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I like the look of iPod minis 'cause they have a pink one but a couple of Q's...

1) Is an MP3 player better????
2) Are iPod mini's effective?
3) Are they easy-to-use?
4) Are they worth the money?
5) How many songs do they hold?
6) Can I get different headphones for them?
7) Do they ever freeze up like computers?

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speaking from experience (i have a blue iPod mini) iPods work great! i haven't had problems with mine. they are VERY easy to use and worth the money! the iPod mini holds 1000 songs. and yes you can use whatever headphones you want to with them. they never freeze up. i use mine all the time. they also stay charged for i think 24 hours of listening time. i can go at least a week without charging mine. hope i helped!


7 months ago i moved to maine. from florida well i left my ex down there and i really love him and he loves me just not as much as i love him. well im 17 and ill be 18 in october. over the summer i plan on going to florida to visit. well i really don't want to come back i hate it here so much. i have like 5 friends and it just sucks.

i dont have alot of money to live on my own with but i have tons of family and friends or even my ex that i could move in with.

I'm wondering if i should just drop the idea or try n talk to my parents about it.

just so you know my ex and i are not together because i cannot do long distance relationships. But i do love him.

Tell me what you think. and ill Rate you (link)
if you are 17, then you will probably be going to college soon. talk to your ex and pick a college in florida that you can to to together. i think that you should give the long distance relationship a try since you both love eachother. but if you can't do it, don't. just follow your heart on talking to your parents if it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't. i hope i helped! good luck!


ok.this is a pretty long story so sorry.
heres the basic information
Theres this guy named daniel,we first met at the mall. and then i found out that he went to my school and stuff. so we started talking more and more on aim. and we became like the best of friends ever. and i could already tell from there that i completely was going to be in love with him. because little things would get us both completely jealous. so we just started hagning out more and more. and every time we got a little but more flirty. and it was fun and all. but then like. i told him how i felt about him and it turned out he felt the same. then from there we were unseperable. but its weird we both knew we were completely in love with each other. but we just remained the greatest friends. he was soo adorable. he would do anything to make me happy. then soon i really dont know what happened. one night he askeed me who i liked. bc in my profile it had said "single, but completely in love with him" so of course i thought he was kidding bc the only person i told i love you to was him. so i just thought he wanted to be like reasured that i liked him. so then i said i tell you everyday who i love..its you. and hes like i love you too. and i would do anything for you. and you treat me really good and i just want to make you happy. so i thought ok maybe hes going to ask me out. and then all of a sudden he just says. but i dont think it will work out. i know. complete shocker. but he was like i love our friendship we have and i dont know what i would do if we broke up. so i think we should remain great friends. of course hearing that. i was hurt. cause as many times as he told me he loved me. i guess he really didnt mean it like i did. but i cryed alot then. cause i knew things werent going to be the same. and i couldnt believe he actually told me i love you but we need to be friends. but heres the point. now we barely talk, and when we do he just teases me. and i use to think it was cute. now its just completely annoying. and he just doesnt get it that i dont like it.and its defintaly not the same anymore. were not as good friends as before. and i want to change that completely. i want him to be able to talk to me about everything again, and be the one he can joke with, and stuff. i love him to death. as friends of course. and i really need his friendship. but he just seems to not give it to me. and i really need help to get him back as being at least a regualr friend again. anything will help.rank 5 for any advice (link)
the teasing is his way of flirting with you. if you still have feelings for him, tell him. it sounds like yall would make a great couple. i feel for you and am really sorry. just tell him that you still have feelings and if he doesnt want a relationship that friends would be good also. i really hope i helped you! good luck!


