1. would you perfer a girl/male to make the 1st move & just like grab your head & kiss you OR you make the 1st move
2. how do you show your feelings towards a female/male [ like show them you like them ]
3. how do you become not shy [ like be open & show your feelings towards someone ]
4. what if you like someone, but you dont know them that well to hold a conversation, what do you talk about ?
5. how do you show your feelings towards someone that you arent sure likes you back ?
6. how do you know the person had enough with flirting. like when to stop ?
1. I'm a girl, and I perfer the guy to make the move, unless we are really comfortable with each other. I mean what the heck, then I'll just do it.
2. If I like a guy, I flirt. A LOT. I always try and be around them, and try and get attention.
3. You have to learn how to be crazy, I'm insane and my friends and boyfriend love me. I dont care what people think of me, and i can do stupid stuff and dont care if people laugh at me.
4. Talk about random crazy stuff, or be funny. That always workds
5. Flirt with them a little, test them.
If they dont like you, promise me ... you'll know!
6. If they walk away, try and ignore you or dont flirt bacck!
hope i helped xoxo.
-LYSSAA
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I like this guy and we used to like best friends kinda sorta?
and then when school started everything kinda faded off, we had sex and did all that stuff, [we lost our virginity to eachother] we stopped talking when i moved down the street but we still go to the same school
he stares at me at lunch and talks to me SOMETIMES but whenever he does talk to me, he like throws something at me or takes something of mine
He had this girlfriend that he supposedly liked so much but she was weird and didnt hang out with any of the same people he does, i hangout with the same people he does though
they supposedly broke up tonight but im not 100 positive
i like him so much and im in a hard position
can someone help me please/?!>!
Dear No More Girlfriend,
I would simply talk to him. Call him, IM him... if in person is too hard. Ask him about he & his girlfriend, and ask him what his feelings toward you are. I wouldnt go right in for it if he doesnt feel the same way. It sounds like you two were pretty close... and if theres still sparks in there, then you are one lucky girl. Anyhow , i wish you the best of luck.
xox
- LYSSAA
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dear lyss,
wow i feel like i know you! but that couldnt be possible hehe well okay so ya know my boyfriend lets call him "rick" always flirts another girl lets call her.."Maylor" and i dont like it! i know he doesnt try to flirt with her but sometimes she always starts it and she does it right infront of me!
what shall i do?
hehe
Dear Flirtacious Machines,
Hmmm. I think your going to run into this often if this "Rick Kid" is a cutie. And we all know "Maylor" is defffinetly a flirtacious person so my best advice for you is to consult nick (shit i mean rick) and or "Maylor" and make your point. He's YOUR boyfriend, not HERS and belive me ... he wouldnt dump you for "Maylor" she is strictly one night stands ;)
xoox. Hope I can Help!
-LYSSSAA
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Why do you like your boyfriend/girlfriend?
Just your honest opinion :]
Something more than looks, please.
Dear WHY,
Myy boyfriend =]. This is a strange question- but anyway, my boyfriend is amazingg. We've known each other sine we could walk, basicly.
Okay and we've been bestfriends forever... I always told him everything so last year we just decided to date. He has a great personality + He's funny & reallyy nice (most of the time). I get along with all of his friends, like brothers. Lets see... he's really good at everything he does & he's smart. Name any sport, and he plays it (and well). We always have fun together, and make each other laugh. Expect we fight a LOT but dont really mean it, we argue but we always make up. Not to mention he is gorrggeeouss =]
-LYSSAA
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I have thick curly hair!! And i feel lucky that i do have it but............... my hair styles r so limited i want one that will not make me seem dull or to preppy or sporty. My constant hair style is half up half down snd its getting dull. Just ;ast night i cut my slef one side bang to add coolness but im still dull!! i need a few hairstyles i could do with my hair that wont make me half to straighten it.
HELP!!
Dear Hair Help,
OH MY GOSH, you sound exactly likee me!
