Question Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 12:39 am
How do I tell my boyfriend that he makes everything better, I dont really know how to explain it. I mean whenever I'm with him it just makes everything better, like everything just goes away. Its amazing, but then when I have to leave I'm extremely boring never really doing anything. Its so weird, I dont know what to do. I want to be happy all the time but it seems like I'm only happy when I'm with him. Also, during the summer I got to see him pretty much everyday all day, and now that school has started I get to see him for about fifteen minutes in the morning then two or three minutes betweeen classes and fifteen minutes at the end of the day and then when he takes me home, its awful. I get to see him friday nights because were both in band and have to go to the games, and usually I get to see him Saturday. But It doesnt feel like I get to see him enough, I miss him all the time. Its really depressing, whats the matter with me? I mean I love him to death and I would do anything for him, but this cant be normal. Whats going on with me and how do I explain how much he means to me?
**I'm almost 17 by the way.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? orangebutterfly answered Tuesday September 9 2008, 9:06 pm: Remeber you don't need guy make you happy.. I mean dose your family and Friends make yo happy to. it great that you feel like you happy and feel good and like your slef around him, but thing is that he don't want to hear that your only with him so you be happy.. I mean think abut it there alot other things you can do when your not with him, I undertand maybe if he frist love that ever treated you. you let him know how he make you happy and make you feel good. but don't say that you only like him if he make you happy. i don't now much about how i am saying i thought i give you my option. try find other things that mek you happy to. and you find that you care much how he there for you. [ orangebutterfly's advice column | Ask orangebutterfly A Question ]
MLangowski answered Tuesday September 9 2008, 9:05 pm: Ok first you need to get a life outside your boyfriend. I don't want to sound too harsh but relying on one person for your happiness is just not going to end well for you.
Set aside at least one night a week where you can go out with your girlfriends or just sit at home and do nothing (I love those special days lol). Whatever you do, make sure it doesn't involve him.
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