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Hey babez I am Julia!
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advice

Hi! I am 13 years old. I have a boyfriend and me and him are very serious. We havn't had sex or anything like that. But he is sooo sweet and nice and soo wonderful. I have anxiety and depression, and he is always the person that makes my days brighter. I want to spend the rest of my life with him, but a lot can happen inbetween the 4 more years of school we have. Is is normal to feel these feeling about someone you love?




**thanks for the help**



(ps) i love your advice column.. its really helpful.. thank you

It's def. normal. That's so amazing how he makes you feel better, hold on to him haha. I thinm it just sounds like you are scared for him being around other girls and stuff, but if you wanna make it work tell him and work out something so if you guys come acorss a problem, you'll be able to talk about it and not just get in a fight and leave it. Xoxo!

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Ok im 14 and a 34 in like ltd 2 bras that is wicked small!!! but im fit! and i went through everything.. im going to be a freshman in a couple of days!!! what do i do!!! im small! and i cant wait for them to groww!!! and guys are going to not want to go out with me HELP!!!! and dont tell me to stuff cause that is like so obviose!!!

signed so SMALL!!

well first, if a guy doesnt wanna go out with you cuz of your boobs thats pretty shallowed. And second, you'll have time to grow.. when you least expect it haha! Don't worry everyone grows at different times, your is just a little later :)

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I'm a little unexperienced in the dating world. Entering highschool and having only dated one person is nothing to boast about. I have a hard time realizing that guys are cute and always needing a second opinion... But this guy, is different, I've known him since Elementary and he's a Buddhist, Commie, and Libral Democrat. I think I'm in love. The problem. 1) I don't know how to approach him, 2) My friend, we'll call her Sarah and her best friend Melanie, likes him too... They've always had no trouble and are putting me under a lot of pressure. Don't know what to do... Help?

Talk to him before your friends do! Get his sn or talk to him in person. It's a;ways easier to talk to someone online..so I'd talk to him there and just let him get to know you anf flirt alot :) Hope I helped!

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i have this best friend and i like him alot but he doesnt like me and like everytime he does something and i get mad he says something real sweet and i wanna like him more and like he doesnt wanna go with me cuz he doesnt like me im so love struck what do i do???

o0o0o I hate these types of situations.. I know just how you feel. If he doesn't like you don't give up cuz maybe he just doesn't like you know. Stay close friends with him and flirt alot and see if he flirts back. If he does, make a move, if he doesn't it wasn't meant to be.. sucks but its true :D

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Ok well I have this boyfriend and he doesnt go to my school or anything. I meet him through my friend from soccer camp. We started talking online and then a while later we started going out. Later he broke up with me saying that he disn't think things were going to work out because we still hadn't seen each other. Now a year later, we still haven't seen each other but we are going out again. I am thinking that now I don't want to go out with him until I see him and stuff. How should I tell him this without hurting him too much? (I have never broken up with anybody before) please help soon!!! Thanx and I'll rate you!

Break ups are the worst!! I'd say it like "I am having different feelings for your then I did before and I want to wait till we meet again to see if there is anything there. I think once we meet we'll like each other more."

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on the song milkshake what does milkshake mean?

boobs..


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Ok today at school , I met this really hot guy and I was wearing a tank top and a pair of light pair of jeans when I bumped into him and he looked at me and said sorry but before he finished his sentence he looked down my shirt and saw everything , he blush and just asked me out.!! Dose he really like me or what???
Help!!

Umm.. well it kinda sounds like he just asked you for no reason, I would say no until you got to know him better. He may be a cool guy but some guys just go around asking every girl out :\

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alright me n mai boyfriend broke up about a week ago cuz he cheated on me. i really love him n im hurt soo bad. he says he still cares n he wants to be w/ me, but now hes w/ sumone else. i think hes tryin to make me jealous but i dont really kno. i cant live w/o him, he means the world to me even after what he did. i really wanna be w/ him but im scared to tell him how i feel cuz im not sure if he cares or not. should i give up on him or take him back if he feels the same?

I would tell him how you feel and if he doesn't feel the same way then forget it isn't worth it. If he does like you again.. def. let him know that you WILL NOT be cheated on again cuz if he does once hes a gonner :)

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Hey..ok, whenever I try to put a picture of me on mii site it says that `You tried to upload a picture, but it was greater than 15K in filesize so it wasn't uploaded.` Do you know what that means, and if so can you tell me how I can upload one..? Thanks guys!

Ya.. go to paint and make your pic smaller.. cuz this site doesn't let you have big pics!

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Anyone have any ideas on how to throw a party when your parents arent home, and what can we do? and not get caught And have fun!? i rate!!

