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Okay so I got charged with Underage Possesion of Alcohol & Urinating in public.
What do you think the outcome will be!?
I have court tommrow & id like to be prepared for what might happen. (link)
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You won't go to jail or anything like that but the fine will not be small. You'll be lucky if it's under $1000. It will also go on your record which may come back to bite you in the butt later.
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Okay so, for starters thanks for helping me, and i know this is kind of a long drawn out thing, but please read all of it inorder to understand the complete situation.
Okay So i have two "best" friends, MC (girl), and TL(guy/cousin)
So me and TL have been bff's since we were little babies, and me and MC have been bff's for a few years too, and I guess at some point of having both of them as best friends, they also became bff's.
WELL the thing is MC like, likes TL, and she is constantly flirty getting his attention. AND he likes it he'll say stuff all the time to her like " i love you as my #1 bff, or your soooo funny, Your awsome" But he NEVER talks to me any more hardly, and neither does MC, they don't save me a seat, or if they do it's like diagnol from their seats, which are side by side.
AND it really makes me mad. I KNOW i'm jelous, but can you blame me! I don't want to confront them, because I think they'll be mad. Sometimes i think (IN MY HEAD NOT OUT LOUD)that they were both my friends FIRST bEFORE they were EVER best friends!!! If it wasn't for me well, they wouldn't be bff's. AND I KNOW that's wrong, but i can't get it out of my head!
WHAT DO I DO?!?!?! P.S I'm in 8th grade. (oh and i'm a girl if that means anything ) (link)
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Jealousy can turn a very sweet person into a very, well, not so sweet person. Just continue to be a friend to both of them.
Guys love it when girls flirt with them because it makes them feel special and manly. So when MC flirts with TL, they're both getting something positive out of it.
The feelings will eventually pass. Just give it time and don't let jealousy make you say or do something you'll regret.
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16/f
The guy i have liked for about 4 months now (and we "talked" a week over the summer), well like i was saying, i really like him. He is really cute but he has a really nice personality to go with it to. He is a big flirt with girls but he isn't a player. When he has a girlfriend, he dosen't flirt with other girls. Anyways, well my best friend has a flirty personality. They both are like that. Well when they are around eachother, it seems like they flirt. A bunch of people think this, it's not just me. Whenever i confronted her about it, she was like "No! I don't like him like that, i consider him as my brother, he is my best guy friend!!" Well, he tells her everything since they are "best friends." Everytime someone is like "Do you like eachother?" Brayden(the guy i like ) always tells lauren (my bff) "They are just jealous that me and you are best friends and that we hang out and stuff..." and she's like "yeah, since we are good friends." She talks about him being her best friend in front of me all the time and is like "people are so jealous of our friendship." I wouldn't even have the nerve to say that to her if it was the other way around. I wouldn't flirt with the guy she likes and say "oh, i can't tell you who he likes because we are bestfriends." She would have told me 2 months ago if i asked her because her and him were not as close friends then. She even once tried to hook me up with him. (Didn't work) It makes me kind of upset when i ask her who he likes and she won't tell me. A couple months ago, she would have, but now they hang out a lot more. I know she dosen't want to betray his secret but i am supposed to be her best friend and i think about who he likes all the time and she knows that and she won't tell me. She's his "best friend" obviously more than she is mine. They always hug and he hugs me to but her more. I get jealous..i will just admit it. I mean, i know i am probably not the girl he likes because he dosen't really show it, so now i just want to focus on just being his friend. I can't do that because lauren keeps getting in the way. Everytime he needs help with something, she is right there by his side, she automatically drops what she is doing to go help him. I would do that if i had the chance but i don't because she always gets in the way. She is supposed to be my best friend and help me get to be his friend more and stuff but whenever i get that chance, she always takes it from me. Best friends shouldn't do that. If it was the other way around, i would help her get the chance to talk to the guy she liked instead of me constantly being by him. I know she would never go out with him because "they wouldnt want to ruin their friendship." I know that they wouldn't go out, it's just the fact that they are such close friends and why i can't ever get the chance to get in when she is supposed to be helping me with him. Also, not telling me who he likes. Am i being selfish? Please somebody tell me what to do or some advice so i can finally feel good for one day!! Thanks!! (link)
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Jealousy stinks but if you don't handle yourself in a classy manner, you could end up losing a couple of very good friends (trust me, I know). It's extremely hard but try and step back and look at the situation from another angle.
I was in a similar situation and I know how badly it hurts and while it was difficult, I kept my jealously in check and in the end it all worked out. Chances are, your friend and this guy probably have mutual feelings for each other but don't want to admit it. Until they sort out everything going on between them, you should just back up a little bit and try to be supportive.
