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Ok, so, after alot of things that have happened to me in my past with guys, and, just my horrible trust issues, it's hard for me to see my boyfriend talk to other girls without thinking bad things. Is this normal? Like, he moved, and that day, this one girl was like, sorry I didn't call you! Right in front of me, and after school, she was hugging him and was like, you'd better call me, and I'm so sorry you're moving, and I'm gonna miss you soooooooo much! That really bothered me for some reason. Should it? I know I'm paranoid, but, I don't know what to do. I think it's my paranoia and my trust issues that's really bothering me. After everything that's happened to me, it's impossible for me not to be paranoid. What do I do?
Thanks :]
(Sorry it's so long) (link)
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Well it should bother you. if the girl isn't a friend he's known forever and she doesn't seem interested in him then don't worry if not then you should be. Ask him whats going or tell the girl is there something I should know? good luck.
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okay i ahve this problem with my math teacher, well call her Ms. Fry (i dont know haha) But she said that i we dont understand somehting to come after school for extra help, so i ask her what day would be good and she tells me. So i call my mom and tell her but she cant come and get me, so i hav to cancel, thats apparently MY FAULT.
Anyways come the test i have no idea what im doing and I ask Ms. Fry a question and she says she cant answer it, but i was totally lost, but decided shes doing it to be fair to the other students which i understand. BUT we have this packet where we have to look up the answers (like where to measure)and the packet isnt tiny either, ITS HUGE and that was the easy part, but i spent so much time on the hard part i had no time for the easy part and by the time i got to it, everyone was crowded by the door waiting for the bell to ring. So i say aloud "Im never gonna make it, where do i find this?!" cuz the packet was huge and someone gives me the answer. I had onl one left, so she calls us up in teh front of the classroom and i explain to her i wasnt cheating, but i do understand it was wrong to talk during a test. I tell her that and she says she doesnt care and that its not her fault im "Slow". Then i ask her when the best time for extra help would be and she says its too late for that. I mean its never too late to know more about anything, maybe a possible retest, but im not even expecting THAT i just want to understand what i didnt. If that makes sense haha.
But i dont know what to do in this situation, im failing and have a bad teacher that hates her job and tells us everyday "im only doing this for the money"
HELP! (link)
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Well you can study the parts of the math test that you went over and take the make-up test if she doesn't let you, talk to your mom and ask her to e-mail Ms.Fry(haha)about why you can't take this test. If your teacher does nothing go get your principal and tell them or get some witnesses in the class and ask them to prove that she isn't helping.Keep being respectful to her until then maybe someone will sit in the class and observe what is going on(a principal or adminastrator). Good luck
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do you think it is okay for a freshmen and a senior to go out if theres only a 2 year age difference? (link)
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Yes I think it is okay. If they are really in to each other and there is no problem then yeah(between the two daters). Otherwise then they need to talk to eachother about becoming closer or to split.They shouldn't care about what people think.
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Before thinking, I told the guy I like that he was in for a suprise when I see him tommorrow at school. I like him, he likes me, but feels he would be a bad boyfriend. We are pretty close. What are some cute or romantic or thoughtful suprises that I could do, I mean to show I was thinking about him? (link)
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You could write hearts like a kid on your arm or a heart and show him smile and blush while doing it. Good luck sorry I didn't see it yesterday even though you probly meant for the surprise today.
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Ok,my friend really likes this guy who used to liek her too(he still might but were not sure) anyways...then went out on a date a while back and it went well and they saw eachother all the time afterwards. he totally led her on and then when she asked him if there was gonna be something more he said he just wanted to stay friends which broke her heart. Anyways then they didnt talk much for a little while and they just started talking again and she asked him what happened with their whole situationa and he told her why he said friends instead of something more. He said he was scared or something because of his past relationship and he didnt kow what was going to ahppen but he apologized for it and everything. He is a very sweet guy and she really likes him but he likes someone else now but she wants to fight for him because she thinks there is still something there. She keeps asking me if she should fight for him or if she should just move on! what should i tell her? because i told her if you really like him thne u should fight for him but he did break your heart so maybe you should just move on. plz help.
thx! (link)
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My answer to your question is:
Tell her not to fight for him. If he does see something in her (he should because good things come every once in a while and your friend might be that good thing)(again that is HIS choice) hopefully he won't miss it. Another reason not to fight,I am sure you both don't want him to see her this way as; A GIRL WHO IS DESPERATE even though I am sure she isn't he might think other wise. Let him come to her. Since I don't know him and he might not be like "most guys", then most likely he'll see that lack of interest and wonder what's up and come see her(especially if she avoids him completely). And if she finds someone else and he wants her tell her not to dump the other guy unless he really becomes a pain in the butt(that way they're even)(even though revenge isn't the key to everything.
Hope I could help. Ask me any other questions.If you want
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24/f. I am in love with a man who is married to another woman. He is in love with me (I honestly believe we are soul mates, but it is not meant to be because of our situations), but he also loves his wife and does not want to hurt her. I believe he will never leave her and I would never ask him to.
