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My name is Marisa. You can call me Risa. I absolutely love my friends & sports.Friends, Basketball & Softball are basicly my life. My bestestfriend in the whole entire world is Laura Jane =). i love her soo much =). shes always there for me when i need help. I'm willing to help anyone out so if you need help with anything or have any questions don't be afraid to ask me. I won't bite I promise =) hehe. Well if you wanna IM me my screenname is Sweett xo Summer - AIM. I'm basicly always on. If you have any questions IM me or leave something in my inbox. ♥

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I just got this shirt and it says "Dude, STFU" on it (cool points if you know where it's from). Well my mom said she doesn't mind if I wear it but my dad wouldn't like it. She told me to tell him STFU stands for something else but I can't come up with anything. Any help?

Say its a band =) lol. or say it stands for
So totally fabulous & unique or something haha. i dont know good luck with himm =)
♥ Risa

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Okay i'm 12/f about to turn 13 in 2 weeks =] ! I really like this boy and yesterday i went to his house to hang out and i d k if this is slutty or what ? Well we was over there watching the Grudge and i was just laying by him, then we like moved to the floor and all the sudden he leaned over and we started making out. I like got on top of him and we like started having dry sex with are clothes on. Well he knew my turn on spot is my neck so he was kissing my neck and i just got really in the mood so he rolled over on top of me and we kept on doin it. Well then we stopped cause we heared someone upstairs so we were just laying there. And i let him finger me. And i was giving him a hand job all night !! Like every minute. Then hes like how bout you suck it for meee ? and i was like omg i never sucked one before soo yeah.. but we went downstairs but then we came back up after we did some more stuff.. okay now heres where it gets bad. We were laying on the couch and i like sucked his dick about 3 times and he wanted moreee. but we didn't have a condom . Well he fingered me again and left a huuuge hickey on my neck. Wow thats alot of stuf. Do you think thats slutty and just give me some advice on what i just told you . I feel slutty and guilty and i feel like hes useing me.

Yeah uhm. I'm sorry to say but that is pretty slutty. Your only 12 & your doing stuff like that. Your gonnah end up getting hurt. Espesically if your feeling guilty. You deffently need to stop.
♥ Risa

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for that show on mtv; 8th and Ocean, why doesnt it play anymore?? i loved that show but it never seems to play anymore. did it quit or something? thanks .xox.

Yeah i love that show too =) The season ended though =(
♥ Risa

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Is there a screen name or messaging system on AIM where you can type in the SN and leave a message so that when that person signs on, they can recieve it. I remember using it a long time ago. Does it still exist? Thanks.

Uhm not that I know of. You can send an email to the person. Cause now your screenname is an email address too & then when they sign on it will say one new email.
♥ Risa

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i was wondering if anyone knew how to add cellphone number to your buddylist so i cant text them from my computer.
thanks =)

All you do is is put like +16032584562 or whatever
- 1 just being there. idk what for
- 603 being the area code
- 258 4562 being the phone number
♥ Risa

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Okay soo I'm a 15 year old female. I've been going out with my boyfriend for just over a month now. I love spending time with him! but i see him more as a friend than anything else. When we kiss there just arent any sparks. I'm afraid of hurting him, but i think if i stay with him ill just hurt him more later on... any ideas?

Ok well if you don't like him. Then you shouldn't be going out with him. I know you don't want to hurt him but just tell him you'd rather just be friends. Good Luck =)
♥ Risa

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i no this is weird to ask but
i get perinoid at times and like i freak out
and im scared one of these days someone is gonna come into my house and i no its bad to say but i dont want it to happen. even tho all the doors are lock and everything thing but if someone came in would my dog be sure to hear the person??
sorry i no im weird like that
but i just need answers

Chilll out. No1 will get in your house if the doors are locked. & yes your dog will probally hear it depending on what kind of dog you have. But basicly all dogs have good hearing. so you just need to chill out a litle. =)
♥ Risa

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is it okay to swim in a pool with contacts in? or will the chlorine mess them up?

oh and if it matters...i wear O2 Optix

Well you can, just as long as you don't open your eyes. But most of my friends take them out cause they dont wanna take a chance of loosing them. But it's up to you. =)
♥ Risa

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can someone please explain the song whats left of me by nick lachey. cuz i think i understand but im not sure though just wanted to double check lo.

