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im 16 f. well i had this boyfriend but we broke up about five months ago and then he started txting me saying that he still loved me and asking me if i felt the same, well the thing is i do, i always have loved him we went out for like seven months and ive never been closer to anyone. well the next day i was txting my friend to tell her what he had been saying and i accidentally sent it to him. he then txt me bak asking me what i was tlaking about because he hadn't txt me in weeks so what am i suposed to think? i covered up by saying it was someone else i was talking about b/c i didn't know what to say but what does this mean? is he interested or not? please help b/c im really confused!

It sounds to me like he still is interested. Something similar happened to me. I had a bf for 7months and we broke up, well be broke up with me. I feel so great when I'm with him, i'm so close to him. Anyway, just recently we had been talking and he said that he still loved me, and I still felt the same way about him, so we're back together. Now enough about me, I think that you should just talk to him. Tell him that you do feel the same way, and you wouldn't mind getting back together for a fresh new start. Talk to him about what went wrong last time, and if there is anything that the two of you could do to make it better. I think that he's still interested. If he hung on that long, you must be a pretty special girl to him. Give him another shot and see what happens. If you have any more questions don't hesitate to ask. Good luck...please rate if you have time.
~Morgan

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I just got out of 9th grade and my mother still will barely let me do anything. She won't let me go to the beach unless there's an adult there. I can't go anywhere with anyone unless she meets their parents first. She flips out when guys call. I wouldn't care so much but a lot of times a miss out on doing fun stuff because no one elses parents chaperone, they just drop their kids off places, and then I'm not allowed to go. Forget parties, because there are no parents she can confirm with that i'll be safe and not drinking or doing drugs. Does she expect me to never do anything in highschool? She doesn't trust my judgement, and doesn't understand that I won't make the same mistakes she did. I'm tempted to start lying 2 her and sneaking around so that I'm not stuck at home all weekend doing nothing. Soon my friends are going to be able to drive and she says I can't ride in their cars. I'm going to have a lot of boring weekends! How do I show her that I'm responsible so that I can go places? What can I say to her that will help her let go a little and not be so protective?

Hey, Well mom's are always a tough situation. I think you should try writing her a letter, explaining to her that you want her to trust you more. Tell her the responsible things that you've done in the past. Tell her that she doesn't have reason not to trust you (that I know about anyway lol) But while you're writing this. Tell her that you understand how she wants you protected, tell her that you know how to handle yourself in situations. Make sure that you tell her you love her, but that you want to be able to have a little bit of freedom. This letter should lead to a conversation. In the conversation, the worst thing you could do is raise your voice. Just keep it calm and don't scream. I hope I helped some....please rate....good luck...if you have any other questions don't hesitate to ask

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sorry it kind of goes under 2 categories




14/f
Ok so i have this friend lets call him Craig. Well my good friend, lets call her Kaylee likes him. Alot of my other friedns likes him too. Anyway, she asked him out, but he said no.They are still good friends. Well "Craig" is in my gym class, and he constantly flirts with me...like all the time. and i think i am starting to like him. I think he might like me. I dont know though, because everytime i think that the guy doesnt really like me. ANYWAYS i dont know what to do. Should i tell "kaylee" that i like him? should i tell HIM i like him? HELP PLEASE! thanks i rate HIGH!(he is 14/M, and she is 14/f)

hey...I think that you should tell kaylee that you like him and that if the opportunity came up that you would date him. Since you and craig are friends, maybe you could ask him to the movies or something to see if you two hit it off. Trust me, if he has a good time with you, then something will more than likely happen. I hope that things work out for you. Let me know how it goes.....good luck

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ok well me and my best friend(a boy) are really close. some of the time. well a couple of weeks ago someone asked me if we were going out and that we looked like a great couple and or we should go out. after that i started to see him differently. i dunno if i love him as my brother or as someone i would date. i think he mit like me though because he always says things like how i was so luck that he was my friend and would be luckier if he was my boyfriend or like when one of my friends asked me who i liked he would always say "me". plus like when we were hanging out at the prom he would like always be behind me just walking around with me. do i like him as my bf or as my bro ???i wouldnt want to have are friendship lost over this and i do like stuff about him . what do u think?????????

