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My name is Marissa im 13. Girl. Wanna no more im me :]
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I guess this is the right category, I don't know. Well I'm going to my friends house this weekend, and she's always hanging out with a lot of people (guys & girls). Well I have a feeling that we'll probably play truth or dare and I'll probably have to makeout with someone. Cause that's just how it is there. Don't get me wrong, I really want to go, so don't say like DONT GO or anything. I want to. But problem: I've never kissed someone before (or madeout). So I need a little advice. I don't want you to tell me "It will come naturally", because people are always saying like, "OMG they're such a bad kisser!!". I want to know the truth. And please don't give me those websites that tell you how to kiss. I want you to tell me please, and I need some advice on not being nervous. I will probably be scared that I will do it wrong or something, and I'll get nervous. ALSO, I'll probably have to do it in front of everyone, and that won't help with being nervous. PLEASE help me? (link)
Hmm well you can have him lead. at first if it is a french kiss he is gunna kick reg kiss you and start to insert him tounge into your mouth and that a sign to open urs then you just kinda fight tounge wars. or matage your tounge with him.


umm .. ok .. umm .. alot of people have been saying "freakin A" , but i want to avoid looking like a retard and asking what it means .. so could you help??
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haha i dunno i wudd guess freakin ass. I asked ALL MY FRIENDS THIS AND they dunno either. I looked on google and dictionary.com [yes im weird] You should just ask don't be embarrassed lol lots of people don't know what it means :]and im too much of a geek to know ;o


No matter how much or little I brush my teeth the night before, I always wake up with a nasty tasting coating all through my mouth that also gives me bad breath. It shows up on my teeth as like white patches sometimes, that can't be brushed away. I've used mouth wash and it doesn't change it. I brush my teeth twice a day, and properly. Does anyone know what the problem could be?
I also have braces and I can't remember if I had this problem before my braces or not, but it certainly wasn't this bad. (link)
My friends have this l it was a medicine you took as a child [their reason] and you can get surgery on them but that will make your teeth week or able to fall our. You can also bleech them. But if it was me I would leave them alone, people like you for you not your teeth lol but if you really want to I would suggest bleaching your teeth instead of surgery. Maybe start out with the whhite strip things from colgate i think. But beware, don't use them too much it may take alot of your enamal on your teeth away


my firends, family, just people that i am around always ask me if i cut myself since i have cuts down my arm. i need to give them a good reason for why i have these cuts. theyre actaully old scars from a while ago but they relly refuse to believe that. can u plez give me...escuses(i dno wut else to call them) of why i might have these marks?
plez no smart ass answers,
ill rate 5s for anything that isnt (link)
Well you can always tell them over the years of childhood you go through events. They involve fights, disscussion, threats, and more. You can say they are bad memorys of the past. You can tell them [[ in a very stern voice ]] if you ever had the idea to to a blade to your arm you would seek for help with them or a profesional theropist or something.


Im soo confused I have two problems if you answer them I will rate you good!!

Anyway There is this boy I like named James and I like him alot, but we go to different schools. And last year I went to his school and like I never been inlove with anywun the way I love him. Anyway we have been talking on the computer alot and he told me that he has regretted everything And he never met to hurt me and wants to be with me. But I have a boyfriend we have been with each other a month and a half...I have no clue what to do!! So advice PLEASSEE!!!


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My friend katie likes this boy named josh, and everytime she sees him she is like obsessed not with him but his looks. And I already tryed hookin them up and he said he didnt like her like that. So yeah then like after school everydayy we meet up and see each other and now like Josh has the same class so she like power walks infront of him so he can see her. And it pisses me off and then like after he notices her she comes up to me and shes like Stephanie why didnt u wait with me. And im like I dont wanna be talked to by a ditcher. And like she does it everyyydayy now after school. I dont know what the heck to say cause I dont wanna hurt her feelings but I know if she is my friend she will mayb understand. And she also likes this boy at my school named AJ and I always talk to him about Basketball cause he plays on the Basketball team, and she went talkin to this girl and she said something bout me and I went over to Katie and im like Katie I dont like him ok I have a bf. And shes like I dont care blah blahh blahhh but its soo annoying, And sometimes when we are at lunch we all stand up and talk and stuff and like it was cold on friday and she was all feelin on my bf, and she was like commee herreee imm sooo collddd...and hes like umm gett off of me..and I meen I just dont know what to tell her


THANKX FOR READING.....ILL RATE YOU HIGHH IF YOU CAN HELPPP MEEE!!!!!!

