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Okay i just got a betta fish, and i have two questions.
I need a name for HIM. He is all white.. kinda
creamy but all white. And all my friends can come up with is Scotch, i kinda want it to be creative.. no just like MARK or somehting.
And is it true that you can feed betta fish anything really.. like any type of fish food or do they need the special BETTA fish food??
thanks. ill rt.
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Dear Betta,
I have had two Betta's in the last four years the names I think are the most creative are, Aries, and Picies.
Sencerily Maggie Maaclean.
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okay my friend's crush told her to sing front of him and shes a shy girl and i thought she wouldnt do it but then she sang true by ryan cabrera and she had a great voice and after that she said that she picked true by ryan cabrera because shes trying to drop hints that she likes him what do you think about this? and would you ever do that to the guy you like?
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Dear would you,
Well, you said yourself that she is shy mabe she just dousn't want to come out and say"Ilike you!!" in risk of embarissing herself so she drops hints to see if he feels the same way before she admits anything.
Sencerily Maggie Maclean.
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hey i want to major in animal behavior, what are some good school that have that major, i know that its not all that common. The only college that i know of now that has it is Bucknell. Oh and i would aslo be helpful if the college had field hockey becasue that would help me get in. thanks in advance. (link)
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Dear animal behavior,
I have heard of this college called animal behavior college. There is another one called American college of Applied Science. You might also try Ball state University,Colorado State University, Kent state University, Northland college, Penn State University, Southern Illinois University, Texas Stae University, The University of Akron, University of Connecticut, Warren Wilson college or William Patterson University. Look them up they have there own sites.
Sincerely Maggie Maclean.
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Today was my third day of high school. I'm a freshman, and not liking it too much so far. I know it's early to be judging it so quickly, but I can't seem to meet new people. I'm intimidated by the upper classmen in some of my classes, and people in my grade are kind of..cold? My high school is a mixture of 2 larger middle schools and 2 smaller ones. I used to go to a smaller one, so there may only be one or two kids in my class from my middle school whereas there are a lot of kids from a larger middle school in one class where people know each other. I kind of miss the security of my middle school where I was comfortable, knew everyone, and had a lot of friends I could be myself around. Should I wait a little longer to see what people are like before I get too freaked by this whole situation? Thanks (link)
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Dear high school,
definatly calm down just find someone who looks friendly and say hi worst case sinario they are rudeand you find someone else.
Sencerily Maggie Maclean.
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one of my friends is having an early halloween costume party at the end of september. i want to go as a female pirate, but i dont want to buy a costume because i think those look cheap lol. i want to wear like some type of jeans and a shirt and like pirate type jewelry. what exactly should i wear? like for kinds of pants, what color or print shirt, what jewelry, shoes, my hair? things like that. websites with pictures of things like this or inexpensive cool pirate jewelry would be wonderful!=] (link)
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Dear Costume Party,
I was a pirate one Halloween so I kind of know what your going threw well my website has a costume page if that helps.
Sencerily Maggie Maclean
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i want to be a lolita for halloween and went to buycostumes to find one. I found the perfect one but they don't have it. so just in case can somebody give me a link to others ( besides white lace lolita) ? Thank you:) (link)
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Dear Lolita,
Well there are tons of fun ideas you could use for Halloween. Including...pirate, hula girl, cowgirl, or Lifeguard. Depending on your age mos of those will work.
Sencerily Maggie Maclean.
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Okay so i have 2 friends who live down the street from me, their names are eva and gabby, and they arent friends with eachother., evas mom lives here, but her dad lives in another town, and this summer, she decided she was gonna live there with him, and go to school in that town, so when she would come back home for a couple days each month this summer, i would hangout with her each day that she'd be here. Now my other friend, Gabby shes been home the whole summer, hanging out with neighborhood kids, and stuff, but we've only hungout maybe 6 times the whole summer, i dont know; the problem is, gabby keeps asking me to hangout before school starts [3 days] and i just feel like, i dont really feel like hanging out with her, and i dont know why? so i make up excuses not to, and the thing -i dont get is, if eva comes back to town, im gonna want to hangout with her. so i dont understand why i wanna hangout with eva, but not gabby? is there any reasons you guys think it could be? (link)
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Dear friend or not,
you said you hung out with eva every day she was there. Do you think you might have resentment towards Gabby Because she dousn't always hang out with you like eva douse when she is there. So when she douse want to hang out with you you kind of want to give her a taste of her own medicine?