I have the same type of hairr. Okay this is what I do ; most of the time i keep it up in a messy bun with a little of my side bangs down. Alsooo, try braids, french or normal. Straighten it all and have it in a low pony kind of on your shoulder. Or just straighten it and keep it down normal.ALSO- buy moose, and keep it down and curly! Sorry I dont have much... but like you said hair styles are EXTREMLY LIMITED for thick curly hair, and I know from experience. Hope I could help. xoxo
- LYSSAA
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Okay, so theres this guy, who i am pretty much in love with me, I like him so much, and he knows it, i tell him all the time. but he always tells me its just not the right time? what does that mean, not the right time? I dont understand because when were together, most of the time he always kisses me, and always touches me and stuff, and tells me " i drive him crazy" and we can actually look into eachothers eyes for i dont know how long, but its an amazing feeling and i know its love. But when i told him i just wanna be with him, he said he likes me too, but its just not the right time? he said he wants it to be right, and wants it to last. how can it not be when he always wants to be around me, always wondering what im doing when hes not with me, and always just lightens up with smiles when he sees me? I asked him if he was just scared, he said maybe. I really think hes just scared.. but i dont understand why he just wont be with me, he knows i love him, does he love me too?
Dear Does He Love Me,
Oh boy; from the sounds of it, it sounds like love. However it also sounds like its "not the right time" because of another girl possibly? I'm not saying he's interested in another girl.. because by the sound of it he is DEFFINETLY interested in you, however has he had a bad past relationship with a girl ? Or do you know of a girl who likes him A LOT? ALSO like you said he could deffinetly be scared.. sometimes when guys realize they really love a girl it scares them. That could also be a possibilty. I suggest giving it time, it will be more fun when he's not "scared" anymore, anyway. Well I hope I helped. xox
- LYSSAA
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my bf has a really romantic song on his myspace about me....and i really want one for him!
what is a good song in the country/rap/hip hop genres that are really romantic and that he might like?
Romantic Songs! =) Here are my favorites:
Maybe I'm Amazed- Jem
Brighter Than Sunshine- Aqualung
I Will Always Love You- Whitney Houston
Amazed- Lonestar
I'll Be- Edwin McCain
Thoughs are just a few.
If you dont mind my asking, whats his song
on myspace? Just in case i should add it to my
favorites list ! Hope I Helped !
- LYSSAA
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i was just wanting to know what are some things that a girl can do to the guy while making out to give him satisfaction. like besides just kissing his lips while he does stuff. thanks
Dear Making Out,
Well... it all depens on where you are for making out, how much satisfaction and how long you've been dating. I suggest ruffling through his hair ( for beginers) say if your in a movie theater or public places. If your laying down , on a bed or such move your hands everything ( not EVERYWHERE ... but you get what i mean ) And you dont just have to kiss his lips.. neck & stomache are fun too. Hope I helped xoxo
- LYSSAA
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Ohk well my bf has a really small penis, and i no it isnt really a big deal or nothing but i just dont no how to tell him without hurting his ego, coz i mean he thinks is massive but really.......
any guys advice would help
thanks
Dear I Dont Know What To Tell Him,
What makes you think you need to tell him?
For me personally it sounds like that would
be embaressing for both of you so my advice
is just drop it, unless ... you want to put him in an akward postion, all guys wish their penis's were huge.
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I need to know why it is so hard to talk to a guy. I can never get out what I n eed to say or what to say to a guy. please help me
Dear Why Is It Hard To Talk To Guys,
Want to know why? THEY ARE INTIMIDATING!
You want to impress them and it stresses
you out; just relax. If they dont like
you for who you are, then move on to differnt
guys. Crack a joke, be flirty & you'll do fine
Hope I could help
xoxo
- LYSSSAA
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Okay first of all my friend hates me because she thinks I told a much older guy that she liked him but I didn't. I keep saying that I didn't but she won't listen.She keeps telling me that I am stupid and everyone hates me when she is the only one. She tells me to stop talking to her and it drives me crazy. What shall I do?
Dear What Shall I Do,
Oh boyy.. the ever popular fight over a guy issue. Expect this one is a little twisted, I recomend listening to her.. dont talk to her, and "shutup". She`ll come around, belive me.
