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I'm Jessica. I'm dedicated,truthful,honest,crazy,messy,hyper & real."I'm so happy because today I've found my friends there in my head"-Nirvana
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i know there's a website for women about all kinds of stuff about their body and things like that....anybody know of one?
www.beinggirl.com
i believe.
Im only 14, i have a boyfriend and he wants "to do more" and to him more is a "BJ" (head) and i think im ready but i wouldnt know what to do! i dont know if this in innaproperit but PLEASE help!
I get the feeling that your not, ready?.
Because one, 14 is a pretty young age (Im not going to give you the age talk, you should know it.) to start that kind of stuff. & please dont feel pressured by your boyfriend to do more.
I can't give you any bj tips, because I've never given one, sorry. You may need to ask the question to another person.
Is that you in the picture of someone drawing chalk hearts on the sidewalk? If it is, that's awesome. It's absolutely gorgeous. Do you have any other angles or cute photo ideas like that?
no, its not me. Its an amazingly good photo though.
You can see many more photographs by going to xanga.com
go near the top near the search are, and search "Photography" under blogrings.
what aree some foods or vitamins that i can take to enlarge my breasts?
Nothing like works. You have to except what you got. Or get implants.
I'm going purse shopping in a little bit today and I was wondering if anybody has any ideas of cute purses I could buy? I would like to have a forgein purse made in the Europian countries but sold in america.
Well, it really depends where you go to.
But make sure you get a purse big enough for you!
Many cute purses in my opinion are colorful & dont have loads of patterns.
Or you can have a sleek black kind of purse.
Depends on your style.
okay, where to start. well i was going out with this boy named Alex. and i liked him alot and everything but he liked me like a thousand times more. well like every night this boy Lane would call me tryin to get with me, but i never thought anything of it. well about two months passed and me and Alex had already broken up. Then Lane was going out with my friend Addair who can't keep a boyfriend at all. Well she was grounded and me and Lane and all my other friends were all friends so we were goin out together and Lane started liking me that night again. me and Lane have kind of like always had a thing for eachother. well the next Addair brok up with Lane cause like i said, she doesn't like keeping a boyfriend. then Lane asked me out. so i said yes. i have never had a boyfriend like Lane before. it was so much fun with him, like we experienced so many new things together. we went out for 3 1/2 months and then at this fair thing we have in my town, his friends from his school were there [we go to different schools] and he started acting like a COMPLETE JERK. like it was so weird, he was never that bad. so then i couldnt take it and i broke up with him. then i found out he acted like that so i would break up with him. that hurt. i was sitting there crying so hard and all he could say to me was stop shaking. so then we went a caouple days without talking, and then i called him. i was like, Lane, what happened? and he basically told me he was just tired of having a girlfriend and he wanted to be single. i never wanted to break up with him. so then the first weekend after we broke up we were hanging out at the mall with all our friends and he was acting like we were like, "together" you know. and it made me so mad. but i couldnt help but like it cause i like him. then the next day me him, my best friend Taylor, and her boyfriend which is Lane's bestfriend, Kyle all went to the movies. well Lane likes kind of "simple" girls in a way. and well, i dress kind of not simple sometimes. i like acessories and style and stuff. well at the movies that night he decided that he wasnt gonna hang out with us because of what i was wearing. i mean how frickin low is that. i was so mad. cause then i was stuck with Taylor and her boyfriend and oh my gosh that was like hell. well then i had people over at my house the next monday and he was one of them. we flirted like crazy and like, i can tell there's chemistry there. but i just don't know how much. well then last night we went to the movies again, me Taylor, Kyle, and Lane. well me and Lane used to always go to the movies together when we went out, alot of stuff happened at the movies. so it was hard. cause you don't know how bad i just wanted to start making out with him. well then he started trying to kiss me and he held my hand and i resisted for a while but uhhh i just cant resist that boy. so then we were like all together and it was just so confusing and he was like i still like you and i shouldn't have ever broken up with you. my friend Taylor doesn't think i should go back out with him anytime soon. my friend Caela thinks i deff. should. my friend Addair is in the middle. so i am so completely confused. i dont know what he wants, i dont know what i want, i dont know what my friends want. so can you help, please? sorry its so long, lol.
thankss
Goodness, That seems like a mess of a problem.
I can't tell you exactly what you should do, because I don't know you're every feeling on this.
In my opinion, I don't think you should go out with him, because he's hurt you so many times. . & he seems to be way confusing. But you know, If you really like this guy & he askes you out, and you feel like you should say Yes, Than say yes. Doesn't matter what me or your friends say. Its more important to go with your heart.
He seems like the kind of guy you'll always be pretty confused with. But you never know, he might seriously be sorry, & things will go back to the way they were. Good luck!
13/F/MD. Do these questions go to a magazine too, or just the site?
