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okay heres the downlow. Whenever my boyfriend is around girls he always flirts with them, even if i'm right there. then when i talk to him about he'll either say i never did that or oh i'm sorry i won't do it again, but he never changes! I don't know what i should do. Part of me wants to break up with him and another part of me doesn't! So what should i do!!??

I'm 13,Female

Guys can be like this sometimes & it really sucks. I know you deserve better so you've got to talk to him but be really tough. Tell him this is really hurting you & he can deny it all he wants, it's happening & you want it to stop. You have a right to let him know how you feel & he should in NO way be doing this to you. I know it might be hard but really think about what's best for you. Breaking up with him might be hard at first but if he gets out of hand, it may be the right thing to do. Good luck!!

♥ Montana

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ive never made out with a guy im 14
and i dont know how can any one help me like what do i do and how and please no rude comments and answers

thx in advance

Making out is pretty much long, drawn out & passionate kisses. It's pretty much a "go-with-the-flow" thing. Everyone kisses different so the guy you kiss won't be able to tell that it's your first time. Just take it slow & move your mouth in a rythmic motion similar to his. Guys lead when it comes to kissing so just kind of follow. The only way to get good is practice so just take advantage of the time you have with your boyfriend. Good luck!

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hey does anyone know a different type of "blog" journal thing besides myspace and xanga.. i want something different from everyone else.. but kinda along the same.. sorry if its confusing ill rate high!

Here are some of the best "blogs" out there. I *ed the ones that I have used personally.

GreatestJournal.com*
LiveJournal.com*
DiaryLand.com
Blogger.com*
DeadJournal.com
Caleida.com*

♥ Montana

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anybody know the name of teh song that goes i need a dime thats top of the line cut face small waste with a big behind? and who sings it :)

thx

It's called Badd & it's sung by the Ying Yang Twins.

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how do you style side-swept bangs? like would you straighten them, or what. i don't have them, but i want them. and would it look bad if you didn't style them?

Well i have side swept bangs & basically they are really easy to style. You just have to wear your hair in a side part all the time which is the downside. I dunno what kind of hair texture you have but I take a straightening iron and just straighten mine. If you have curly/wavy hair they WILL look kind of weird if you don't straighten them everyday but if you have an iron it's really easy to & it only takes like 2 minutes. Good luck! Hope I helped & if you need anymore hair advice, just drop one in my inbox.

♥ Montana

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hey, i'm a fourteen year old and i've never kissed a girl in my life, idk how, and i'm too shy to do it, a lot of people think i'm good looking and i've had a lot of gf's, i've just been too shy to do it, and i don't know how, so, yeah, any tips?

Since you've had alot of gf's, I'm sure you're experienced in the relationship department. The next girlfriend you have, wait for the perfect moment. It might be in a movie, or before you guys leave. For a first kiss, try to make it somewhere private, it'll be less nervewrecking. Go about 90% of the way & then let her come the other 10%. If she doesn't then just shrug it off. Most girls love to show affection that way but if you'd feel more comfortable just ask her if you can kiss her. As far as technique, it's really just a go with the flow thing but if you want, you can google kissing tips. There's plenty of like articles on there that explain like how to tilt your head the right way etc. lol. Good luck!!

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what are good types of hair gel/moose for when you scrunch up your hair and it makes it look curly/wavy
i rate HIGH!!!!!!! plz help!!

LA Looks makes INCREDIBLE sports gel. It has a really strong hold so your hair won't frizz at all. They have different levels of strongness depending on your hair texture. Good luck!

♥ Montana

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hey how i asked u for sites of where i can get backgrounds i am NOT a paid use so how do i get backgrounds? my friend had a non paid account and had a background from this site but i don`t know where they are on the site and how to apply them. plz help.

Those sites allow you to get backgrounds as a free user. You don't need to be a paid user to use them. Just find the background you like && save it on your computer. Then go to www.tinypic.com && upload it. Then get the image URL & paste it in the "background url" spot in Column Settings.

♥ Montana

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I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO.... i dont have a shirt to match my jeans! help.... what color looks best with jeans... FASHION IS EVERYTHING!

Jeans look pretty good with any color. Try to coordinate your fashion with your mood. For example, if you're feeling happy/anxious, try wearing a vibrant/bold color like red or hot pink.

♥ Montana

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okay the problem is when i sweat and stuff my hair gets REALLY frizzy, almost like in the movies when someone gets elecricuted! it sticks up everywhere, and everyone else has perfect hair lying flat on their head while dripping with sweat, and even the slightest bit of sweat and i turn into a puff ball or something! i have soccer tryouts tonight at 4-6 and the rest of the week, and then i have a soccer tournament saturday and sunday, does anyone have some ideas on how i can tame my hair so i dont look like i've been elctricuted while i'm playing soccer?! pleeeeeease help, this has been happening forever and i am sick of it. i rate 5's for answers that arent stupid or unhelpful. ♥

Try John Frieda's Frizz-Ease! It works like a CHARM && locks moisture out. You can also use gel & scrunch your hair so it looks curly. Your hair won't frizz if you do that. If you go to Walgreens or a place similar, they have a WHOLE section of hair serums that will keep your hair FRIZZ FREE! =)

♥ Montana

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hey where cab i get layouts/backgrounds for my advice column? thanks

NuthinButNet.net has some really cute backgrounds to use! Also, Advicenators provides some backgrounds for you && if you look through them, you can find some pretty adorable ones. Kawaiiness.com has some really cute ones too! Those are pretty much the two basic sites where I get my backgrounds from. As far as layouts go, there isn't a site that I know of to get Advicenators layouts. I just pretty much tampered with the code && made mine the way it is. If you're a paid user like me, you can just make a new style && mess around with the CSS.