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Well the first part I know you like him and he likes you. I think you should answer some wuestions too see what one you like more. answer one person for each. One, who so you think about more. Two, who do you care about more. Three, who can you be yourself with more.

For the second one your friend seems like a skank no offense. I think you need to sit with her and ask her whats going on. I think she is just jealous that you have a boy friend that loves you for you and she can't. Maybe you can tell her how you got your bf so she can get her own :). Oh yeah if your "friend was feeling your bf" you should keep him away from her ;D.


does anyone no a good brand of eyeliner that you can like take off cuz all the ones i have wont come off even after i shower (link)
Just use eye make up not liner it will go on good and come off like Bam.>!


Ok... well here's the problem.... i have no clue wat to do with my hair... I've tried sooo many products... let me tell you my routine so maybe you can help me... i take a shower in the morning... i use both shampoo and conditioner.. i always brush my hair while the conditioner is in... after i do that i put on frizz ease... then i either wrap my head in a towel till it's dry or i have to leave.. in either case i put it in a ponytail... because it always ends up being frizzy... the frizz-ease doesn't work at all.. it always just makes my hair greasy... ((and frizzy))... anywhoo'z i've tried puttin gel in... i've tried so0o many different products... biosilk, tresseme, garnier... etc.. but none of them work... i've also tried the dryer sheets thing too.. that didn't work either... i've tried to alter my routine... maybe by not brushing it.. or not blowdryin it.. i've tried it without conditioner.. i've tried everything.. what else can i do?? sry it's so0o long by the way..
~>Rae (link)
Now i had the same problem with my hair. Every morning took me like 40 min to get it straight but lasted for less than 30 min. What you can do is go to a salon and get ut hair permenently straight or curly, or w.e you like. Don't get a straightener because that can harm your hair even more :).


hey, i'm 15 years old, and i really want to dress like ashlee simpson. i just like her style. if anyone could maybe give me some links to clothes that she might wear or something? i'll rate. (link)
Some sights are :)

http://www.celebstation.org/actresses/ashlee_simpson.php

http://www.ashleesimpson.com/
(^ A list of some stores are in that too)



I was wondering what kind of shoes people wear to go "clubbin" in, lol. Last time i asked a question i asked what people wear and i was answered jeans + nice tank top/ tube top shirt but noone said what kind of shoes people wear. Me and my friend are both tall so if you say heels, then there will be a problem for us. LOL thanks i'll rate =) (link)
Lol i am too young to go clubbing BUT (i sm tall too so i know how u feel, i am 12 and i am 5,7 :\) if i was to go i would wear some sha sha shoes. you can look for them at

http://store.choppersapparel.com/chincbilasha.html

or
http://www.shoedini.com/index.cfm?sourceid=SHAWN116&couponid=96150183

(I recon mend the first one)


How can you get rid of split ends without cutting each one of them off? Also, how can you prevent them? Thanks. (link)
Well you really have to cut your hair to get rid of them. I found this sight and to prevent it you can Take care not to split them in the first place
Don't brush hair when it's wet.cut down on hair dryers, straightening irons, crimpers, curling irons and hot curlers.Buy a natural-bristle brush that won't pull on hair.Wear a hat to minimize sun damage. Use a shampoo that lists sunscreen as a major ingredient. Condition after shampooing.Try a hair split repair product. It won't actually repair the hair, but it will minimize the stray hair look you hate.



