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Why did he have to change..
18-female. This guy, is driving me crazy because of how he is acting!:( he's actually one of my good friends, same age and his name is nick. About 6 mo ago nick broke up with his girlfriend of almost 3 years. Well now to be short, he's basically THE biggest player i've ever met. before and when he was with his girlfriend he was never like that, and thats why we were so close. He's always tried getting with me, but just this past month or so I've realized he's someone totally different than who I knew 3 years ago. He's changed right before my eyes. He was "talking" to me, this other girl, still his ex, and now I hear about ANOTHER girl. I haven't done anything sexual with him, I know better. I'm thinking of just staying good friends with him and no relationship stuff because as a friend, he treats me really good. But then my guy friend, who is nicks good friend was like nick is going to be pissed when he finds out you're talking to brad (A guy I WAS talking to..) but I'm not talking to him anymore thats a different story. I was like why would nick be pissed?? I honestly don't care anymore. It seems like Nick still cares about me but I can't take his game playing anymore. I deserve better than that, but I just can't get over the kid :( I want to confront him about everything and say how he has changed, and he doesn't treat girls right and that I can barely look at him the same way so he knows I KNOW about all the girls (he thinks im dumb and I know nothing..ha!) He's a great friend to me, just wouldn't be a good boyfriend. I'm just so confused...my guy friend who looks out for me makes it seem like he cares about me and would be all jealous if I was talking to another guy, but why would he be? He's talking to enough girls already..
What to do?? Yeah you're all thinking "what an idiot she is!" but me and nick have known each other for like 5 yrs now, I'm not just going to throw a friendship down the drain like that..But I don't want to get in a fight with him If I bring up that I know about all the girls, and I'm better than that.
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Well you alredy know you're BETER than that and earlie you said, Hes a great friend to me just wouldn't be a good boyfriend. It's really good you know that cause alot of girls spend most their time trying to figure out the obvious. I knew a guy named Brandon who had a gf forever amd was the sweetest guy but changed into a fake player after. He's insecure definetly, especially since he's playing games and getting upset over you. I know you've known him forever, so I say stay friends with him and like you said, you're better. Just remember that. And if he confronts you, let it out girl. Tell him why you won't be with him, and if he really wants to be with you, he'll act different. Otherwise, I saystay friends. Hope I helped good luck
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I think you should break up with him and not even be friends with him because this guy is obviously playing you and to be just friends with him is going to be impossible because eventually hes going to get you to take him bak as your bf becuase thats what guys who are players do. I know you dont want to throw your 5 years of friendship but would you rather he break your heart i honestly think you should just end it with him it will save you a lot of heart ache but then again its your life and your entitled to do what you think is best so good luck :D
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