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My name Is Kittzen, i have a fresh personalty and i never get old on you. i enjoy to have fun and i will love to help you with your life. got any questions for me just ask and i will answer. i have no problem being myself and i love to do anything crazzy and wild but always have time to be serious. don't worry I'll do my best to help you and i will never try to let anyone down. think what you want about me but that doesn't always make you right.don't let these pretty pink words fool yaa, i am no girly girl!
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Okay.. so there is this guy at work that I like and hes always walking by me saying like whats up? or whats going on? And I never know what to say.. Does anyone know what I could say that is kind of like witty.. not really flirty though.. or maybe just a little bit lol.. Thanks for anyone that answers =] (link)
You could start a conversation and say "not much, how about you?" You say something like "the sky, or the roof" or something like that. or when he says "what's up" you can say, "you, you're the one with the bright, uplifting personality" or something that really fits him. hope i helped


I realize that there are different versions of the Stephen King book "The Shining" so I will type the page that I have, then type the one that comes after it. I am missing a page and I checked the local library and they do not have a copy of it. :/

Chapter 28-- "It Was Her!"
the bottom of this page says: He got up, walked slowly down to the first-floor landing and stood there for a moment. He took his handkercheif from his back pocket, wiped his lips with it, and considered going down and pounding on the bedroom door, demanding to be let in so he could see his son. She had no right to be so goddam high-handed.
Well, sooner or later she'd have to come out unless she...
-----missing page-----
"Hi Lloyd," he said. "A little slow tonight, isn't it?"
Lloyd said it was. Lloyd asked him what it would be.
"Now I'm really glad that you asked me that," Jack said, "really glad. Because I happen to have two twenties and two tens in my wallet and I was afraid they;d be sitting there until sometime next April. There isn't a Seven-Eleven around here, would you believe it? And I thought they had Seven-Elevens on the fucking moon.

If someone could please type the page I'm missing, it would be much appreciated! Thanks. (link)
THIS IS RIGHT WHERE YOU LEFT OFF...

Lloyd sympathized.
"So here's what," jack said. "You set me up an even twenty martinis. An even twenty, just like that, kazang. one for every month I've been on the wagon and one to grow on. you can do that, can't you?"
Lloyd said he wasn't busy at all.
"good man. you line up those Martians up right along the bar and I'm going to take them down, one by one. white man's burden, Lloyd my man."
Lloyd turned to do the job. jack reached into his pocket for his money clip and come out with an Excedrin bottle instead. his money clip was on the bedroom bureau, and of course his skinny-shanks wife had locked him out of the bedroom. nice going, Wendy. you bleeding bitch.
"i seem to be momentarily light," jack said "how's my credit card in this joint, anyhow?"
Lloyd said his credit card was fine.
"that's super. i like you, Lloyd. you were always the best of them. best damned barkeep between Barre and Portland, Main. Portland, Oregon, for that matter."
Lloyd thanked him for saying so.
Jack thumped the cap from the Excedrin bottle shook two tablets out, and flipped them into his mouth. the familiar acid-compelling taste flooded in.
he had a sudden sensation that people were watching him, curiously and with some contempt. the booths behind him were full-there were graying, distinguished men and beautiful young girls, all of them in costume, watching this sad exercise in the dramatic arts with cold amusement.
Jack whirled on his stool.

THIS IS THE END OF PAGE 358 IN MY BOOK. TELL ME IF I GOT IT FULLY AND IF NOT, I WOULD BE HAPPY TO TYPE MORE. GOOD LUCK READING IT, I AM ALSO READING RIGHT NOW MYSELF. GOOD BOOK.


this is a completely random question but iwas just wondering, can you have sex and have a 0% chance of pregnancy if you didn't start your period yet? (link)
Yes because your body hasn't matured enough to have a baby and the period tells you you have matured. but with breast developing the period will come sooner than you think, so if it is about your time, it wouldn't risk unprotected sex. (now or at any time.)


this is mostly meant for those who have been in a relationship for a while, but anyone can answer. when(how many months) did you first tell your boyfriend/girlfriend you love him/her? thanks in advance. (link)
Four me it normal falls around when i feel it first. but one that i have in mind was around the second to third month if that helps. just know that when you love some one if it takes a year or maybe a day tell them, they might not feel the same thing back right away but give it time. if they are meant for you they will understand.


so i straighten my hair alot because it's curly, does anyone know anything that can make my ends from not splitting and frying so easily?
whether it's a certain straightener, type of shampoo or anything! i'm in desperate need of it. help! :( (link)
i have the same problem and since my aunt is a hair dresser she gave me these good products that really work.
joice silk result thermal smoother styling spray (this one is good to style your hair with a curler or something like that and it protects.)
chi 44 iron gaud thermal protection spray (this one is really good for straighten your hair and preventing damage)
bain de terre recovery complex anti-frizz shine serum. (this one works for when you are done straighten your hair it provides shine and makes it even straighter. it also makes it really soft and loveable.)
hope these things work for you, they work for me.