In your opinion, is 13 years old too young to be fingered? If you really can't get any STDs then what's the harm? (link)
wth is fingered


I just found out that I'm most likely going to be a foreign exchange student in the United Kingdom next year (my senior year of high school!) I am so excited...I will either be going to Scotland, Ireland, or England. I am not quite sure which one yet! I just have a little question...does anyone know what sort of clothes are in style there? (link)
The usa and uk are like one :). We have the same styles and every thing. You can go there and maybe even make a new trend!


ok so i have this s.s. project and we have to be certain ppl and i am stuck w/ Vasco da Gama! I don't need to wear like an over the top costume just sumthin that shows a little bit of who he was. i know this is the gayest question but plz help!
I need help on what i should wear!
plus the kid i like is in this class
plz help me
thank you so much!
~*i rate*~ (link)
I googled and this is what it said "warrior and navigator" you can do two things. one you can dress up as a hot sailer (lol) so the guy cannot say ne thing or 2 ask a guy if he will be a demonstration for you (or ask a family member). Oh yeah this question is not gay or stupid its a question that needs an answer and i am here to help :)


does anyone know where to get the Gel Bracelets? Like the Pink Breast Cancer Awareness you can get at Wal*Mart.. and Musi=Life at Hottopic.. but where can u get the Livestrong Cancer Awareness? and all the other bracelets?

THanks (link)
Oh i sell those at my church try going to some churches and asking around :)


this question is abuot my hair. i never wear my hair up because i have huge ears..really huge like 3 inches and everyone always says stuf, and i have long weird looking side burn..i tried cutting but it look weird and im growing them out again but there big!! what should i do? (link)
There is one word Make over..! Go to a salon and get ur side burns removed. Or a plastic surgen can make those ears lil and can remove the unwanted hair :D


i am wanting to change my look to a more 'ashlee simpson/punky' look without being called a poseur. i am currently into hollister, american eagle, forever 21, abercrombie, and aeropostale. how can i change my style without being too drastic? please help (link)
Easy, you can change your hair style but keep your color to a shorter unique style. (Just to tell you (Ashlee simpson can be quite the girly girl) then you can get your nails done a gray, black, and redish color. you dun need to change ur wordrobe, maybe just make it more punkish.


i have orangy-red hair, brown eyes and pale skin. what color eyeliner would look good on me? if you need more info just tell me! i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off. (link)
hmm my friend has this color i am soo not sure what its called its like a pale brownish green color (sound bad but its soo pretty) try looking for that color. if not you can always go with the safe and suttle light almost see through white with sprinkles in it!


im about 4'11'' and i always have a really hard time finding clothes that fit me especially pants. im like size 1 for most jeans and stuff and i usually wear extra small shirts. where can i go to get clothes that fit me? if u need more info tell me. i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off! (link)
Well i am 5'4 and i like go to aracombie and sich aropostle, american egle, basically all you have to do is go to the mall and look around.>!


my b.f n i have been dating for about a couple of weeks n hes the sweetest guy i've ever met and we do everything together but idk wat to get him for v-day! hes 15 (16 in may) and hes into baseball and basketball! and i want to get him something that he'll like and not something stupid! something to show that i care n i love hiM! i need ideas please help (link)
h3h3... you could always get him basketball tiskets for a game or baseball i mean they might be expensive but it is a loving present.>!


ok, my parents, dont smoke..or say they dont. when theyre in their room, and they leave and let me go in there..it smells horrible..like smoke, but not cigarette smoke. ive been to a concert...and smelled mostly everything there is to be smoked, and one of the smells is what i smell in my parents room. last year i was looking for presents around xmas(hehe) and i had heard of looking in btween the bed and the mattress, so i tried there. i found a couple of baggies with something in them..and no it wasnt a cd or anything.. well everyonce inawhile, i see a pipe stickin out from under the bed.the othr nite it finally hit me what the smell was..pot..so jus a second ago, i went in(theyre not home) and lifted up the matress, what do i find?the pipe i saw, and some baggies with the same stuff. so i went to freevibe.com to see what it could b..and i think it is pot. if they are, i need them to tell me, even though i noe that wont happen. if they are i wanna get out of the house and go stay with my aunt. the thing is, i love my parents, and theyre BOTH sunday school teachers.do u think they are? and if they are..how can i stop it or let them realize i know? (link)
Duh ask to take pot wiht them




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