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He changes...ALOT
soo, after all the drama that has happened over the past months. I have met this new guy. His name is Mike. And hes really sweet when we're alone or texting. But recently i have noticed that around one of our friends Oscar, he tends to become much more perverted towards me. mainly towards my chest. I really dont like this side of him. So when i try to bring it up later on face to face, he tells me not to worry bout it. Why? cause we're going to talk no more. those are his exact words. Mike is like my texting buddy. And everytime i try to text him, hes like "i dont want to hurt you bye."
does he mean well(changing his attitude, etc.)? or should i give up on him?
14/f and hes 16/f
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Move on!! This guy is a creep who wants to impress his friends and has no respect for you or your body! You can do better
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It looks as though Mike is trying to "look good" in front of his friends! A lot of guys tend to be different when hanging out with friends. They tend to be nice when its an intimate thing but when they are in the company of friends they turn into jerks. Not I'm not saying that all guys are but it sounds like Mike is. I would walk away from him you want someone who is consist and not someone who is different when their with their friends. It seems to me he is a bit immature and needs awhile to grow up...don't play his games just move on!
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You need to tell him in no uncertain terms that he will NOT become perverted about you in front of ANYONE ever again. He either cares about how you feel or he doesn't. Thats all there is to it. If he doesn't stop, don't put up with it. Dump him.
Everyone in any kind of relationship has to have good communication or the relationship will not work. If he thinks he can do what he wants and not discuss his bad behavior when you want to, get rid of him now & save yourself further heartache.
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