okay so I am 20/female living in LA, cali and i have a serious problem keeping a job. i am 20 and have had 10 jobs since i was 15. the longest i have kept a job was about a year. for some reason and i don't know why it's like i get bored or something and move on. and i really need some help on how to stop quiting my jobs and why i am like this!?! my last job i had here in LA was a really good job and i could kick myself for quiting! i got paid really well and it was a laid back job in beverly hills. now of course the economy is horrible and i'm still lookin for a job! i just need to know why am i like this and what can i do to stop being like this! (link)
I believe that you keep quieting your job because of the fact that you know that it is not really what you want to do. think long ago about what your dreams were and what your plans where for the further and what you really what to do for a living. when you find out what you want to do for the rest of your life that go for it. get small jobs to help out with the expensives and keep reminding your self that you are working up to what you really do want.


i am twelve years old i have not started my period and a couple of weeks ago i popped my cherry . i am now fine but does this mean i will never start my period in the future because i popped my cherry without starting my period first??? please respond x(female) (link)
A period comes when your mind says you are ready for maturity and it sends the signal though out your body. I do not see that you will never get your period because your body has to mature sooner or later and it will probably start. a period normal comes some time after your breast began to developed, so when your breast start to developed just wait a well and if it is anywhere from two to three years and you still haven't experienced it that you will have to connect your family doctor. Hope I helped


16/F

I think the guy i like likes me, but i'm not totally sure. There are a lot of signs that could prove he does but I'm still not sure. He doesn't know I like him though. So I've never had a boyfriend, and I like to do things gradually and slowly, I don't feel comfortable just blurting it out to him. How can I gradually hint to him that I like him and how can I lead that up to makinghim figure it out sortof? (assuming he doesn't make a move first). We talk in two particular classes, and one of them is every other day where we talk the most but my friend is also there. so help! (link)
I think you could hint it by flirting and just joking around, like when he says a joke or something funny, laugh (pretend to laugh) and say it between breaths. it will be a big hint, but he might just take it as so glad were friends. you could also have your friend tell him, or hint it at him sometime where your not there. or invite him on a date with your friends, this will get the message acrossed, i hope, and get you farther in that relationship with out having to come right out and say it. it's not much, but it is a start. hope i helped.


on 2/13/06 i got my first boyfriend. i was 14, he was 17 and we were set up through friends. it was something like..we met on saturday and were going out on monday with no talking in between. we went out for 4 months and it was really akward for a really long time until we got to know each other. we broke up in may.
two and a half years later (Oct/Nov of 08) i had a fling with my best friend. i'm not sure what to call it. we acted like we were dating, if people asked we would say we were together and we were basically together 24/7.
Now today i started going out with one of my best friend's boyfriend's best friend. we met a while ago, october i think, at a party. just a quick introduction. then we all went bowling together this past saturday, and then we hung out monday at my friend's house and then today we all went out to eat after school and then went to his house. and now we're going out. And i just realized that i don't even remember what its like to be dating someone. its been 3 years since i could say "i have a boyfriend". i still don't know him well and we've only hugged, but i can tell he wants to kiss me but hes too respectful to just go for it.

i dont know what to do with a boyfriend! (not like THAT...i know how to do THAT). but i dont know how to act. i know be myself and i've been nothing but myself.

i dont even know what im asking! haha (link)
You might be feeling this way because of how it ended with the other boyfriends, or you may be acting this way because there's no spark. sometimes cemetery really makes all the feelings in a relationship, you may feel it as soon as the first time your eyes meet or you may feel it when your not expecting it. but if there is a "spark" between you two, you will feel it sooner or later. if the problem is because of the others, you need to get out of your comfort zone and really go for it, this will walk you all those senses that were sleeping and make you feel what you were feeling before or it might even make you feel better about a relationship. also you could be feeling this just because your relationship with him hasn't got that far yet, but if that is the problem you just have to wait it out.
Hope, i helped.


I'm a section editor for my school yearbook and i'm having difficulty thinking of a good theme for one of my sections...it contains pictures from our faculty and staff from when they were in high school and younger! I need help thinking of of a good theme or title for this page!! (link)
If i wold have to do this i would put,
"When they were your age."
"Times fly"
and
"You see me now, imagine me then,"
Hope you find one that works.



