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Hey whats up? My name is Suki. I love helping people and discovered I'm good at it by helping friends. I can always do best working with you to help you with your personal problems. I'm 14, native american & black & hispanic, I love mike shinoda from my favorite band linkin park. But I also like people, including you! So let me help you. I guarentee I won't waste your time. Writing is my life's passion, along with dancing and marine biology. (Level 1 Mod)

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Hi..Before I put my poem in I have to say, it's disappointing that there isnt an Arts & Literature section.

Secondly, heres my poem.(It's about loseing friends..like not deathwise but friendships ending.)

Memories

I remember how we used to laugh together
We barely ever fought, we got along just fine
We always said we'd be friends forever..
But now you say the fault of our friendships ending is mine

I dont understand what I ever did to you to make you hate me
You wont even hear me out
I was always there as a shoulder to cry on
To help you when you were in doubt

Sure, I had problems with my other friends
I worked things out with them
That's when you decided our friendship had to end.

So what it seems to me is that you cant accept who else I'm friends with
Do you really think its fair?
I accepted everyone else you hung out with
If I didnt like your friends, I shrugged it off and didnt care

But now I've learned that I dont need you
I have other great friends whom I know are true.
So what I'm trying to say is sorry for your loss.

I figured out that friendships dont always last.
I see you have moved on and so have I.
I need to stop living in the past,
And continue living my life..





Please let me know what you think! All answers are appriciated!

Hey that poem was a really nice poem. It was ahsum because it came from your heart and what u were feeling. Int he future I suggest that you explain in more details of what your feeling. It was kind of murky to me how you felt about all of that at some parts. Please explain better! Hope to hear your next poem.

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Ok, there is this guy and everyday when I get on the bus he constantly stares at me. when I get to skool in the morings he stares at me! He used to like me I think. But I want to know if he still does. i think he has a girlfriend. Whats something I could just talk about right out of the blue and not sound stupied?

Something to talk about right out of the blue is " hey what did you do last weekend?" or if your brave enough and curious " hey how's things with your girlfriend?" One of those two. If you're too shy to do even that I suggest inviting him to hang out. But ask him or tell him he can invite his gf to hang out with you too. Then you can see how he reacts to you being around him more often and him being around his gf more often. compare things such as " is he pushing away from his gf now that im here and hanging with him?" or " is he snuggling up to his gf now that im here?" that can possibly mean that he's not interested or he's snuggling upt o his gf when ur around to make you jealous. if he hangs out with you alot more than his gf when your around, he wants to get to know you better.

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okay what does is mean if someone calls you invalid or physically handicapped?

If someone calls you an invalid or physically handicapped. It means that your are crippled in some way. an Invalid is someone who can't even mostly get out of bed because they're too sick or their body is not able to function properly. Someone who stays at home mostly in bed. Physically handicapped is when some part of the body isn't functioning natrually and is messed up. Hope I was of some help!

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what is the falling hearts code for myspace?


♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥


copy n paste that in your " about me" section

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Does anyone know any good colleges for Music Management, Producing, or somewhere in that area?

Thanks

Berklee college of Music, Bentley college, Boise State University, Bryant University, Capitol College, Franklin University. If you need more colletes I suggest going to http://www.schoolsintheusa.com

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I have to go on a diet of strictly about 10 apples(or more) and 6 water bottles(and more) per day for 3 days. Do NOT ask why; but I'm a HUGE eater, so ive been having really really bad urges to eat other food. I mean i will stand there and stare at cooler ranch doritoes qiestioning my will power, i just want to eat good food so bad! Soo bad! What is the world can i do to resist these urges to eat good food??!
Thanks for anyone who tries to help(and fives).

xxAnixX

Ask yourself " are you eating to live? or are you living to eat?" Don't look at food and be hungry for it just because it looks good! ask yourself if you're hungry or u like it because IT'S THERE. Water fills u up quickly. I say if your persevering to lose weight that much, try not to think about food. keep your self busy doing something else. If you know your going to be hungry later. Try other fruits such as plums, cherries bananas.

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I have outlook express for my email. and i was wondering if there was any way to put a password on it so no one can read my email

On the File menu, point to Identities, and then click Manage Identities.
Change any of the settings.
To change your identity name or password, select your identity name, and then click Properties.
To change the identity that opens on startup, select an identity from the drop-down list. (If the check box is cleared, you will be prompted for the identity you want each time you open an identity-aware program.)
To change the identity that you want all programs (identity-aware or not) to use when performing automatic processes, select an identity from the bottom drop-down list.

