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This is a really.. stupid.. question.. but.. here goes anyway:
I want to buy some condoms (im a girl) and i think its kind of embarrassing.. i mean.. i dont want everyone to know im having sex. I cant drive.. and if my sis or parents found out i was buying them.. they would KILL me.. Anyway.. when i work up the nerve to buy them.. whats the best kind to buy... i prefer lifestyles or trojan.. so whats the best.. and cheapest at that.. to buy

thanks!

I think that you should go with say your friends or someone and if you have like a CVS or something in your mall go to the movies and say you want to stop in there. Then by some other things as well so that its not obvious that thats what you came for. Buy Trojan, they might not be the cheepest but still, you want to have a good time right? lol
~*~Naomi~*~

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Sorry this ones loge but i need help

I'm in a really big social group at school and my 2 neighbors r in it. ive know them since i've moved in and we became really good friend. when school started 1 of my neighbors bff was at my school. right away we hated each other and i don't no why. about a week ago my neighbors and the bff started a book that no one was aloud to see. it really pissed me off and made me realize that every one i surrond my self with are a bunch of backstabing, secret telling liars. i got in to a big fight with 1 of my neighbors and iots sort of resolved but after that was over the bff wrote me a note calling me a poser and a tramp and talking shit about my bf. i was soo pissed off. now i don't want to hang out w/any off them but there like the only people i no.

p.s. me other friend feels the same

Maybe you should spend some time with your other friends with out your neighbors. THis will give them a chance to cool down and you a chance to get to know them better. Also, branch out, start a conversation with someone different in class or see if there is a club that you might want to join. Even if a few of your friends join with you it will get you to talk to more people on maybe some "other" friends to hang out with when this group gets tough and you need a brake. Hope I helped!
~*~Naomi~*~

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Hey, I have a gf, and she says she loves me, and we have been going out for about a week. The only times she says "I love you" is on the computer. I even say it when we are in person and she doesn't say it back... she has told me her feelings and she says she really loves me, and she is like crazy about me, but my question is: How come she won't say it back?

Saying the words "I LOVE YOU" can be scary. When I had my first boyfriend I wasn't sure what to say when he said it so I told him that I didn't want him to say it because we were to young to really be in love. Maybe try telling her that you LIKE her a lot. Then gradually get into say I love you again. But I don't think you should be saying it after just going out for a week. What a while, you have the rest of you life to be in love.
~*~Naomi~*~

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ok theres this guy that i like and last night he asked me if i was interested..i kinda freezed and just told him that i dont talk to him that much anymore so i dont know..i mean its true but thats not what i would have liked to say if i would have thought about it! i havent been able to talk to him today because we go to different schools and he hasnt gotten online and ive been really busy today but i really need to talk to him about this..he gets hurt really easily because this has happened before but a little differently..ok so the question is..how do i tell him that i like him without sounding stupid because i pretty much lied to him the night before?

I think that you should tell him that what he said to you was just a little unexpected so you weren't sure what to say at the time. Then tell him that you do like him and would go out with him.
~*~Naomi~*~

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I'm a okay ice-skater , and recently , i met ( well , not really ) this guy at the rink . He's really good , and he's an ice hockey player . I've not really talked to him before besides this one time when we collided , and we exchanged apologies and stuff .Well, i think i have a crush on him cuz i can't get him out of my head ... He's usually , ( but not always ) with his friends , and i want to know how to approach him . Any suggestions ? i rate high !!

please help , thanks ... =)

Start with smiling and saying hi any time he passes by while your skating. Then maybe start skating next to him so that maybe he will start a conersation. Then find some time when maybe he isn't with a lot of his friends (maybe just a few) and go up to him and say hi, not just to him but to his friends, and get into a conversation. Hey, its worth a try right? Hope I helped BYE!

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Ok.. I'm bi.. and me and my boyfriend want to have a three sum with this chik.. (shes pretty cute) well.. i really dont know how to do a three-sum.. ive never done it before.. how exactly do they work..

also.. is there anything wrong with being bi.. i mean.. mom and dad dont know! but i think its better.. is there something wrong with that?

First, there is nothing wrong with being bi. It is just who you are and no one can make you change who you are. Second, I'm srry but can't help you maybe do what the others said. Or ask a friend what to do. You could always ask your bf.
Srry I didn't help much but if have any other questions feel free to ask!

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ive got this friend..and we're pretty good friends..but she is such a flirt that it gets on my nerves every once in awhile..mainly when shes flirtin with guys i like..she flirted so much with my home-coming date that he changed his mind and they went together..and any guy i like she flirts with them..in 5th period..the guy i like sits 1 seat away frum me..hers is in the middle..she didnt use to sit there tho...she just now decided she wanted to sit back over by us..how can i get used to her flirting or what can i do?!?!

OMG I have friend just like that (except I don't tell anyone who I like). she will basically flirt with anything that comes her way. Maybe she just doesn't know that she does this or even that it bothers you. Tell her how you feel and don't be shy about. Find a time when you have a while to talk about and just spill. If she gets angry about how you feel than maybe you and her should take a break for a little while. Cool down and than get back to being friends. If that doesn't work than tell her you like someone you don't just to see if she flirts with them and don't tell her who you like and see if she flirts with them. It could be something she can't help or it could be that she feels she is better than you and is trying to compete with. Whatecer it is try talking to her about it before making a decision you'll regret.

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ok well i have a bf, and i like him alot. we have been going out for about 1/2 a year so far. but one of my good friends is good friends with him, and sometimes we'll all hang out, us 3, and she kind of..shuts me out. i doubt she means to. but she'll touch his sweatshirt and try to like pick the lettering off it cuz it "bugs her" or she'll walk in front of me and kind of cut me off and go with him. i feel kind of left out and like he maybe like her when that happens. i dont think he likes her...but still. she'll play around with him to like punch him lightly and theyll have little "fights". idk im prob overreacting but i was wondering if u cud help. id rather not talk to her about it unless i have to.

If they were friends before you two started going out than maybe she thinks things haven't changed that much. Try talking to him about and than he can talk to her. I'm sure he wont have a problem with this because he will want to make you happy.

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me n my bf have been going out for 7 months but EVERYONE likes him. he is in a grade above me and all the girls like him there. they always look at him and try to be all over him. theres this one who he hangs out with alot and she lives in his neighborhood. they get wicked pissed at eachother alot, but he says they r like "brother and sister". ik its dumb, but i always get paranoid he likes them instead of me or will dump them for me. help if u can, thanks.

If he says that they are like brother and sister than you have nothing to worry about. My best friend is a guy named jason and I don't ever think that he could like me. But if you are really worried than just talk to him about it and see what he says. If you can trust him than let it be, if not than maybe you should talk to him more openly so that he thinks he can talk openly to you as well.

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