Sencerily Maggie Maclean.
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do guys really get boners every 90 minutes? (link)
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Dear Boners,
No.
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Theres this guy that tried to get with me last year, but I was "kinda" in a "relationship." haha
Anyways, he's a senior now, and im a sophomore, so there's kind of an age difference... Never been with a guy that much older than me.
Anyways, I kinda wanna hook up with him (butttt just like kissing not sex!!) because hes so hot hes so frickin hottt =]]
But I'm not really sure how to, because we don't have any classes (we had one last yearr) but yea so I don't see him so how could I get to hook up with him?!
THANKS! (link)
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Dear theres a guy,
I fI were in the same situation I would wait till you seee him in the hallways and ask himwhen he is alone then you don't feel as much pressure. Then just ask him to hang out sometime. Hope that helped.
Sencerily Maggie Maclean
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i wonder if i will ever be liked...i never had a boyfriend so i never been on a date, and i just had my first kiss at the age of 19....im 19 going on 20! could there something wrong with me? any advise to get a guy's attention without being a ho? (link)
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Dear attention,
Be confident. Don't show them(if you are) that you are unconfortable with your romantic life. Say hi to them as you pass sometimes they come back and say hi.
Sencerily Maggie Maclean
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I want my hair cut and i wantit to be "emo/Punk-ish" and i am gonna add some colors too it as well but im not sure how i should cut it...and i haven't seen anything i like either so i thought i would just ask to see what u guys would say. BTW im 16 & female. (link)
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Dear Hair Cut,
Well it depends on if you want it short or long. My web has lots of them if you want to look.
Sencerily Maggie Maclean
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Hes a jerk, hes a player, and i can't get him out of my head.
we knew eachother in school kind of, like he had a gf and he'd still smile and once asked me for my # but they were on the outs anyway. so during regents week we hung out a couple times & he asked me out like two days before i left for vacation and like the 3rd day i got there my friend saw that he put on his myspace i love "so & so". so i ignored him for like two days and we broke it off because it seemed like he was cheating cause he changed his status back to single and all that. i promised him i'd go back out with him when school started if he remained single through out the summer to show that he wanted to be with me. he didn't, and he still apparently REALLY wants to go out with me.
its just all of my friends hate him, my family and i'm almost sure he cheated because when i came back he was going out with the girl, and he still lies to me about it.
the thing is, hes gorgeous.
and when i was with him, he'd make me feel amazing, and special with cute txt messages.
honestly, i know he'll hurt me bad again, because hes just that type of person but i still want to go out with him. i'm just an idiot. i already know. (link)
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Dear ugh,
Don't do it he will just keep using you if you keep forgiving him and I don't usually say listen to what your friends say but truly do. If the only thing good about him is looks well put it this way. Do you want a gorgeous cheater??
Sincerely Maggie Maclean.
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I really would like a new hair cut. What I'm looking for is something in between medium-length and short. I guess I want the hair to be razor cut at different lengths. Can anyone locate me a picture? I want funky, something megaly funky! Thanks! (link)
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Dear Haircut,
Go to my website and I will make a specific page called haircuts for you to look at.
Sincerely Maggie Maclean.
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Since yesterday morning I've been feeling sick. It may help for me to tell you that I am a female, 16 years old, 5'6, and on the slim, but not underweight side. My symptoms have included slight headache, extreme loss of appetite, a few bouts of nausea, exteme fatigue, and the biggest one, chills. I've been getting LOTS of chills, but I don't have a fever. I checked my temperate today and yesterday and it was right at normal. My head and body feel warm according to other people, but my fingers, toes, and tip of my nose are cold to the touch. Yesterday and today I have taken the following medications for this:One daily vitamin, Echinacea, an herbal supplement to help stimulate the immune system, Prevacid that I take for nausea/dry heaves that I frequently get, but hasn't been a problem during the time of my feeling ill. There has been a little bit of nausea, but it hasn't been as bad as it usually is, and I've also taken two Naproxen Sodium (store brand Aleve/Tylenol, etc.)