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i would really like to become a fashion designer

ive already made some clothes... i just need a way to advertise them.. like get people to know my clothes are out there

for the school talent show i wanted to do a mini fashion show but we have a time limit... 2 minutes

if someone has any ideas please tell me!
i rate 5s!

Getting your work and clothes out there for the world to know is easy! Try making flyers that has some pictures of the work you've done and handing them out. If your fashion show in school is only 2 minutes. After school, Make notices to people and try to plan out YOUR OWN fashion show at your house or in your garage or front lawn. Look up desginers agencies in the phone book and make an appointment to get your clothes out there more. Try online " parson's school of design" It's great school to go to and major in. Have your friends model some of your clothes if you want. But most importantly. Get your name on those clothes! don't let anyone steal your style.

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Whats the fastest way to loose weight running cutting calories what?

I'm trying to lose weight myself. But the fastest way i've lost weight in a month up to 10 pounds was going on a " fish chicken and turkey" diet. If you can't handle that I say only eat beef and pork and greasy foods and junk foods, also acid beverages like soda, ONLY on the weekends. saturday and sunday. Lay off the carbs such as rice, pasta, bread,..etc. anything that has starch or too much sugar. Get low fat foods such as yogurt, some sort of vanilla wafer cookies. Instead of white bread, Try wheat bread. It's more healthy for you. Pita bread can also be a subsitute. For Lunch at school. I bring pbj, tuna or chicken salad sandwich and thats helps ALOT. soda can be the outbreak of pimples and it's not good for your stomach since your stomach already has alot of stomach acid already. Doing things like riding your bike, running, playing rope, soccer or volleyball are GREAT natrual ways to lose weight. I dont approve of the pills since something they have side effects. good luck losing weight! fruit such as grapes watermelon and orange help. If your hungry and your commited to losing weight. If you drink water, that fills you up. Water, drinking it alot can make your stomach full and you'll forget about being hungry. It's also good for your pores.

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if someone says ill give you "mo" time.. what does that mean?

When someone says I'll give you "mo" time. They're saying " more" mo is saying more in slang. A short way of saying it is exactly like that.

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Ok, so I was like in love with this boy last year and I played a harmless prank on him and he totally stopped talking to me. This year he has not said one word to me and he is my chemistry class. It's 2 weeks into the year and he hasn't said a thing. He's on football and I'm in cheer, so we see each other a million times a day. I really want him to talk to me and he just won't. Instead, I'm starting to believe he's trying to like telepathically talk to me or something because he will not stop staring at me. In the morning, he full on stares at me and does not even care if I notice. Sometimes in chemistry, he'll stare at me and I'll look at him and he'll look away, vice versa. These staring games are pretty silly. Other times at lunch, he'll stare and I'll ask my friends to block his view and he'll actually move to get a better look at me. I thought maybe he was staring at some other girl but all of my friends say hes lookin right at me. At football, when the cheerleaders run around the track, he gets so distracted by me that his coach tells him to pay attention. Why won't he just talk to me? He doesn't respond to my emails or nothing. He apparently just enjoys staring. What the heck does this mean?! I really need help. I feel like a celebrity getting stalked by the paparazzi and want to know why he is doing this! Help please!!

Heh. He could be staring at you because he's mad at you for playing that prank on him, or he thinks your hott and wants to hook up! I'm guessing it's number 2. It looks clear to me he's interested. Why isn't he returning your emails or calls or anything? He's probably shy! Doesn't know what to say. Maybe he does enjoy staring, But I'm thinking two things right now. He's staring because he's getting payback for that prank you did. He wants to stare at you to make you believe that he's interested in you when he's not. Then you approach him about this and he has no clue as to what your talking about just to get revenge. On the other hand, like I said before. Maybe he just likes your beauty and wants to get to know you more. He gets so distracted by you right? If you want to keep the game going try staring back at him and maybe smiling a bit. Step your game up by winking at him if your interested. It's most likely he's shy. But if you're not shy like him and interested... I say go for it and tell him how you feel about all of this. What have you got to lose?

