I made this column to answer any questions you or your friends may have it does not matter what it may be about i can only give you my opinion.
Gender: Female
Age: 20
Member Since: October 12, 2010
Answers: 32
Last Update: October 24, 2010
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I was just seeing if anyone had any suggestions on how a nerd could turn into a emo im not a huge nerd thats just the best social class i fit into so if anyone can help me please do so (link)
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if you whant to change your style to try and get more friends it wont be worth it they wont be very good friend if they only talk and hang out withyou for the way you dress you should stick to your own style and make friend that are mates with you for the way you are NOT the way you dress.
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ohkay so lately ive been thinking that i might have been sexually abused as a child..alright, well lately when me and my boyfriend have been doing sexual things ive felt kinda guilty afterwards not because of anything he did or i did. idk its just a feeling. and when i think about it i dont have any memory of like younger than 10ish. when i was little i used to always wanna play "doctor" with my friends but like with clothes off, wed usually hide in a closet or something. and as from when i was little till a couple years ago i used to hump things like anything i could find. when i was little i used to hum hampers and beds and couches and my parents would catch me and tell me to stopp. and as i got older and still humped i felt guilty afterwards. i dont know why im feeling this way. i dont understand it. i even had a dream a couple months ago that my dad was trying to "touch" me but he would NEVER do soemthing like that. i just dont know what to think. any help would be appreciated. thanks. (link)
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it sounds like when you parents cought you and told you to stop you must of thought that it is wrong to feel that need and you should not be doing it. did your parents ever have that talk with you to tell you about what you are feeling?
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Hello my husband is going to be deploying to Afghanistan the end of this month and will be gone for a year. I will be working a lot while he is gone but when i come home i want to start a project or have a hobby to keep me busy. I'm not really into reading or doing anything with knitting. So please dont suggest anything like that. But any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! I do rate :) (link)
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i have just took up photography and for me it is a good thing to tack up it passes the time.
find a subject you whant like flower, wildlife,or veiws ect... you could make a portfolio. and you could even try painting or drawing them pictures you have taken.
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Okay, so I have this boyfriend who is really nice and I just think he's so loveable and soft. I love talking to him and just engaging in conversation with him. But he has this friend who can be just a total jerk I swear. One day, he told my boyfriend that I was mean to him and he gives me the cold shoulder because I don't look like a nerd just like him and his D&D buddies. Well when my boyfriend turns around to take a break from playing his game to probably have a small chat with me. The stupid boy grabs my boyfriend and turns him around.
What the hell is his problem and should I let the idiot boy bother me? (link)
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If you get time alone with ur boyfriend then have a word with him about it tell him you feel right haveing him around when you try and spend time with him and tell your boyfriend that you feel his mate is trying tocome between you both and you whant tospend the day with him without his mates all the time.
((i would not ask anyone to choose between ther mates or ther partners its just not fer on that person that as to make the chose))
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My boyfriend wants to see my vag and I told him OK and planned to take a few pics of it. I kinda told my bff who was like I shouldn't do that cos somebody can hack his phone && get my nude shots later. How safe do u think it is to take pictures of my vagina && send them to his cell phone? (link)
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it is tottaly upto you weather you whant to tack that risk but i have seen it fail for a lot of my friends when they split from ther partners and they whant to get back at them. and they send the pick to ther mates.
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Hi, my boyfriend & I have been together for about 6 months now. I'm 21 & he is 28. He is currently living in an apartment by himself, I am living in a townhouse with two of my girlfriends. He told me the other day that he wants to move forward in our relationship by us moving in together. I feel that we are ready, but I've seen a lot of my friends relationships fail when they moved in together too soon. Do you think that us moving in together this far into our relationship is too soon? My mom feels that we should be married before we move in together. I kind of agree with her, but I also feel like living in the same house/apartment with my boyfriend would be amazing! I just need some opinions... THANK YOU :) (link)
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if it feels like the right time for you then i think you should go for it you dont now until you try it and learn every one is diffrent and it is up to you and your boyfriend to make that move.
i think it is best to find out if you both can live together befor you get married.
in the long run i think it would be better for you both.
good luck :)
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I was taking a shower and I left my phone on the sink...it is an envy touch... Apperently steam got under the touch screen and now it has a reddish tint when it is on(the screen) it is sitting in a bowl of rice...is there anything else I could do? This is now about 12. Hours since I messed it up. (link)
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i seen on a tv show that if you set it in frount of them heat bulbs then it will go, i am not sure if it may work but i sure it is worth ago.
