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Hello there. I'm Charu, nice to meet you. =)

I'm in 8th grade and I go to Abbott Middle School. I'm thirteen. I love my friends and my boyfriend. Partying is love.

I'm Indian. =) And I would love to give you advice about anything and everything. Ask away!

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I got a perm over the summer and it's now becoming really loose....it's super curly in some spots and in other spots it's totally straight. When i scrunch it it looks really bad, and when i straighten it, in the spots it's super curly it leaves little kinks. I really don't want to put it up all the time, i love styling my hair and wearing it down. Does anyone have any ideas of what i can do with it? I would like it to not always be something that will completely damage my hair. Thanks so much, and i will rate!

garnier fructis products will never fail you. remember that. an also, my suggestion would be to get another perm, maybe? this time you could try straightening your hair.

hope i helped :]

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ok, so my bday is comin shortly on nov. and i hav soo many plans in mind what to do with my friends. Do you think we should go to skateworld and then shopping or should we do something else? what do you prefer? for sure we're havin a sleepova=DDD



(please tell me your ideas....and no, we are not going to the movies cuz there's nothing good out lol)thnx



hi=]lol

well i guess it depends on what you and your friends like to do, so i can't really help you here. don't do anything that one of your friends doesn't want to do. make sure everyone is happy with the plans!

hope i helped :]

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okay how much does it usually cost to get your hair thinned at a salon. i want tog et it done. and how long does it usually last and does it actually work? also does it damage your hair at all and like what do they do?

it won't be too expensive [no more than $20 is my guess], but it'll just keep growing back again and again, so watch out. it takes about 30 minutes to 45 minutes, maybe less, and it may or may not look good, so be extra careful.

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hey i talk to this guy everyday for like 2 hours and were only best friends and im not sure if i should ask him to homecoming or not?

go for it unless... [a] he has a girlfriend, [b] you know he doesn't like you or [c] you already have a boyfriend.

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i like this guy hes really cute but he doesnt like me back he likes someone elsee and i really dont have the strength to tell him and if i do tell him then how?

well, sweetie, i'll make it frank. you're not getting anywhere unless you let him know how you feel. just take a deep breath and say, "you know, i really like you." i'm not guaranteeing you're gonna get a positive result, but you're gotta take a chance.

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hey i like this boy that i really shouldnt because like most of my friends hate him,what do i do

well if you really like him, then i guess it doesn't matter what your friends think. but if you care more about your friends, i think you should talk to them about it and tell them how you feel. if they still give you a hard time, then just do everything behind their backs, if you want to avoid drama.

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Well here's the deal. I'm going out with a guy that I don't really want to be going out with. I only said yes because I know he really likes me but I just don't like him. I like his best friend. But his best friend has a girlfriend...but he likes me back. So I really don't know what to do. I don't know how to dump him but still be friends? Please someone...HELP.

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Wow. That could totally be a plot fo a Gossip Girl book [just kidding]. Well here's what you should do: You need to break up with your boyfriend, because it's really unfair to lead him on. Then you should talk to his friend and ask him if he likes you or his girlfriend better. If he picks you, then tell him you're willing to go out with him ONLY if he breaks up with his girl. If he picks her, just say, "That's fine with me," and look for someone new. Who knows, maybe you'll finally fall for the guy you're with right now. But if you and your bf just don't have The Spark, then tell him you really want to be friends with him and you hope all of this didn't get in the way of your potential friendship.

Hope that helped!

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does anybody know where this quote is from i think its like;
"what are you doing for the rest of your life?"
and hes asking her to marry him??
thanx

The Monster-In-Law [it's a Jennifer Lopez movie]

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i get really bad dark shadows under my eyes, no matter how much sleep i get, and i was wondering if anyone knew a really good, and easy to use coverup that i could use. [i'm not a big make-up person, so simple would be great]

anything that has worked for you personally would be appreciated, but if you just have an idea, or something someone you know has used. that'd be great too.

thanks

Try CoverGirl products. They have the best coverup [I've been using them for years] and they don't damage your skin or cause you to break out.

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I was out swwimming yesterday and I went over to myfriend's place. I had just put on my jeans and I sat on their couch. When I got up, there was a huge blue stain on the couch. I had read something about just flipping it over so I just flipped the beige cushion over but now I'm feeling really bad about it because that stain would never come out.
Should I tell my friend?