I am leaving the city we both live in very soon, and we want to have sex, just once, before I go (we have kissed before but nothing else). We want to do it because we each fear the connection between us is one in a million and we will regret not doing something about it forever. I love him so much and I desperately want to be close to him, even just for one night. In the back of my mind, I also think it will help me move on from him - "The time I spend with this man was amazing and I will remember it forever, but it's time to get on with my life".
I know it is totally wrong of me to want to do this, but if his wife doesn't find out, what's the harm? (link)
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The situation is brutal.Most likely if he is a true man he won't sleep with you. He might tell his wife or she might find you with him. It could hurt their marriage and possibly you alls friendship. If you do decide to do it before you leave then you might leave him with a lot of guilt on his heart.
Good luck
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is there anything i can do to make my period start sooner. it was supposed to 3 days ago but is usually random. i have so much swimming starting tomarrow practice and for fun and bday parties with in the next week and also vacation in another country. i go on vacation in 6 days and everything else is before it i NEED it to start soon. how ill do anything?
and my mom says to not do any of it if i start my period. would a tampon help? ive never used one and i dont know how. (link)
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Yes use a tampon just get your mom to help you or follow these instructions unwrap it take it push the thing up into your buthole and walla don't let it stay in to long.
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Recently, I found out that my boyfriend of 6 months is getting kinda bored with what we do. The farthest we've gone is making out and that's the farthest we will go. And then all he talks about with his friends is how he almost spent the night with some hot chick. I don't want to break up, but it upsets me that I'm getting old or something. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. We do kinda make out a lot when we see each other, but what else are we supposed to do? (link)
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At least finger eachother
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ok so im not sure if im pregnent or not. i took two pregnancy tests which both came out negative but im a week late on my period. should i be worried or not? (link)
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No you shouldn't but are you between14-18 and not married well I dunno.
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Okay, so there is this guy. We'll call him Jim. Well me && Jim Have been off & on since last year. We were recently broken up for like 6 months. So we started to see other people. We didnt really talk ... so i started to like this kid "ben" and he likes me... but After jim broke up the girl he was seeing he told me that he missed me so much and how beautiful i looked now and that he wanted me back... i mean i still like him ALOTT but i dont know if i should or not . Becuase ben is just as sweet and cute. (link)
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I say no to dump a really good guy for someone dumb enough to leave you in the first way I may sound mean but girl the truth hurts.
-Meghan(Meggyboo)
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hey. so i like this guy, guy 1, and i got his "friend" / "acquantance" 's screen name & now i talk to him. well like, his friend sorta has a lot of friends, and so i'm really worried about like telling him stuff. but i just want to get my crush's sn if he has one. should i just...
1.) suck it up & deal with it. just flat out ask him cause for all i know, he could just not have my crush's sn and not even question whether i like guy 1.
2.) get to know guy 2 (guyfriend) better & see if i can actually trust him before telling him about guy 1 in case guy 2 finds out i like guy 1.
3.) other
4.) suck it up & deal with it. if guy 2 finds out i like guy 1, big deal. PLEASE BACK UP YOUR ANSWER!
i'm phobic of popular guys, but my crush isn't as popular as my crush's "friend." (link)
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do other tell him your feelings hey I know it's not easy but give him clues flirt.
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okay so i get all the signs of pms but arent they the same signs as pregnancy?
like i eat peanut butter and i get moody
but i have a weird discharge and its not blood or like anything but its like a brownish color.. then sometimes it looks like theres a little blood in it.. and me and my boyfriend were sexual last weekend but we didnt have sex.. but he fingered me... is it possible that he may have had cum on his hands and now im pregnant?
or does it mean my periods coming because its been going on for like 5 days and i feel like it happened after me and my boyfriend did stuff.. and im scared. (link)
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Well most likely your on your period or you should of stopped by now if so
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Hi I'm a female and i'm 15 turning 16. I'm sorry in advance this may be long....what happened was I cheated on my boyfriend.when it was happening i was in the moment (i had the issues of boredom, wanting attention, spite, anger,lonely...). i didn't consider it cheating but after the fact, figured out it was...it was OVERLY flirtly like if you woulda saw me you woulda thought i went with the person. and touchy feely. there are two parts to this and i did my bf dirty...i know. First and for most it was recently (last saturday) and during last summer. it was with my ex and my bf's cousin (in-law not blood i know it's all bad). They came on to me, and i feel for temptation (and last saturday if he woulda just came around it wouldn't have happened anyway, but i still do take the blame) But during last summer my bf (now my ex) was sent away to glen mills, for over a year (he just came home last thursday.) Well i decided to ask him a what if question...but when he asked me what i did i said stuff and wouldn't explain. well he got mad and banged on me telling me get at him when i matured...well my brothers called him yesterday (that made everything WORST) and i found out we seriously don't go together. so i know how it feels to be cheated on (even though from what i know of except something he never cheated on me- pretty faithful) but i tried calling him today when i knew he was in and he banged on me and told me it wasn't no talk about it. well i feel as if there's nothin i can do, and i love and i'm sincerly sorry, i swear i am, i believe in second chances and think i should have one. but he won't talk to me and i've been crying for 3 days now and feel terrible...i've already been told not to worry, it's not the end of the world, to wait....but i have a right to worry it is the end of THAT part of my world and waiting hurts.he said he loved and i believe he did and still might...but he's not willing to listen. and i believe if a person really loves someone they'll try. but i hurt him i know. i need advice obviously. i need help noone around me seems to be able to help. so i'm turning to you males/females....please don't judge me and i know it was wrong just try your best to help me. and i'll be sure to let you know how your advice works out. THANK YOU for taking time to read this!!!! (link)
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Well I wont judge you because I can't it's not my place to and you should tell him I no what I did was wrong and if you really do still care for me you should give me a second chance it's your life I can't make you say yes or no all I can do is try and hope you understand this is for real not fake I care for you and I hope we can forget it and start over.