Iam sorry iam giving you my whole life history but I don't have anybody to talk to and I need somebody to talk to. I hope you don't mind.
my life started being a living hell when my daddy molested me when I was 3 and then when I told my mom my mom left my dad a week before I turned 4 and up until I was 8 years old I wasn't allowed to see my dad at all by mom's rules and i know my mom was just trying to protect me but it just hurts when you think about stuff like that all the time and you have nobody to talk to about it becouse nobody other than your mom belives you and when you try to talk to your mom about your feelings she get's all upset and starts crying so you don't talk to her about it becouse you don't want to upset your mom anymore and then you don't feel loved becouse nobody wants to listen about my feelings. Things got a little better after I had turned 8 years old becouse then I was allowed to see my dad with supervision and that was better than not being able to see him at all. Then when I turned 12 my dad died from smoking and it tramatized me. I just couldn't handle it I cried myselft to sleep every night. I don't know why I still love and miss my daddy after what he did to me he was a total bastart but I still wish he could be in my life but he can't. Then when my dad died I started going to my dad's side of the family that I never hardly got to see and I got to do so much more at there house on the weekends and holidays than I did when I was at my mom's during the week and when I was over there I felt like was being treated like a normal teenage girl but when I was at my mom's house during the week and at the age of 16 I started getting into boys like the other teenage girls my mom wouldn't let me so much as talk to a boy on the phone without her bein on the other end but when I was at my Aunt's and cousins house I got to do the stuff that my mom wouldn't let me do. Iam 19 now and I actually have a dating life becouse I live with my cousin but I still can't talk to my mom about my dating life and it makes me feel sad.
what should I do? (link)
I would try to find a basic ground with your mother after all you are 19 and growing up and your at a perfect age for boys and your mother knows it had to happen one day or another. if is no strange to be pulled to your dad's of the family in fact it is quite normal because when something is taken away from you the closest thing that you can get to that person usually is comfort and it decreases the pain a bit. you have a right to be mad at your dad i would. but i have to emit i wouldn't of forgave him that easily. So you are doing better than i would of in that case. i would say that you have to find a common ground with your mom to be able to talk to her. start out small than work your way up to the dating life and all the things she hates to hear. Tell her you need someone to talk to. and if that doesn't work see if you can talk to your cousin or a friends or anyone that believes you, and if you can't you can try to get a professional to talk to you. they might not fell like a comfort to talk to but they are there to help. and i hope i help. And remember everyone here also wants to help.


My best friend is in some sort of a self-esteem rut or something. He and I are both 17/M. He used to be a 24/7 cheery and funny guy, but ever since he started thinking about getting a girlfriend, he's gotten to be more and more depressing. I tried to help him out, you, know, pushed him to ask out girls he likes, but he would always just say something like "She'll say no. Even if she says yes, I'd be a terrible boyfriend."

Now, I'm seeing less and less of him because he's spending more and more time locked up in his room, being depressed. It sucks! I want my friend back and I want the guy to be happy. What do I do? (link)
If i were in your situation i would find a girl who likes him that he likes also and ask her if she would go out with him if he asked. then get him to ask her out. tell him you will help him be a good bf and be there if he needs help. that's one way. i would also maybe try to get him out of his room and do things that he and you like and used to do together this could get him out of his depression and really strengthen your friendship. Hope it helps.


Hello, I'm 17 yrs old, female

there was this guy i liked from my last year english class and i kinda got over him, i mean i liked other ppl after that but i still had feelings for him..but now i’m starting to like him again and it hit me tonight that it’s our last year together..he’s going to uni, i’m going to college. I’m just scared becuz what if i don’t get over him by the time highschool is over? i don’t know what to do:(…I told him that i liked him on msn on day in late May and he didn’t take me seriously then he told me that he had a g/f…but the thing is that i noticed that he would always stare at me even before i started liking him…sometimes he would look away when i caught him. He would still stare at me even after he told me that he had a g/f, we don’t really talk much, we just spoke like 2 or 3 times on msn. (link)
I believe he likes you but doesn't want to emitt it to himself or to you. or maybe he thinks he doesn't deserve you or vise versa. i think you should try to talk to him more and see how it goes. also arrange dates with him and some friends in person. if he dose like you this might win him over. if you want to forget about him you could try to get a bf or anything along those lines.


i know im ready to have sex with this kid i know.
i just dont know where to do it.
he lived too far away so we cant do it at eachothers houses
no car
and i have no clue where to do it.
any ideas? (link)
You could rent a hotel room.


okayy so i like this guy and when he found out he said im pretty, nice, funny, cute but he thinks of us more as friends ........ how do i get out of the friends zone?? and please dont say move on because i CANT!
thanks
loveboys (link)
Dear Loveboys,
I would say you would have to get closer to him, start flirting, hanging out more. i would even try acting like a girlfriend around him this may make him want to date you or even consider it. I would also consider hanging out with him alone, and trying to possess the certain things he pick out in all his girlfriends like a common denominator. you could do that by hanging out with some of the girls he has dated or by asking him what he like in each girl. This may help.


