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if you had sex and didnt use a comdom and you was on your period can you still get preg
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Yes! And if you don't use protection, but have him pull out, there's still a chance. There is ALWAYS a chance, even if you're on birth control and use a condom!
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19-female. This will be long and I am so sorry But I will definitely return the favor!!
This may sound crazy, but bare with me. So I have liked the same guy for like 2 years now, but he is such a jerk to me I just can't get over him and no boy has been able to get me to stop thinking about him.
WELL.. there is this guy jeff that I know who would definitely help me get over him, but I don't personally know him. I've known of him (we go to different schools) and I added him on facebook (may sound dumb) but he's adorable, I've heard he is so sweet and NOT a player at all which I need. My friend and I hung out with this guy peter last summer who is friends with jeff and my friend tried texting peter but he's been acting weird. Well then my friend messaged jeff on facebook and was like you're really cute! he didn't say anything back. My friend tried texting peter again and it kind of seems like he is scared to see us again (we only met him once) because when my friend asks him to hang out he will stop texting her but he will talk to her otherwise. So tonight she texted him and was like I was just wondering, are you like scared to hang out with us because it seems like you kind of are ( I don't think she should of said this). He didn't say anything back. were like how are we going to be able to meet Jeff! & don't think we're using peter to get to jeff, my friend likes peter! haha
well then tonight my friend had seen jeff was on facebook and she chatted him and they started talking, but from what she said it seems as though he wasn't very interested in her because he didn't ask anything about her, he just kept answering the questions she was asking so I thought he was being nice. Then he was like hey peter is here. She was freaking out like what the hell! She was like ask him why he never texted me back and then she was like and why did you tell me he was there? Well then he didn't say anything after that... I'm thinking Peter is like telling Jeff bad things about us, especially about my friend when we did nothing to him.
I really want to meet Jeff though, he seems like the perfect guy for me I just don't really want to chat or message him on facebook because he will probably see that I'm friends with the girl (my friend) who was being all weird towards him and chatting him haha. Plus I wouldn't know what to say.. I haven't been involved in any of the talking my friend decided to do it all on her own kind of making me look dumb too because she kepts saying "us" as in me and her. Should I just give it a shot and see what he says?? If he says anything? What would I say without looking dumb or even desperate thanks to my friend..
What if he didn't respond? Oh boy I'd feel so dumb!! But what if he did? Ahh what to do.. and most important what to say!! Some of my friends think he might send back to me because they think I am really pretty and his type of girl, not trying to say my friend is ugly but hey maybe it'd be worth the shot?
And keep in mind I never just randomly try to talk to guys on facebook ha ha but this guy, I just know he would be able to get my mind off the guy treating me like crap.. (link)
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Wow! That was alot to type huh? My answer won't be as long cause I have to type on my iPhone so bear with me amd my spelling. It kinda sounds like your friend might have scared him off a little bit, but nows your chance to reel him back in!! I know it's nerve wrecking and you don't want to be rejected. Nobody does... But let me ask you this: would you rather take the chance of rejection and message him? Or automatically reject yourself by not even trying? Whatdo YOU want to do? I know what your head says, i know what your heart says. Jose speaking louder to you?
If I were in yourshoes, I would take the risk. Saying hi can't hurt, and you never know. He may adore you and you might wonder how you almost settled for him!! Haha well whyever you choose, good luck and I hope you find true love.
I say drop a hello :)
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My best guy friend really likes me,b ut I like one of his best frends what do I do????????? HELP!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Just make sure thy your feelings for this guy re sincere, and if they are, I say talkto your bestfriend. If he's really your bestfriend, he'll understad. If he gets hurt, it jut means he cares. He'll be alright
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I'm an 18-year-old female and I'm really lonely. I have friends but I don't feel like they really care about me or would mind if I wasn't around. I've tried talking to them about how I feel and they don't listen. My parents are the same. I don't like my personality or how I look but I can't seem to change it. I try to be social but I just end up feeling miserable. I was diagnosed with depression and had some councilling but it just made me feel worse and when I went back to my doctor, she just sent me away with a reccomendation for more. I feel sad and isolated all the time and I don't know what to do. (link)
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You know what? This is sad. I'm going through tge same things and I'm struggling myself. I don't know you but I know everyone IS beautiful on their way amd no one you've met yet has shown you that. The reason why is you don't see it yourself. Let's be friends. I'd like to talk to you more. What do you do for stress relief?
