Well I am 13, but I am not your typical 13 year old. I have been through alot, so you can ask me anything. I love to be on here, so I can see what problems people have, so I can try to relate to them. I am a punk, I am no where close to a girly girl. I wear what I want to wear and if anyone doesnt like it then thats their problem. I dont care what others think of me. I wear black nail polish, punk hair style, and I skateboard ALOT! I think there is no problem with bisexuals or gays, even though I am straight. I have a best friend who is gay and I think he is so awesome. I love to help people, and I am really funny once you get to know me. I love my friends to death, and I hope I can help you in anyways that I can.
Gender: Female
Location: South Carolina
Age: 13
Member Since: July 9, 2007
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15/m ok i need to get over some girl i wet out with one year ago, going out with people dosent work alls it does it makes me forget for a while, any ideas (link)
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Try to become friends with her. I went out with this guy (im 13/f btw) and me and him became friends, and that helped me get over him. Then who knows maybe later you and her might decide to go out with him. If you still feel the same way about her after a years time, then that could mean something.
Good Luck :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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13/f and my friend is 13/f
My friend, alex, lost her virginity last week. I got really mad at her. I don't know what to do. She moved to Indiana too. I don't feel like being her friend anymore because she lost her virigity at 13. First, she started smoking, then she gave bjs, now she's lost her virginity. I feel so weird. All my other friends are virgins. I really don't like my friend anymore. She used to be nice, happy, and cool, but now shes... gross, rude and... Virginityless... Not a word, but ok. I wish my friend could've been smarter. What do I do?! Plz help! (link)
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Dont ignore her, or not be her friend. This is the time when she needs you most. Of course she shouldnt have lost her virginity at 13, but still you shouldnt just ignore her. Also maybe she doesnt think that sex is such a big deal as you do, but you should still be there for her. She needs you most at these times, instead of you ignoring her, stay close to her, and let her know that you are here for her whenever she needs you.
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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My grandma died about six years ago now.
I loved her so much, and I miss her SO much if I think about it too much I'll be balling soon.
Recently (june 16, 2007) a kid from my school died. My best friend and I werent very good friends with him in highschool, it was mainly middle school that we have memories. But none the less, it hurts so bad, and I'm watching his tribute video they played at his funeral, and its just not fair. I still cant believe it, why him? He has such a future ahead of him in sports, he was amazing. I just dont understand.
And I dont know why I feel so close to him, because if it hurts me this bad, if a friend I was really close to died, I would be a huge wreck.
What am I supposed to do? (link)
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First of all I am very sorry to hear about this guy, and your grandmother. Second of all, I know exactly what you are going through. My grandmother died, about 3 years ago, and then this guy named Joseph Johnson died about 2 years aog. I used to keep wondering what would happen if I lost some one that was close to me (since Joseph wasnt really) but I was still very upset. But all you need to do is be prepared. Death is a scary thing, but in time it will come to asll of us. If someone very close to you dies, then just go to one of your close friends and just cry with them. Crying always makes people feel better, and afterwards you will realize that life goes on. And of course you will be sad, but in time it will become better and better, even though you will never forget them.
I Hope I helped
and again I am VERY sorry to hear about these people.
-MCRxoLoVeR
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You know how people say "if you want to know who your real friends are, when something bad happens, see who's there to comfort you"? Well I kind of want to see who my real friends are. The thing is, nothing really bad ever happens to me. Haha, I'm lucky. But what should I do? I kinda want something bad to happen to me, just something that makes me a little upset, just to see who will be there for me. Any suggestions or advice would be great. Thanks.
15/f by the way. (link)
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Dont wish for anything bad to happen. Just live a normal life with your friends, and in time of course there will be "that test" to see who your real friends are. But until then just live your life with your friends, and some day that test will come.
