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Hey, I'm LadyJade. I created this column mainly because I genuinely love to help people with stuff that they are going through or share with them stuff that I may have gone through or may even be going through. I love people who are "real" and down-to-earth. 'Life's a stage on which we are the actors.' The actors need direction and I want to help with that.
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my friend slept over at my house, and we both slept in my room. i have a computer in my room, and i told her that she could go on my computer if she woke up before me, which she did. when i woke up, i was still in bed and i just opened my eyes, but i didnt move or anything. i could see from where i was on my bed that she was going through my computer and looking at all of my things. i could see that she was looking through one of my word documents. then when i said something, i sounded tired and she closed the document immediately and i could see she was hoping that i hadn't seen her looking through my things. i know that i shouldve said something but i didnt, and i completely regret that now, because it shocked me that she would do something like that.
so my question is...should i just try to forget about this happening? and also, is it just me or is it wrong for someone to look around someone elses computer without permission, even if they are(somewhat) a good friend?
thx a lot.
If it really bothers you then you should definitely talk to her about it. Everyone deserves some privacy-even when it comes to their computer. I know 'cuase I store some of my most personal stuff on my computer.
Hope I helped.
I'm always here.
I was talking to my best friend (who recently moved away) and she told me that i should let one of my guy friends into my life. she knows that i have a fear of opening up to people and trust problems because of my past. so, the question is, do i let this guy be a part of my life. or do i just leave it as aquantinces?
There's security and peace of mind in playing it safe in life but life without risks is boring and while it may keep you from pain, it robs you of joys in life.
Ultimately, you need to search your heart and ask yourself if you're ready for this step. I know you'll follow your heart.
If you need me I'm alway here to lend an ear.
Well we were really close friends and we always slept over each others houses. and one night when he slept over i wanted to go to bed and he wouldn't let me soo i started dancing on him and he left me alone. and then he started feeling me up. and now it's really wierd. we never really talk anymore and it hurts. i use to tell him everything. and now he doesn't act the same anymore. should i talk to him about it or just drop it?
I agree with clouded bluee. Maybe he liked you and you hurt his feelings when he found you felt it was weird so he backed off. You probably hurt his pride as well.
Talking from experience, you should probably give him a little time to get over it but if that doesn't work you might have to talk to him about it. It won't be easy but if you value your friendship, you should tell him why you acted the way you did and how you feel about the whole situation. Most of all, tell him how much you value your friendship with him.
i recently got a pregnancy test after beng 4 days late for my period and it came out negative its now gone another 6 days and that means im 10days late on my period could i be pregnant and are the tests ever wrong???please write bak and answer my questions luv me xxxxxxxxxx
Missed periods are caused by a number of factors besides pregnancy such as stress, climate change etc. However you should consult your doctor to check things out-just in case.
I want to keep more things to myself. I complain about everything all the time, and I always talk about people, good or bad. I hate it, how do I learn not to tell people everything, like when to stop? thanks!
I think your a very open person-probably more frank than most of us.
Being open can be very beautiful-that is without the "complain about everything all the time".
Here's a tip: the next time you are about to complain about something you should do one of two things: 1)try to think how it could be worse
OR
2)try to think on the posotive side of
things.
And the next time you are about to talk about someone good or bad, think of how it might affect the person and whether it's appropriate or neccessary.
Lastly, try listening to what others have to say more. People will start to look at you differently too for 'there are few who don't become more interestingwhen they stop talking.' Mary Lowry