Mandah

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r u a whore?

nope imma virgin .. why do you ask ?

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all my friends got with or hooked up with somebody . except for me .. i dont know how to move my lips or anything .. and what if i did and i was bad .. ? . i would be totally embarresed .. cna somebody help me please!!

well .. i am 15 years old and i havent had a boyfriend or my first kiss yet you really cant teach some one how to kiss so i guess when you are ready to do it then you will .. ad if sumone doesnt like you because your a bad kisser than they are stupid cuz i bet you are a great person and you get tons of guys but your probably just a late bloomer like me =] hope i helpedd .. IM me if you need anythin else !

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Hey Guys! Well I just moved into a new house and I have painted my room pink! I love the color! Just to give you an idea its the color of peptobismol! (lol.) I love all colors (especailly pink and black) and I was wondering if anybody had any ideas on decorating (please dont leave me any messages saying do what u wanna do. i want real ideas) Tell me anything from shelves to posters! Whatever helps! Thanks in advance! -Sonnie

well if you do like black for your doorframes and window frames then it will look good and also for your bed put like a black comforter and pink sheets and pillowcases it will look awesome and like black shelves and stuff ! good luck hope it turns out nice !

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ok i just started high school a few days ago and its really hard to make friends b/c they all pretty much came from all the same schools and everyone already has friends and groups already and i dont... ive met some ppl but we arent like close or anything so what should i do

you should just start talkin to people .. they will want to be your friend .. you can still be friends with sumone that is in a group .. just try to be friendly to people and less shy .. i mean it is hard for me to make friends too cuz i am VERY shy lol .. hope i helped xOxO MAndah

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This question is gonna be long so moderators, please don't delete this question. I need to explain myself a little bit before I can explain my question. I'm a 14 year old girl, I'm 5'6, and I weigh 113 pounds. For all my life, I thought I was ugly or below average looking. I have never had a boyfriend but now I think guys are gonna start liking me and then I might get a boyfriend. Well lately, I've been getting great comments like I'm hot or really pretty. Today, I went to the beach with my mom and my sister because we had "to bond more" lol yeah right. When I was walking to the car to go home, a few African Americans and white guys hit on me lol. They said "Damn girl you're fine and you gots a nice ass and legs". After what happened today, I'm feeling more confident about what I look like. I'm going into the 8th grade soon and I think I might get a few boyfriends during the school year. I am done growing in height wise and I think my beauty phase is coming in lol because now people think I'm hot and stuff. Ok for my question, do you think I might get my first boyfriend this year because of what has and is happening to me? If this question isn't too difficult for you, I would really appreciate it if you can answer it. Thanks

you may or you may not .. i am 15 and goin in the 10 grade and i havent had a REAL relationship yet but i have had boifriedsz before .. but it really depends on what the guys are looking for .. hope i helped ! xOxO MAndah

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I have a lot of cool sayings in my profile. Most in whick I made up. Every time I look at me friends profile, she has all my same sayings in mine. I get so frusterated! Now, she just IMed me witrh her advice colum user name and it is almost the same as mine! Should I tell her how I feel? Please, I need help fast!

yeah .. you should tell her you really dont like her taking your stuff and copying you .. she might get mad but she`ll eventually get over it .. hope i helped ! xOxO MAndah !

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