Good Luck
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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this is me: im 13 im only a small bit over average height, i have slightly tanned skin, im pretty thin, i have short spikey dark blond hair, i skate, i play football, i have a deep voice, i like to wear boards shorts, flip-flops, tee shirts and caps. i wear abercrombie and hollister.i like to play sport and im easy to talk to. (link)
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Well I am 13/f and it seems to me that your a pretty good guy. I think that any girl that doesnt go for you, is really out of it. Trust me it's their loss not your's.
Hope I helped:)
and good luck
P.S. Trust me there will be a girl for you, you just have to wait for her to come along.
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whats with girls and being all "oh my gosh, im so fat, i need to lose soo much weight" when they look really good? are they just fishing for compliments or really think that they are fat? (link)
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It really depends on the girl. Some girls are looking for compliments because they need to boost their self esteem or something but others really do think they are fat. Plus it can also be both. They really do think they are fat, so they look for compliments to see what others think.
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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okay well i have been having a problem lately. so its summer and you know how the whole fling thing goes and all. well there has been a few guys here and there but nothing major. now i tell my bff about them and she listens but now it seems like she is getting mad about it. cause i will have this one guy and then another comes along so i get to now him a little bit better and then end up liking him. this has happened a few times and now i dont know what to do, i have finally found the guy that i like but she doesnt believe me because she thinks that he is like all the others but he isnt!!! and i know that you probably think that now too but i promise you.......i really like this guy. so how do i get my friend to believe me? i have tryed talking to her but that isnt working out so well. i just want her to accept that i really like him and be there for me. pleeze help!! (link)
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Well since you have switched she is not going to believe you. Just give her a lil time and show her that you really like this guy and that he is not like the others. You have tryed talking to her and thats all you can do. Now just give her about a week and in time she will come to realize that you really like this guy.
Good Luck:)
Hope I helped
-MCRxoLoVeR
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i've never really gotten how to scrunch your hair. could someone give me directions? please. (link)
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Ok well here is what you do from first to last.
1.) Take a shower or wetten your hair.
2.) Take your hands and just scrunch your hair all over.(until its like really curly)
3.) Take gel and put it in your hands and then keep scrunching it.
4.) Spray hairspray all over it. (you might want to use alot)
I hope I helped (and remember make sure you do not dry it with a hairdryer or something)
Good Luck :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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I work in the IT Dept of a manufacturing company where I upgrade users' computers. In the process I move their files and email account to the new computer.
On someone I was upgrading recently, I saw an email (it was what their email opened up to) relating to them finding a new job. It was from a friend or relative encouraging the employee to leave us & go to the new employer (where friend now works).
Should I tell my boss, or their boss, or HR? Or just leave it be? (link)
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Well I think you should just let it be. I mean even if you did tell your boss, that still wouldnt change your friends opinion. I think you should just leave it be, because if you told someone then it would just cause more conflict.
I hope I helped
Good Luck :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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well, my boyfriend is in new mexico for a week of marine camp. I want to do something special for him when he comes back, what do you think i could do/ make /whatever to make it special for him? any suggestions? (link)
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Definetley throw him a suprise party. Get like all his family/friends to come as well as yours. Have refreshments, etc. Then you should take him somewhere he loves to go, like a certain resturaunt or something. Make sure it's just the two of you. That way you and him can spend some quality time together.
Hope I helped
Good Luck :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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Has anyone met billie joe armstrong in perso? I love Green Day sooo much itz not even funny. anywho, is he nice? How tall is he? (link)
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Oh my gosh I love them too!! I have seen him in concert, and he is about i dont know maybe 5'5. He is normal height. I havent talked to him, but like between his songs, he is all the time laughing, and carrying on, so he seems like a really nice guy.
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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help! im m/13 and ive only ever made out with a girl who wasnt my girlfriend and wasnt hot! whenever girls meet me they seem to be interested and curious and first then just get bored of me easily and dont really talk to me..... i have a little bit of difficulty talking to them but i get on well enough when there is a good topic. (link)
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Well I am 13/f and I got my first kiss this year (he happened to be my boy friend) Well I dont really get what your question is so I am just going to try to answer everything you talked about. (lol) Umm about the difficulty talking to girls, just find out something that she likes to talk about, and then just talk about that. Also give her a compliment. That will also get her really perked up. About the getting really bored with you, well I think that if a girl just gets bored of you, then they shouldnt be your girl friend, or friend. They are just hanging out with you when they feel like it, and that is wrong. I think you should find a girl that doesnt get bored with you, and then just talk about something you both like to talk about.