Ok.. I have a really good friend named jake. he and I talked a lot last year and almost got together. Well a couple of weeks ago i hooked up with him and did *stuff* . well he sed that he really cares about me n never wants to see me sad and that if nethin happened he'd kill some1 over me.. and blah blah blah. but at the same time he likes this otha girl. he doesnt like me like that i guess, but i have liked him on and off for 5 years. he is like one of my best friends, and i mean, he says im pretty, and im nice, and all this other stuff but yet he doesnt like me. I dunno wat to do. I wanna give up but I never can. Do you think i will ever have a chance with him, or if he even does rilly care about me? I wanna give up but i dunno wat to do!!!!! (link)
this "other girl" that he likes may be just to get your attention. i had this problem with my best guy friend last year. he didnt like that girl at all....he did it so i would notice him and talk to him about girls and give him advice. i think you have a good chance with him. he probably likes you and is just afraid to say so. but the best advice i can give is to follow your heart. and don't ruin a friendship over a relationship. but if it feels right to have a relationship, go ahead. just trust your heart. i hope i helped! good luck!


Well I shave down there... u no. (this is the person about the STD) well i dont shave all i just shave so u dont see my Pubic hair out of my swim suit or underwear or whatever.. And theres bumps.. Red ones.. one kind of looks like a pimple.. what is that?

Its not like millions of them but theres a few

I actually think one went away

Is it just razor burns/scrapes or what is it (link)
its probably just razor burn. that happens to me sometimes too. the one that looks like a pimple may be an infected hair gland thing (i dont know what it is called) it is nothing to worry about! using shaving cream (i dont know if you do or not) may help. i hope i helped!


I've had the same pimples on my face for what seems like months. How can I get rid of them? I don't think they're scars..They are red bumps. If it is scars, is there anyway to get them to fade? (link)
try zapzyt facial cream. you can get it at wal-mart and it is cheap. it really helps me---the zits go away overnight. but it can dry out your skin if you use too much. i hope i helped!


I have a question

Me and my boyfriend have done

Making out
Kiss
Hug
Hand Job
And hes fingered me times before

Is their anyway I can get an STD from that? (link)
the only way that you can get a sexually transmitted disease is from sexual contact. if you haven't had sex or your sexual organ hasn't touched his, you should be good. if you have had sexual intercourse, i suggest that you check out some websites on sexually transmitted diseases and check for the signs. if you start having any of these signs, check with a doctor. hope i helped!


hey my name is Jess im 13. well my boyfriend is really sweet and nice but he always thinks i have to be around him. im always canceling my plans just for him. Well im sick of it. Today i told him i was going out with my friends cause i had this all planned to go out tolunch but of course he wants me to hangout with him. he says i was being a bitch taking ym friends over him. its annoying but i really love him. what can i do to make him stop acting like this. I know if i say my friends are important to me to he wll get mad. Please Help
Sincerely, Jess (link)
just talk to him. tell him that you really care about him and want to be with him but you also have friends that you love and want to be around them. and chances are, if you are 13, this relationship shouldnt be taken too seriously. you have a choice : explain things to your boyfriend or ditch your friends. i'm sure you don't want to loose your friends, so i suggest talking to your boyfriend. if this guy doesn't treat you like the queen you really are then he probably isn't worth your time. if he does get mad, just tell him that you have a life outside of him. i really hope things work out for the best!


Okay, well let me first describe the boy I think I like. Lets call him Z. Alright, well Z is a really nice and all around cool kid! But, he likes me and evrything, it's just he also thinks other girls are also hot. He has gone out with other girls and when he was going out with them, he would call me sexy and stuff, so when he was going out with other girls, he was also flirting with other girls too. He's nice to me and I go a lot of places with him. I'm not even sure if I really like Z a whole lot.

Well my question is, should I go out with him? Or do you think he would flirt with other girls, too?

sorry if its long = )!
thank you. (link)
i think you should give him a chance. if yall both like each other, yall should be a good couple. just warn him up front that if you see or hear about him flirting with other girls that it will be over. but the most important thing is follow your heart. if it doesnt feel right, it probably isn't going to work out. i hope i helped! good luck!


I need to get a new perfume, and I want my boyfriend to like it. What are some inexpensive (under $35) perfumes that guys will like? I started wearing JLO Still, but my boyfriend never even commented it.. and also my mom said it smelled bad. Any other suggestions? (link)
bath and body works has some GREAT smelling perfumes. they are all cheap and there are TONS of choices. hope i helped!