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soo, after all the drama that has happened over the past months. I have met this new guy. His name is Mike. And hes really sweet when we're alone or texting. But recently i have noticed that around one of our friends Oscar, he tends to become much more perverted towards me. mainly towards my chest. I really dont like this side of him. So when i try to bring it up later on face to face, he tells me not to worry bout it. Why? cause we're going to talk no more. those are his exact words. Mike is like my texting buddy. And everytime i try to text him, hes like "i dont want to hurt you bye."
does he mean well(changing his attitude, etc.)? or should i give up on him?
14/f and hes 16/f (link)
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Move on!! This guy is a creep who wants to impress his friends and has no respect for you or your body! You can do better
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Okay, I know that birth control will chill your period ou t a little bit, and I understand that.
But is there something that I can take that'll make me have a period like, maybe only a few times a year?
A shot?
Medicine?
SOMETHING,
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Well a depo shot will make it so yiudont get pregnant for up to 5 years! It dramatically decreases your period, but it chooses when. You have to be careful because you can not get your period for 6 months, then three months in a row!! Scary! You should do some online research :)
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Hi, I have oral herpes and was wondering if it is possible to spread it to my partner with a cut on my lip from biting it. I am not having a outbreak right now, just wondering it its possible to spread it to them through the cut. (link)
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It will spread if it goes from your cut into their mouth, or any other open wound/area. Be careful!
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There are two boys in my life that count. One of them i love and the other i like...alot. But the one i love is in mississippi....what should i do??? (link)
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Never leave the one you love for the one you like, cause the one you like will leave you for the one they love..... Girl, you know what to do. Close your eyes, breathe deep, erase your mind, and listen to your heart.
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If someone you loved & cared about got drunk and had sex with some other girl, what would you do? (link)
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I've been in this exact situation. I really lived this guy so I wanted to make it work. But honestly I couldn't get past the hurt in my head no matter he hard I tried and I finally had move on after over a year! It's so hard. All I can say is, Can you honestly put this behind you and b happy with him amd never bring it up again? And if u thought no or had any doubt, I suggest pickig up what's left of your heart amd moving on to find someone who cam fix it... Good luck girl
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So I recently found out that my boyfriend smokes weed. We've been going out for nearly a year. I guess the reason he hasn't brought it up before is that he apparently only does it rarely, if someone else brings it.
Anyway, when I heard this, I was slightly taken aback. For some reason, it really BOTHERED me. It still kind of does. I don't smoke weed, see a need to, or even care that it exists (plus, it's illegal..). So I'm definitely not its biggest fan. However, it's something I'd say at least 50% of the teenagers in my city do (my sister included). And it didnt' really bother or worry me to know that some of my other friends smoke it. Just him. Which is what weirds me out about this situation.
So...thoughts? Comments? What should I do about this? Why do I feel this way? Should I let this get in the way of our relationship? Etc. (link)
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It's weed. Not another girl! He probably knows how you feel and was scared to let you in, amd figured it wouldn't be a big deal since he rarely does it. As someone who didn't smoke weed, I understand where you're coming from. You're taught it's wrong, and that's how it is. Coming from a stoner, it's not a big deal at all. It won't ruin your relationship and you definetly shouldn't let it get between your relatinship :) don't forget, free will
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Okay, so im 19 years old, and i just started using Tampons today...weird i know. But ive always been kinda freaked out about shoving a thing up inside of me. Dont get me wrong, i love sex, its just doing it myself that freaks me out.
So, i put one in this morning, and that went find, other than my obvious nervousness. BUT Im just curious, how long should i leave one in? Is there a way to tell?
And when i took it out and put a new one in there was no blood on the applicator. Like...does it absorb all the blood on the way out?