My biggest problems is that I have to babysit tonight, and spend the night at their house, and I'm going camping tomorrow night for the entire three day weekend. I've already talked to the mother of the girl I babysit for and she told me that it was ok that I still babysat and I could just lay on their couch. I'm wondering if I should stay home from school tomorrow to help myself get better. This is only my first week of school, so I'm not sure if my parents will actually allow me to stay home. I absolutely NEED to feel better and actually BE better by tomorrow evening, because it is out of the question for me to stay home from camping. I also can not see a doctor.
Please give me any advice/tips/medicine/anything.
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Dear Extremely sick,
The one day of rest will do more good then the one day of school you will miss. In the morning dedcide if you feel well enough to go or not.
Sincerely Maggie Maclean.
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My boyfriend and i made a promise that if he didnt jerk off to porn i wouldnt drink. I told him that i didnt care if he did it in the shower because he wasnt looking at any other girls nakes...as you can tell im the jealous type not gonna lie. Well today i found out from 2 of his brothers that they have walked in on him doing it several times nd i made sure they werent just saying that. its like he promised on his dads like nd my life nd toher ppls lives that he wouldnt so i trusted him until today. it kills me when he does that not counting the fact hes been lieing to mealot lately...what should i do because his brothers dont want me sayin they told me so i dont wanan ruin their trust but i cant not say anything because its bothering me alot...what can i do to express my feelings to him about it without getting his brothers in trouble????
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Dear Jerk,
Unfortunatly by telling him he can't look at porn and stuff that makes him want to do it more. But since you found this information out don't stay with him he is ovioulsy not worth it. If you want to end it just tell him you met someone else. Before he tells you he met someone else. If he asks you who just tell him that he no longer has the authority to asik questions like that.Turn and walk away.
Sincerely Maggie Maclean.
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i don't know for like school dances when to start dancin, like look at the guy and be like wanna grind or what just do it...? uggg and i don't know how to grind either, please help me..! (link)
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Dear School Dance,
Well it is easier if you have a boyfrfiend because then you are expected to dance together. But if you are like me, single ask someone at a slow dance because it is alot easier to slow dance then dance to a fast song.
Sincerely Maggie Maclean.
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whats a really good way to get rid of acnce?
like fast& easy?
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Dear zits! pimples!
I have heard of Proactive solution. It is an acne care system that my friend used so i have never personaly used it but she tells me there is a dramatic change overnight.
Sincerely Maggie Maclean.
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Recently I haven't exactly had the best eating habits. Randomly, i'll crave really bad food (like poptars, popcorn, etc.) and there's nothing i can do to stop it. Also, at each meal i eat a whole bunch now, because i'm so hungry. I don't want to starve myself. I'm not sure if this is the cause, but my stomach has gotten really big. Well, not humoungous, but i used to have a flat somach. What are some really good excercises to get rid of tummy fat? (link)
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Dear tummy,
I used to eat alot at meals to and a relized I was gaining a little so I just took the time every morning and every night I do 20 sit ups. If you have trouble doing them by your self and don't have anyone to sit on your feet put them under the edge of a couch or a bed.
Sincerely Maggie Maclean.
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hey my hair iss SOOOOO straight and i hate it
i really want it curly like miley cyrus
or vanessa anne hudgens
like me and my mom try everything like curling irons and roll ons, but my curls come out in a matter of minutes
so i asked my mom about a perm, she didnt say no but i can tell she is trying to talk me out of it she keeps on saying "that was a thing back in the 80's and it doesnt even curl your hair it basically just crimps it and makes it weird and kinky"
but for some reason i still REALLY REALLY want to get it so should i? is what my mom says true?
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Well there are a few solutions you could choose from. You could just try using volumizing shampoos. Then in a few weeks if the volumizers don't work go to a hair dresser and see what they suggest for you. If all else fails ..get the perm!
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