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Do I take the Chance?
19-female. This will be long and I am so sorry But I will definitely return the favor!!
This may sound crazy, but bare with me. So I have liked the same guy for like 2 years now, but he is such a jerk to me I just can't get over him and no boy has been able to get me to stop thinking about him.
WELL.. there is this guy jeff that I know who would definitely help me get over him, but I don't personally know him. I've known of him (we go to different schools) and I added him on facebook (may sound dumb) but he's adorable, I've heard he is so sweet and NOT a player at all which I need. My friend and I hung out with this guy peter last summer who is friends with jeff and my friend tried texting peter but he's been acting weird. Well then my friend messaged jeff on facebook and was like you're really cute! he didn't say anything back. My friend tried texting peter again and it kind of seems like he is scared to see us again (we only met him once) because when my friend asks him to hang out he will stop texting her but he will talk to her otherwise. So tonight she texted him and was like I was just wondering, are you like scared to hang out with us because it seems like you kind of are ( I don't think she should of said this). He didn't say anything back. were like how are we going to be able to meet Jeff! & don't think we're using peter to get to jeff, my friend likes peter! haha
well then tonight my friend had seen jeff was on facebook and she chatted him and they started talking, but from what she said it seems as though he wasn't very interested in her because he didn't ask anything about her, he just kept answering the questions she was asking so I thought he was being nice. Then he was like hey peter is here. She was freaking out like what the hell! She was like ask him why he never texted me back and then she was like and why did you tell me he was there? Well then he didn't say anything after that... I'm thinking Peter is like telling Jeff bad things about us, especially about my friend when we did nothing to him.
I really want to meet Jeff though, he seems like the perfect guy for me I just don't really want to chat or message him on facebook because he will probably see that I'm friends with the girl (my friend) who was being all weird towards him and chatting him haha. Plus I wouldn't know what to say.. I haven't been involved in any of the talking my friend decided to do it all on her own kind of making me look dumb too because she kepts saying "us" as in me and her. Should I just give it a shot and see what he says?? If he says anything? What would I say without looking dumb or even desperate thanks to my friend..
What if he didn't respond? Oh boy I'd feel so dumb!! But what if he did? Ahh what to do.. and most important what to say!! Some of my friends think he might send back to me because they think I am really pretty and his type of girl, not trying to say my friend is ugly but hey maybe it'd be worth the shot?
And keep in mind I never just randomly try to talk to guys on facebook ha ha but this guy, I just know he would be able to get my mind off the guy treating me like crap..
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Wow! That was alot to type huh? My answer won't be as long cause I have to type on my iPhone so bear with me amd my spelling. It kinda sounds like your friend might have scared him off a little bit, but nows your chance to reel him back in!! I know it's nerve wrecking and you don't want to be rejected. Nobody does... But let me ask you this: would you rather take the chance of rejection and message him? Or automatically reject yourself by not even trying? Whatdo YOU want to do? I know what your head says, i know what your heart says. Jose speaking louder to you?
If I were in yourshoes, I would take the risk. Saying hi can't hurt, and you never know. He may adore you and you might wonder how you almost settled for him!! Haha well whyever you choose, good luck and I hope you find true love.
I say drop a hello :)
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