-Andrea

Hmm well I got invited to this one party(it was a jello wrestling party) and I was gonna go with some friends but the cops showed up cuz a teacher got ahold of the flyers and there was gonna be alcohol.. sooooo if you advertise it do it carefully and you can like.. dance and listen to music but me and friends always end up playing truth or dare and like ding dong ditch.. haha we are such girls but hey.. its fun :D

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i cut myself a lot just to make the pain go away and i told one person and they told me to tell my parent but i dont want to i wanna stop but i cant its just hard i need help can someone tell me wat to do please

You won't be able to stop yourself--you need support from someone. If you don't wanna tell your mom or dad, ask a close friend or another adult but you need to let someone know. Goodluck and im me at kissxme321 if u need anything else hun!

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How exactly do you french kiss? I know you lock lips and open ur mouth and then like stick ur tongue in eachothers mouths but what do u do with ur tongue and can you french kiss someone the wrong way? Like cuz I don't want guys thinking I suck at it, so how exactly do you? and when is the right time...how will you know?
Thankz I will rate you! L8er!

Me and my friends call it the spin cycle.. but ya you lock lips and like move your tongue around his mouth. There is no wrong way.. just don't jump down their throat and you'll be fine! Let the other perosn start off to lead first and when u get the hang of it take control :D

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hey i am 5 4 and weigh 139 is that bad?

Nope.. as long as your eating right!

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I have two best buds, but they treat me like a third wheel! Whenever ones not somewhere, THEN the other one actually treats me normaly. Then my other bb comes back and there like..who are YOU again? I've tried talking to them, and they say they'll change, but they never do. And don't tell me to dump them.

No don't dump them.. you could become better friends with each if you invite them out just you and one of them to get to know they better. They'll see what your like just one on one and they'll thinm your cool. Then just invite the other one out!

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i really need help please help me. ok here's the story..ok me and my friend were just getting tyte we were doing a lot of stuff together and we told eachother everything and then she goes to our other friends house that she didn't like too much and then she comes home and then all the sudden they're best friends so the other friend kinda took my place. and i'm soo sad i think i lost my BEST friend! i don't know what to do cause i can't talk to her bout it i've never been good at that i freak out and i just can't do it. and i cried when i found out that she took my place! please help i dunno what to do!!??

How do you she "took your place" for sure? Maybe your friend just wants to meet other people. I'd say get to know the other girl so you will all three become bff.. the more the better. I am sure you didn't loose her. If it's bugging you so bad call up your friend and invite her to the mall or something to do hang out and stil show her you wanna be bff! Rate me plz xoxo goodluck!

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I need a new screenname... but i dont want anything to bouncy... alot of itmes my screen names are kinda depressing... my screenname right now is x2lostwithoutyou my name is Kati and im 13...

I don't want you to have a depressing one.. so try one of these if ya find one you like!

x iMiNhEaVeN x
Kissawaydapain
MehIzSxzI
SuNkIsS3d BaB3
xo r0xbury BaBe
yourethe0ne
Stol3nHart4Lyfe
mIxeD KuTie
iVe bEeN bAd
PINKmatchez
x0BeWitMe0x
ForGetAbout1t
p1nkp4nth3r
PuReBeAtY K

Hope I helped! Rate me plz xoxo!


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I was at a party and i started to really flirt with this kid and he responded and everything went ok...then someone told me that everyone thought i liked him so i stopped flirting right away, but he started asking me questions about who i liked and he started telling me about his g/f and what's wrong with her. He asked me if i dance and i said yes, then he started trying to do like splits and different dance steps. Everyone started to think he liked me...do you think thats true or was he just being nice?

Ya it sounded like he was trying to impress you by dancing and kinda hinting he might beak up with his gf. Goodluck.. I'd make a move ;)

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I am 13 years old, i am about 5'2 and i weigh 115-120 pounds. i want to weigh at the most 105. I really want to lose weight, but am having trouble. there is never any food that i like at my house that is healthy, so i snack on shit. i swim 4 mornings a week on a swim team, and play sports in school, but i never seem to get thinner. i really want to lose 10-15 pounds before school starts...on the 6th of september. is there anything that i can do to make myself thinner in time? also, i am having trouble ridding myself of acne. i heard toothpaste works, but does it work WELL? also, how long do i have to keep it on for? how much should i put on?
please help! will rate VERY well.

Don't snack on food.. ask your mom to buy you vegetables and fruits cuz you really wanna get serious about your weight and you need her help too. Snacking is porbably whats holding you back. Yeah if you put toothpaste on it it will dry it out.. put it on overnight when you go to sleep! xoxo!

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ok i am 5'2 and i weigh 147..i was really pretty last year (and skinny) but this summer i gained alot of weight..imk still pretty i just wanted to know how to loose the weight..?(i rate good!)

If you plan on doing crunches everyday.. DON'T, your stomach is the only muscle that cannot be worked every day, it needs a few days to rest in between cuz when you do crunches it actually rips your stomach muscles and wehn you wait a few days thats how you gain muscle and slim up! :D

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hey i am going to be 13 in about a month and i havnt got my period yet and most of my friends have and there all younger then me...

Hey hun don't worry.. everyone gets it at different ages! Yours will come.. arrgghh you don't want it tho haha!

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