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Ok well i am in school and i just started a week or so aago and already i dont think my teachers like me well i dont knwo bt i heard they didnt liek anyone and were REaLly mean! what should i do that can get and keep me on their GOOD sides and no where near the bad??

Your teacher in school aren't there to like you. They are just there to teach you and help you learn. Your not there to like them either. your there for education.But, If you want to get on their good side, I think you should ask more relevent questions in class that tells them your're a thinker. Also, when they call on you, try giving out the most efficient answer you can think of. Don't give up and say " uhh... I don't know" That shows that you weren't paying attention or have not been studying that much. Try coming to class on time or maybe early, just smiling and having an optimistic attitude about being in their class. I don't think teachers like faces that say " aw-man-I-don't-want-to-be-here"! Try to not be pessimistic ( negative ) about doing work in their class. OR giving compliments about their dress styles and doing their homework regularly and asking for help when you need it.

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Thank you for the stellar advice ^^;

I'm a little too nervous to approach him. No, I like him a lot as well, but I'm not one to hit on other girl's boyfriends, you know? It's wrong. I would really like to find out what's up with him, but the girl he is "dating" (this is still pretty murky about what happened here) is a girl that I was good friends with last year (we haven't talked much this year, but we're friendly to one another) It's bad territory, you know?

=) I can relate. If you're too shy or nervous to approach him, or you feel as if your being a boyfriend stealer to someone you were close to, but not as close to anymore, I think you should try leaving him little notes somewhere like maybe in his locker or desk. The notes can possibly be a poem, or maybe an invitation to hang out. But don't hang out ALONE. I don't think his gf would approve. Try inviting him to hang out with your friends and invite his gf so his gf won't get suspicious about anything. That way, you can tell if he's getting to like you too or if things are going good or bad with his " groupie girlfriend". But keep it friendly! If you're too shy about inviting him with some friends to hang out, let one of your friends do it. Or approach his gf and say something like " hey we don't really hang out much, I was wondering if you and your bf and some friends of mine wanted to go out after school?" Try not to freak them out.

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how do you make out

Good question! I've never made out in my entire lifetime. But I have been practicing the extreme. Iv'e read books on " how to's" and " do and dont's" By making out, I suggest not making it into a whole big scene like.. Rubbing the guys legs and whispering " lets make out". If you want it to come natrually, try scooting closer to him, pressing against him and then move in to his face slowly. Once you do that, your lips lock. Try not to put too much pressure on the lips. If you're going to kiss the guy, make sure your lips aren't chapped, or too wet. Guys hate it when you drool all over their mouths. Kiss softly, if he or you decided to put more pressure on the lips, make sure it's not too hard. But Kiss back and deepen the kiss.If you're not up to making the 2nd move, you may feel his tongue slither out to the open of your lips while you're still lip locked. That means that he's ready to Intertwine his tongue with yours. If you're not ready, I think you should close your lips a bit together and keep kissing without tongue. But when your ready for his tongue, try parting your lips a bit and letting his slide it. You lightly rub your tongue against his, but not with too much friction. also make sure you can breathe too. Breathe lightly out of your nose. Make sure his or your tongue is not too wet with saliva. That could turn out to be a gross kiss! But keep lightly playing with his tongue. some tips that guys might like are gently biting and sucking on his tongue or nibbling and licking the corner of your lips to part them more. also, don't shove your tongue down his throat! make sure he doesn't suffocate you in the act either. With your body, I suggest your hands should be around his neck, hands on his face or roaming some parts of his body gently, or playing with his hair lightly to show him your interested or wanting more. =D Hope this was helpful

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I just did a survey and I seriously don't know...what the heck does 'cut some rug' mean? The question was "would you cut some rug with me?". Help please.

Cut some rug can mean anything to anybody from the way they use it. My friends would use it as " come over and flirt with some boys with me" But Usually when someone says " Cut some rug" they mean to dance feverishly, wild & intense. ;) good lucking on your dancing survey.

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=/ I suck at reading guys' actions, so.....

1) He sits next to my best friend in my Social Studies Class. So one day before class, I went over to talk to her, and he jumped, yes JUMPED up and RAN, yes, SPRINTED across the room, and started talking to his friend. Matter of fact, he practically leaves everytime I come near. I'm not mean to him or anything, and we get along well (just got aquainted about 2 1/2 weeks ago)

2) When I come late into class, he stares. Like the other day, I came in late, and he looked at me for about 5 minutes while I was explaining to the teacher.

