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How do you know if you've found "the one"? What makes them special and different from all the others? If it's a matter of being about to "tackle life together" then why don't young relationships last? I'm 14 and a female. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for only almost 6 months. But we've been through a lot together already. He helped me though the death of my sister, I helped him raise his grades, he helped me stop cutting, I helped him avoid getting kicked out of school... What more can life throw at us? Despite our age, I think we have more of a "love" than some of the people who get married. I'm not saying I'm thinking of marrying the guy, but I'm wondering what it takes to have "true love". What more is there to it? And if you do reach it, how will you know? Sometimes I think the word love is used to freely. (From "I love potato chips!" to "I love my mom.") So what is love and how do you know? Please reply! And no immature, stupid comments, either! I want real opinions and ideas.
Love is when you absolutely know that that person is right for you. It sounds stupid but it's a feeling that you get. Love is shared deeply with the person you admire. The one that we truly cannot live without. I understand what you're talking about because my boyfriend and I are also young and we know that we love eachother. Honestly no one can really explain what love is. It's a feeling and a way of living. If we never have love, then really there's no reason to live. It's complicated and it's simple. ::Sigh:: ...
ok, well i'm an 8th grade girl and i really like this 7th grade guy, and he asked me out and i said yes, but i'm wondering if that's weird or not.. idk, i'm just confused, please help me!
~mandy
lol no its not weird hes only a year younger than you so whats the prob!
does the type of tampon you use make you more likely to get TSS? i mean if you use regular as opposed to light will i be more likely to get TSS?
thanks
yes cuz the higher the absorbancy level, the higher the TSS level
where can i find slightly fitted band or vintage T's i cant seam to find them anywhere, if you could a website would be nice our the store name thanks -XXOO
You can go to Hottopic.com!
Im too scared to use a tampon im in my 1st full year of my period and ive been using pads how safe are tampons i read in my bliss magazine that a tampon made this 18 yr old girl slip into a coma for 2 weeks what if that happens to me!! Do they hurt? After you used one are you classed as a non-virgin? Do they tickle? What are they like?
Luv ya x
Well, you can get TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome) but it's very rare. It has information about that in the tampon box. Tampons only hurt when they have'nt fully absorbed yet inside of you. Tampons don't make you a "Non-Virgin". I guess if you put one in the wrong way or something it could tickle or be uncomfortable. Hope I helped!
how do i get pictures on a digital camera on the computer...i know by a cord thing but where do i plug it in? thanks!
in dee bottom fireplug outlet
Does anyone know where you can find music to put on a xanga website because i cant seem to find any.. Thanks
www.xanga.com/xanga_music
What are some good Tan Lotions to use? I don't want to get burnt or Skin Cancer, but I want to get tan!!
Any Ideas?
Thanks!
my mom uses carrot oil cuz it works well and wont burn into a crisp lol
well i have this teacher he is realy mean and yells at me when im not even talkin wat should i do
go to the guidance councelor my friend rachel did once about this really stupid teacher and it got settled
Umm yea i saw two hampsters doin it and i told my friend about it and they were like umm ok and then i was like umm what do they call it cuz they have names for every other kinda sex so i was just wondering if there was a name for it?
nope sorry no name wen animals have sex its just called mating so i hope i helped!
Okay theres this kid at my school. And we like "talk" on and off all year. Usually when we do talk its like ya know, we should hook up type of thing. And right now we're talking...how can i get him to really like me so we can finally hook up??
actually believe it or not your in a good place with him right now just wait a while and see if your relationship will progress! im sure it will seeing this guy is interested talking to you!
How can it be that you can have casual sex? I am a virgin and some of my friends have had sex. Those who have also have casual sex. I just don't understand how you can have sex without having a comitment. Doesn't it still end up being a comitment because someone will want a relationship. It's natural for humans to want to have a relationship. So why is it that people can have casual sex with different people without a more serious relationship??
well its also natural for humans to have their desires fullfilled and single people just pretty much want to have sex at the time and yes humans are natural to wanting relationships but sometimes people dont want one at the moment you know?
