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Last Update: August 30, 2007
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Well I am really awful at showing my feelings. Well, there is this boy i have a crush on and I can't even show him that I have feelings for him. What are some small acts of affection I could do so he might see that I care about him. (link)
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Smiling is a small thing but it does wonders, if you have facebook, (or if you have myspace mention a funny video you saw), and you see a funny group name mention it as convo, like "You won't believe the name of this group on facebook..." and if he responds back saying something about facebook, give him a shy smile and bite your bottom lip, and ask "You need a new friend?" that way you've got some connection outside of the class and you can get more comfortable talking to him if you keep in contact in another way. Good luck!
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14/f
i like this guy, lets call him Billy. Billy's liked me for almost a year now.. but i'm not sure if he likes me anymore. i didn't notice the things he's done for me till later on. the thing is, he doesn't know that i like him. and i can't tell him either, because i have a REALLY good reason why i shouldn't. and it hurts to see him move on to another girl. because he MUST be SOOOO comfortable to tell me that this girl was cute & hot. so i only replied as "lol, i see." but really.. i'm like "............" i don't know.... i just don't really want to let him go, because he's been with me for sooo long and stuff, i don't want it to change. help me please?! (link)
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If he's really important to you, you might have to decide what you want more, him as a friend, or as a bf, because most friends that get involved and break up sometimes don't stay friends again, so it depends on how long you've known this guy, and how much you depend on him as a friend. If you want more than you have to tell him. You could start off with something like "Do you ever think we should be more than just friends?" and see how he responds...
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About two months ago I told my boyfriend that I loved him, I 100% meant it and I (apparently wrongly) thought it was a good moment to say so (one of those "charged" moments lolz.) He didn't say anything for about 3 minutes and then said that he didn't want to say it back until he meant it. He didn't say it in a harsh way or anything, but he was very clear what he meant. I'm not going to pretend I wasn't upset, and I was wayyyy embarrassed, but I accepted it cos I thought it was probably better him saying that than him lying. I haven't spoken to him about it since, but ever since then he's been very definitely acting weird... not incredibly, but stuff like he doesn't really compliment me anymore or tells me he misses me and stuff like that. At first I thought I'd try and initiate him saying it, but that wasn't really working and I was really paranoid about looking clingy so basically it has all ended up with me distancing myself from him as well, because of my paranoia. I don't like being like this because regardless of how he feels I do love him, and he's moving away to college in a different state soon and the general idea before was that we were going to stay together... I don't know if that will work if we're still like this, but I really want to make it work in general. Please help! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx (link)
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The same thing happened to me, except that I was in the opposite position, a guy that i was seeing told me he loved me, it wasn't in the most romantic of places, I believe we were outside of a gas station, but I didn't love him, so I didn't say anything. And to be honest I did feel weird about it, I can't remember how long we were seeing each other until he said it, but maybe it was under a month. He never said it again after that. And I began to think, what if he just thinks he loves me...and then what was worse I started to fall in love with him, and again he never said he loved me, so I was panicked, thinking "Oh god what if i tell him I love him, but he doesn't love me back anymore?" Maybe by not telling him I loved him, made him stop loving me, or made him feel differently about me, like I was never going to love him. It took a long time for me to tell him I was in love with him, and I did it with a lump in my throat. He didn't say anything at first and I asked "Do you still love me?" It was the best moment of my life, but I was also fearful. Fearful that I had missed the chance to say it. So if i were to give advice I'd say to maybe try to initiate how you feel about him. One night/day when you're having a great time, tell him something like "I love being with you." And see how he responds.
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ok someitmes i dont have my period for liek 2months
i skip a mnth.
is that bad? (link)
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Even if you miss it for 2 months and you're not a teenager, it might mean that you're going through a stressful time, such as a death in the family, or problems at home,a bad relationship, any stressful situation can cause you to skip a period. But it's always good to be sure you aren't pregnant if you do happen to miss one.
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20/F/Bi
(make a long story short) I told my best friend i knew for 7 years, i told her how i felt 5 months ago and she said she is fine with it. we hang out alot with friends and each other, she might feel the same way but i dont know. Anyways...
In class (JR College) I try my best to listen to the teacher but then the whole time I thinking about her and she is in the SAME class sitting next to me! And it’s hard to focus when she is there. if she wasn’t I would focus better but now that she is in the same class I get so nervous and get all red.
What should I do????
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Well if part of you is really worried about missing the lecture that the teacher is giving I would say to buy a digital recorder, I haven't bought a new one in awhile so I don't know how good they are. And with the other, try to find something to occupy yourself with, like chew gum, or try to make friends with another girl, someone you maybe even find attractive, even if it's not about how they look, but their personality, in order to keep your mind off the girl sitting next to you. Even if the person next to you is a guy, try and get to know him, so you have someone else to talk to.
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There's this guy at my school...and we both know OF eachother but we've never directly spoken to eachother. I've had a crush on him for about a year...and then summer came and I went TWO MONTHS without seeing him, trying to get him out of my head! ...before, I was obsessed..like I would go out of my way to see him and I would stutter and do embaressing stuff; it was horrible. I would visit his facebook page (but not the full page, bc I wasn't his friend) every hour...I was OBSESSED. Over the summer, I didn't see him..and you would think that I would get over this stuff school girl crush..but it didn't! I thought about him EVERYDAY. Is that STRANGE that I'm thinking about a guy I barely know everyday and crushing on him intensely? What is wrong with me?! Now, school's started again, and I find myself DRAWN to him again...he's had NUMEROUS girlfriends and meanwhile, I've had none..Infact, I think he has one right now! We don't speak..but I think I like him for what he SEEMS to be..which is pretty darn hot. Can someone help me and tell me why my obsession won't DIE? Everytime I feel sad, I NEED to see him..he's like my drug..he makes me laugh without even knowing it. I'm insane, aren't I? (link)
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You aren't insane, at least I don't think you are. I've had the same feelings for this guy that I've known since high school. He was one of the most popular guys at school, Football player, baseball player etc...I was crazy about him. We said maybe a few sentences to each other through out the two years he was there. Then we went to separate colleges, never thought I'd see him again, but he came back home to stay, and now I see him a lot and we talk a good bit, and have had a sexual encounter of sorts. I've known him for 9 years and been his kind of buddy for the past year, if you have the guts to do it, you should ask him to add u on facebook. Get to know him better that way, don't regret what happens or what doesn't, and remember just because he may not be interested now doesn't mean he won't ever be interested. Good Luck!
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