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i am a 17 year old female who is a good friend. i like to help people, and i love music. i am very involved in my school, i know a wide variety of things, so i hope to help someone!

Juelz

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im 13 yrs old and school just started....over the summer all my friends were goin shoppin but i had no money....whats a good job for me? please help im flat broke lol... :)

baby sitting, shovel snow this winter, rake leaves this fall...no oen professional (like a company) will prolly hire you since your so young...most places you need to be 16, many 18. but try local odd jobs, maybe even a paper route. good luck!

Juelz

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i have had my period 4 a awhile and i have basketball it is 4 days a week and i dont want to wear a pad cause i dont really lyk them it feels lyk a diper and ya i odnt lyk it wut shoudl i do and how can i ask my mom!

i dont no wut to do

well, you could try tampons...maybe ask your friend for one and how to use it, myself, i use pads, so i cant tell you much about them, but find a freind who has used tampons for a while, and ask her to help you out, and eventually, everythign will be ok. hope this helped you even a little bit

Juelz

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i have homecoming this saturdayy.. and i have no clue how to do my make up.. i have dirty blondish..hair andd a light blue and dark blue glirtty dress.. and i have green eyes.. and how should i do my hair! any tips! plz plz ill rate ya ;]

well, if your hair is long, somethign that is cute is twist back the front, leaving down bangs if you have bangs, then pull the rest up in a ponytail and curl it, then pin up some random pieces, finish off with some sparkly blue bobby pins. or pull up part of it in like a circle around your head (this will work even if your hair is short) leavign about an inch all hte way around. then, curl the ponytail and pin it around in like a bun almost, then, with what is down, maybe you coudl twist it all the way to the ponytail thenpin it randomly, if you have bangs, leave them down and curl them. those sre some ideas i have used before, if you want it in more detail, just message me ok? hope i gave you some ideas.

Juelz

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When I started high school, my mom gave me the whole "You'll be starting college soon, so grades and extracurricular activities are important" speach, and she said that any extracurricular activity I wanted to sign up for was fine. She had no problem with me joining the school newspaper, art club, or drama club, but when I asked if I could join cheerleading, she said no because "cheerleading is for bimboes". I don't get why she would say that, it's a sport and it's an extracurricular activity, what's wrong with that? I think she's being unreasonable, but she won't even listen to me. What should I say to her that will make her change her mind?

maybe she doesnt want you to be a cheerleader, because maybe when she was in high school, they treated her badly. or maybe she doesnt want you to get the reputation that she fears you may get. i'm not trying ot be down on cheerleaders or catagorize them or anythign, but many times cheerleaders are known as snobby people who are rude and mean to others, granted, i have met a few really nice cheerleaders, btu there is really nothign you can say to change her mind, maybe if you tell her WHY you wanna be a cheerleader, and explain to her that she cannot stereotype them. maybe you can get her to let you do it, even tho she doesnt agree. good luck!

Juelz

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I have really bad split ends but my mom doesnt have time to take me to get my hair cut and she wont have time till like October or November. I scrunch my hair now so you cant tell I have splint ends...is there anything I can do to make it less visible until I cut it? Thanks!!

P.S. I'll rate ya!

switch over to tresseme shampoo & condition, the anti-breakage stuff, it will help, and you can find this stuff that is like a syrum, that you can use, ti will only cover them up, not get rid of them. but, once you get your hair cut, use an anti-breakage shampoo & conditioner. let's just say that once i cut my hair, i get split ends really really easy, like, 2 weeks later. i used tresseme anti breakage shampoo and conditoner, and it is like 4 months later and not a split end in sight! good luck covering them up!

Juelz

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Okay, im 13 years old and me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for past a year now, and hes the best things thats ever happend too me...i am in love with him, i know it...and we have only gone as far as making out, and i wanna go further..so does he..but i dont wanna go to far.i mean im 13..what should we do together? ill rate you, if you help

your a bit to young to be doing much more than making out, me being 17, i think i am too young to be doing that kinda stuff. but, you juss have to set rules and boundaries, and you have to tell him when too much is too much. i personally think that you shoudl not go past maybe oral sex, buti think that is pushing it, well, speaking as a 17 yr old virgin, just make sureyou love him, i have had friends who have gone too far with a guy too soon and tehn regreted it. the desicion in the end is yours, but i hope my input helped you some.

