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i'm scared
I'm going to the movies with my boyfriend on Friday. I know we are going to make out because we already decided we would. How do I know when we are gunna make out? I don't want to just be standing there when he's trying to kiss me. I've never made out before and I'm sooo scared! I don't know what to do and I don't want to look like an idiot. I tried practicing on an apple, didn't really work out too well! I need tips, anything that would be helpful about making out. He's really experienced and I'm not and I don't want to look like an idiot, especially if it happens in public!
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Here's How:
Set the scene. Make sure that the mood and time are right.
Relax! Take a deep breath and let go of any tension in your neck and shoulders.
Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.
Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional.
In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other persons mouth open using your tongue.
Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other persons mouth and playfully touch their tounge.
Read the other persons body language, if they seem tense or start to pull away, stop what you are doing.
If they open their mouth more or otherwise indicate they like the kiss, keep on doing what you have been only with a little more passion.
As the kissing gets going saliva build up can be a problem, don't forget to swallow.
Make sure you keep your tongues relaxed but your lips tight (saliva again), you don't want the kiss to turn messy.
Tips:
Don't forget to breathe.
Since French Kissing is "wetter" than other kinds of kissing it is a good idea to start with dry lips, don't lick them first.
If one of you have braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be more careful and not as forceful when things get passionate.
If both of you wear braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be very gentle and avoid touching teeth.
French Kissing takes practice, but at least it is fun to practice this one!
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The most important thing is to relax. If you see him looking at you, he's definitely about to make a move. There's really no set instructions on making out. You simply tilt your head, open your mouth slightly, & massage your tongue against his. The rest'll come naturally. Do what feels right & you'll be just fine. Promise. Let me know how things go. [:
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well one dont like your lips were a lip gloss not lipstick and you know just go with the flow of everything it will bee ok good luck :))))
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tell him you've never made out! chances are, he will think it is cute. ask him to help you get the hang of it..
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its ok i can understand....well usually people make out when something boaring is happening..or when the movie is over.but u should wait for him to make the 1st move...but if u want it to happen....rest your head on his shoulder...i cant realy halp you with making out because its just insticked.....what you pretty much do is move your tounge around.....just well first notice his speed and coppy it so your not going to fast or to slow.hope it helps
~trisha~
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