One of my very close friends believes he was born gay. I just don't understand his belief in that. Why is it that some people can be 'born gay' and others not? I just don't understand that concept in life. Can anyone explain to me why some can be born gay and others not?
well its an argued thing cuz some people believe that being gay is within ur brain and chemical balance wen puberty starts and others say that its something you get into but its everyones opinions i think its something you kinda progress into thats all
i was out the other day and met my sisters mates who were drunke.ive always kinda nown that my sister is gay but i thought it was just a phase. they lat it slip that she was gay and she had a girlfriend.i havent talked about it to my sister yet and was wondering if anyone has been in my situation and what did they do.im not ashamed by it but im just shocked,do u think its still a phase? please get back to me soon. xx
it might be it might not but wait a few years and see if she grows out of it or not and seeing how your shocked talk to her about it! hope i helped
Hi im a 13 yr old female. My boyfriend is the best thing that ever could happen to me, i just feel like hes the one i want to marry and have children with i went out with him for 9 months one time then we broke up. But sometimes he can be so immature. What should i do to make his little immature foolishness go away to make this relationship work.
my boyfriend is also the best thing thats ever happened to me and i know i want to marry him soon and have kids with him and well were both actually immature but cant make someone immaturity go away cuz thats who he is but can control it tell him not to do this or that but not in a controlling way u know?
Ok i am 14 and me and my bf have been having sex i aint got my period yet so its good but he wanted to f me in the back door(butt) i wanna let him because it sounds like it would b fun but i dont wanna acidently let a lil poo on his penis id feeel wierd sooo do u think i should use the bath room b4 we do it...pllz answer ty
luv ya
*aimee*
i dont think anything would really happen like that but it might be really painful so just becareful
okay, so i really love that punky makeup look, sooooo i was wondering where i could get some good products. especially eyeshadow. i've seen some girls with hot pink eyeshadow and it looks awsome but every single time i've gotten a pink it just ends up looking too pastel or fuchia-ish! any good products or ideas?
mac is a realllly good eye shadow it comes in really bright colors and looks awesem! and try maybelline mascara and revlon eyeliner cuz it smudges awsem to give you an edgy look yay lol
pretty soon i know my boyfriend and i are going to have sex. OF COURSE we would use a condom, but i am still overly scared of the chance of getting pregnant if the condom breaks. i am trying to figure out what time of the cycle is the best time to Not get pregnant. i know ovulation is the worst time, but what about before, during, and after my period - which is the best time and which is a risky time? i cant find it on any websites and some people tell me different things... please help, im a spaz
i say a few weeks after your period cuz the risk is low and if your scared get birth control with a condom or stop having sex before your bf is about to cum hope i helpededed
This isn't really a sexual question, but it involves my genitals, so I figured this would be the best place to ask.
My labia is very irritated, itchy, and sometimes downright painful. I know it's not an STD, because I haven't done anything that could give me an STD. It's a bit like a rash, but I wouldn't call it one, it's more like irritation. Sometimes, I'll put vaseline on it, but it doesn't help much and not for long. It's a sharp, burning pain. It especially hurts when I'm forced to touch it, like after I use the restroom, or if I have to insert a tampon. Again, it's just my labia (inner and outer, mostly inner), not anything else, really.
Anyone know what it is/how to relieve it?
it could be the tampon ur using the soap ur using and stuff or it could be a yeast infection if its soap or some kind of feminine cleaner, try not usuing it or if its a yeast infection try some creams or pills to help it
UGH !! i hate my eyes ! i have single eyelids and my eyes are pretty small . i already use eyeliner on my top lid as well as some mascara to "open" up my eyes a bit .. do you know any other ways to make my eyes seem larger ?
oh and does waxing ur legs hurt ? i'm planning on buying the use-at-home waxing kits instead of shaving
wearing a lil bit darker eyeshadow and mascara make eyes very nice and open , well i dont really have to shave or wax cuz i never needed to but i dont think waxing hurts at all its like a quick ee feeling lol