Juelz

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well.. i wrote the other day and i told yall that there was this guy on my bus.. and he asked me out.. and i said no.. hahaha.. cuz i thought he was joking.. but he wasnt.. and yea.. so.. me and him are cool again.. but there is this one little girl who likes him.. and everytime he is with me.. she starts talking mess about me to all her little friends.. so.. i didnt want that.. so today.. he went up to talk to me.. and he was like.. " hey.. so you gunna holla at me or wut? " and i was like.. oh.. nope.. srry.. jessie might get mad.. and he was like what?? so.. i told him she was talking mess.. and now hes mad at her.. and shes even more mad at me.. so.. i dont know what to do.. should i stop talking to him?? or what?? ill rate ya if you give good advice :)

ok hun, first off dont let jessie get to you. she's just jealouse cuz you have his attention and not her. so dont let her get to you. and if you like this guy, dont let her get in your way, but dont be a complete b!tch to her either, cuz then she may spread a rumor that will get inbetween you guyz. ok, i hope i helped you out a bunch.

Juelz

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I'm 13/f with long blonde hair. I'm getting my hair highlighted (a lighter blonde) in a few days and i was just wondering is it really really bad for your hair? Can highlighting it do permenant damage? I'm not sure if i still want it highlighted if it's gunna ruin my hair.

i think it will turn out pretty. it will not ruin your hair, now if you go from blonde to black liek i did your in trouble, but just highlights wont hurt it any. it will just look really prett and give your hair dimensions.

Juelz

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ok well there is this girl that i have liked for a long time now but thought she was always " out of my league " well finally i told my best friend that i liked her one day and the next day he went and asked her out well they broke up and now the girl found out about how i liked her and she liked me the whole time too so now we wanna get wit each other but my friend keeps sayin if we do he wont ever talk to me again so im not sure what to do


what would you do???
sorry its so long

hun,

oh, this is a bad situation. my advice to you is to go for the girl. because if your friend is threatening you with not being your freind, then he is not really your friend, or he is jealouse. and jealousy can be an ugly ugly thing. but if you like the girl, go for it.

hope i helped!
rate me and let me know how thigns turn out
and if you need anythign else, juss drop one in my inbox ok?

Juelz

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well i really need help ..well theres this boy nd lets call him "carl" so i started likin this guy nd i told him nd i found out he felt the same way but longer for him so we talked nd he was so great so we finaly wen out nd omg he was so great nd i realized i was fallin for him nd then a rmor went around that he had cheated nd he said it wasnt tru but all the signs are right there nd im pretty sure he did it but i think he relaized it was worng nd didnt want to hurt me nd then the day i found out i was cryin in skool for the rest of the day .. so i call ready to break up nd he gave me this crap bout bout he didnt do it nd i sorta beleived him nd it took a while to put it together but that same day i found out .. this girl had been tellin him i had been flirtin wit other guys .. but i didnt .. i got him to beleive me then his firned told him i broke up wit ihm nd he beleived it .. we atill talk nd he tells me how much he loves me nd he wants me bac nd then one of my friend kary was akin if he was goin to ask me out nd if he did i dont kno wat to say .. i really love him but theres one problem .. i moved nd he lives 15 minutes away which isnt that long away but we go to different skool nd i dont kno wat to do if he does cuase i really love him wit all my heart .. please help me ..

i rate goood!!

hun, you are in a tough situation. you dont really know what to do and that is ok. i think it is great that you guyz still talk, and that you still love each other. but in order to have a working relationship, you guyz have to trust each other. from what i understand, that trust is very low if even existant, which can cause problems in the relationship.
if you truly truly love this guy and he really truely loves you, then you shoudl have no problem re-gaining the missing trust and building a happy and healthy relationship. if you love a guy with your whole heart, you really need to give you guyz another chance, i think. but whatever you do, amke sure it is what you want ok hun.

good luck and best of wishes

Juelz

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its not pafetic.well im 14 from the uk.i have a brother and he is 13.i love cheeseburgers and wen im older im moving to da usa so bout u

well, im 17 and i live in ohio and when i graduate (this spring!!!) i'm moving to New York and going to college.

i have a 13 yr old brother also, and he is a pain in my butt!

