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how do you know the difference between your period and spotting. my period is very irregular and sometimes i am not sure if it is my period or spotting. how do you tell. and sometimes my periods are very heavy and sometimes very light. i dont know. its confusing.

You should consider birth control. I got on it last month & it's helped my irregular period tremendously. Anyway, always wear a panty liner. That'll help with the spotting. Also, you should carry a pad or tampon with you at all times, just in case.

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I was making out with this girl the other night at a party and I guess she was pretty tossed since she freaking threw up in my MOUTH. Since then, I haven't been able to eat anything--because vomit is disgusting, and swallowing some of someone else's vomit grossed me out that much. Whenever I go to eat something I feel like throwing up myself so I can't eat. GaaaahhHhh what do I do?

That's the most disgusting thing I've ever heard. If you make yourself throw up, you might feel better. I'd give eating a shot. [:

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I have a guy friend that I really like, and I think that he wants to ask me out. The only probelm is that I'm now allowed to date. Now, I'm sixteen, and my parents don't want me to date until I'm in college (which I think is unreasonable). I'm not even allowed to have guy friends, so I have to sneak around to hang out with him.

Now, I know my parents wont understand if I ask them if I can date him, but should I still persue it behind my parents backs? And if so, how could I manage that without them finding out?

Yeah. That's totally unreasonable in my opinion too, but unfortuately, what your parent's say, goes. I'm not sure if I'd persue a relationship with this boy, or not. It'll be incredibly difficult to see him, & your parents'll be pissed if they find out. That'll be another reason for them not to trust you. It's really your decision, though. [:

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17 years old/female.. so this may be kind of long but, I'll try to give you the briefest version.. so there's this guy, let's call him jay. and so like a month ago me and jay spent a lot of time together, and we ended up making out and such. and like we still talked and everything, and saw eachother on weekends, but nothing seemed to progress from that, like we were just friends, but my friends and including myself thought he was totally into me, since I was like kind of into him. well, we stopped talking for a couple of weeks at the beginning of the summer, so I ended up making out with this other guy, lets call him mike, when I was drunk the one night. it didn't mean anything, just an innocent make out, and I still talk to mike, as friends. well like two weeks after that, I ended up seeing jay at a party, and I starting like him again. and since I drank a little too much, I told his best friend, and his other friends, that I really like him and such. well the next night I threw a party, and he ended up coming with his best friend. and everything was going great, we were flirting like usual, and we ended up outside me and him making out again, and I guess my friend had a bit too much too drink, and came outside, and bluntly stated that I had made out with mike. well jay totally flipped and was like "get the f*** off of me" so I was like got off, but was like what's wrong blah blah blah. and he just got so mad and like wouldn't talk to me, so I started drinking with his best friend, and got a little drunk, so started flirting with his friend cody, just to make him jealous. (yeah I know it's not cool that I used his friend, but his friend was totally into it, so whatever.) so jay just got more mad, so my bestfriend talked to him, and was like whats wrong? and he's like nothing, and she's like well like why'd you get mad? do you like her or something? and he's all like I don't know I'm confused. so I started telling him I hate him and such, while holding onto his friend cody, so he ended up getting so mad, and leaving, and told his friend "to go for the gold" (aka get some action)which is so mean, but I know he was just super mad. and like I'm just totally confused, and it's been a week since this happend, and I have no idea what to do. like do I talk to him? and apologize for being a jerk? or do I wait til I see him, which will probably be on this weekend, and talk to him in person? I just don't know what to do. and does it not seem like he likes me, like if he got that mad just because I kissed again, when we weren;t even dating, let alone talking:S? please help :):) thanks in advance.

It wasn't wrong of you to make out with 'Mike'. 'Jay' hadn't made an effort to get with you, & that's his own problem. I'd apologize anyway. You obviously hurt him & he deserves a "sorry". You should definitely talk to him in person, though. Phone & internet conversations are often misinterpreted. [:

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If I don't like a person for a good reason, usually my best friend doesn't either. (I'm not saying she has too, she just .. doesn't like them) She'll say bad stuff about them, totally hate them, and be completley rude to them. Then when I hate them the most, she'll go off and be friend with them and tell them she lied about not liking them for my sake.

It really sucks cause then those people hate me more, my best friend sucks up to them, and I'm left alone! What should I do?

As long as you're in school, there's always going to be drama. It's great to have an opinion, but I believe you should keep it to yourself unless you're asked about it. It'll make things a lot easier on you. [:

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My best friends ex just asked me out! I am afraid to tell _______ no, beacause ________ might cry, what do I do. I have to brake the news tomorrow...

Your best friend's always going to be there for you. I wouldn't risk an amazing friendship for a boy. There's no comparison. [:

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I like this guy. He is super sweet and everything! He treats me like a princess and says i look good and beautiful. But all my friends think he is ugly. He seems like he could protect me if for something would happen. Its only the second day of school but i really like him. but i also dont know if he likes me back. if soo how should i ask him out? please help. i love you.

secret person.

You're your own person. Never make desicions based on anyone else's opinion. If you like this boy, go for him. [:

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Are tacos good in a diet are they unhealthy or healthy

It depends on how you eat them. If you don't load them with meat & sour cream, they should be fine. [:

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hey guys....
okay so i did the thing with my boyfriend on sunday...with no protection....we're both fine and everything and he pulled out before anything came out but ive been reading things on the "pre" stuff if you know what that is and it is possible that you could get pregnant that way...i read that nothing really happens till after the first 5 days and today, wednesday, the third day, i feel fine i dont think anything happened....do you think i should take a pregnancy test just incase?