Ok, i think i have a yeast infection, but how can i tell for sure if i do? Like i discharge alot and its white and kinda chunky and it smells really bad.. (link)
it is probably just normal. every girl does that.


Problem with answering "Why do you like me?";

I'm terrible with words. I must be terrible... I don't know how to put it into words that well.

I don't want to say something like

I like you because you're interesting... dot dot dot.

Then she'll be like only because of that? etc.

I really love my girlfriend but she keeps assuming that I'll go for another. She's like no other girl I've known, I highly doubt I would go for another.

Have any ideas that could help me think on how to word my response on that?

I think it wouldn't be a good idea to ask someone to type out.

And I know. If I was a good boyfriend I'd know how to answer this. I want my response to be perfect. Apparently I am not a good boyfriend or close to being perfect. (link)
i bet you are a great boyfriend. coming from a girl's point of view, just tell her that she "is like no other girl that you known" just like you said earlier. that sounds great to me. just tell her that she is special and you really like her. hope i helped you! good luck!


ok i never herd this word before and i wanna know wat it is i probaly know wat it is jist use another word for it dont think im a big weirdo its jist that i never this word befo and i use anotha thing for it heres the word "pre-marital sex" what the heck does that mean

P.s. I know wat sex is DUH!!!!!!!! but not "pre- Martial" (link)
it means sex before marriage

i dont think you are a big werido. i ask stuff like that all the time so dont feel bad!


Hey im a female and im 13. My best friend just happens to be this really hot guy that every girl in school wants, including me. i find im always thinking about him and wanting him. We always talk on the phone and on msn. I havent told him how i feel about him though. Should I or will he just think like im like every other girl in my school? Right now we are talking on msn and im watching him on his webcam without a shirt! I dont want to ruin our wonderful friendship but, i would really like having him as my boyfriend. Should i tell him or conceal it? Please help!

**sleepiesheep** (link)
first off, you are so lucky :)! this happened to me last year (but he wasnt hott....i dont know how i fell for him haha) and i revealed my feelings. (we broke up after two months, but we stayed really good friends.) i think you should wait a little while to see if there is any possibility that he likes you, too. and if there is, go ahead and tell him how you feel. if yall decide to go out, tell him that you still want to be friends if you break up. that is what saved my friendship. we are still good friends. i hope i helped! GOOD LUCK!!! :):):):):):)


Alright. I thought since my best friend is such a good friend id make a list of 100 reasons why your my best friend. Can someone give like 25? (its a girl) Thanks I RATE 5! (link)
1. If I was lost, you'd find me.
2. You share the last piece chocolate.
3. You tell me I don't look fat.
4. You laugh at my jokes.
5. You always understand.
6. Long phone conversations with no silences.
7. We like the same junk food.
8. You've seen me with no makeup and didn't scream and still love me.
9. You have bad hair day sympathy.
10. Seems like we've known each other forever.

sorry its not 25, but thats the ten i found. you can also try a search engine and get some. there is also a book called "500 reasons why you are my best friend". hope i helped! that is a great idea!


I know this might sound nasty but it burns down below when i go to the bathroom. and this morning on the way to school it still kinda burned and it felt weird, not normal. i dont know if i have something wrong with me and if its because of sexual activity? does anyone know what this might be? please dont tell me to go to the doctor because i dont want to do it right now. just tell me what you might think it could be! im so scared. please dont leave ride comments im just worried about my health! anything will help!


i rate good! for good answers

&&heaRts; scArEd anD WorrieD! (link)
its probably just a bladder infection. that same thing happened to my cousin last year. she went to the doctor and got some medicine and got over it and is just fine. but it could just go away on its own if u give it time! hope i helped!