so this guy asked me out like 2 months ago but i kindly said no because i didnt know him.i mean it was the first time i really talked to him ya know?
then i didnt seem him till about 2 weeks ago.he was flirting with me and stuff.well then when i walked by him he was like so whats up?and then when i replied he asked if i like him and i said well i dont know you really.so then he was like what you dont know me now?and i was like i never really got to know you but he didnt seem upset about it because he still flirted.well then i saw him last night and he was with some girl i believe was his girlfriend.and it kinda made me jealous i guess.it kinda made me think what if i really missed out ya know?now i dont know what i should do.i felt like i liked him last night when before i didnt feel it but between 2 weeks ago and last night i was thinkin like next time i see him if he asks me out again i was gonna say yes well know i feel im too late.am i just feeling this because he does have a girl now or what?i mean the only reason i turned him down was because i didnt know him all the well,he wasnt what i would date(appearence wise) and my friends opinion but when i thought about it he is a really great guy besides i never really see him but i was thinknin that would change if we dated ya knw?well i wanna thank you all before hand (link)
I believe you now feel jalousie because of that new girl that may or may not be his girlfriend. Sometimes i feel like i missed out on something kind of in this way but i believe you did make the right discussion at the time if you don't know the guy why date him? But since you got to know him, what do you think? do you think you would be happy with him? and he with you? or do you only like him because he is dating this new girl and not you? Don't care about what your friends think about any guy you date cause if you let your friends start telling you who you can and can't date you might miss out on some really nice guys. You said last night you kind of thought you liked him, did you feel this way after you saw the girl or before? There is a very good reason for that question because if it is after than i would say your jalousie is making you want him. if it was before than i would say that you have to decide if you like him enough to ask him out when he and this girl are history. Take into consideration before you date him,if you choose, that you may not get to see him as much as you would someone else that could be a real side changer on the matter. need any other help, i am always here.


so this guy asked me out like 2 months ago but i kindly said no because i didnt know him.i mean it was the first time i really talked to him ya know?
then i didnt seem him till about 2 weeks ago.he was flirting with me and stuff.well then when i walked by him he was like so whats up?and then when i replied he asked if i like him and i said well i dont know you really.so then he was like what you dont know me now?and i was like i never really got to know you but he didnt seem upset about it because he still flirted.well then i saw him last night and he was with some girl i believe was his girlfriend.and it kinda made me jealous i guess.it kinda made me think what if i really missed out ya know?now i dont know what i should do.i felt like i liked him last night when before i didnt feel it but between 2 weeks ago and last night i was thinkin like next time i see him if he asks me out again i was gonna say yes well know i feel im too late.am i just feeling this because he does have a girl now or what?i mean the only reason i turned him down was because i didnt know him all the well,he wasnt what i would date(appearence wise) and my friends opinion but when i thought about it he is a really great guy besides i never really see him but i was thinknin that would change if we dated ya knw?well i wanna thank you all before hand (link)
I believe you now feel jalousie because of that new girl that may or may not be his girlfriend. Sometimes i feel like i missed out on something kind of in this way but i believe you did make the right discussion at the time if you don't know the guy why date him? But since you got to know him, what do you think? do you think you would be happy with him? and he with you? or do you only like him because he is dating this new girl and not you? Don't care about what your friends think about any guy you date cause if you let your friends start telling you who you can and can't date you might miss out on some really nice guys. You said last night you kind of thought you liked him, did you feel this way after you saw the girl or before? There is a very good reason for that question because if it is after than i would say your jalousie is making you want him. if it was before than i would say that you have to decide if you like him enough to ask him out when he and this girl are history. Take into consideration before you date him,if you choose, that you may not get to see him as much as you would someone else that could be a real side changer on the matter. need any other help, i am always here.


okaye well ,
i have eyes that turn
from blue to green to silver .
but are always mostly a dark green
what color eyeshadow should i use
with my eye color ? hope you can help me .

_toriibabiie x0 (link)
What color eye shadow should you use? i would say you should use what ever color eye shadow that match your outfit that day. Or if you trying to match it with your eyes only, you could mix the colors and create tints and different shades, so it will always match and it will look cool.


To have to treat others like you want to be treated right? well what if person not treat back way you try treat them way they want to treat you.. i mean like if I treat somone how they want to be treated they treated worst back. (link)
You could treat them like they treat you, or you could talk to them. My best guess is if you go with the treat them like they treat you thing, just make it as harsh as possible for over a few days, or until they get the point and if they ask you can tell them then. but a little warning with this if could end a reationship, make your partner worst.


what everyone think heaven is like? (link)
I think it is unlike anything anyone can imagine. with no trouble, gold riches, and all the stuff you read in the bible. streets with gold and sliver, rolling hill made out of clouds something like in a child's fairy tale book if you believe in it. Or who knows it could be like the book the giver by Louis lowery.




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