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Heyyy; Im Keanna. Also known as KayChapman. I love too give advice. So; here i am on Advicenators :) Im 14 years of age and will be 15 on June 10. I may be young but give great advice and be sure to try my hardest on giving my best. Im very experienced. Not in a bad way but i have had sex, been fingered, etc. So whenever you need advice. Im here :) Thankks.

xxoo
-KayChapman

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just wondering what do guys do when they are fingering u ..what does the girl supposed to do when she is being fingered?

A guy sticks his finger in the hole where he'd stick his dick if you two were having sex. Or as my friend KayJohnson would say the "vagina". & Yes i do agree with her that a girl should enjoy it. Move yer body with it if thats how you feel. Moan. Just have fun :) Let me know how it goes.



-KayChapman

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My bf fingered me 5 times this month. It was my first experience, I have never been fingered before. My period is due to in 1 day and I have no signs of it (i.e. sore breast).

My question is, can being fingered delay my period or miss it? I'm asking as I have never been fingered. Tell me pls.

Thanks

I was going to say doubtful, but I put some thought into it, and I can see that there may be something to it. If you're being sexually active, your body is thinking that mating will occur soon. If you're near your period, your body may slow down its cycle somewhat, trying to increase your fertile time as much as it can. However, even if this is possible, I don't see it pushing back your period more than several days, a week max. It certainly wouldn't stop your period completely. If that's the case, something else is going on. Hope i helped. Feedback is welcomed.


-KayChapman

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okay so l recently split with my on and off boyfriend for over a year. he's my first love and so he's the only one l've ever had sex with. when he had an erection though, his penis would bend to the side, not a whole lot but it was a noticable amount. l have my period now and l've been realizing that when l put the tampon in, it hurts until its almost all the way in and i feel it like sort of pop in not straight but kind of crooked. is it possible that by having sex with him could have bent me inside? lf so, then could it be fixed by sex with another man who's not bent. lf someone could help me out l'd really appreciate it. thanks

Im sure that it probably could bend your insides. But i honestly think that you should go too a doctor too get it checked out b4 it ends up worse. Until then i'd stop using tampons because it could also make the situation worse. Try pads. And only use the tampons when needed such as if your in swim at school or something. Let me know how it goes!


-KayChapman

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my boyfriend fingers me like everytime we hang out pretty much, which is like 2-3 times a week. i'm not complaining haha but is it bad to be fingered that much?

Its not really bad too do anything sexual unless one has a STD or something. Which im sure you don't. So; No. It's not bad. Its good for you. Feels good too :)


-KayChapman

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okay well i have this boyfriend and we've been together for three years. i_m and he is also and i think its time we took it to "that level" if you know what i mean. but thing is. i've only done it once with another guy and i'm not the least bit experienced. and he's a virgin and said he wouldn't know what to do. and i want him to take the lead cause i don't wanna be on top:-( but what could we do to help? cause he said he doesn't want to suck at it. and i want his first time to be special :-) unlike my first time which sucked a hole

Hmm.. Make it a night where its onlyy you two. No1 else. & He dont have too be experience too be on top. It doesnt really take that much experience for a boy too move his dick in and out of your vagina. Its easy. But it depends on how you as a person like it. Let me know how it goes!


-KayChapman

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We are going to have sex soon and we really need to know the least painful way to take virginity. Can anyone help us make this a better experience or do we just do it and hope for the best?

Thank you!

I agree with my friend KayJohnson:) It will hurt either way. Some girls cherrys may not pop tho. So; But eventually it will stop hurting and it will feel really good. Trust me; I knoe (:
Let me know how it goes!


-KayChapman

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hi.. require a info. I want to know what are the best brand in lingerie category for women? what are the stuffs women would like generally?

Also, is there any chances of getting diseases if i give oral if she is unshaved, is it good to ask her as i am concerned about hygeine?

Victoria's Secret has great lingerie for woman. Also you can get a disease from giving oral sex too a woman unshaved or shaved. If you need more information about it i found a website for you.

http://www.positive.org/Home/faq/oral.html

I really hope it helps.
Let me know how it goes!


-KayChapman

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Don't ask me why, ok? I need to know how long you can go without eating before something bad happens? I don't want to die but I need to lose weight and I have tried it all.

please don't judge me. :(

Usually you can go 3 weeks without eating. Even tho it doesnt really help you loose weight. Just try and eat healthy. If you need more on not eating and stuff here:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20060709204352AAy5wXx

That should help.
Let me know how it goes!


-KayChapman

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Thank you for responding :] but like she doesnt like going out. idk how to explain it liek she is kind of a shy person and iv asked her to do things with me but like her mom never lets her do shit so it suckss

Your welcome :) Anyytime! Buhhh lets see.. Do like things for her that no other would do (sounds hard; but its really easy] right her cute little love notes in stuff. Girls love that. & Dont be shy either. Have feelings girls love a man who show emotions but are also tough when needed too be :) Once again, let me know how it goes! And if you need anymore advice. You know where too reach me :)

-KayChapman

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How do i make a girl want me? Everything iv sad or dont she has sad she heres it all the time from other girls and she always gets screwed over. How can i show her that im not gonna screw her over and that i truley want to be with her and that i am different from every other girl? helppp

Take her out on a date. A wonderful* date. Something she would have never expected from you. Id like that very much if a guy were too do that for me. Girls also love flowers. Sounds cheesy like a chick flick but it's romantic. Trust me; Im a girl. Id know :) Let me know how it goes!

