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inexperienced?
okay well i have this boyfriend and we've been together for three years. i_m and he is also and i think its time we took it to "that level" if you know what i mean. but thing is. i've only done it once with another guy and i'm not the least bit experienced. and he's a virgin and said he wouldn't know what to do. and i want him to take the lead cause i don't wanna be on top:-( but what could we do to help? cause he said he doesn't want to suck at it. and i want his first time to be special :-) unlike my first time which sucked a hole
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Hmm.. Make it a night where its onlyy you two. No1 else. & He dont have too be experience too be on top. It doesnt really take that much experience for a boy too move his dick in and out of your vagina. Its easy. But it depends on how you as a person like it. Let me know how it goes!
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If you both are ready to do it, then do it. One thing you could do is just boost his confidence. If you guys are fooling around and he does something you like let him know you like that. If you do that i'm sure he'll take control.
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Well to be honest its going to be special only if its really what you want and if there will be no bad conscious. If you both have talked about the choice and the resposibilities that sex brings into a relationship then dont think and worry about whos going to do what, if you really enjoy it and he does also it wont matter if you are on top or if hes on top, it wont matter if he sees you completely naked or he sees you down there and you wont feel embarassed, it wont matter if you do oral or if he does oral on you or if you try anal nothign will matter, No one is born knowing NO ONE! its our own natural instinct to reproduce that leads us to have a sexual life, but our desires to be emotionally and physically fullfilled is what can make us so darn addicted. the high you get knowing that you might get caught, that feeling of knowing there is no true commitment, only the "hit it and split it" satisfaction is what sometimes makes us go do things that without thoroughly thinking leads us to regrets, and guilty feeling knowing we could/should/ and can do diffrently. im not trying to lecture you...you know exactly who you will allow to enter your body, why, where and when only you. Just remember that you do know that sex can be nothing like everyone makes it appear to be...my opinion in which i have said before here is ..sex in my opinion in just one of many benefits in a serious and commited relationship and benefit that i think should be thought carefully, and should never be rushed into. You can only receive benefits from a job/employer if you work for them and if you pass a probationary period..even the employer thinks and analizes your atttitude, commitment, duties and resposibility before giving you some benefits being holiday pay, or sick days or dental, vision, etc, etc, ...I think you should consider this example to your boyfreind...i know i know 3 years together and im glad its going ok but you still dont know him...do you? if you guys have done great without being sexual before then why now?..If he is the one then do you see him as the one to be your husband?..im not trying to tell you what to do or when to have sex just never stop wondering if it is really important...will sex save or effect your relationship in a negative way? If hes been patient and has proven without doubt in your mind that he will always be there and be patient,understanding,loyal,respectful,loving,family oriented and you see him as one day your husand then i say this you got to keep him and DONT RUIN IT! lol..i hope this helps and if it doesnt let me know.
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