OK
sooo Ive been best friends with this girl for about 3 and a half years. I can tell her everything, and i mean, everything. I used to be able to trust her with everything, and when she said " i promise" .. she meant it. Ever since she got her new boyfriend about 8 months ago though, the boy (lets call him "JOn"). has completely taken over. I feel like there is no more rooom for "jaime friendship,".. and that JOn has taken over my spot in her life. We used to hang out like every other day (about), and now , its gotten down to once or twice a every two months. Kinda sad, I think. :(
I dunno.. its adding so much stress to my life. Ive tried explaining to her how much she means to me and everything, but she just doesnt get it. I know this may sound sad.. but I love this girl a lot.. I mean who wouldnt love their bffe?... but i hate the way she treats me. Boys are only in youre life for so long.. but girlfriends can last a lifetime, and i dont think she unserstands that. (notice the subject "your teenage years are supposed to be spent looking for bridesmaids, not grooms" .... Yes, I realize that life gets more complicated as you get older.. and now that she is 16, she has a job .. where she works everyday... Literally, EVERYDAY after school and work though, she talks and talks with her boyfriend on the phone alll night long, and if i call, guess who she hangs up with? YUp, me. I know this may just sound like jealousy, and it is kinda.. but its gotten more than that. To top off things, her boyfriend used to be MY best GUY friend for about 2 years.. and now i completely cant stand him. I honestly, I wish he would just move to a diff state. LIterally. When i am around them two , I cant stand it. They only care about their realtionship. I think that it is plain RUDe to sit there at a table at lunch with your bffe and boyfriend.. and sit there, and hug and kiss him , and ignore your bffe. HOw awkward it is for me. I feel liek shit constantly, but when im alone with my bffe.. and her boyfriend isnt arounf we have THE BEST of times, and cant stop laughing. Its like we give eachother a natural high. Im just so sad and depressed now that it feels like ive been "replaced" though... Any suggestions on what i should do?? (link)
i went through this same situation last year. i talked to my girlfriend and she totally understood and ended up apologizing. tell her that u really care about her and want to be friends like you used to be. tell her that you wish she would "lay off" the kissing and hugging with her boyfriend and pay a little more attention to you. i really hope i helped you! good luck!


well ive been dating this guy for like 2months now and im in love with him! were complete oppisite but we cant get enough of eachother! but about a week ago he told me that he had cheated on his last girlfriend and im a very jelouse person and now all i do is blame him and accuse him of cheating on me! he does certin things to make me jelouse, like drive by her house and break his neck to look over me into her windows and talked about her all the time and throws her in my face when i do something he doesnt like! like he'll say for example " oh, amanda would never act this way," or "amanda would do it" and now hes even acting kinda mysteriouse and not calling me and when i ask his mom y he hasnt called me she tells me that she thought that he was because for the past 3 nights he has been talking on the phone till 3am! i dont know wat to do i love him alot but i dont know if hes tryn to test me or hes cheating on me and i just dont know it! (link)
just tell him that you aren't amanda. if he does not treat you right, then he is not the guy for you. it may be hard to tell him, but it may help the situation. i feel for you! good luck! hope i helped!


Im in the 7th grade. && I like this 8th grade boy. I see him 3 times a day He doesnt even know me AT ALL. I know him beacause i looked him up in the year book, hehe. And see i cant have enough to really talk with him, beacause i only see him in the halls and we have 5 mins to get to class and all my classes are really far apart to im usally always late. How can i get this boy to notice me & like me as much i like him. (link)
i am having that same problem xcept im in 8th and hes in 7th. when u see him just smile or "accidently" brush his shoulder as u walk by him in the hall. i hope i helped! good luck! :)


For english we have to get verses from songs from other people and try to figure out what we think the song is trying to say. So could anyone who wants to send me their favorite verse from their favorite song? Or just your favorite verse from any song you like? Thanks so much. I need them by tonight.♥ (link)
my favorite song is Mayberry by Rascal Flatts. it is talking about the andy griffith show (it is an older show, but it is my favorite)

Sometimes it feels like this world is spinning faster
Than it did in the old days
So naturally, we have more natural disasters
From the strain of a fast pace
Sunday was a day of rest
Now, it’s one more day for progress
And we can’t slow down ‘cause more is less
It’s all an endless process

Chorus
I miss mayberry
Sitting on the porch drinking ice-cold cherry Coke
Where everything is black and white (nana nana nananananana)
Picking on a six string
Where people pass by and you call them by their first name
Watching the clouds roll by
Bye, bye

hope i helped!




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