3) He'll only talk to me if I say something to him. I don't think this means anything--a lot of my friends say he does that anyways.

=/ And he has a girlfriend. Or should say "groupie". She's VERY obsessed with him. I think he just gave in, (they were friends) and was too nice to know.

What do you guys think?

If he's avoiding you, Obviously he's nervous when you come around and he probably has no Idea what to say to you first. Thats probably why you have to say something first so then he can think up an easy answer. He likes you. It's quite clear. Guys think like girls sometimes. Your no different when it comes to crushes! Staring for long periods of time, running away from you when your near him, him being quiet around you unless you speak to him first. Are all signs! Do you like him back? Ask yourself that. Guys tend to have small crushes on girls even when they do have a girlfriend. Maybe he gave into his " groupie over obsessed girl" because he was too scared to ask you out, or waiting for YOU to ask him out since he maybe figured that him staring at you would lead you on to him believing he liked you. Thats it! Your being crushed on! Good luck crushing or not crushing back!

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I have reallllyyy bad eczema and Im looking for something to try to stop it and heal it. And then I need something to take the scars away because i feel so self conceious about my skin, I never wear short sleeve shirts and shirts all i wear is long sleeve/sweaters and pants, even in the summer. I have tried to get over this but It makes it hard since not very many people understand and they ask alot, I can handle telling them but they dont usually understand. And i feel uncomfortable going out with short sleeve shirts on, and its getting harder to find clothes that have long sleeves. So if anybody knows anything to help it go away, I would love the help! Thanks!

I have something to tell you. My friend has eczema too. Don't sweat it. You can't help having it. First, I say be proud of your body no matter what you think is wrong with it. It might not seem that way to others, but if they don't understand and you feel really uncomfortable about it, I think you should make an appointment with the dermatologist. A skin care doctor. That way, she can tell you what can make your skin better. For scars, since I have alot of acne scars, I use a stick of cocoa butter. It works after a period of time. But you must be patient. Skin and scars don't heal in like 2 weeks. You have to keep applying cocoa butter everyday. Stay commited to healing your eczema. I recommend " oatmeal baths". " AVENO OATMEAL SOAKS" you can find it in a pharmacy over the counter.

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I am having a new friend over today, and I would like some ideas on what we can do. I have DDR so that is one thing, but besides that all I can really think of is tv. I am a female/16 if it helps! Thanks!

If you have no clue as what to do with your new friend when he/she is over, ask what your friend is interested doing. There are plenty of things to do inside of outside. Maybe play sharades or guessing games, prank calls, call some friends and invite them over. Things outside like, go to the park, hang out at aybe a basketball or football game. If you're not interested in any of these things I suggest a game of poetry. one person says a wacky line the next person does the next wacky line that has to rhyme. Other than that, I strongly suggest asking your friend what she'd like to do or ask her if she any games she wants to bring over. good luck with your new friend!

~ Laydee Aki

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Okay, i'm 17/f and i recent issued a question of a possible pregnancy. My next question is....i have birth control, i went to planned parenthood abouta month ago, and got some, but the nurse told me that i should wait until the sunday after my period to start. well my period is late and i wondered if i could start the birth control, but with the pills that bring my period first, so maybe i'll be able to see if my period comes, and if not...well i know what that means. I appreciate you all reading this, and i hope i get some help. thank you again.

Wait until your period comes. I suggest not taking any pills that bring your period. Let it come naturally. You don't want to rush into taking the birth control too early. It could have some bad side effects. Someone close to me used to work with pregnant teens and give out birth control and explained about how it worked. I think you should go to the doctor if your period is way overdue than normal.

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My hait is pretty thin & long. Is there any way I can get my hair thickened. I know its proboly not possible but I was just wondering. I eat extremely healthy. Eveerything I basically eat is organtic & I take supplements. So its not because of my eating habits. Thank you!

The foods you eat that are organic can possibly be why your hair is pretty thin and long. Getting the nutrients you need for your hair could possibly make it longer. I suggest vitamin E. anything that has vitamind E in it. Maybe watch what you eat and read whats on some labels in the ingredients section of a food. Maybe it is because of your eating habits. Some stuff like a juicy greasy burger can possibly have what you need for your hair instead of eating healthy and taking pills. some pills dont have EVERY nutrient you need for hair growth and thickness.

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