You should probably tell your friend before she has to ask.

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When my boyfriend comes to hang out with me at my house I never know what to wear. Sense I still do live with my parents I know i cant dress over the top or they might suspect something. Any ideas how i can look sexii but cute and clean at the same time?

Try some low-rise jeans and a tank top. Or maybe something with a scoop neck that doesn't go too low.

But if you're feeling a little daring, try a DENIM miniskirt [cotton might be a little skimpy] and a cami or tight t-shirt.

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does anyone know any good mascaras and where to buy them? my eyelashes are extremely long, but arent really that thick so maybe one that makes them thicker or more defined? i really have no idea...
thanks chicas!

Maybelline works the best. It's what I use. You can get Maybelline products at almost any drug store, too.

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if you put your hair in 4 braids before you go to sleep will it be wavy when you wake up? like good waves, or will it look crimpy and bad? does it help if your hair is wet, oe whatever? i want to try it for school.
thanks

btw, step by step would be nicee lol

well if it's wet then it's probably gonna turn out crimpy. but whenever i want to wave my hair, i just put it in 2 tight braids and spray the braids with Pantene Pro-V Classic Hairspray [I think any hairspray would work] before I go to sleep.

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I'm opening a xanga/myspace layout site on xanga. and I'm clueless on what I want to name it. I've thought of Mirror Image Layouts or Sea Breeze Layouts, but I don't think I want to name it that. So I'm wondering if anyone would suggest any names? I'm open to any and all suggestions.

I think this might help:

Your birth month:

January - Denim
February - Love
March - Beautiful
April - Sapphire
May - Starlight
June - Sweetheart
July - Forever
August - Strawberry
September - Shady Beach
October - Lovely
November - Butterfly
December - Charmbracelet

And add Layouts to the end.
Hope this helps

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My sweet 16 theme is Hollywood and me and my friends want to go all out. We are trying to think of people to dress as, but are coming up blank.


I'd love to hear some advice on it, or even a website for ideas.

I tried google but it didn't help me much.


Thanks

well, you should watch a lot of music videos and try to dress like the celebs in them. like, one of you could wear a cropped top and slacks with a lot of blush and brown eyeshadow, like JLO in Get Right.

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is it slutty to wear an oversized shirt that tightens below the butt and leggings out?

no, i don't think so. it would probably look cute!

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Theres this girl who hates me and has hated me for as long as i can remember. She is like obbsessed and makes a list and profile about how much she hates me and i really dont want to be in a bad relationship with her. She goes to my school and is friends with my best friends and then it causes a problem when one of my friends wants to invite people over? How do i get this problem overwith?!

Well, you should ask her why she hates you.
If it's for something stupid, don't get mad
Just "pretend" to apologize
If she just hates you for no reason
The tell her she's being stupid and that you don't want to get into any bad relationships.
But if she still continues to hate you, tell your best friends about it, so they can try to help crack the problem

Really hope I helped. =]

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I have a light blue swimsuit but it has sand stuck in the material. It is noticable.. is there anyway I can get it out?

I've tried stretching the suit and rubbing it to try to remove sand but it is wrecking the shape and takes a long time.

Thanks!

it should come out when you wash it [remember to turn it inside out]

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hey guys i want to get my cartlage pierced and i dont know what side to do i know people say u can get either and get the side you sleep on the least but i want to get the side that will look the cutest so could someone give me some advice on people they know that got theres done and tell me what side they got it done on or even u i just want to get it on the side that most people will see you know well please help me!!! thanks

Most people get them pierced on their left. The right looks sort of hard-core, and the left is way cuter. It doesn't really matter if you sleep on it or not. Well, it might hurt a little for a week or so after you get it pierced, but after that, it'll feel really normal

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I'm looking for something that will permanently remove hair. I was thinking about getting one of those pen type hair remover things. Have any of you ever used one? Does it really work? Is it easy to use? (I can't afford real electrolysis.)

I have never used one, but I know that it might damage your skin.

Before doing anything, be sure to read this:
http://www.hairfacts.com/permanent.html

Here is a good quality product for you to use:
http://www.naturalwellbeing.com/nwbproducts/product_info.cfm/prod/26 (Doesn't permanently remove hair the first time, but will stop it from growing back on the 2nd - 4th time.)

Hope I helped! =]

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