Wow. Why would you have unpretected sex? That's definitely not good. Next time, use a condom, or consider birth control. I'm on the shot & it's amazing. I totally recommend it. Anyway, you should definitely take a pregnancy test. My friend recently had a baby. She had no idea she was pregnant until almost a month later.

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Ok, this may sound weird but how do you breathe when you are making out? I dont know because I have never made out before, i know im a lame 15 year old girl lol. but i would really like to know and also, how exactly do you make out?

The most important thing is to relax. There's really no set instructions on making out. You simply tilt your head, open your mouth slightly, & massage your tongue against his. The rest'll come naturally. Do what feels right & you'll be just fine. Promise. [:

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2 months ago me and my boy broke up, we spent every single day of that month together that we were going out so we got really close. he was my first for a lot of things, but no i didnt give it up. He would always say things to me like i love you, or well.. atleast this is the closest thing to love ive ever been. He treated me like gold! He made me feel like i was the most beautiful girl ever.While we were goin out school was still goin on, almost about to be over and i was doin sports. I was never in a good mood and didnt really give him the best time ever that i could have. We always fought, about stupid lil silly things like me talkin to other guys and such, which i would never do. But i just came to find we both got jealous easily, and i thought it was a good thing, it showed how much we reallly cared for each other. I started losin my friends because they said we hung out to much, i tried to do whats right, when i hadnt made plans with my boy that day i would chill with my girls, or i would work my girls and my boy into my plans for the day. My boy thought i didnt wanna be with him, and i guess i kinda see why now. Over the summer for about the past month ive been talkin to this one cutee kid from my school. We've only hung outt like 5 times and most we've done is madeout. I know that he treats girls good, he used to like one of my friends and treated her like gold. He's close to my family too, and hes sooo nice! I thought maybe this could be something new, something to help me move on past my last boy. Recently my new boy told me he told me he doesnt want a relationship, he wants to be single going into school and wants to be able to do his own thing, and he said it might change he just needs time to see how things go. He says he really likes me and i can tell,but hes always with other people and we barely hang out.and now with sports startin up he'll def. be too busy. I always am comparing him to my ex, and i cant lie.. im still in love with him. All the time i keep thinking to myself i just wanna hang out with my ex, talk to him.. tell him im sorry, treat him the way i should. But for one, when me and him do talk now a days he shows no interest. And another thing is, if my new guy finds out i talked to him.. we could be over. And with me doing sports also, ill be soo busy, he might start bitchin if i cant hang out all the time. What should i do with my ex, and this new guy. what do you think would be best for me?

Id really appreciate your help id love you forever=)

I think you should just wait it out. Eventually, you'll find what's best for you. [:

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ok this is the forth time i have givin head to my bf....i have done it be for. he kind of gets ontop of me and then i do it...i iside his shirt.....like the 2nd time i did it my neack realy started to hurt can some of u help and tell me 2 make it stop and why its happening?and when he comes of course i swallow it but it tasted different......and when hese cumming inside my mouth i almost feel like im bout to throw up.but when im done or w/e i say that was good or whatever but he likes me doing it and i want to make him happy so what could i do?thanxz

~trisha~

It's completely normal for your neck to hurt while giving head. If you're in too much discomfort, take a break & let him pleasure you for a while. Also, you shouldn't lie just to make him happy. Be honest with each other. [:

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alright...i just moved && i want to meet the neighbors around the neighborhood...but i dont know how to meet them....do i just go up to their door and say i just moved next door...or what??....my mom says just walk the block && youll meet sumone new...ive tryed that, it doesnt work..cause nobody is ever out side so please help...cause i want to make new friends...thanks
Melody 14/f

Go to a local park. I've met tons of new people that way. [:

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People say it doesn't matter if you shave down there or not its your preference, but it seams no guy likes it when they dont. They also won't finger you or anything if you havent. What do you guys think? Do all guys think its gross? Also, why the hell do the girls have to shave but the guys dont!

Why don't you just trim it up? It's a good alternative to completely shaving it off or leaving it untouched. It's always worked well for me. [:

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If you make out with braces, do your braces get stuck to his teeth? Can you still make out with them on?

They definitely won't get caught. Your teeth don't touch when you're making out. [:

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I have a RABBIT, and it is a boy and it skwirts pee everywhere. what do i do?

My friend has a chinchilla that does the same thing. He's just nervous. Give him time & he'll grow out of it. [:

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I'm going to the movies with my boyfriend on Friday. I know we are going to make out because we already decided we would. How do I know when we are gunna make out? I don't want to just be standing there when he's trying to kiss me. I've never made out before and I'm sooo scared! I don't know what to do and I don't want to look like an idiot. I tried practicing on an apple, didn't really work out too well! I need tips, anything that would be helpful about making out. He's really experienced and I'm not and I don't want to look like an idiot, especially if it happens in public!

The most important thing is to relax. If you see him looking at you, he's definitely about to make a move. There's really no set instructions on making out. You simply tilt your head, open your mouth slightly, & massage your tongue against his. The rest'll come naturally. Do what feels right & you'll be just fine. Promise. Let me know how things go. [:

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