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ever just hate it when someone keep staring at ya? and never say a word or not so friendly and how can stare at them back letting them know stop staring at me and i want be nice about it. but little annoyed. thanks (link)
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i no how you feel about this my step dad does it to me to try and get me to kick off, the thing i done at first was throw water in his face but that didnt seem to come out well lol so dont do that ;)
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My boyfriend and I are sexually active and we both like sex a lot haha but I'm kind of into experimenting. He's just happy with whatever I guess, because we talk and are very open about stuff, but he doesn't really have any things he wants to try. Like when I asked him, he said "I love sex already, it couldn't be any better". But the thing is, I kind of want to have rough sex...I'm not sure why but I think that would be a major turn on for me. But I don't really know how to explain to him what I want...like if I said "I want rough sex" he'd probably ask me what exactly I meant by that and I don't really know what to say haha. So basically, how should I explain this to him? And also, if you're a guy, would it be a turn on for you? I know everyone's different but I'd like some other people's opinions :) thanks! (link)
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Find out exactly what it is you whant and start of gentle to get him started and come up with a safty word that he or you can use if it all get to mutch and stik to that word it will be best for you both and you never now you might bring out the animal in him ;)
good luck :)
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So yesterday was me and my boyfriend's one year anniversary. I had a feeling he wasn't really gonna do anything, so I specifically asked him to plan something nice for us to do. But of course, he didn't. I went to his place and he was like sorry, I didn't plan anything. Wanna go see a movie? and I just went along with it..because I knew it would happen. I also put a lot of thought into the gift I got him (which he loved), baked him some peanut butter bars, and wrote him a really sweet letter. He got me a box of chocolate and was like "I was gonna get you Monopoly, but I didn't know if you alrready had it" (we play online together sometimes and its like an inside joke).
Anyway, point is that I was beyond disappointed and sad. I didnt say anything because whenever I say things about him like doing something wrong, he shuts down and says "I'm sorry I'm a terrible boyfriend" but like, not in an actual apologetic way. So how can I express that I'm sad without him shutting down like that? i just want him to try sometimes. How do I get him to try? I mean I asked him to plan something, I don't know how to be more blunt. Shouldn't he just want to/know to plan something for our one year anniversary? It's not the first time he's done something like this. He didn't get me anything for christmas last year (and i got him cute stuff) and i was sad. He never plans/does anything romantic. Please help! (link)
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explain to him that your not sure wether he is tottaly into the relationship and that you think he should start making an efort if you carnt do it face to face right him a letter explaining how you feel about him not celabrating your one year together i think he might just need to now how you are feeling about it.
good luck:)
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My mom always wants to plan my parties. And I really hate her ideas do you have and idea on what kind of party i shuld have and how i sould telll my mom i dont want her stupid ideas? (link)
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I think you should just say that you whant to plan your party and see how you get on and if you carnt handle it you will ask for her help and just ask her advise with a few stuf just so she does not feel so pushed out.
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i had sex for the first time today...and well my b/f new i was a virgin and everything...it hurt so bad...and i started bleeding really bad...im guessing it was my cherry...but from everyone i have talked to...there isnt that much blood...there was blood all over the condom all over my legs...and everywhere...it was soo nasty...was it just my cherry...or was it sumthin else?? (link)
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Everyone is diffrent my mate hade lots of blood and she whent to see when to get cheked she was fine nothink roung but to put your mind at rest i think you should go and see your doctor it would make you feel better i am sure if you herd it from a doctor and not some random of hear..
good luck i am sure you are fine :)
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