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staring problem ever just hate it when someone keep staring at ya? and never say a word or not so friendly and how can stare at them back letting them know stop staring at me and i want be nice about it. but little annoyed. thanks
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i no how you feel about this my step dad does it to me to try and get me to kick off, the thing i done at first was throw water in his face but that didnt seem to come out well lol so dont do that ;) ]
"Oh, sorry about that, can I help you with something?"
"Oh, is there something you needed?"
"Do I look alright?"
Anything that draws attention to their staring will help them figure out they're being rude. A lot of people don't even catch themselves staring when they do it. Just be polite, upbeat, and friendly about it and they'll probably just apologize for being so rude and let it be that.
If they keep doing it then you should have a private discussion with them and ask them if something is wrong with you because you noticed them looking over at you a bunch. Explain how you definitely don't want to look untidy or cause yourself extra embarrassment so if they have suggestions to change your appearance your all ears. This is probably something you won't ever have to do but you can really make it come across nicely, as a concerned person, rather than an evil cunt who is tired of being stared ;)
Skip the "stare at them back" routine because it can send a very poor message. Staring at someone could mean so many things, including wanting to start trouble or developing feelings for the other person. Simply approach the person calmly and ask them if you can help them or if something is wrong with you. ]
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