If you really didnt do it and you told her that
then you have nothing to worry about. She'll get over it... meanwhile hangout with different people ( the people who dont " hate you" ) Beleive me ; thats stupid just give her space for a while.
Hope everything works out
xoxox - LYSSSSAA
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I'm not fat, but not skinny, and I have like this little bulge on my stomach. Even when I suck in my stomach.. unless I do it real far.. but like how do i get rid of that belly fat in general? I'm 13, 5'3, and weigh like 140 pounds I think. Also, I'm black.. and this may sound like a petty escuse, but my mom said that our bones are heavy so we usually look like we weigh lighter than we actually do. (not talking about african americans tho.. idk about them. my heritage is from like cameroon.) anyway, what excercises can i do like everyday and what foods should i be eating to help and what foods should i stay away from? thanks for the help!
also, this kinda doesnt relate, but sometimes i get like a little swell under my skin in my armpit and when i touch it it hurts.. maybe its cuz i didnt weightlifting in gym today and i havent done that since like friday? i have no idea.. but its happened before and it hurts. what are tips so that in the future i can make it hurt more or not at all? its in my left armpit too.. also is this normal??
Dear Belly Fat,
Being 13, these are the best things you can
do for belly fact ;
- CRUNNTCHHESS!
- Eat healthy lots of fruits & vegtables
- MORE CRUNCTTHESS
- Run, run, run.
- DRINK A LOT OF WATER.
- Stay away from any kind of soda & whole milk.
- Apples, Bannas & yogurt are good =)
- Chips, brownies & candy are bad =(
- Oh, and stay away from whitebread.
- CRRRRUNNNTHESSS.
Hope I helped
xox- LYSSSAAA
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16/female.
Let me just start out by saying that I am a STRONG believer of gay marriage, and I have absolutely NO problem with homosexuals in the slightest.
One of my friends is a lesbian, and I love her because she's amazing, she really is. But, lately she's been really touchy feely. She writes me notes saying, "I know you're in denial, I know you're conservative & straight, but you should atleast experiment & give it a try." I AM straight, I was born it, so I can't just change and be a lesbian, that's what I think & feel. I'm not attracted to her at all.
She'll like come up to me in the halls at school, and hug me and kiss my neck and shove me up against a locker, and it seriously is beginning to look like I'm a lesbian.
When she does this, I just say, "Nooo! STOP IT" Like, I don't know if she takes it seriously or not, but when I say stop she does. So, today on AIM, we were talking, and this was our conversation:
Her: I'm going to look hot tomorrow in school.
Me: Ahah, Whyy??
Her: I got new clothes.
Her: Kiss me?
Her: :)
Me: Ahh, that's nice! :)
Me: lol, No thanks.
Her: No thanks, what the fuck?
Her: Why did you say that?
Me: To the whole "kiss me" thing.
Her: Whatever.
Me: HEY! don't!!
Her: Don't what?
Me: Be mean. :(
Her: You did this yourself.
Her: It's your fault.
* BLOCKS ME *
Ahhh, so. I just would like to know if this is any of my fault at all. I'm not LEADING her on, I wouldn't even know how to do that. I'm dating a guy & I'm really attracted to him & she knows that. But she'll always say that I need to experiment with her & stuff, and it's just really weird for me.
Thanks in advance. :]
Dear Lesbian Friend,
Thats just a little creepy. I, like you dont have a problem with gay marriage and so on.. but if your friend respects you enough she wouldnt do that to you. That puts you in an awful position, so sit down and tell her straight forward YOUR STRAIGHT and if she cant respect that you cannot be friends any more.
Hope I Helped oxox.
- LYSSAA
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I am 13, and i hvae C36 Boobs...
Al teh kids at school make "jokes" bout them and it really makes me mad..
what should i do? Can i shrink them in any way?
Dear BOOBS!,
Oh boy the "big boob jokes" I`ve heard them all, One of my bestfriends is just a little older than you with C36. All I can say is if you wear tighter fitting bras (without squishing them too much ) That could help, and less tight clothes.. but whoever makes fun of your boob size is seriously retarded beacuse It's not like you said, HEY GOD GIVE ME BIG BOOBS PLEASSE ! But hey, maybe in the future they will come in handy =]Hope I helped.