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I am so depressed over this guy that I thought liked me. Well we work together at the same company. He had been flirting with me and showing an interest in me since before xmas. I was always friendly to him but had my guard up about him. I had heard he drinks a lot and is a womanizer with a bad temper. I decided to give him a chance two months ago so I started to flirt a little back. He got this love sick look in his eyes and then started stuttering around me. So I really thought he liked me. Well in the last two weeks I don't know what has changed but he's pretending he's lost interest. He flirts with other woman right in front of me. He hasn't even been very nice to me either, and acts like I don't exist. I don't know how he can be so cruel knowing that I like him. The worst part is he is the assistant manager! Does anyone have any ideas why he's being this way? (link)
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Well possibly he is trying to make you jealous and pull you in don't let him do that act as if you really don't give a anything and act like it is no big deal don't play other guys to gget him that is a very bad thing you could lose a friend and when he does flirt act like your to into your work(even if your not)to care.If he keeps doing it then oh well.
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Ok well i want to try using a tampon but i don't want to waste my money on buying a pack in case i find out that tampons weren't meant for me and wasted my money on nothing.
90% O fmy friends use tampons so im thinking of asking them to bring one for me but..i dunno..kinda akward..
I posted this question up because we're going on a cruise tommorrow so it seems like a good time to get one since my friends are coming too
What's your advice on this? (link)
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I mean buy a small pack it wont get stuck or anything but whose gonna see?
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What do boys like in a girl
( well most boys?)
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Well I am no boy but I know from past relationships and my friends most boys like a girl thats developed either all way or enough that you can see(meaning breast,butt,barely lips)ext.but good guys like grls for girls.
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alright im going to sum up my night and my gf's night, tell me if i did the right thing.
my night:
got stoned with 3 guy friends of mine, had a complete and utter blast, made cupcakes, brownies, played games, watched movies. harmless fun.
my gf's night:
got completely shitfaced with some 3 of her girlfriends, 1 of my other guy friends, and another guy who i dont like. they went skinny dipping, she claims to have covered up and stayed at the opposite end of the pool as the other girls.
how it went down, she called me today told me about her night after i told her about mine, she threw in skinny dipping as if it were no big deal, i then proceeded to tell her that if she did that, then she wouldnt mind if i went skinny dipping with a bunch of girls while she wasn't there. she then said oh but it was only two guys, i then told her that i still dont like the one guy (he grabs her and touches her and is a complete ass to me, so we're in a conflict right now) and that she went skinny dipping with him while they were completely shitfaced, she then tried to blame the alcohol, i asked her who consumed it, and she said that she did (duh), and i asked her whose fault it was.
i hung up and told her i'd talk to her later, due to the fact i dont know what to say.
help me out with what to say when i call her back.
thanks. (link)
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Tell her I am sorry I am not trying to invade you I just don't like anyone flirting with you I am not the jealous type I just really care about you will you forgive me and I will forgive you.If
she gets mad tell her I don't mean it to be rude or to put you down I mean it to be serious and caring .
But the answer to your question is it is ok to be pissed off sometimes just try not to bring it out on every single person you come in contact with.So try controlling that anger.
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is it just me or nebody else where whenever i love someone, they end up breaking me heart. everytime... (link)
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Have you ever tgought it was you that was pushing them away?But if not them I am sure they don't know what they are missing if there ever seems to be any screws in your board then ask them is everything alright between us so you can help it before It gets bad.Feel free to talk to them if there open(they should be your dating them)for conversation.
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Okay there's this perfume named "Unforgiven Night" by Jacques Evard... Does anybody know how much it is?
its not new though... it was out back in 2005 (link)
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It shouldn't be to much in ranging of about 20dollarsor less.
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Hey guys, my boyfriend is coming to visit me from Canada this summer and I wanted to know what waxing kits worked best for you (of course, for my you know what :P) Something that won't irritate the skin too much and leave razor burn bumps. Any help is appreciated! Thanks! (link)
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Go to a waxing place or if you wanna do it your self you use sticky stuff and rip it of it looks better but it hurts no razor bumps.
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