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hey im 17f ive never been in a proper realatship, im still a virgin, and all the guys ive liked ive met and gave them head! few guys, i just want too find someone who will wait for me and not just want me too give them head then leave me, ive started gettin name calling so because ive got called names ive done it more and i stopped but this lad i realy liked asked me too suck his dick soo i did but i as thinking about everything, what i got called and that i no nothing was going to happen after which it didnt i say to myself that i wont do it again i just keep doing it and it makes me sick, its like its going around in circles just i cant say no, it started just because i was with my ex, i didnt want to have sex as i wasnt ready, is this sick? what i have too do to get someone to look at me?
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I think the first thing you should do is take a break from guys. You need time to reflect on how you feel and build up some self esteem.
Having a boyfriend, much to the shock of girls everywhere, doesn't make you a better person. Giving a guy head isn't something you should be doing just so you can go around and tell everyone that you're with someone. It should be something special that you share with someone you truly care about.
It also sounds like the types of guys you're dating only spend time with you because they know that they are going to get something from you.
Be patient and find a special guy who will wait for you and care about you as a whole and not just what you can do with your mouth.
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i heard that when you go on birth control, there is a certain amount of weight gain. is this true? if so, how much? are there any other side effects? (link)
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In my experience with birth control, I've found that some of them give me harsh cravings and some aren't so bad. Do some exploring and make sure you're open with your OBGYN. Eventually you will find the right one.
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How do I tell my boyfriend that he makes everything better, I dont really know how to explain it. I mean whenever I'm with him it just makes everything better, like everything just goes away. Its amazing, but then when I have to leave I'm extremely boring never really doing anything. Its so weird, I dont know what to do. I want to be happy all the time but it seems like I'm only happy when I'm with him. Also, during the summer I got to see him pretty much everyday all day, and now that school has started I get to see him for about fifteen minutes in the morning then two or three minutes betweeen classes and fifteen minutes at the end of the day and then when he takes me home, its awful. I get to see him friday nights because were both in band and have to go to the games, and usually I get to see him Saturday. But It doesnt feel like I get to see him enough, I miss him all the time. Its really depressing, whats the matter with me? I mean I love him to death and I would do anything for him, but this cant be normal. Whats going on with me and how do I explain how much he means to me?
**I'm almost 17 by the way. (link)
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Ok first you need to get a life outside your boyfriend. I don't want to sound too harsh but relying on one person for your happiness is just not going to end well for you.
Set aside at least one night a week where you can go out with your girlfriends or just sit at home and do nothing (I love those special days lol). Whatever you do, make sure it doesn't involve him.
Telling him that he means a lot to you is nice but I wouldn't go telling him that he means EVERYTHING to you. That's just going to turn him off.
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F/15
I've liked this guy for who knows how long((ok maybe not that long...)).Well last year in 8th grade i told him what I felt about him he said that he didnt feel the same way for me.To just be friends but sadly we((I blame myself))left things awkward between us...
We then stopped talking to each other and hardly have said a word to each other since then.((Except for the frist day of high school))
I want to start all over and be friends with him but I still really like him & im scared that if I start being friends with him agian I will just keep liking him more & more.I want to get over him but its just soo hard!And its now more harder because lately I've seen him hang around with this girl who happens to have my name too((which I still find werid cause not many people have my name))
Now she is pretty but a little overweight((not to be mean...))She of course is the exact oppisite of me.She's girly,funny,smart,very social & she's not shy at all.Today,I saw her talking to him after school.I was in the bus when I saw both of them talking to each other.He was laughing,smiling something of him I have'nt seen all summer.While I saw them having a good time I just alomost cried seeing him like that.I thought why can't I make him laugh?Why are'nt I like her?I just started comparing myself to her and how ugly and stupid I was.Then I started blaming my self for saying my feelings to him.
I know I should'nt do that I actually did try to think about positive things about myself but they just did'nt stay there long enough...I just really want to get over him but its just so hard for me since he's the frist guy I ever liked.((Yup he's my frist crush))
All I'm asking is that how can I get over my frist crush?And how can I ignore those negative thoughts about myself whenever I see that other girl with him? (link)
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Don't look down on yourself. Here's the thing, some guys like one type of girl, and not another. Just because he doesn't like you like that doesn't mean that other guys won't.
I would just be straightforward with him. Tell him that you're sorry things left off on an awkward note and that you want to start over. Even do something clever like saying "Hi, my name is ____" and reach to shake his hand. It's something goofy and silly that will help break the ice :-)
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I'm so unfashionable and no one will help me... what should I do?? (link)
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If you really feel like changing your style, looking at some magazines might help you (ex. People Style Watch). It will give you tons of ideas and also where to get things for really cheap.
Don't wear something you're not comfortable in though. If you feel awkward in your clothes, it will show through no matter what you're wearing.
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i am making my boyfriend a picture online
its going to be a photograph with a bunch of sayings photoshopped onto it
the only thing is, i dont have a picture
i need a romantic picture that i can put words on
and it has to be like big so i can fit alot on it
does anyone know any? (link)
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Why not use a picture of yourself? Or even better, a picture of the two of you.
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