Good Luck
Hope I helped:)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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when i talk i use the word "like" soo much. its so annyoing and i hate it. i serously can't tell one story without using the word "like" at least 5 times. how can i stop this habbit? (link)
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I totally agree with the person that said "reward and punish". Just get someone to let you know when you say like, and when you dont say like for maybe a whole day, then go get your nails done, or go have some "you" time. It will help alot. (I used to do this alot!)
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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okay, so i dont like teh lengh of my hair, its about shoulder length. i really reallly want my hair to grow longer. but it just wont! its never been longer than it is now. and it like wont grow anymore =[
does anyone have any tricks or tips i can use to make it grow faster?
(kinda like running it under cold water makes it shiny) (link)
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Oh my gosh I had the same problem!! Just condition it at least twice a week, more if you want to. Since most of the time your hair wont grow because of damage, you should also use a shampoo that strenghens your hair, that way, it will grow longer faster. Plus if you dont mind some unnatural hair, you could get extensions, but they are alot of work.
Hope I helped :)
and Good Luck
-MCRxoLoVeR
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can you go into the ocean with a tampon?
i really wanan go to the beach today.
or will the tampon like fall out or something? haha && after i get out of the ocean should i change the tampon? please reply asap and thanks for reading =] (link)
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Yes you can wear a tampon in the ocean, without it falling out. Since your period stops when your in water you would probably be better off not wearing one. But if you did, then no it wouldn't fall out.
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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I am gonna have sex with my boyfriend for the first time, where would be some romantic places for my first time to be at? (link)
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A hotel definetley. That way you dont have to worry about anyone barging in on you. And you have the whole place to yourselves's.
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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Hi I am 16 and I am going to get both of my ears pierced in one day somewhere, I'm not sure where yet... I have been doing some research and I have heard that the piercing guns suck! and they screw up a lot... Do you think I should just get my ears pierced by a gun, or by hand at a professional piercing or tattoo shop? (link)
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Gun. Even though they arent cleaned as well as needles, the gun is quicker, and less painful. Plus it is a very slim chance that you are going to get infected by using a gun, so I would definetley go with a piercing gun.
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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hi i was wonder do girls usually rather guys shaved down "there" or not shaved?
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Well some girls like different things. But you shouldn't care. If the girl really likes you, she wont care. But if it makes you feel uncomfortable, then trim it. (whatever makes you feel comfortable, is what you should do)
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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M/15- I'm in the middle of nowhere and i can't find any girls to meet. Only the ppl in my neiborhood and it is small and it seems like no1 here is my age. I want to meet some1 but i feel like there is nobody here 2 meet. What do i do? (link)
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Wait until school starts. I know exactly what you're going through. I am 13/f and there are NO guys here. But when school starts back, you will see that it changes. Just go to school and I am sure you will meet some one.
Good Luck :)
Hope I helped
-MCRxoLoVeR
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i care wut ppl think of me and i guess i wanna be more popular . i hav alot of friends but if anyone says anything to me like"ur being a bitch" i get rlly offended and hate them nomatter wut it is.i just weanna not care about wut ppl think of me. can someone help me?! (link)
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Well first for the popular thing, trust me it's not worth it. I wanted to be popular for so long, and when I finally was, everyone liked me for who I hung out with, not for me. Also just think about what other people say about you. I mean if someone calls you a b**** then just ignore it, and just tell yourself that your not. I mean people that call people names, are just trying to act all big and bad, and dont let it get to you. But deciding not to care what other people think about you is a good idea. I heard this quote that says "Care more about your character than your reputation, because your character is who you are and your reputation is what others think about you" So just be yourself and if people dont like you, then thats their loss, not yours.
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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