Hey...this exact same thing happened to me. I had a best guy friend, we were super close, and people would come up to me all the time and say, "man you and 'rob' are so cute together," and I told them that we weren't dating. Anyways, from then on, i did the same thing and started looking at him maybe as more than just a friend. We've been dating for 8 months now, bc he felt the same way about me. This is not true in every situation. But it seems like he acts like someone who could be your boyfriend. If you're as good of friends as you seem, then even if you do break up, you'll still continue to be friends. (been through that too lol) But you should be able to still have a friendship if things don't work out. It will take some time, but eventually you can still go back to kidding around and doing things just like old times.....Hope I helped, please send me feedback...and if you have any more questions please ask....I have been there! lol

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Theres this guy that i like name joe. And his friend always ask me if i have called joe yet. And i always tell him..joe doesnt like me so why call. Why does his friend keep doing this to me? Do you think joe has said something or what?

More than likely Joe did say something, and he's too shy to admit to saying anything. I would call him and ask him if he wanted to hang out sometime. Just as friends...then you can see what happens from there. I hope this helped, and If you have anymore questions, or want to know some good ways to hang out with him, you can always ask me.
~Morgan

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okay im like in lovr with this guy, yet he doesnt feel the same way towrads me.. he was pretty interested for about a week, and now he kinda blows me of, what can i do to get him back!?

If things are meant to be...then they will work out in their own time. I know from experience. You'll probablly rate me low for this, but it's true...just give it time...If you have any more questions...feel free to ask.
~Morgan

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this guy that i like was just going out with one of my friends and she just broke it off with him to go out with a guy who is 2 yrs younger than her but he still has got feelings for her but he dosen't know how much i truly like him what should i do?
Signed,
Deeply In Love

Dear Deeply in Love,
Like the other answer said...make sure it's ok with your friend first. You can also just let the guy know that you're there if he ever needs to talk. If he doesn't have your number, there's a perfect time to give it to him. I think that if you're not pushy through his time of getting over your friend, then there's potential there. I mean you have give him some time. But be there as a friend first, and if things turn out then he'll realize how great you were through his "grieving" time....Hope this helped...and don't hesitate to ask me anything else.

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OK, Me and my best friend both like the same guy. And we're not 100% sure but we think he likes both of us. We were thinking about letting him decide, but I think whoever he picks the other girl will be hurt. My other friend suggested that one of us should just forget about it and let the other one have him, but nither one of us really want to back down. And even though it would be the mature thing to do I still really want him and don't want my best friend to have him even though I Love Her (like a sis that is)! Does anyone have any ideas of what else we could do? And if you're going to say just let him decide- then please give me a few ideas of ways I can just talk to him about it without sounding like 'Omg your soo hott and everything'

Thanks
I rate!

This same thing happened to me and my best friend. She started liking one of my guy friends, and then I started seeing him that way too. (a little different i know lol) But...I think that if you don't want to jeopardize(sp?) you're relationship with your friend, then go ahead and drop the guy. Chances are that there is someone out there more perfect for you anyway. It would be a shame to lose your best friend over a fight with a guy. Don't risk that....If you think that that wouldn't happen, then you could talk to the guy, casually, and say something like "ya know, what do you think the chances are that something could ever happen between us?"...then go from there....Hope I helped some...Best of Luck to you...please put feedback if you have time

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hmmm where do i start? well im 13 and me and my friend "Jane" went to this little bbq cook out thing for another friend "LEE" and her frind "sam" well they invited another boy named "JIM". well that night b=me and him really hit it off. we flirted and talked and i really like him and i think Jane does too andi kbnow LEe does and i think he likes me cus he flirted alot and said i was hott and stuuf. Jane wouldnt mind if i went out with him but i know Lee would probally tell him some lies about me.well he entered his cell # into mine for the heck of it and hes lijke i may call you somtime. and he didnt call so and i think lee mighta said some stuff about me so he wudnt call cus she is obsessed over him. My questions are do you think he does like me or do you think i should call him cus i really like him . What do i do?