- LYSSAA
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13/f.
So once its Christmas time I will have been dating my boyfriend about a month and a half. I know its not very long but I wanna get him something for Christmas. I know he is going to get me something and I always feel bad if I have nothing to give in return to people, so any ideas? Thanks.
Dear Christmas Present,
Since it`s only been a month this is difficult. Depens on what he likes? If he is into sports I recomend a giftcard to Dicks Sporting Goods ect. Or is he more of a preppy kid ? If so I recomend giftcards to AE, A&F and so on. Sweatshirts are always good ideas. Picture frams are also another good idea, if you feel like being corny & cute buy a little I Love You teddy bear =] Do you guys have any inside jokes? You could get him to repersent a funny time, for example : I dated this guy who had super crazy hair and all of my friends told me to get him a hat to calm it down.. he thought it was pretty funny. So goodluck & happy holidays xox.
- LYYSSAA
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18/f
where can i get sheap ugg boots?
thanks in advance..
Cheap Uggs? Mmm. Goodluck with that one, expect I would try Marshalls. Glad I could help
- LYYSSAA
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how do you know if a guy likes you or hes just playing head games like hell say and do something one day and something different another and he always looks at you but.............. sometimes he acts different by his friends and other gurls
Dear How Do You Know,
Mind games? Uh huh. Been there done that, they suck. You never know; but this all depens on do you like him? Has he sucked you into all this mind game madness? Find out, use his friends or just signals and play him back. You can't let it get to you either. A lot of guys think its uncool to like a certain chick or act one way around a certain chick while with other people. You never really know for sure.. but most of the time a guy wont play with your head unless he does have a little something for you =]. If you find out he likes you, mess with his head a bit and belive me thats always fun. Goodluck
xoxo
- LYSSSSAA
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heyy i wanna make a new screen name but i dont want it to be corny and i want my name in it (Alex)or mybe (alexandra) and im a girl n everythign i try with alex sounds like a guy so anyone have ideas ?
Here are some ideas:
Woaah its ALEX
ALEXANDRA yo
Alex oxo
HEY ALEX
xo Alexandra
X L E A
pshh ALEX ox
A to the L E X
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O.k. sooo, my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a week now. We've kissed, but havn't made out. I've never made out before. Everyone thinks I've made out before, even my boyfriend. His friends keep telling me for my birthday he's going to finally make out with me as one of my presents. He's had A LOT of expeirience with girls and makeing out, and as I said I have NEVER made out. My questions are:
1) Will it be TOTALLY obvious I've never made out before?!
2) Will I be a horrible kisser??
and
3) How do you make out?!
I'm so worried right now. I'm NOT going to tell him I've never made out before so don't tell me to do that. I'm just scared he's going to notice and think I'm the grossest kisser ever. He always tells me girls tell him he's a really good kisser, and I'm scared cause I havn't made out before! I have no idea what to do while making out. Where do your hands go? What does your tongue do? How are people able to make out for long periods of time without getting bored? HELP! Please please please. I need answers quick!
=] I remember I was exactly like you, I was soo nervous. Like its such a rush I promise. Just go with it, if he knows what he's doing your finee. You dont even have to think about it.. It will just come. And HEY! if you two are close even if you suck and you know it crack a joke make him laugh ya know ? RELAX RELAX RELAX.
TIPS !!
a)Your hands, rest it on his shoulder, his cheek or like ruffle it through his hair ;)
b)Only let him go as far as you feel compfortable, dont let him do anything you dont want him to do.
c)Just relax and enjoy =]
- LYYYSSSAA !
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I've had the same old style for a good amount of time.
Do you know any stores with good style so i dont look dull and boring like usual?
Depens what your looking for .
Preppy? HCO;A&F.. American Eagle Aero(sometimes)
Professional? Forever21 Gap
Dont care?Old Navy has a bunch of different stuff
ACCESSORRIESS MAKE THE OUTTFITTT.
Want to be stylish ? Put on some pearls?
Charm bracelts? Belts? Cute hats? - For this type of stuff I remcomend Target,Claires & Icings
- LYYSSAA
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