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OMG! I was crying to today and I just need someone to tell me what's wrong. Okay, so I'm going to start from the beginning. haha. So last year I was on 8th grade and everything in my life was horrible. I didn't have friends or a boyfriend. I felt like people and guys didn't like me at all. This year things have changed yet they're the same. I'm in 9th now and it sucks too. I have good friends but I still feel like guys are using me and they don't really want a real realtionship. i've been hanging on to this guy Kent. I think he likes me but sometimes he won't even give me the time of day. He's playing mind games. i mean my life is better than what it was but it still doesn't make me happy. I still cry because I don't have a boyfriend. i thought I was over the whole boyfriend thing but now I'm still stressing over it. It's not as bad as it was. But it still makes me cry. Why won't a guy just love me? Can anyone out there tell me what's happening???

You shoudnt worry so much about having a boyfriend right now, you`re only in 9th grade. Even if you do have a boyfriend now, it probabley wouldn`t be anything seriouse and if guys dont seem to be treating you good they you could just get hurt again soon. You have your whole life to find someone, maybe you should just focose on your friends right now and have fun!

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14/f
k well all the years before i was completely shy at school around guys and now that's it's freshman year i want to be more out goin but i don't know how. i mean i'm not sure how to make friends unless i'm introduced. i also want guys to start noticeing me more. can you help me please on what to do.
thanks =]

To make new friends, don`t wait for them to introduce themsleves to you, if you want friends it might be better to take the first step and just tell them your name. So many people are shy around people they barely know, but if you want to be more outgoing, then just forget about what people will think about you. Just try thinking about having fun, if you want to get to know someone just ask them any random questions. Last year I was seated next to this guy I barely new but by the end of the year we were talking everyday, because I would just ask him random questions, He thought it was pretty funny. Just ask somehting liek "What do you want to be when you`re older?" Or "Do you have a job?" Anything that comes to your mind, they might laugh because it`s so random, but trust me it could get you alot of friends! So most importantly DONT get caught up with what people think about you!

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There's this guy at my school...and we both know OF eachother but we've never directly spoken to eachother. I've had a crush on him for about a year...and then summer came and I went TWO MONTHS without seeing him, trying to get him out of my head! ...before, I was obsessed..like I would go out of my way to see him and I would stutter and do embaressing stuff; it was horrible. I would visit his facebook page (but not the full page, bc I wasn't his friend) every hour...I was OBSESSED. Over the summer, I didn't see him..and you would think that I would get over this stuff school girl crush..but it didn't! I thought about him EVERYDAY. Is that STRANGE that I'm thinking about a guy I barely know everyday and crushing on him intensely? What is wrong with me?! Now, school's started again, and I find myself DRAWN to him again...he's had NUMEROUS girlfriends and meanwhile, I've had none..Infact, I think he has one right now! We don't speak..but I think I like him for what he SEEMS to be..which is pretty darn hot. Can someone help me and tell me why my obsession won't DIE? Everytime I feel sad, I NEED to see him..he's like my drug..he makes me laugh without even knowing it. I'm insane, aren't I?

I know how you feel, not exaclty It seems I wasnt so upessed, but what you really need to do is find out more about him! If the only reason you like him is because of his looks, that shouldn`t be enough. He could be a real jerk, you should try talking to him, add him to your face book if you have one, if you dont have one get one, just try to find out about his personality and what his friends are like. Hopefully you`ll find out there is more to like about him then his looks! Good luck!

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14/f
Im going out with a boy named Mike (hes my first bf), and hes a couple months younger than me (he kinda acts younger, b/c of his younger siblings). and we've been going out for 10 months, we started going out on October 25, 2006. and anyway we've only held hands once or twice, like when we were at a school dance, and we hug sometimes after school, and everyonce and a while we kiss (only a little peck on the lips... n2m) well i dont have enough courage to go up to him and hold his hand, or hug him, or kiss him. I love him, but i dont have to courage to show him! and dont tell me to tell him i want to, cuz i cant do that either....

well while on the phone last night, he said we should hold hands more. but idk if hes going to go up to me and hold my hand, or what!?!?
so please just help me!

Well you could either wait until he makes another move, who knows how long that could be. Or next time you or he brings up the subject just agree a little say something like "Okay" or "sure!" but nothing to big.

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anybody have any good advice on how to wake my self up before i go to school?

Ps. dont say to take a shower or to rub a hot rag on my face

If the problem is actually getting out of bed, put your alarm clock on the other side of the room so you have to get up and shut it off. Or If it`s just that you`re so tired, maybe you could listen to music really loud, and just dance! :]

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Thers this girl ive known since 2nd grade. We've been on and off best friends ever since then. We used to run around the school goofing off and having fun, but now i guess we've run out of ideas so we've started talking. Actual 1 on 1 serous talking and shes so quiet. Imean, she never wants to talk about herself. I know its her privacy but i dont want to talk about myself the whole time because i know about myself and it cant be that intresting so i was wondering if anybody had any ideas of stuff we could do? Pranks that youve done tht have worked or anything? Its our senior year this year, and everybodys kinda bored and i wnna mix things up. Any ideas would be soo appreciated, thank you!

Well you two could always just go see a movie, then maybe she would feel more comfortable knowing she doesn`t have to say much. Or what me and my friends sometimes do, we take out the video camera and make funny videos, but I`m not sure you two would like that if you`re a little older. Hope I helped.

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I'm buying an Ipod Nano for $90 2GB memory, Earphones and Computer Charger. Is this worth it? It is a used Ipod, it may have some scratches.

Maggie

personaly I think 90$ is too much for that. I`m sure you can find it somewhere else for cheaper, especially if it may be scratched. I`m not sure if this will help you but you may find one at overstock.com for cheaper.

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