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hi my name is lindsay and i was wonderin if u can help me get a new screen name i want somthing with Rock,Lupi

Hey Lindsay! Yes, I'd love to help! Let's see here:

Rock
- xO LiL rOcKeRr
- x gUiTaRsZ r SxC
- r0cK o0n xx0o
- tUrN uP tHe AmP xo

Lupi
- xO LiL LuPi
- Hell0 iM LuPi
- oMg iTsZ LuPi
- x0x0 luPi

Xo
- xO hUgsZ n KisSez
- LoTsZ 0oF lOvE oX
- eX o0h eX o0h

Hollister
- x0o hOlLiStEr cO
- i x3 hOlLiStEr
- hOlLiStEr gRrL x3
- bOrN 4 hOlLiStEr x0

Hope I helped! Good luck hun!

♥ Montana

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hey im trying to save up money to to something to my room, not redo it like paint and stuff, just something to add to it, my room is pink and gray and i share it with my sister so if you have any ideas please let me know



p.s we both really like music(rock) and art and girl things. . . thanks :)

I've got some ideas for you that don't require much money:

Buy an inexpensive bulliten board to hang in your room. You can decorate it, add all sorts of cute designs & use it to post important information for the two of you like parties etc.

Take a giant piece of poster board & make a collage on it. Use pictures of you and your friends & cut outs from magazines.

If you want to get some new bedding, I reccomend PB Teen. They're stuff CAN be on the pricey side so0o make sure it's something you really want. If you're interesting in some bedding on the cheaper side, I reccomend Target because believe it or not, they have a really cute selection!

You could also google "DIY projects" (do it yourself projects) because you'll FIND tons of links to sites with "how to's" where you can learn to make your own bean bags, rugs etc.

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I go to a day camp, and there is this really nice boy there. His name is Josh, and I like him alot! I dont know what to say though. Im not sure if like he has ever had a girlfriend before and maybe he wont like me back and will never talk to me again. Please tell me what I should do!


-Britt

Right now, I reccomend just getting to know him as much as possible without revealing your true feelings. Talk to him, befriend him & spend plenty of time with him. Remember, don't be too clingy, just try to get a friendship going then maybe it'll turn into more.

♥ Montana

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How do I eat the carrots out of my garden. Somtimes I think they get lonley so I would try to eat them so they can hang out with my tummy and my insides. But I also dont want the poor carrot to get hurt! What should I do??!! Hellpp!! My carrotts need somebodyy!!!!!!



HELPPPPP

Maybe you could plant more vegetables to keep them company. Just an idea! :]

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hey i have pretty straight hair. How do I make it wavy like you see in magazines????
thanks

You have a few options:

1. When your hair is wet, scrunch gel in it. It will look crispy but it's great for "on-the-go" waves.

2. If you wear your hair in braids (with hairspray in them) for about 24 hours, take them out & then re-spritz hair spray, your hair will stay like that.

3. Buy an inexpensive curling iron & make soft curls. Your hair will wave slightly & it'll look very cute!

♥ Montana

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I was just wondering if anyone has used the Remington Straightner, the one that straightens wet hair. If so,does it actually work? Is there mcuh damage? Is 25-30 dollars a good price for it? I think I'll be getting the 2 inch one since my hair is longer & it is only 5 dollars more. And how straight does your hair get? Thanks in advance! i rate

I use a similar straightener that straightens wet hair & yes, like any straightener it does tend to dry your hair out. That's about the same price as mine & yes, they are VERY effective. I reccomend waiting till your hair is "damp" instead of "soaking wet" because it'll straighten faster. To keep your hair healthy, make sure you get a "leave-in" conditioner that will moisturize. Also, I reccomend getting Garnier Fructis (sp?) Sleek & Shine products. They are all EXCELLENT!

♥ Montana

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theres a song that goes like:

come my lady
come come my lady
your my butterfly
sugar baby

who sings this and what is it called?

It is called "Butterfly" & is sung by "Crazy Town"

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me and my friend want to decorate our lockers to make them look really awesome but we want a bunch of ideas! anything girly and colorful attractive to the eye but no furry animal print any ideas or sites??? thanx bunches!!!

A really cool idea for a locker that'll make it look girl & colorful is to take a bunch of magazines like Teen Vogue & CosmoGirl & cut out random pictures of models, drawings or anything in there. Then make a colage (sp?) by gluing them overlapping slightly on a piece of paper. You can use it to cover one side of your locker or do each side. It's really fun & it'll add some spice!

♥ Montana

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hello everyone. i was just wondering because i have the code for aligning my paragraph... here it is:

and i don't understand wheredo i insert the text & where do i insert my choice of alignment. (left, right, center)

thanks for all your help, i rate.

You insert your text anywhere after the code & you insert your alignment of choice in replacement of the ?. Hope I helped! If you need any more assistance, let me know. =]

♥ Montana

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