-KayChapman.

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Hi!

I need to know if I should shave my vagina. I am old enough and when I asked my mom she said I needed to make up my own mind because it was a lot of work to keep it shaved. I guess the real questions I have are is shaved vagina cleaner and do guys like me to have a shaved vagina?

Does anyone else shave "down there?"

Most girls; Such as my self do shave down there. Boys are different. Some like it, some dont. Your mom is right; It is hard work cause it grows back pricklyy. When/If you shave down there be sure too put HOT water on it too help heal the razor bumps. Let me know how it goes!

-KayChapman.

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ill just get right to the point ......... how do you do the best bj to your boyfriend cause hes saying i need to buy a book about it!

Mkayy..My boyyfrann LOVES when i put his dickk WAYYYY down my throat. Trust me. He'll love it!Let me know how it goes!

-KayChapman.

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I really like this guy and i already gave him head for my first time 2 days ago, but he said i skinned it a little with my teeth. But next time im just gonna tuck my lips over my teeth. But anyways whats some good tips for blowjobs. Ones that will get him going. Like what do you do with your man? Thankyou.

My first time i gave head; I had the same problem. My boyfran now, LOVES IT when i put his dickk wayyyy down my throat. "Deep throat". Trust me hunn; He'll love it. Let me know how it goes!

-KayChapman.

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19/female.

i guess everyone has different opinions on this .. but i'd just like to see how everyone feels about this! so i obviously shave down there, but everytime i know or feel like i will be doing something sexual with a guy i feel like i have to be baby smooth down there with absolutely no stubble. it's actually really annoying having to worry about being that smooth but i feel like if i have a little stubble, the guy will be grossed out. i would feel a bit awkward asking haha so i was just wondering (both guys and girls) how you feel about stubble?

No matter what you will have stubble. Try too put HOT water down there it usually kills the stubble. Guys honestly DO NOT care. No matter who the guy. As long as they get some ;) Let me know how it goes.

-KayChapman.

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i usually don't have a lot of discharge, and its always clear. well today after school i went to the bathroom and i had soo much it was like creamy and wet and disgusting. nothing hurts down there and i'm not having sex but i do get fingered, but ive been getting fingered by the same guy for awhilee. so i dont think thats it. so heres the embarrasing part, i'm like farting out of my vagina alot...if that makes any sense, and i feel it all wet and gross so has this happened to anyone before? and what is it what does it mean?

Okay, Me and my boyfriend do have sex and i also "queef" or fart out of the vagina. When you do that its nothing bad or nothan just everytime you do that; wetness comes out. If its yellow..Theres a problem. If its white & Creamy &Or clear; Thats normal. Everybody "queefs" so dont feel nasty or anything. Let me know how it goes!

-KayChapman.

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me and my best friend have been friends since kindergarden (im 13) and his sister is 14 i think she awesome and i didnt no id like her like this but i do so i asked her out and she said yes but idk if i should stay with her or brake up cause me and her r doing this behind his back plase help me

Welpp me and my bestfriend (both girls] dated once. & It went great. We never told any1 because i felt wrong. Im not bisexual anymore tho im in a healthy 7month relationship with my boyfrann. Anyywho; You shouldnt feel wrong especally if you both really like eachother. You should both sitdown and talk too hem. Tell me how it goes!

-KayChapman.

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I have puffy bags under my eyes due to lack of sleep (possibly other reasons). how can i get rid of them? preferably without going out and buying a special cream for it.

14/f btw

thanksss :)

Try getting more sleep. Such as sleeping in on the weekends or going too bed early on week days. Usually helps me. Let me know how it goes!


-KayChapman.

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15/f
ok. i have a crush on this guy but i'm really shy i don't know what to say to him so i never talk to him. two months ago i had my friend set up an "interview" with him so i could find out what he likes. he found out the real reason behind the interview and now he just ignores me. i don't know why. why do you think he ignores me? what should i do?. i asked if he was mad at me and he said no. and it sounds weird because i'm not dating him or anything. but he's really close with one of my old friends he always sits next to her and talks to her and touches her and has her give him bak rubs. is it ok if i'm jealous about this? i probably shouldn't i don't own him or anything. but i can't help it. am i wrong to feel this way? please help me i feel so helpless

Hmm, He probably ignores you because you didn't talk too him yourself. & You had your friend do it for you. Boys surprisingly are no different then girls; When they say their not mad, they usually are. If you really like this guy which it seems like you do it's not wrong for you too feel jelous. Just sit down and have an actual talk with him. Let me know how it goes!

-KayChapman.

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Theres a guy at my school who likes me hes not the best looking but hes ok hes a little cute hes muscular but not to much and hes a really nice guy. The types i like are goths emos and skaters but hes neither a while ago his friends who are my friends too told me he likes me hes my friend now and now my admirer is used to talking to me i can tell he still likes me and yea he even tries to show off how strong he is and tries to be funny.....So should i give him a chance?

Definantly give him a chance. What's the harm? You miss 100% of the shots you don't take :)
Let me know how it goes.

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