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Hi see I found this really cute guy on the net but he lives far away, and he said he likes me and that we should meet sometime. but see he asked if we could date online, but I don't know bc he might be cheating on me
What do i do , Answer fast so I could give him the answer!!!

i have done this many many many times. online dating is not really dating, or so guyz think. i had this one so obsessed with me, or so he said, but all i have to say is be careful, especially about meeting him. you never know if he is lieing about who he is and where he is and how old he is. if i was you, and trust me, this is good advice, dont date him online, cuz athen you never get to see him, and you really dont even know who he is. and then you think about him all the time, and you come home and spend all your freetime on the computer waiting for him to get online. its a wicked mix to get into. so i suggest that you just be online buddies, but if you do decide to date him,good luck to you

Juelz

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Does anyone know any quotes that are about love and her liking him so much and him not liking her at all? I need some for my profile... ANything about love will do! Thanks a bunch!

iLL rate you a 5 for a quote..whether i like it or not lol

this is from the movie moulan rouge. i dont know if it really applies...but

"The Best Thing You Can Learn is To Love, And To Be Loved In Return"

and me and my freind say this one, not sure if it really applies either...

"instead of listening ot your head, follow your heart. because your heart knows whats best for you and your head will always try to screw you over!"

let me know if they where kinda what you needed ok?

Juelz

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I go out wit dis guy. And my mom doesnt agree and my dad does! I love him wit all my heart and i dont know what to do.. PLease help me

PEACE

i knwo what your going threw. i am going threw a similar thing. you see, the best thingi can tell you is to follow your heart, cuz it knows whats good for you. you see, in ym case, my mom doesnt like him, but my dad thinks he's pretty cool (even tho he hasnt met him yet :P just from what i tell him and how he can tell he makes me happy) but, anyways, no matter what my mom does, i will always care for him like i do this very moment. and that is a wonderful thing. so what i have to say to you is this...dont let what your mom does get in the way of your feelings for him. if you love him, dont let anyone or anythign ruin it. i know you prolly want your mom's approval, but trust me, you will do things in your life that your mom will disagree with or that will disapoint her, and you just have to be proud of your desicions.

good luck and let me know how things go ok?

Juelz

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Hello, i am an 18 yr old grl dating a 28 yr old guy. See i have this thing with me not going to have sex till marriage which is not a bad thing... right? well my b/f knows this and knows my limits.. but see everytime we get alone and stuff he always tries to stick his dick in me. He almost did about hmmmm should i say 5 TIMES!!!!!!
Its not easy to remain abstinent but i tell you what its not FUN EITHER!! Its like your head is telling you go for it and grab the fuckin condoms but yet your heart is like wait a fuckin min. do you really know this guy or is he just using you for sex?? see the 17th is our 5th month anniversay
but yet i knew him for a few months before we started dating. so my question is to you all is what am i supposed to do. He promised me he would never do it again but yet he said that last time. I told him hes lucky b/c usually its like a baseball game 3 strikes your out!! but yet i've given him 5 chances so far and this is the last chance. So what should i do?? let him try and screw me or what?? See I love him to death but as you can tell i am not ready yet! I need help and need it bad! Plz someone help me.. i really need it!!

YOUNG LADY!!!!!

lol

well, you really need to make him aware of your limits. i know you "love him" but sometimes, people lie, especially guyz (no offense :D ) and i am sooooo proud of you for holding out. but the guy will push your limits and then you just tell him...but, men will be men! and you know that! but if i was you, i'd not pout myself in a postion to where he can "stick it in you" and there should be no problem. good luck grl

Juelz

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how do you learn to do new hair styles? any ideas for websites or anything?

i learn my new hairstyles from teen magazines and and things i see around school and around town. and i like to try new things on my frined, like "if i did this..." and things...!