- Confused in Maryland
Just the site.
oooh Maryland? I used to live here, Bmore.
so i have been with my boyfriend for over a year on and off and we are really in love and im 15 and he is 17 and he is not a virgin but am. lik i feel like i want to but im scared and unsure if i want to. i want to have sex with him if he is the one im gonna be with for ever and i dont want things to change if i do. how do i know if im ready and if its true love???
Don't do it your not sure, If he cares for you he will wait! You will know when you are ready.
hey there is this boy at school named chad and he is 17 like me and he is autistic I have no problem with him being autistic becouse I know he can't help it and he was just born that way,but he follows me everywhere and I can 't get him to leave me alone and iam afraid he's going to ask me to the school prom,but I want to find a nice way to turn him down gently without hurting his feelings should I say can we just be friends or what and how can I get him to stop following me without hurting his feelings becouse I know it will be hard to say no becouse he's autistic and chad dosn't really understand what the word no means please help me!
Well, at school shouldn't he be with a Superviser (sp)?
If he is, you could kindly tell the person that He's fallowing you around & you don't really like it.
But for the dance, Tell him you guys can go as friends, as the girl who answered first suggested.
I'm afraid Christina is telling Melanie bad stuff that I said about her, that really Christina said. I can't talk to Christina. Should I bring it up with Melanie?
Yes, you should. To set your story straight.
ok so for our school fall dance we need to dress up because it's a costume dance. The theme this year is Once Upon a Time...so it should be like fairytale and stuff like that. It's a date dance too and our date has to have a matching costume. I just need suggestions for costumes and stuff.
thanks
Cinderella and prince charming. Would be pretty cute.
I had sex with this guy. We used a condom and he didn't come inside me. He also smokes a lot of pot. What are the chances that I am pregnant? I haven't missed my period yet, but I am really scared. I am only sixteen. Please write back ASAP!!
I very low chance. You were pretty save.
But don't always belive "He didn't come in me" Its not always the truth.
i was looking through questions on here..and someone said you can get a yeast infection from wearing colored underwear...it sounds completely untrue to me because what does color have to do with anything? so if anyone knows for sure can you set the record straight?
untrue.
Like what would happen if i overdosed on pills . like on purpose.. wha would actually happen to me ? Like would i die right away , would i pass out , be weak get sick .. ? what ? k thanks =]
I believe, that you'd pass out. & if nobody comes to help you'd probably die.
16/f ahh im bloating really bad. its never been this bad.
and also,, is it possible to get your period or bleed when you are pregnant?
thanks
x3
Midol, Will probably help.
& Its possible but only lightly.
Sorry, this is the wronge category.
In your profile, it says you are 2 weeks pregnant. How far a long are you now?
I recently updated that yesterday. Still 2weeks.
Is it whrong to like your brother if your addopted and your noit really brother and sister?
Liking him, no its not.
But truthfully if you date, You'll find a few people who will find it disturbing.
& for the girl way above me, Kim was NEVER NEVER EVER adopted into Eminems family.
Kims other child was.
OK me and my friend have told eachother everything,
and secrets? never told to anyone.
So one day she asks me, Can I tell you a secret and I'm like sure, and she's like you cant tell anyone.
But one her other friends gave her two ciggartes! and I asked her "Are you gonna use it?" and she's like I dont know. But you have to do it with me. she said and I didnt say anything. I dont know. Shes like so will you and i said SURE!! why! I DONT KNOW! I was stupid! b/c Im not the type of person who stands up for hreself very often. I mean its just a ciggeret. it wouldent hurt me to have just one? would it??
No, not to have one. But sometimes one smoke can lead to another & another. When you get addicted it can hurt you. & You can't say after one smoke, you KNOW you won't get addicted, Many think that too. But sometimes people are wrong.
Smoking is gernally un-attractive. & your friend isn't that great of a friend to say that you should try with her, or for taking the smokes.
Is there any way to see what pictures have been deleted from your photobucket? Like, a history of pictures deleted or a trash can thing or something? Or once pictures are deleted, are they pretty much gone?
I'm asking because someone I share a photobucket account with says they didn't delete pictures off of my account and I'm almost 100% positive that I uploaded them there.
Thanks.
once they are gone, they are gone.
agh i need help pranto!!! well i woke up this morning and everything was fine so then i decided to put ice cubs on my face IDK WHY! i guess i read somewhere that if u do the redness from a blemish goes away??? well after putting the ice cubes on my face got even more red!!! and school starts tomrorow!!! and after the ice cubes i put make up on to try to cover it up but then i didnt wnat to clog up my pores so i fashed my face with an acne scrub then wied it with acne wipes and put acne lotion on but it got EVEN MORE RED!! now i dont know what to do and AGHH IM PANICINING!! because tihs never happened before.... welll one time before when i used this spa treatment thing?? PLEASE HELPPPP!!!
DON'T PUT LEMON JUICE ON IT.
It will dry your sky out, make it more annoyed.
Lotion up your face, & don't wash your face before bedtime, Don't use makeup tomorrow.
Leave your face alone & bring back your natural oils over the night.
By tomorrow morning it should look pretty good.