I think that you shouldn't give up. I mean especially if you really like this guy. Maybe you could call him to go with a group of your friends to the movie or something, that way he'll know that you were thinking about him, and it'll be another chance for the two of you to hit it off. He must have liked you enough to give you his number. Most guys just don't throwing that around. I think that you should give it another chance. Best of luck to you...please write feedback ;)

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Okay I like this guy....I have no idea what he thinks of me. I know he liked me and one point but that was like 2 weeks ago. Now hes being mean, well more like teasing. I mean hes just kidding I know and it isnt offending me but I just feel like theres no hope in me liking him anymore because I don't think he likes me. He might have been just flirting cuz he does this to every girl....but I don't want to be every girl I mean I do like him....am I taking this too far? anyway im suzy 14/f

I think that you should keep being you. I mean he liked you 2 weeks ago. Keep talking to him, and having conversations. Keep being the fun loving person that he liked. I mean people can turn around. And who knows? He may not have stopped liking you. Ya never know...Hope things work out...Best of luck to you

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ok so there's this really hott guy in my grade and i really like him (b.c. hes really nice too not just hott although thats a plus) and he would always smile at me and compliment me and say hi to me and i started liking him and all my friends said that he liked me and than my friend (without my permission) called him on my cell while i was in the bathroom and was like hey do u like Carry (me) like would you go out with her? and he was like umm i like her as a friend but i dont think i would go out with you and Allison (my friend) told me and i was super pissed and the day before i heard from one of his friends he liked me so the next day i asked him who he liked and he said he like Allison so i don't know what to believe. would you please help me!?!? thanks in advance!!!
and im not the most popular girl in my grade, but my friends totally is.
*.:~*totally confused*~:.*

Wow...if that wasn't a confusing story I don't know what is. Okay, well first off...I had a similar situation of where i would hear from all of the guys friends that he liked me, and when I would confront him about it. He wouldn't confess. Maybe the guy is just a little bit shy, and doesn't want to sound like a dork (come on who does?) So..I think that you should just give it some time and see what happens. Tell you're friend how you feel and maybe she can do something to hook you two up. (but no more secret phone calls...those can turn guys off)...Hope things work out for you. Best of luck

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ok so i met this kid on the internet (same grade as me... 10th) and we hung out a couple times and i kinda started to like him but then i noticed he was liking this other girl(9th grade) and i didnt really care that much cuz we were good friends... but he goes to a different school and she goes to mine and she has a bad reputation that he knows nothing about... i mean shes cheated on boys many times before and i think he really likes her and i dont want him to get hurt but i dont kno how to tell him with out him gettin mad at me and possibly runing out friendship.... please help!

i rate for good replys!!

thanx so much!!


brOk3n h3art3d xO

Hey~ Well, I wouldn't just come off the bat and tell him, because you may come off as jealous (whether you are or not) But you certainly don't want to seem that way. So start a convo with him asking him how things are going. Then say something to the effect of "You know I've heard some things about "kasey" and I was just letting you know so you didn't get hurt. I didn't want you to find out the hard way." I mean you can personalize it to fit the situation. But if you're lucky and you still have feelings for him, he'll realize that what he was missing was right in front of him the whole time. I hope things work out....good luck...and if you have time please put feedback, I would love to hear it.

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is it possible to get a guy to like you that barely knows you..i mean i have been talking to him more and he knows my name and what not..but like what are some signs that a guy likes you, and what are some ways thats you could get him to like you.

Signs that a guy likes you: He makes smart remarks toward you. He says 'hey' to you in the hall/online. He doesn't blow you off....the best way to get a guy to like you is to just be yourself. If you're not, then he's not in love with you...he's in love with someone that you tried to be. When that happens...the relationship usually never works out since you have to hide who you actually are.

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i broke up with my bf of 2 months today b/c of lack of communication. he wasnt crushed at all..i dont think we meant anything to him but anyway, its the second last day of school before summer. how long should i wait before i go with his friend? we both really like each other and he actually cares about me. hes my friend's ex and im his friends ex..any opinions? tell me what u honestly think...i wont take away from the rating. thanks!

First off, I would talk to your friend. Make sure that you tell her what you're thinking about doing. You don't want it to be a surprise to her. Then I don't see why you couldn't date him. I mean you said that there wasn't any communication b/w you and your ex. I would make sure that you're not ruining a potential friend with your ex, just so that you can date his friend. It may seem important to have a bf, and believe me...that's the way it goes sometimes. But bfs are going to come and go out of your life, so make sure that you're not throwing away two good friendships.

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heyy everybody i am making a new profile and need some cute friendship quotes .. i need 2 quotes about my girls and 2 quotes about my boys if you can give me some that would be greatly appreicated i will rate a 5 if you give me what i need even if i dont like them ill give you a 5 for trying please help

~If I could take your troubles I would toss them in the sea, but all these things I'm finding are impossible for me. I cannot build a mnt or catch a Rainbow fair, but let me be what i know best...a friend that's always there~

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