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Ask me anything. I'm totally open with anything. But there are some simple rules.

1 = Don't write all weird cuz i wont read it.

And 2 = Don't ask me anything dumb. And you know what that means.

Hah.. And that's it.

I'm pretty easy going and laid back. And i'll try to be as specific as i can. O.K.

* Peace&& Love *


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What does jiggaelo mean? Its in one of my cheers for cheerleading and i dont know what it means
Please help
I give 5's

Jiggalo is like a dance or dancing..

It's something related to dance..

But then i heard it was something related to something sexual..

hope i helpeddd.

-soraya.

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can you have sex while your pregnent?(serious question, no smart answers please.) all fives.

I asked that question to my mom the other day.. and she said that you could. Unless your doctor is saying not to then don't do it.

but other wise. you can.

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i have these little bumps on my nipples. my mom said they were just like pimples, but yeah, they're not going away. and they're gross. well, not really that bad, they're just little bumps, weird huh? anybody know anything about this? should i go 2 a doctor?

Hey.

Don't worry all ladies have bumps on there nipples it's totally normal.

You shouldn't have to go to a doctor or anything.

I just think if there really really big. Then you should talk to your mama and go to a doctor but if there small then don't worry about it.

it's all good.

-love.

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ok. im 14/f. still a virgin and ive been thinking about having sex with my boyfriend. like when he hugs me from behind he'll just start humping me. and i know i tell him to stop but i like it. l.o.l. and he always puts his hands up my shirt. and i like it. but im ashamed of my body. i know im not fat...but i just think i am. i think my legs are at least. but... i dont know what to do. and i dont think thats all he wants from me. but i dont know....i masterbate alot and it feels good. and i want the real thing now but i dont know about it tho.
please help me.

Alright,

This is my opinion. But I think you're way too young to be having sex but your not to young to be wanting it.

If you're not ready to have sex then don't do it. And if your boy doesn't understand then he doesn't understand your guy's relationship.

If he try's to pressure you into it. And you don't want him to pressure you then tell him .. And if he doesn't understand then maybe you guys aren't for eachother.

NOW........

On the other hand. If you really want to or you just wanna have sex with him. It's your decision. It's all up to you to make the final decision if you should or not. if your ready or not.

OH. And be safe of course.

good luck girl.

-love.

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ok so my gurlfriend kept sayin she loves me and then yesterday tells me she doesnt love me like i love her and wants to be friends and what not....and i want to know why all this had to happen
luv- anonymous

I didn't want it to happen.

I want to know you more. Instead of the guy i met over line.

I hope you understand.

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when ever I like a guy my friends HATE him or just really like him that much, why is that? and when ever Im around them and Im dateing a guy they dont like they give me awful looks and it bugs me... why???

Your friends need to grow up-

tell them to get out of your personal life. because it's not there opinion to act that way. confront them and talk to them and see what's up..

because if that would have happend to me. i don't know what i would do..

but this is you. just ask them. maybe they don't want you to go out with a guy that they don't like..

idk.

ask them .. that's the only way to find out.

love. =]

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Well i have been having dreams about sex with guys my age. I am 13f. And all of a sudden i am having urgest to do it.
Is that normal
Ill' rate high!

Oh baby,

heck yes. everyone goes throught this it's perfectly normal.

lol

=]

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ok so my gurlfriend wants me to kiss her on the first date.....but im not sure if i should...can u help me decide?? :P

You should cuz i want you to..

lol........

i love you

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i love you

i love you too?

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so i love my gurlfriend a lot...and i tell her all the time....and she says it back....but im not sure if she really does...how can i find out??

hmmmmmmm.

Steven !! i love you don't worrry..

I love you so much !!

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when i get my period there are dark red goey blobs in my pad is that normal?

ill rate

Deffiently, it's normal i get the same thing to. Every girl does.

-love

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ok well i really like this guy and he wants me to go over his house and i want to (hes been to my house before and lets say me n him kissed **a few times**)but everytime he hangs out with a girl something happens weather its just a kiss or sex. and i wouldnt have a problem with this but after i found out that he only likes me as a friend and that he likes my cousin things changed...a few weeks ago before i found out that he didnt like me or before i found out that he liked my cousin he told me he wanted to finger me and i said ok but now that he likes my cousin should i go over his house when i no something is gonna happen?

well-

all he wants is sex. - - if he doesn't like you just as a friend and you guys end up having sex then that's all he wants.


i don't think you should.

but it's of course your choice

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about a couple weeks ago i got a sour or blister thing in my mouth. now a couple days ago i got another one on the right side of my tongue. it hurts a lot. i read something about herpes online and i really think its herpes. ive only gave my boyfriend head once with a condom and once without a condom. im really scared. do you think i have herpes? and if so, how can i treat it or make the pain go away?? please help

hmm-

ask your boyfriend if he has herpes because that's the only reason you could have gotten it.

it you have herpes.

because it could have happend from using someother chicks lipgloss or kissing.

