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hey im 17f ive never been in a proper realatship, im still a virgin, and all the guys ive liked ive met and gave them head! few guys, i just want too find someone who will wait for me and not just want me too give them head then leave me, ive started gettin name calling so because ive got called names ive done it more and i stopped but this lad i realy liked asked me too suck his dick soo i did but i as thinking about everything, what i got called and that i no nothing was going to happen after which it didnt i say to myself that i wont do it again i just keep doing it and it makes me sick, its like its going around in circles just i cant say no, it started just because i was with my ex, i didnt want to have sex as i wasnt ready, is this sick? what i have too do to get someone to look at me?
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I think the first thing you should do is take a break from guys. You need time to reflect on how you feel and build up some self esteem.
Having a boyfriend, much to the shock of girls everywhere, doesn't make you a better person. Giving a guy head isn't something you should be doing just so you can go around and tell everyone that you're with someone. It should be something special that you share with someone you truly care about.
It also sounds like the types of guys you're dating only spend time with you because they know that they are going to get something from you.
Be patient and find a special guy who will wait for you and care about you as a whole and not just what you can do with your mouth.
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It's not sick at all! Being sexual at age 17 is healthy.. But hun, Honestly you shouldn't be giving head to alot of guys..Not just because you'll get called names..But you can still catch STDS if you don't use a condom. And if you keep giving head to all of these guys your never going to find A guy who will wait for you because your going to be known as a "girl who gives head to evreybody" And none of the good guys will want to be with you. Sometimes guys will say things to you just so you will give them head or sex..It's just how most guys think. But DON'T fall for it..because in the long run half of these guys your giving head to aren't going to even remember yyou next year. Just stay strong and when you find yourself in that posistion just think to yourself you don'twanna be "that girl" who everyone thinks is a slut, and no good guys want to associate with. AND IF you really find yourself likeing a guy and your with him for a fewe monthes..giving head to him is fine..its nice to pleasure your parrtner. hope i helped
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