Ok well it's basicly about how he wants Jessica Simpson back.
♥ Risa

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Ok im starying back so i wanna make a great impression to my new class mates.So i havent gone close shopping for school so anything is ok.Im 14 and i hope that i can bring out my good vib and tho all of my bad features of myself out the door.I am over weightbut only in my bellyi have a bear belly if u will the rest of my body is thin and is ok but my face is chubby.my checks are chubby so i wanna tryt to hide all that.i need cloths that hide the fat that has collected around belly and make myself look taller.and my hair is super curly its a afro that can be tammed by mouse ,hair spray but i wanna have new styles to my self and my hair and also my make up.im a crazy out going person i love to lauph and i only have a small budget from my close i have 2 other brothers so they need cloths as well im ganna go shoping at wal-mart.jc penny and a few others im looking for a officey confy thinning cloths.but then maybe a few t shirt and jeans im happy with i wanna be kinda like a prep so cloths that last longer is great , plz i need help and thanks
-katie

You shouldn't have to do all that to make friends. Be yourself it's a whole new group of people so they shouldn't judge you. [ if your other classmates did ] Well good luck =)
♥ Risa

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it's summer and i need some extra cash for necessities. what are some jobs i could do? and if anybody suggests soemthing like cleaning/dog walking ora ntyhing HOW DO I ASK people if they want ym services? and how? like how do i say i want 4.00 an hour (or how ever many) w/out sounding demanding? what would you want to hear? and what would uw ant done around the house? or outside? whatver. what would u want to heaR? ANY ADVICE ABOUT GETTING MONEY WOULD BE GREAT

- Mowing Lawns
- Paper Route
- Cleaning Houses
- Pool Work
- Walking Dogs
- Babysitting
There's plenty of things to do. If your having trouble asking people if they want your help then post a flyer. Let people know how much money you want & what your willing to do. Leave your phone number there & hopefully you'll get some cash. Good Luck =)
♥ Risa

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Lately, my eyelids have been red and chapped. Does anyone know what could have caused this and how i can treat/prevent this? Thanks.

It's probally just a sunburn. Put Aloe on it or Lotion it should clear up. Good luck = )
♥ Risa

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Okso i died my hair a rusty color at the begining of the year and now i want to dye it again but i want it rainbow red on the bottom and a dark red on the top. my hair is originally alight brown should i dye it those colors or should i dye it something else and if i should what colors. Thanx>3

Well it's all up to you. You could always look up pictures & see how it looks before you do it. See if you like it. Good luck. =)

♥ Risa

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Lately, my eyes get all watery inside and sometimes tears drop but it's not because I'm crying - I think it might be allergies? What do you think it is and how do I stop it?

Yeahh it's most likely allergies. you could see a doctor about it. Uhmm & to stop it I would ask your doctor for medicine.
♥ Risa

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i have been working out for a few days straight.lately, my stomach has started to hurt.could this be due to working out?

Yupp. The same thing just happend to me. But now I've been doing crunches on a daily basis so I'm used to it now. It will go away.
♥ Risa

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ok so
i need to lose about 20 or more pounds
and i dont really no how to start it or anything
anyone wanna help me?!

Well you deffently have to eat healthy and exercise. Arghh. I wanna loose weight too it's so hard. Just try to pick the fruit or whatever healthier food over the junky foods. Good luck. =)
♥ Risa

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why do we cry over a guy?
when i listen to a slow jam its always remind me of the guy i likev and makes me cry so much..... why?

We cry cause we care about the people were thinking about. The song reminds you of how much you care and how you feel about the guy. I hope you feel betterrr. = )
♥ Risa

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Everytime I plug my ipod into my computer, the computer shuts off, and it wont come back on. It's starting to get really annoying and now I can't charge my ipod anymore so now I can't listen to it. I just got the computer back from being fixed and I'm too scared to try to plug the ipod back in. I asked the computer guy what was up with it and he said it was because the ipod has so much power and stuff but he didn't really tell me what I could do. Please help me!
-Jess

Uhm well I would call that computer guy & ask if it was okay to try to charge your iPod. If your too afraid to try it on your computer. Maybe one of your friends who has an iPod could let you charge it at their house every once in a while. or when you hang out with them. Good luck =)
♥ Risa

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Hi this is just a simple question. But does anybody know any good myspace layout/background websites? I know whateverlife.com and pimpmyspace.com is there any other really good ones? Thanks!

-Ashley

When your on myspace. Go to search and type in Layouts. Tons of Layout makers will be there. Theres a lot of really good ones.
♥ Risa

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How exactly does one become a famous singer?

American idol, Take singing lessons. =)
Good luck.
♥ Risa

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