-love.

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Wat does it mean wen you have an orgasam(s)

lol-

An orgasam is a feeling of sexual pleasure.

like when your having sex or grinding or masterbating.

-love.

grinding is like you know when your freek dancing thats grinding.

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I want to have sex for my boyfriend, he likes it all the time, but i dont enjoy it at all. Unless am drunk, But he dosent like me to drink either do i. It hurts and it fells like am being raped because it hurts so bad. So i have to use a lot of oils to help it. We try everything differnt poistions, role playing, porn. nothing works. I have cumed once and we have been having sex for 5 years. Dont know what to do. Help please.
Am 20 years old and have a child Is that the problem?

The problem is that you guys aren't having sex for you.

You need to tell your bf that you don't enjoy it. And explain to him why.

If he doesn't understand then you should just let him go because a real bf that loves you, will understand. And if he doesn't understand then all he wants you for is SEX. Not for your love.

-love.

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Ok im 13 and I have had sex twice....I know that I want to tell my mom....but i know that if I tell my mom she will tell my dad and I KNOW that he will flip out....But I had ses with a guy that i have been goin out with for 2 years already and we are still going out...so I dont think it is that big of deal...but how do I tell my parents without them like killing me??? Also do you think I am considered a slut or something because a couple people at my school do...
thanks

oK first things if your parents are the really really really over pretected parents then i would just keep it to myself. But if you know for a fact that they will not "kill" you then i would tell them.

And second things. No your not a slut. The people at your school are sorrie bitches cuz they don't know what a fucking slut is.

A slut is a chick that "sleeps around with "many" guys" What you just told me you only slept with a your boy that you've been going out with for TWO BLOODY YEARS. so NO your not a slut.

But don't get caught having sex by your parents cuz that's even worse. If you tell them their gunna be happy that your atleast told them the truth and not hid it.

i hoped i helped.

-love.

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i was wondering if you could tell me at what age you had sex. not a lecture to wait or what can happen,, just what age you had it. thanks.

Waiting until i atleast get 21+ but mostly marriage.

I'm fourteen and proud to be a VIRGIN !!

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i have this friend that i really like...and i wanna show him how much i like him..if you know what i mean ;]..anywaysz..he alwaysz talksz to me and he makesz it seem that he wants me that way too..and i really want him..i just want to suprise him..like an unexpected thing..the thing is..i have NO clue how to make that come about..and i really wanna get him hott and excited ;]...please..if you have any tips or tricks..please let me know..i rate high =]

thanks :]

Ok, maybe you should ask him to go see a movie with him; ALONE. or a group. You know be fun and exciting and expecally flirt with him, but not to much,

smile but don't smile to much,

Touch him but don't get to carried away.

Then when the right time comes give him a suprise kiss. And see what happends. - - You have to have guts to do this. and you gotta think.

What do you think his reaction would be?!?

Would he like it? or not?

Lips or Cheek?

"Kiss him" don't start making out or anything. Put not a peak kiss. just a loving kiss but not to much.

After you give him your "suprise" kiss then if he likes it. then this will probably lead to more making out and fun shit and then he or you might just be the one to ask you are him out.


I hoped i helped.

-love.

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okay, so this guy i am "together with" which means we are pretty much going out without the label. anyway, he says he likes me alot, but doesnt think we would be able to have a relationship because he doesnt think i would want him to finger me, or i wont give him head. and the truth is, i just think it would be akward.. but ive gone out with him before.. and i really want a relationship with him.. he doesnt want to have sex with me.. just do everything else. but ive never given anyone head, and ive never been fingered.. im 14.. and i didnt think i should be doing that stuff.. what should i do?

Yeah. You are right. You shouldn't be doing those kind of things your only 14, same with me i'm fourteen and yeah.. but me i think i'm way to young.

If you don't wanna do it then tell him that.. If he REALLY loves you then he will understand. And tell him the truth.

But if you wanna do it. Then tell him that you've never done it so he doesn't think that you know what your doing.

i hope i really helped.

-love.

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i am 13/f and i want sex is that wrong

Hell yeah that's wrong.

I'm seriouse if you wanna get pregnant that go right ahead.

Your way too young. I'm 14 and i'm not even thinking of sex, well i am but i'm not thinking of doing it..

Pls don't do it. Way to many teens are getting pregnant. And it's not fun

[ trust me ]

-love

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