Juelz

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what does "pops the cherry" mean?

okay, basically "popping a girls cherry" means that its the first time a guy sticks his dick in her, or she sticks something else in her *cough cough*. techinically, all females have a thin layer of like blood and tissues that is normally broke when she first has sex. but can be broken by other things, like a pap smear, or when riding a horse or other things

Juelz

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ok i really like this girl in school and i gave her some chocates and a note telling her how i really feel and now she is not my freind anymore and she is dating one of the most popular guys in school please give me advice ill rate u


sighned
boy in denile

oh you poor poor thing! she ripped out your heart and did a Mexican Hat Dance all over it then put it in a blender and hit puree!

that was a very cold thing of her to do. i guess, being a girl myself... :) ... she didnt feel the same about you and maybe it made her uncomfortable around you. i know it is tough, but you havbe to face reality hun. things like this happen all the time. i promise you you'll get over her, and find other girls and things like that.

but if you really miss her friendship, tell her that you understand she does not feelthe same and your ok with that! tell her you guyz can be frieends, cuz im sure you'd rather have her as just a friend than not at all.

best of luck and i hope and pray things go well for you, and for her too. but if you dont listen to any of my advice, do listen to this...follow your heart. it is smarter than you may think it is! so dont mope around. just do something about it. you cant make a difference if you just stand around and do nothing! no one gets ahead by sitting on their behind! :)

Juelz

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Ok today at school , I met this really hot guy and I was wearing a tank top and a pair of light pair of jeans when I bumped into him and he looked at me and said sorry but before he finished his sentence he looked down my shirt and saw everything , he blush and just asked me out.!! Dose he really like me or what???
Help!!

hun, from experiance, he may like you, buti think he likes your boobies more. guyz are like that, and trust me , and am VERY big up top, so i get alot of attention up there (many guyz dont even realize that i have EYES!!!! just BOOBS!!!!) its horrible. if i was you, i'd go out with him, but dress very conservativly, like, something where he gets no peeks! and if he still asks you out again, he might like you. or he is waiting for another sneak peek! for your sake i hope the first one is true! but, i am gonna tell you something my best freind tells me every time i go to her with guy problems. "Follow Your Heart, Cuz It Knows What Is Right For You" so just listen to your heart. if it tells you to date him, then date him. if it tells you he's a creep, dont. just listen to it, ok?

hope things work out 4 u!

Juelz

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Okay here's my problem!I liked this guy here and there on and off. There's no doubt that there isn't any attaction cause people see it all the time. When we go out in public, people think we are a couple. I told him how I really felt about him (though we are like best friends) he said he only likes me as a friend, and that he's sorry he can't return the same feelings. But he also like one of my friends and out of the kindness of my heart, I hook them up... but she's jux like me, and we are also cool. I'm not jealous (yet) or anything like that cause me and him still flirt the same way we do, and we are still good friends. So I dunno what to do, still like him or move on? I dunno how to feel or what to think? Any advice? Plz help! Thankz a munches!

the best thing i can tell you is i know how you feel. i have this friend who always ends up STEALING all my guy friends. but there was this one in paticular. we were "dating" for a while and he dumped me to hang with her. so it is painful when a guy you like goes for your best friend. but i can tell you that i am way past it and deeply care about another guy, and it is a better relationship than the one i woulda had with the one guy! so, move on, date new guys, cuz there is NO USE waiting around for a guy who doesnt care about you. and flirting with a guy-pal can be fun. but sometimes, not a good idea, trust me, i did this one too, and we ended up not talking again...EVER! so it is a bad thing some times, and soemtimes can lead you to a new love (like it did me) so just get otu there and flirt your young heart away! there are plenty of guys you can have, if they think you are not with your guy-friend! so appearing single is a must! :D

hope i helped you a lot! good luck! and let me know how things turn out ok?

Juelz

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