Also, is it okay to sleep with one in? I know u can get TSS and stuff, but any horror stories? Id really rather not use a Pad to sleep anymore. They just make me feel disgusting. Especially now that i live with my boyfriend.
Thanks so much for your help!!!! (link)
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Omg! That lady is DUMB! DO NOT ever leave a tampon in more than 5 hours. A tampon is good for 3-5 hours. You leave them in much longer, you'll probably bleed through.
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14/f
yesterday, i went to the mall with my friends/neighbors. our families are close to the point i feel really comfortable with them. so my friend's brother, nick, is what this question is about.
well, he's seventeen and really cute. he's also really smart because he goes to this really advanced school so he's only around sometimes because he lives at the school.
anyways, it was odd because yesterday he was actually really friendly towards me. like usually he is really mean to me, like he would be to his sisters. and i will admit since the last time i saw him my looks have improved.
is this change in his behavior towards me a sign that he likes me? he sees me as a sister? or he was just being nice? (link)
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He likes you :)
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Hi.
15/f
So, i think this will be kinda long, sorry.
I have recntly developed feelings for my best guy friend (lets call him Tom*). So in year 7-8 me and tom went out for about 4 months but it was really awkward and strange.We have both gone out wiht other people since then. We became best friends again last year and its been really awesome. So now i like him and he likes me, it should be as simple as too go out like my friends said but i don't want to runin our friendship by doing this, i also don't know if i WANT a boyfriend right now as I'm in year 10 this year so i have heaps of assignments etc. He also won't talk to me about his feelings because we're never really alone, we only get to talk during maths and thats not really a good place. He told my best friend a lot of stuff and she told me, but i didn't understand how instead of ignoring me for 80 minutes he could've told me everything.Apparently he never stopped liking me after we broke up in year 7 and even though he went out with other girls he never really liked them. He also told her that to him i didn't have any flaws etc.
My question is am i over complicating things too much? Sould i just go out with him and se how they go? Or am i right about it and should think it through some more? (link)
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You are right to think it through. He's probably too shy, so he tells your bestfriend thinking he can word it better than he can. I believe the relationships that last happen because people become friends first and seriously love and respect eachother. I think it would be nice to give it a try, it sounds like it will be a good thing. And if you two are good friends, you won't cheat on eachother and im sure if you break up, the friendship will last! Good luck!
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When I told my husband I was pregnant he really didn't get too excited he just kept watching tv. Then not long after that I had a miscarriage and he said that it was for the best and not the right time. I was so upset. We have been married for 3 years and I have been desparately wanting a baby. He keeps saying we will try in a few months but when the time rolls around he keeps saying we will try soonbut not now. Now he says he wants to wait until we can afford a baby. To which I said, " If we wait until we can afford it we will never have a baby!" Sometimes I think he doesn't want a baby. Could I be right, or am I being selfish about wanting a baby now? (link)
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Let me first say, you are an amazing woman! I read your story, and you know what I see? I see a woman aching for a child, but is patient enough to keep waiting and waititng. That's love and your husband needs to see that, and do his part. You need to sit him down, and tell him this is it! I need to know if you truly want a baby and then figure something out. If you're too scared or nervous to do this, just remember he's your husband, and conversations like this should be easy to discuss. Good luck!
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I'm a senior in high school and this boy who
I kind of like (and clearly likes me) is a freshman. If he was my age or older I would 100% want to date him. But I feel like that is too big of an age gap for where we are right now. I know when we are older it won't be, but now I mean when I think of myself from freshmen year to now I have really matured. I can't even ask any friends about this because I'm embarrassed. And in the summer I told my best friend and she didn't approve and such. It's not so much I care of my friends opinions but my family. It's my brothers good friend and yeah. So I don't know. What do you think? (link)
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It's good you know that when you get older, you don't see age as a number anymore. I understand where you are coming from. I think you should listen to your heart. If you two like eachother, that is all that should matter. And if your family approves, and that's what's important, I say go for it and see what happens. You don't want to look back and have regrets! But don't forget, you are still young and there are alot Of people who will probably fall in love with you an you will fall in love as well. Hope this helped! Good luck
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